I introduced myself in the new members post but I’ll officially document my story and progress here. I was an old member on the original forum years ago and I’ve found success here and there with abstaining over the years, but it’s been a while and I wanted to come back and give 2025 a real serious go again. Over the past while, I’ve found myself having not as hard erections and a more difficult time getting off during sex with my partner. It’s not full on ED, but I’m definitely not performing like I used to and how I should be given my age and athletic level. The cause of this is solely my addiction to masturbation and porn, it’s really the only way I can get a fully hard erection and orgasm quick and fast. I’ve decided that enough is enough and I want to take matters into my own hands (or out of my hands haha, no longer using my hands for anything
). Quick facts about me. I live in Denver. I’m 31. I’m pretty athletic and compete regularly in triathlons so I’m frequently at the gym swimming in the pool, on my bike for long distance rides, or on a run. I also love to ski, hike, and camp and love the outdoors in general. I’m in a long term relationship and we have sex pretty regularly, though he leaves on long business trips often so I sometimes go a week or two (or more) on my own which has lead to me relying on masturbation and porn a lot, which is mainly my problem. I was circumcised with a looser cut as a baby and I started restoring in my early 20s. I now have a foreskin that mostly covers my glans when soft, so I appear to be uncut to onlookers in the locker room.
In the past, I’ve been successful with wet dreams after 2-3 weeks of abstaining. Since I’m in a relationship, going 2-3 weeks without sex only happens when my partner is gone on long work trips and that doesn’t happen too often. So, my main goal here is to fully eliminate masturbation as a form of ejaculation and I’m only allowing sex as the sole method of getting off. My hope is that this will rewire my brain to crave sex more than my own hand, get rock hard for sex again, and perform better during sex overall. I also would love to get wet dreams throughout the periods between sex too as they feel amazing and there’s something purely manly to me about my body doing all the work and splooging all over my sheets haha.
Looking forward to keeping track of this and hopefully seeing real success!
