Really strange question for you all, I normally regard myself as straight but I have realized that I was finding myself more and more aroused by penises the longer i abstained from masturbation the more a strayed from strong heterosexuality and slowly creeping towards bisexuality. Although i don't personally consider myself as bi.
With that said ever since the age of 12 I have been turned on by pictures of sperm in underwear and people having wet dreams and I always saw that as a gay quirk of a straight man, but i could be wrong what are your experiences and thoughts?
Abstinence & Sexuality
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Airrad
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Re: Abstinence & Sexuality
I'm straight too, but I find if I'm really horny, any sort of sexual talk, even if it's related to male sexuality, will be a turn-on. Honestly, I think that's normal.
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Re: Abstinence & Sexuality
As mentioned I think guys get worked up with any talk of sexual stuff even if about guys. Just in our natural to get aroused when sex is mentioned maybe.
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Re: Abstinence & Sexuality
Absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think a lot of guys have a natural curiosity about other guys, but for a lot of us, we've grown up in a society that treats that as something bad or shameful. Calling something "gay" as a negative was something I feel like I heard almost daily in middle school and no one wanted to do something that could get you called that. For a lot of people that's a hard thing to break free of after years of conditioning. As an adult it's a lot easier to look at that and realize how ridiculous it is.
Sexuality also isn't just a duality of gay/straight, it's a spectrum. Maybe you're not 100% straight. It doesn't mean you're looking for sex with a guy, you just like looking at penises. I've had similar hangups in the past, now I kind of regret not being more open to curiosity and exploring when I was younger. Embrace your curiosity!
Sexuality also isn't just a duality of gay/straight, it's a spectrum. Maybe you're not 100% straight. It doesn't mean you're looking for sex with a guy, you just like looking at penises. I've had similar hangups in the past, now I kind of regret not being more open to curiosity and exploring when I was younger. Embrace your curiosity!
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Re: Abstinence & Sexuality
i have done to be honestdkj87 wrote: ↑Wed Dec 04, 2024 3:38 am Absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think a lot of guys have a natural curiosity about other guys, but for a lot of us, we've grown up in a society that treats that as something bad or shameful. Calling something "gay" as a negative was something I feel like I heard almost daily in middle school and no one wanted to do something that could get you called that. For a lot of people that's a hard thing to break free of after years of conditioning. As an adult it's a lot easier to look at that and realize how ridiculous it is.
Sexuality also isn't just a duality of gay/straight, it's a spectrum. Maybe you're not 100% straight. It doesn't mean you're looking for sex with a guy, you just like looking at penises. I've had similar hangups in the past, now I kind of regret not being more open to curiosity and exploring when I was younger. Embrace your curiosity!
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Re: Abstinence & Sexuality
Good for you, that's great
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