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what is everyone's thoughts on a prostate massager (aka a vibrating anal dildo) for men? my newlywed wife and I are thinking of way to "spice up" our married life and it seems like our sex drives don't always line up AND I THEN mb wasting it.

I want to stop masturbating and heard from a guy online that he uses prostate massagers to add to their sex lives. I feel like although I am straight, when I feel things up my butt and on my prostate, be that: water from the bidet nozzle, a large #2 or a suppository, it gets me excited, never to the point of actually ejaculating but maybe precum or similar. I plan to buy one with a separate controller or smart phone app functionality so my wife can control it when we are working from home. the only downside is I can't wear them naked and can't wear them without underwear lol, although an erection from it in tight briefs may increase it lol.

what is your thoughts on them?
overall I hope this will curve my horniness when I want to mb i.e. prevent me from mb AND make my penis head more sensitive.

have you ever used one?
if so, any suggestions? my parents bought me a $100 Amazon gift card for my recent birthday and depending on how soon there are replies I may take those suggestions into consideration.

lastly, does this break an AB record? I say not, but for a married couple that has sex ab isn't really a thing.

Mikey: would this EVER be appropriate for the main site? or keep it here only?

Have a look at the Lovense Hush 2

Lucifer wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2023 10:23 pm Have a look at the Lovense Hush 2

that one is huge, by width, idk if a butt plug is what I'm thinking....

You could also look at the Lovense Edge 2 or the Lovense Ridge.

As for where to put this post, there's no reason this discussion needs to be in the MPA. If you want, I can move it into the General Discussion or maybe the Off-Topic forum.

Mikey42 wrote: ↑Thu Nov 30, 2023 4:28 am You could also look at the Lovense Edge 2 or the Lovense Ridge.

As for where to put this post, there's no reason this discussion needs to be in the MPA. If you want, I can move it into the General Discussion or maybe the Off-Topic forum.

$120 or $130 for my first toy is a little steep, especially if I need to buy lube too. I think I may go with one at the most $50

feel free to move it to general discussion (or copy it?) to see if it would get more traction.

my thoughts on why it wasn't appropriate was because involving sex and voluntary ejac's it may tempt someone and cause them to mb.

NateInLoadedBriefs wrote: ↑Thu Nov 30, 2023 12:19 am

Lucifer wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2023 10:23 pm Have a look at the Lovense Hush 2

that one is huge, by width, idk if a butt plug is what I'm thinking....

They do a extra small size

I bought two:
BOMB'EX Vibrating Prostate Massager Anal Vibrator https://a.co/d/40zEKhV
this one was $16 (normally $26) and despite being basic it seemed interesting with the penis holder in the front, with LOTS of reviews
ACVIOO 360° Rotating Anal Vibrator Prostate Massager https://a.co/d/9aClmIA
and this one was $30 which is of course more but
more options.
I bought some lube too, water based since I've heard your anus is not moist at all.
I will OF COURSE update this post once I try them next week, they are scheduled to arrive next Tuesday!!!

UPDATE I tried inserting my finger today, about an hour ago and it felt REALLY REALLY good. and the prostate massagers arrive tomm. for those that have used them, I use a bidet. is a condom a must?

NateInLoadedBriefs wrote: ↑Mon Dec 04, 2023 12:02 am for those that have used them, I use a bidet. is a condom a must?

I haven't used those specific models, but no, condoms are not generally required. They'll make cleanup easier, but it all depends on your tolerance to the inevitable "dirt" that comes with playing around with butt stuff. I prepare folded sheets of toilet paper, and I have those ready for when it's time to remove the device. If you do it right, you won't have to touch any contaminated surfaces directly. I also put a towel under me, just in case the lube runs, which it will at some point.

Have you advanced with prostate play? I used Aneros progasm in the past and loved it!