Wet Dream Forum

Hey Everyone!
It’s me again. The 18 yo that couldn’t stop having wet dreams. I have been MIA for a few months because I went down the jerk off addiction loophole. I used to not enjoy jerking off but now after discovering it a few months ago I can’t stop I jerked off even in a public stall. My wet dreams have completely disappeared but now I have precum in my undies 24/7. does anyone have tips on slowing down the pace? I feel like I constantly need to cum.

At that age it’s pretty natural. But maybe try running or doing pushups when you have the urges. Tire yourself out first maybe?

Save it for when you really need it and don't make excuses to do it. It feels good to do, but it will feel even better if you hold off until there is genuine need. Ideally, multiple days should go by between sessions. If the urge passes after just a few minutes, obviously you don't need it enough.

Michael1985 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 12, 2025 3:13 am Save it for when you really need it and don't make excuses to do it. It feels good to do, but it will feel even better if you hold off until there is genuine need. Ideally, multiple days should go by between sessions. If the urge passes after just a few minutes, obviously you don't need it enough.

I mean I guess but it’s just that even seen a thirst trap makes me think about it I feel like a horn ball I just don’t think I can stop

You weren't that interested in JO (we call it MB) a few months ago, so unless you entered puberty really late you could go back to that. MB can be an addiction, but not a serious one unless it interferes with other things too much. So if you want to cut back or stop MB, you can do it. But then the WDs (wet dreams) would likely come back.

Something to consider is that it's not unusual for guys to get hooked on the MB habit long term, and for their WDs to completely disappear. Then at some point in the future they may want to AB (abstain) from MB in order to get some WDs. But they can 't easily AB from their addiction, and the WDs won't easily come back -- even if they do manage to AB for a long (or even very long) time. It's almost a one way street.

On the other hand, guys in parts of the world where MB is looked down on for cultural or religious reasons see WDs as expected and normal, and they often enjoy and look forward to them. They don't miss MB because they never acquired the habit. Guys can also enjoy the natural horniness of AB without always wanting to MB. At least some body builders and other sports figures prefer to refrain from MB and may very well prefer their WDs

It seems like at least some MB addicts would like to go back to some WDs at some point, but it can be difficult if not nearly impossible for them to achieve that.

These facts and observations are relatively new, and you can factor them into your thoughts and plans. You can just keep going the way you are going and become one of the millions of MB addicts who basically can't get WDs even if they wanted to, or you can take some other informed actions if you are inclined to take more of the WD route. Informed decisions are better than uninformed decisions.