Wet Dream Forum

Hey guys,

I introduced myself in the new members post but I’ll officially document my story and progress here. I was an old member on the original forum years ago and I’ve found success here and there with abstaining over the years, but it’s been a while and I wanted to come back and give 2025 a real serious go again. Over the past while, I’ve found myself having not as hard erections and a more difficult time getting off during sex with my partner. It’s not full on ED, but I’m definitely not performing like I used to and how I should be given my age and athletic level. The cause of this is solely my addiction to masturbation and porn, it’s really the only way I can get a fully hard erection and orgasm quick and fast. I’ve decided that enough is enough and I want to take matters into my own hands (or out of my hands haha, no longer using my hands for anything ).

Quick facts about me. I live in Denver. I’m 31. I’m pretty athletic and compete regularly in triathlons so I’m frequently at the gym swimming in the pool, on my bike for long distance rides, or on a run. I also love to ski, hike, and camp and love the outdoors in general. I’m in a long term relationship and we have sex pretty regularly, though he leaves on long business trips often so I sometimes go a week or two (or more) on my own which has lead to me relying on masturbation and porn a lot, which is mainly my problem. I was circumcised with a looser cut as a baby and I started restoring in my early 20s. I now have a foreskin that mostly covers my glans when soft, so I appear to be uncut to onlookers in the locker room.

In the past, I’ve been successful with wet dreams after 2-3 weeks of abstaining. Since I’m in a relationship, going 2-3 weeks without sex only happens when my partner is gone on long work trips and that doesn’t happen too often. So, my main goal here is to fully eliminate masturbation as a form of ejaculation and I’m only allowing sex as the sole method of getting off. My hope is that this will rewire my brain to crave sex more than my own hand, get rock hard for sex again, and perform better during sex overall. I also would love to get wet dreams throughout the periods between sex too as they feel amazing and there’s something purely manly to me about my body doing all the work and splooging all over my sheets haha.

Looking forward to keeping track of this and hopefully seeing real success!

Jan 9th, 2025
4 days since ejaculation.

My partner and I had sex on Jan 1 and Jan 5, but I didn’t jack off any days in between. It’s now been 4 days since sex and I am feeling alllll the horny feelings and desires, but my determination is keeping me away from touching myself. I’ve also fully stayed away from porn over these last few days too.

No major precum leakage yet. No feeling heavy or full in my balls or prostate. Too early for all that.

Jan 11
6 Days

My body (or I guess I should say my prostate) really responds when I go days without getting off. After 5 or so days, I can feel the pressure and slight pleasure in my prostate/taint area when I move certain ways, sit down, etc all throughout the day every day until I finally either give in and jack off or have a wet dream. Once this sensation starts, I also tend to leak precum throughout the day and even have some semen discharge here and there, mostly when I use the restroom due to the muscle tightening in the nether regions haha.

Today was the first day of that occurring during this AB period. Without being too crass, I used the restroom this morning and felt semen oozing out of my penis while I was still sitting on the toilet. After finishing my business, I got up and saw a ribbon of cum there in the water at the front of the bowl and I still had some stickiness oozing out of my dick. There was no orgasm or contraction, but it was solid white and was definitely semen and not just precum. It was about the amount you would expect from a single shot of cum while you ejaculate.

I’m excited to have made it to this stage, I love the feeling of my prostate being like this and having precum in my foreskin all day. You know when you’re just super horny and can feeling a pulsating energy in your penis and pelvis and balls and etc? That’s how it feels and it’s great.

Awesome progress so far, keep going!

Jan 14
9 days

I’ve had a couple more instances of semen leakage while using the restroom, almost every day since it started. I also rode a spin bike at the gym today and the pressure from the bike seat on my taint/prostate and the jostling of my dick as I pedaled was insanely pleasurable, I almost felt like I could make made myself cum if I pedaled and sat just right, I had to stop and give myself a break from the bike for a bit just in case. When I was a teenager, I could get a wet dream after a week of ABing, but in my later 20s when I had a few wet dreams during AB attempts, it took 2-3 weeks. I don’t know though, I could be pretty close here.

This is the longest I’ve ABed in probably about a year and I’m feeling it for sure! I’m pretty damn determined though so I’m not too tempted to look at porn or jack off and I’ve stayed away from both pretty easily. My partner is pretty supportive too and we’re staying away from sex until I get a wet dream. Hoping my next update will be good news.