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Re: Increase Chance of WD?

Posted: Fri Oct 11, 2024 6:50 pm
by DryGuy
casTI-30BX wrote: Wed Oct 09, 2024 10:44 amI'd love to open this discussion back up, because it's currently not making sense in my mind.
Yeah it would be interesting for more people to try it as well. The original thread had many reports from people saying it worked for them. So even if the underlying theory isn't right, the prescribed steps seem to do something, and it doesn't seem like a coincidence. Maybe the steps are working by some other means.

Re: Increase Chance of WD?

Posted: Sat Oct 12, 2024 7:08 am
by casTI-30BX
I don't doubt that the steps work, in fact, Dipke's process makes complete logical sense. I just feel like it's kind of cheating, and a little disingenuous to the AB/WD mindset. If we want regular WDs, then I think it's really important to think about what our bodies are getting used to. If they normalise edging and 'filling up' over a 7 day period, and then releasing, then we kind of restrict ourselves to that strategy.

I would be really interested to see if anyone trying Dipke's method has been able to achieve a WD frequency greater than once a week, or once every 10 days (I can't remember exactly how long his process takes).

Re: Increase Chance of WD?

Posted: Mon Oct 14, 2024 1:55 am
by DryGuy
casTI-30BX wrote: Sat Oct 12, 2024 7:08 amI think it's really important to think about what our bodies are getting used to. If they normalise edging and 'filling up' over a 7 day period, and then releasing, then we kind of restrict ourselves to that strategy.
Yes, it wouldn't be ideal to restrict ourselves to that, frankly punishing, 4 days of "constant arousal" every time. But I wonder if forcing it a few times might awaken that pathway to WDs. It's a pity we don't have a larger community, where these things can play out in statistically-significant ways. If I could actually perform the Dipke technique, I might stay abstaining afterwards to see if it might repeat naturally.
The only alternative suggestion seems to be abstaining for months, which is also punishing in its own way. And even thinking that is the wrong mindset by some standards, which I get, and I can see the validity of.
I'd be fascinated to learn whether there's a difference between natural WDs, forced WDs, and intentionally lucid sex-dreams, but unfortunately I think we might never know.