I’ve been a lurker since the old forum was around. Glad that this new forum was established because I am very fascinated by WDs and am always interested in seeing others stories and experiences. I had heard about WDs in health class but I was a late bloomer with puberty and didn’t start MBing till 14 so they seemed like a myth to me. I have only had one WD in my life and it was probably about 8 years ago when I was 25 after 19 days of abstaining and the memory of it is still very vivid. I have tried many other times to recreate this experience to no avail but desperately want to again.
I am participating in NNN, so the last time I had a release was on Halloween. Things were easy going till this weekend for me as I have been struggling to resist the urge to look at things that are going to make my level of horniness sky rocket. Still staying strong though! I found that in other attempts I would get frustrated because I would have 0 horniness to the point that I would go 40 days and have no sexual dreams or anything of the sort and then give up so any horniness is good. We’ll see how long I can go this time!
Gojets13’s Journal
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gojets13
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- Number of wet dreams youʹve experienced: 1
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- Underwear worn when going to sleep: Boxer-briefs
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-6 hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 03 Dec 2023
- Age: 34
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John123
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6+ hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 01 Dec 2023
- Age: 28
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
You got this! I’ve only had a couple but trying again.
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Mikey42
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- Number of wet dreams youʹve experienced: 4
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6+ hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 10 Dec 2023
- Age: 45
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
Welcome aboard. Best of luck getting a WD!
Last WD: March 5th, 2024
My sleep and horniness data log: Mikey's Data Log
My sleep and horniness data log: Mikey's Data Log
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gojets13
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-6 hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 03 Dec 2023
- Age: 34
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
Thanks John and Mikey! Good luck with your abstaining!
Day 13 has been uneventful thanks to work keeping my mind off of things. Last night was hard (pun intended, don’t shoot me haha) but I made it through. I’ve been drinking a lot of water so had to make several trips to the bathroom throughout the night. My dream recall is not all that great but for some reason I have noticed that the bits I do remember have been related. Like every dream is just a continuation of the last. It seems like I am running some kind of experiment on myself probably related to abstaining or wds or something in that realm. People like to complain about work related dreams so of course I would combine an aspect of my work with the other most prevalent thing on my mind in my dreams. I just wish they were a little more vivid and memorable. Hopefully tonight’s episode is!
Day 13 has been uneventful thanks to work keeping my mind off of things. Last night was hard (pun intended, don’t shoot me haha) but I made it through. I’ve been drinking a lot of water so had to make several trips to the bathroom throughout the night. My dream recall is not all that great but for some reason I have noticed that the bits I do remember have been related. Like every dream is just a continuation of the last. It seems like I am running some kind of experiment on myself probably related to abstaining or wds or something in that realm. People like to complain about work related dreams so of course I would combine an aspect of my work with the other most prevalent thing on my mind in my dreams. I just wish they were a little more vivid and memorable. Hopefully tonight’s episode is!
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TrueBlue
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- Location: USA
- Number of wet dreams youʹve experienced: 100
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- Underwear worn when going to sleep: Boxer-briefs
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6+ hours
- Age: 38
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
Welcome!
Week 2 is where things really settle into the new routine. One day at a time, you've got this!
Week 2 is where things really settle into the new routine. One day at a time, you've got this!
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Seqiro
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- Age: 42
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
2 weeks is admirable! 
Keep up the great effort, and remember that this place is the best way to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Welcome to the forum, and good luck in your journey.
Keep up the great effort, and remember that this place is the best way to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Welcome to the forum, and good luck in your journey."It's trust and character I need around me. One car in exchange for knowing what a man is made of? That's a price I can live with...." Han, Fast & Furious: Tokyo Drift
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gojets13
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-6 hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 03 Dec 2023
- Age: 34
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
Thanks TrueBlue and Seqiro!
Day 14 has been uneventful so far. I teleworked today and had class so I was worried I might let my mind stray but stayed the course! Probably better behaved today than I was yesterday
. Still have enough horniness to make feel alive but not to an overwhelming state. Still waiting on some more vivid dreams so I decided to try keeping a dream journal to help encourage dreams and make them easier to remember.
Day 14 has been uneventful so far. I teleworked today and had class so I was worried I might let my mind stray but stayed the course! Probably better behaved today than I was yesterday
. Still have enough horniness to make feel alive but not to an overwhelming state. Still waiting on some more vivid dreams so I decided to try keeping a dream journal to help encourage dreams and make them easier to remember.-
gojets13
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-6 hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 03 Dec 2023
- Age: 34
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Day 24:
Haven’t updated in a while because there wasn’t really anything to update about. Last night I had my first sexual dream that was memorable. I was with my family and waiting for them to leave so I could mb in privacy. They ended up leaving to go shopping and so I thought I was good to go when I found out there was a little shop with Pokémon cards (sorry I’ve been collecting lately haha) so now I had another person I was waiting on so I could enjoy myself. They finally left and so I went to another room and got myself situated to do the deed when of course my family came back and I woke up out of frustration and extremely excited. So no wd but at least it seems like a move in the right direction.
Haven’t updated in a while because there wasn’t really anything to update about. Last night I had my first sexual dream that was memorable. I was with my family and waiting for them to leave so I could mb in privacy. They ended up leaving to go shopping and so I thought I was good to go when I found out there was a little shop with Pokémon cards (sorry I’ve been collecting lately haha) so now I had another person I was waiting on so I could enjoy myself. They finally left and so I went to another room and got myself situated to do the deed when of course my family came back and I woke up out of frustration and extremely excited. So no wd but at least it seems like a move in the right direction.
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Squeeze2
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- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 04 Oct 2024
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Oh man! You were so close in that dream!! BUT that is a great sign that you had a sexually-oriented dream. For me, I do remember my dreams a lot, but for some reason I hardly ever get any sexual ones. But when I do get them while abstaining, that is usually a sign that I am getting closer to a WD. I'd usually get a couple "dry" ones before a wet one. Hopefully you will do the same!
I'm also doing NNN, so let's stay strong and keep it up and see what happens, man!! I also encourage you to exercise regularly; this will keep your testosterone and endorphins high, and you won't have to feel that low that comes when you aren't getting much sexual stimulation or your T levels seem to drop for a while. Don't worry about your dick man, it's not going anywhere. If it wants to take a break from acting horny, let it. It will come back stronger once it's rested up, trust me!
I'm also doing NNN, so let's stay strong and keep it up and see what happens, man!! I also encourage you to exercise regularly; this will keep your testosterone and endorphins high, and you won't have to feel that low that comes when you aren't getting much sexual stimulation or your T levels seem to drop for a while. Don't worry about your dick man, it's not going anywhere. If it wants to take a break from acting horny, let it. It will come back stronger once it's rested up, trust me!
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gojets13
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- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-6 hours
- Date of last voluntary orgasm/ejaculation: 03 Dec 2023
- Age: 34
Re: Gojets13’s Journal
Thanks Squeeze! I also find that sexual dreams are especially rare for me, but they are the most vivid. I also hope it’s a sign that I am close but I’m not gonna bank on it and just enjoy the ride for now.
My plan is to make it through NNN and then reevaluate but I’m thinking it’s more likely that I clear the tanks in December and start a new streak. I really should try and exercise more to avoid the lows like you are saying as opposed to what I have been doing to avoid that numb feeling. I’ve really been taking the lazy approach which is to stimulate myself with porn and the occasional touching. That’s not really sustainable and also probably not really improving my wd chances. I guess it’s like you said, I need to just trust that my dick will wake up at some point and be patient.
With that said, nothing new to report from last night. I am definitely taking it easy today watching football, cleaning, exercising , etc. as I think I have been overstimulating to the point that it’s not really making me feel any more horny. Less than a week till the end of November!!!
My plan is to make it through NNN and then reevaluate but I’m thinking it’s more likely that I clear the tanks in December and start a new streak. I really should try and exercise more to avoid the lows like you are saying as opposed to what I have been doing to avoid that numb feeling. I’ve really been taking the lazy approach which is to stimulate myself with porn and the occasional touching. That’s not really sustainable and also probably not really improving my wd chances. I guess it’s like you said, I need to just trust that my dick will wake up at some point and be patient.
With that said, nothing new to report from last night. I am definitely taking it easy today watching football, cleaning, exercising , etc. as I think I have been overstimulating to the point that it’s not really making me feel any more horny. Less than a week till the end of November!!!