Wet Dream Forum

Texanguy
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(8/15/03 11:17 am)
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Wet Dreams III

The old post was getting long, let's try a new one.

Dickenson,

Glad to see you back on line. In answer to your questions, I wore briefs from the time I was a young child. They seemed standard, comfortable, and nothing unusual. I 'shake' after urinating. I don't have a desire to be seen by other guys when urinating, but at the same time I feel it is a little 'out of the ordinary' not to use urinals, so I usually do.

As to not getting erections while concentrating 100% on other things, it makes perfect sense. Getting erections while reading or writing these posts also makes sense, since it is an 'erotic' topic for us, since all of us here want wet dreams, and being aware of choosing not to masturbate at all is also arousing.

The way I gathered these quotes from the web was just through exhaustive and time consuming searches. You can do compound searches, such as typing the following line exactly:
"don't masturbate" "wet dreams"
I had the best luck using Google, but others gave some results that Google did not. But be prepared to search through a lot of useless and redundant information. This exact search line won't give you everything I found, but it gives you a relatively short list of links to choose from. You can also enter "wet dreams", "don't masturbate", or "masturbate" and search through several thousands of links. You'll find that a lot of postings are on 'sex advice' sites, since some people who don't masturbate wonder if having so many wet dreams is normal. To tell the truth, I was first curious about people who don't masturbate. But I immediately found an extraordinarily strong connection between not masturbating and wet dreams, and was amazed at how many wet dreams some people have per week. I spent many hours of my unemployment seeking out all I could about wet dreams. I wanted to know who has them, if anyone can start having them when they weren't already, and how to maximize them.

Since this topic IS wet dreams, at the risk of being redundant, thinking and posting about a subject can simplify and clarify the issues involved. First comes gathering the data, then trying to understand it. Thinking, analyzing, theorizing, and posting ideas can lead to more thoughts and ideas, and may result in 'connections' and 'insights' that were only touched upon before. Postings and thoughts by other people can help, as well. Things can also make more sense and become clearer over time.

It's one thing to want wet dreams emotionally and erotically and to find it more exciting to have wet dreams than masturbate all the time. It's another to make sense of it all. More and more, it seems to make sense that wet dreams are simply one way people can have orgasms. It also appears to be a 'built in' and 'natural' way. It seems that however you have orgasms you can get 'hooked' on that way, and find it easier and easier to do that way. If you want to change the way you have orgasms, you have to make an effort.

Suppose a guy masturbates normally, but wants to enjoy 'humping his pillow', maybe because he thinks it might better simulate having 'real' sex. But when he tries, he finds it difficult to do, and the orgasm not very satisfactory. How can he make it more enjoyable? Logically, he should completely stop masturbating the 'old' way, and do it the 'new' way exclusively. Eventually, he'd 'connect' humping the pillow to orgasms so much that it becomes his standard way. At that point, when he feels like having an orgasm, he just naturally wants to hump his pillow. He might even reach the point where he could no longer enjoy masturbating the 'old' way.

However, if he had kept going back to the 'old' way occasionally, he might never completely 'connect' to the new way. The best way to adapt to the 'new' way would be to stop the 'old' way entirely, and do it the 'new' way only, until he no longer wants to do it the 'old' way.

I can't help but think that at some of the guys I quoted in my previous post enjoy their 'way' of having orgasms so much that they wouldn't enjoy masturbating at all.

How does this apply to getting wet dreams? It seems to be a little more difficult situation, since you can't 'force' yourself to have orgasms the 'new' way, in wet dreams. But this difficulty in starting the 'new' way makes one step all the more reasonable and obvious: completely stop having orgasms the 'old' way. It also explains why it seems to be necessary to do that. But perhaps this suggests other things you can do, besides just waiting. Visualize yourself as having wet dreams, and being completely 'disconnected' from the 'old' way of masturbation. See masturbation as 'old', incomplete, and irrelevant, and the 'new' way as the only way you do it. See it being completely natural and normal to have wet dreams and never masturbate, and expect wet dreams as a natural, normal, and enjoyable part of your life. Tell yourself 'I don't masturbate, I don't like it. I have wet dreams that are much more enjoyable'. Like the people in the quotes of my previous post seem to have done, 'disconnect' orgasms from masturbation, and 'connect' them to wet dreams.

Why make the effort? Why have wet dreams? Emotionally, many people find them fascinating, and enjoy them immensely. But there may be 'logical' reasons why so many people like them, and why it may be better than masturbation: When most people masturbate, they fantasize about erotic situations. They often imagine being elsewhere, doing other things. But in a dream, you actually ARE doing things, it's one step closer to 'reality' than waking fantasy. Also, dreams are not constrained by 'real' reality. You can dream you are flying, or 8 feet tall -- or anything your erotic fantasies lead you to. The most unrealistic situations can become vividly real, not just a fantasy while masturbating. You aren't fantasizing, you are participating! Also, in dreams you can easily have very intense feelings and emotions; they don't have to be tempered by real world situations. Dreams don't always work out to be ideal, but it seems perfectly logical and reasonable that a really good wet dream would be better, more intense, more exciting, and more fulfilling than waking sex could be. How could a good wet dream NOT be?

So the people I quoted in my previous post have it right. It's not just emotion, but logic: good wet dreams ARE better than masturbation. This can help us in our quest. We can see masturbation as it really is: inherently inadequate, limited, and not as exciting as wet dreams. Makes it easier to leave the 'old' way behind, which makes it easier to do it the 'new' way!

I Wear White Socks
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(8/15/03 12:41 pm)
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Re: Wet Dreams III

Just checking in for a minute. Like Ronald, there was steel rod in my briefs when waking up early this morning. Wish I could have slept longer, too. I tried going back to sleep on my stomach, but was tempted to start humping the mattress. I flipped over, and adjusted my little guy through the inner fly opening of my briefs so that he was sandwiched up between the two layers of overlapping front panel material. We smaller guys can do that, hah. At day 30, it's too dangerous to just lay in bed focusing on an erection, so I got up and walked it off enough to take a leak.

Q: May I know when did you guys started wearing briefs? How’s the experience of being ‘cooped up’? (I wore them at 10; I get erections every time wearing them, but had no idea what’s all that about).

Answer: I have worn briefs as long as I can remember. I don’t mind being cooped up in briefs or a jock. I tried looser fitting boxers but didn’t like them. Also, erections were not as enjoyable in boxers. I like how briefs keep me pointing upward all the time, and seem to make erections feel better for some reason.

Q: Do you guys shake your penis after you pee? What about drying the tip with a soft tissue/handkerchief/socks [I know you like socks, Mr. Socks!] (Yes for the 1st and 2nd. I use my handkerchief- only for Him).

Answer: I just shake it.

Q: Do you guys preferred to using a urinal (that can be seen by other guys) or going to the individual rooms while you wanna pee? Why? (I’ll wait for you guys’ answers first, very long story…).

Answer: I am not pee shy, so it really makes no difference. The only time I prefer an individual room/stall, is when I find myself sporting an unexpected semi-erection or pee hard, and must take extra time with it taking a leak.

I will not post again, until Sunday or Monday, so everybody have a great weekend.

brahms 28
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(8/15/03 3:45 pm)
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My allies!

Hey y'all!

I'm Mike, 28 y/o.
I'm really happy to find some other people that are trying to do what I've been pursuing for the last month: I also want to have a wet dream!
I've only had one wet dream in my life, and that was when I was 13. It was AWESOME. By that time, I used to masturbate a lot, but I and one of my friends, decided not to masturbate for a while. Three weeks larer, it the dream came true.

It's been already one month and two days since I quit masturbating again. Very difficult time!.

At the begining, I use to have lots of erections during the day, not to mention when I wake up. (Right now, I feel that my junior will literally explode...)

However, my penis does not always go completely erect, although I'm desperate inside to have an orgasm. I don't understand why...

I have few questions for you, (i'm sure you all know more than me about the subject):

- Does the penis size affect having wet dreams? Mine is 19cms. (seven and some inches). I don't know if that is small or that is the average.

- What do you do if you get accidentally hard in the gym shower? Do you run and hide it? Do you know what happened to me...A friend of mine invited me for a massage before a big party last week. Then the masseur accidentally touched my penis, and I went into an awesome erection.... It was so embarrasing!
I'm sure it would not have happened, if I was not in this condition...

- Can all of you sumarize your day counts? So, we track all together our progress.

Guys, I send you a big hug... Hope to hear from you soon and to be accepted in your community.

PD: Sorry for my English... I'm still working on it.
PD2: Where r u guys from? I'm from Venezuela, but I now live in London.


Mike


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Texanguy
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(8/15/03 5:08 pm)
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Welcome, Brahms

Welcome to our group. There were several topics about wet dreams that were recently deleted by this site, but we have been quite active in our writings. Hopefully you have read the two previous topics, "Wet Dreams Continued???" and "Wet dreams II".

The main thing that started our active group seemed to be when I did some research on the web, and posted the results. To repeat the main points: People who don't masturbate at all have by far the most wet dreams. Many people try to 'force' a wet dream by not masturbating for a few weeks or month, but usually fail. People who masturbate and and have no (or very few) wet dreams can start having them if they completely quit masturbating, perhaps for several months. There are no guarantees, but if you aren't having any wet dreams, they best way to start getting them is to quit masturbating, perhaps for several months. You can see in our posts here that there is definitely more to be learned about wet dreams and how bets to have them.

Your comments about your one wet dream seems pretty common. I think many people would prefer wet dreams over masturbation, but they can't seem to get them. We are doing our best here, and with a little more knowledge about it than most people. I think we will succeed.

Your questions:
-It seems like a lot of the guys here get erections quite easily, but I have found that there is also another effect from not masturbating for a long time. It seems that at times I can get erect very easily, but at other times I can be quite aroused and excited, and NOT get erect. I've also noticed that it seems quite easy to be quite excited and erect one minute, then completely relaxed and unerect shortly after. Rather than be concerned, I think it makes sense to enjoy it!

-I don't think penis size affects wet dreams. It doesn't seem likely to, and I've never read anything that says it does. The standard measurement for erect penis size is to force it horizontal, and measure along the top from the base to the tip. It's OK to put a little pressure on the ruler against your body. If you measure 7 inches that way, you are about an inch longer than average.

-I haven't had an erection in a public shower, but I think I would be embarrassed. I'd probably turn towards the wall to hide it as best I could.

I quit masturbating May first, so it's been a while. I am older than the rest of you, and it may take me longer to get a wet dream. But waiting several months for a wet dream does not seem that unusual. One of the unanswered questions about wet dreams is the best 'mental state' to be in while waiting for wet dreams. But it does seem that quitting masturbation completely and putting it behind you is a part of it. As you can see from our posts, it seems that after not masturbating for a couple of months or so, not masturbating becomes enjoyable and an end in itself. It makes it easier to wait for a wet dream when you enjoy not masturbating.

Hopefully, at least one of us will start having wet dreams soon. If not, it still seems there is no better way to proceed to get them.

Good luck in your quest. Welcome, and feel free to post your thoughts here.

brahms 28
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(8/15/03 10:18 pm)
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Thank you!

Hey Texanguy... Thanks for your reply and for summarizing your findings. I'll search for information in spanish and I'll let you know if I find anything interesting.

Thanks also for your answers. I'll try to follow your reccomendations.

It's sometimes difficult to hide the erections. I get hard even writing these notes. (I've read it also happens to you guys sometimes). But as some of you said, it's kind of confortable this new way of living.

In the other hand, It's good that I'm above average . I also found a website that posted the results of a survey.I knew that I was bigger than all my close friends, but I thought they were also in the small range like me. My question was because I heard that people with longer penises usually produce more sperm. I don't know if that is true.

Last night was one of the most difficult ones.
I don't know why, but it seems that I had a long, strong and steady erection the whole night. Even in the morning I was absolutely hard. Then I ran to the computer to check for any reply to my comments. (It is still there...)

Wow... so you quit on May 1st!. Yeah... It's been a while. You should be getting a wet dream very soon then Good Luck!. I hope we all succeed in our challenge.

I think only two guys in this forum have had wet dreams... true? If so, congratulations!

Well guys, thanks for your welcome. I'll keep in touch trhough this forum.
Take care!

Mike.

Ronald WDM
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(8/17/03 8:39 am)
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my wet dream

Hi, I thought I'd let you know that I posted a message in the other post about my having a wet dream last night, since I didn't know that a new post had begun. So please read that and tell me what you think of it.

Welcome to our group, Brahms. I'm 40 years old and live in the USA. My last 2 wet dreams were 26 days apart now, and a lot of the are closer than that. I wish you all the best in your quest.

Texanguy
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(8/17/03 3:08 pm)
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Congratulations

Ronald,

Congratulations on your wet dream. Do you think you did anything differently the night before?

Brahms,
To update you, Ronald has been having wet dreams for years, and I guess virtually never masturbates for a very long time now. Socks, too, has had wet dreams off and on for years, and has just recently joined our group.

Dickenson, Hoban, and myself, are the 'pioneers', in the same situation as you, trying to have wet dreams by quitting masturbation and getting the support of others here in this forum. We are the ones, like you, who may have had a wet dream (or a few) years ago, but haven't had them in a long time. I'm several years older than you, and Dickenson and Hoban are a few years younger.

Ronald and Socks have been having wet dreams long before joining this forum. Socks had been quitting masturbation off and on since he was (I think) 15, and so has been having wet dreams since then. His history is therefore different from the rest of ours. Ronald had to quit for about 4 months before he started having them, years ago.

So the rest of us have been recently seriously trying to have them (of course, by not masturbating). So we have not had success yet. It seems like it's getting closer to the time when we all should be getting them, but who knows for sure exactly how long it will take? Each person may be different. You can read my past comments about the subject

What should we do if we don't get them in the next few months? It seems that we are doing all we can. We could give up and start masturbating again, but the one clear fact that comes up over and over again is that if you want wet dreams and aren't having any, you have to quit masturbating.

I liken our situation to wanting to go on a diet and lose a lot of body fat. It's clear that we would have to eat less fat, but that doesn't answer all the questions on how to best get really lean. What are the best foods to eat? When is it best to eat? What are good fats and bad fats, etc, etc.

So we only know the 'main' point for getting wet dreams (don't masturbate), but we don't know the 'fine points' for sure. We don't know what frequent erections while awake do, or what other thoughts, feelings, and attitudes may do to aid or inhibit wet dreams. Maybe you, Brahms, can help with thoughts and ideas. The only evidence seems to be that a lot of people who have frequent wet dreams don't seem to want to masturbate or miss it. It appears to be out of their conscious minds -- much like feelings about masturbation before ever discovering it. The best chance for wet dreams appears to be to copy them.

I do feel that coming this far, and finding that not masturbating can be quite enjoyable, it makes no sense for me to go back to masturbating and thus make my chances for a wet dream go back to zero. I think that eventually, if we continue not to masturbate, we will naturally get the all the 'optimal' attitudes, and get wet dreams.

Hopefully, it will be soon for all of us.

Ronald WDM
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(8/18/03 10:07 am)
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Re: Congratulations

Thanks for your comments, Texanguy and Brahms. Brahms, this was my 3rd wet dream since I joined these discussion boards. But I stopped masturbating more than 10 years ago. So I've had lots of wet dreams since then. I hope you can get the same way.

I don't kow what I did different, Texanguy. Like I said, I think the pressure might have been off after waiting for one all of last week. I was happy to still get a nice erection later in the morning as well.

Well good luck to everyone in having a wet dream. I'll see you later.

Texanguy
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(8/19/03 12:19 am)
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Dickenson, from other thread

Welcome back. Congratulations on being accepted by RCSI. It's not clear what your school situation is. In the US, we have 13 total grades (kindergarten plus grades 1 - 12) for normal schooling. The last 4 years (9-12) are called 'high school'. Then a person may go on to college.

To get a degree in engineering, biology, history, etc, we would complete 4 years of college. After completing that, we could go on to graduate school, medical school, law school, etc. What is your situation?

I won't say much else here, you have plenty to read in this topic.

Let's all get wet dreams before you start at RCSI!

Dickenson
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(8/19/03 2:27 am)
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Dear Good Guy Ronald,

Ronald, it’s great to note that you’re the only guy here who gets those wet dreams in this forum so far. Congratulations a million times!! I’d like to call you my favourite ‘Wet Dream Star”. I’d never met any guy(s) like you; having wet dreams, and relates the experience to the other person. I hope I’ll be the star soon (and all you guys out there!!). We can form a ‘wet dream boy band’, heh…

Thanks for all your comments in Wet Dreams II, and I really hope that I’ll be like that guy in quote 8, soon. But I guess guys must be patient enough to wait and hold off the fluid, and we’ll get them like you do. Ronald, I guess your sentence “Sometimes I think that if I didn't wake up as soon, that I'd have a wet dream easier, since I feel like I'm ready to shoot, but I'm already awake, so it doesn't happen” is very true. I sometimes hate to get a Woody in the morning (though I love him too), knowing that it actually ‘takes’ my wet dream(s) away. I can’t sleep well in the morning when he’s up. I gotta make sure that I’m sleeping on my back, and not on the stomach. If not, my penis will try to get hard recklessly and start pressing the mattress with all his might (like Socks). Are you like that sometimes, Ronald? How do you make sure that you’re doing fine in order to get the highly anticipated wet dreams(s)?

Basically, I guess that you’re doing fine at your work place. It keeps you occupied with something, and at the same time provide you some fortune. After all the busy day, your body will try to ‘shut down’ and opt for the bed at night with great ease. So, that’s the making of a good night’s sleep (together with a long period of REM sleep) and thus makes the dream come true!!

Ronald (or Socks), do any of you have any advice for me while waiting? What’s your ‘secret’ in getting one each time? I know you’ll get one very soon, Mr. Socks!

Personally, I’d like you (Ronald) to discuss and describe your dream with us. Is this OK? Please tell us anything you’d like to share with us (add some fun and dirtiness if you wanna make it interesting! We’re all open-minded guys). I especially would like to know how do you know that you’re shooting the bullets while sleeping? Was that involuntary/ incontrollable? Can you actually opt to ‘not shoot’ it by you controlling the member? [I was just asking, I know you won’t do that even if you (and other guys) can do that, heh!].

Oh dear, my little monster down there is driving me crazy since typing this from the start!!!

Ronald, may I know which part of the US are you from? I’m just interested to know you better, please skip this if you like.

Well, I’m really glad to know that your penis is functioning well and be able to shoot at night. I hope mine will be like that too! See ya!

[In the meantime, I’m trying to work on other posts for you guys. I’ll get them posted soon, since the PC is okay today!]

brahms 28
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(8/19/03 7:49 am)
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Hey Gentlemen...!

Texanguy, thanks for the update!

Ronald... Thanks for your clarifications... 10 years.... I admire you!


One question guys... Are you married, single, engaged...?
Because for me it sounds impossible not to masturbate for ten years, without at least having an active sex life with a partner.

Dickenson.
As texanguy said, I recently joined this group and I'm also committed to having a wet dream. As of today, I have not masturbated for one month and one week. What about you? I'm 28 years old. (Single, with no girlfriend)

Congratulations on your acceptance to college! What are you going to study?

Your narrative about the experience in the urinal was very interesting.
But how come that was the first time you saw an erect penis?
Perhaps, our culture is different. I've seen all of my friend's penises in all their forms and conditions. Erect, flaccid, semi-erect, peeing, showering...
Of course, I get embarrased if a get aroused in a public place (like the gymm showers), but not with my close friends. And I guess they feel the same way, because we also talk about it.

But let me tell you, that we, men, always think that our penis is small. I thought the same, even when it was perfectly clear that I was bigger than all my frinds (they usually make jokes out of it). But when I started my quest of having a wet dream, I found out (and texanguy confirmed) that I was one inch and so above the average. So, I'm now happy on that department. It might also be your case.

Tell me about you... how do you feel. It is very hard for me sometimes to control my little friend. He does not obey at all!

The other day, I was staring at him, and he started to grow, and grow, and the little pipe that you can see from the bottom started to widen...! (I never saw that before...) I realized I was about to shoot without even touching him!. Then I distracted myself with a piece of chocolate..., it worked.

He is right now trying to escape from my pants... It's almost an agony...

Well fellows, take care and keep in touch. I'll try to write later, to tell you a story.

Texanguy
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(8/19/03 11:17 am)
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Dickenson and Brahms

Dickenson, thanks for your story. I find myself wondering if that teacher in the urinals knew he was alone or not.

About the 'fine points' of having a wet dream (besides never masturbating, of course), it's difficult to know all about them. But it does seem that in the posts I quoted (including # 8 that you referred to), that their 'focus' was on wet dreams, and not on masturbation. To some extent, I think it's a 'chicken and egg' thing. But if you put yourself in the place of those people, it appears that they aren't refraining from masturbation, they just don't do it. If any of us had 6 wet dreams a week (I think that's VERY rare), masturbation would seem irrelevant! Some of the quotes explicitly oppose masturbation, but even the long quote (#7) describes such a love of wet dreams that it's hard to imagine that he has any desire to masturbate. People like that probably just naturally have less arousal while awake. It makes sense. If a guy masturbates in the shower all the time, he doesn't think much about doing it lying in bed. If a guy does it lying in bed all the time, he doesn't think much about doing it in the shower. If a guy has lots of wet dreams, he doesn't think much about masturbating!

I think we should try to copy their attitudes as best we can. Maybe that just takes time away from masturbating. I just had a weird thought: Perhaps not masturbating at all may be a 'symptom' of the attitudes that allow wet dreams, not the cause of them! Or at least it's all interconnected. At any rate, I think it might help us to visualize ourselves as already having wet dreams, and letting that help shape our attitudes about masturbation and orgasms. I'm starting to think that is what the 'time delay' is all about. It takes time to settle into new attitudes and habits, and to leave masturbation behind enough to let the 'focus' naturally shift to wet dreams -- especially for those of us who haven't had any wet dreams in years or ever.

I think it's very natural to wake up with an erection in the morning. But I think in time the focus on arousal while awake may just naturally shift to having it while asleep. At least it appears to be that way in frequent wet dreamers.

Brahms, We are all single here. It would be difficult to be focused on wet dreams if we weren't. It does seem that your culture in Venezuela is more 'open' to male to male familiarity. Or maybe you just know a group of people who are that way. I don't think many Americans are as open to their male friends, but I get the impression that it is changing. On the other hand, at many schools in the US the showers now go unused. It would be considered 'gay' if you took a shower at school, no matter how sweaty you were. But it varies from state to state. The more 'politically correct' states no longer use showers.

Your description of getting an erection and thinking you were going to 'shoot' without touching has happened to both Socks and me. Only we did shoot! It's definitely NOT a way to have wet dreams, and 'shooting' when you don't want to isn't really enjoyable. You can also 'train' yourself to do it without intending to, so that it becomes more difficult to avoid it. Much better to keep away from that and 'train' yourself to have wet dreams instead!

Good luck to everyone in their pursuit.

Ronald WDM
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(8/19/03 12:06 pm)
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my wet dream

Thanks for all your comments. I'm still single, Brahms. I guess I might have slipped up sometimes, but I've mainly tried to abstain from masturbating. I"d rather ejacuate the natural way, with a wet dream.

I think I manage to sleep on my side most of the time. I listen to soft music and count backwards and try to relax and get to sleep. I guess it helps not to think too much about having a wet dream before going to sleep.

As for my wet dream, as I recal, I was dreaming about this good looking lady that I worked closely with when she was in her 20's. In my dream, she asked me if I wanted I ride with her in her car, since she sometimes did give me a ride home from work. So I got in the front seat with her in her car. Then after a while , I guess she stopped, since she put her head on my shoulders and had me put my arm around her. Then I got all excited. My heart started beating faster, I got all erect, then I started shooting several times. I didn't want to wake up from it, but I woke up, so I knew what was happening. I think it's involuntary, whch is fine with me. I hope you liked reading about my wet dream.

Well I'm a wet dreamer from that dry state in the west called Utah. So I guess that's a little contrast.

Well Dickenson, when you talk about your monster, I think how some little kids talk about a monster under the bed. But we get ours in bed with us, right? Well, I guess you all the best. Take care!

I Wear White Socks
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(8/19/03 5:35 pm)
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Farewell from Socks

Since I registered with ezboard, I've had problems with my computer. My web browser was hijacked a second time, and reset to the Zesty Finds home page for no apparent reason. I had to change it back again. It now takes longer to download web pages, and some stop mid way through without finishing. When changing web sites, I am getting annoying pop-up ads out of nowhere, before getting to the URL destination. I think my hard drive may be infested with cookies or pingers that latch onto my IP address, whenever they detect the use of Internet Explorer. If my suspicions are correct, these new slowing problems are the result of constant attemps to dominate my browser and force it to open advertisements. After today, I decided to see if I can un-register. I'm sorry, but this will be the last time I plan to visit or post on any ezboard/Zesty Finds site. I just hope I can get a friend to help me search for and delete cookies, etc., clean my hard drive, and get it running efficiently like it was before.

Thanks, and good luck with all noble things you do in life.

Texanguy
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(8/19/03 7:31 pm)
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Socks

It may be something unique to your computer, or because you registered. But I occasionally get a 'download from Adtomi' screen, which once I clicked 'OK' on at another site, and it changed my browser. Now, I always click it off in the upper left corner and continue. It may that which points you to 'Zesty Finds'. I've had no problems or connections with Zesty Finds whatsoever. Just never download or install anything from ads.

As far as 'dominating' your browser goes, all it really is, is the web site sending ad pages along with the page you want. I get them all the time from this site, click them off, and continue. It may be why the site is free.

I guess you may not read this, but good luck, and please try posting here again. We've all enjoyed your postings.

Texanguy

Texanguy
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(8/19/03 7:58 pm)
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Socks, Correction

I can't edit a post here. I click off all ads on the 'X' at the upper RIGHT corner, including the ones that want you to download. You can also right click them on the toolbar at the bottom of your screen and close them that way.

You can also get some 'ad blocker' software, but I haven't yet.

I hope you give it another try. You can even log on under a new 'unregistered' name.

Good luck!

Dickenson
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(8/19/03 11:21 pm)
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Dear Mike,

Dear Mike,

I’m trying to write you a reply actually, Mike (Brahms 2 . [I guess I’ll just call you Mike, is that ok?].

Just wanna welcome you to our forum, Mike, and I know that you’ll get much knowledge and info from all of us here. It’s been great since I found this site in July. I’m the kind of guy that like details and everything, so that accounts for why my replies were mostly of great length. But, sometimes, I’ll post a short reply (when I’m not free/the server is down).

Like Texanguy said before (in those deleted posts), I guess this discussion group is one of its kinds in the world (I’m serious, Mike, I’d yet to find another place like this on the Net or any books discussing this ‘secret’ issue of the male!). I guess it’s really bad that you can’t read our previous posts; they were mostly about wet dreams, and how Ronald and other guys got them. Anyway, the volume of the posts is trying to increase again. For your concern, myself (Dickenson), Hoban, Texanguy, Ronald, Socks are more active participants in this site, so you’ll notice that there are only 5 names so far. There was actually another 18 year old, Perot, who joined our group in the mid July. He was not into wet dreams (though he doesn’t had had one in his life), but quit that for spiritual reasons. I hope to hear from him soon…

Well, I’m glad to know that there are more guys joining this place, and to get more ideas from each other. I’m 18. I got several wet dreams when I was an early teen. But all those auto-shooting mechanism wears off when I discovered that I could masturbate when I was 14. That’s bad! I like the wet dreams more than anything else. I’d started on the early of May, and I got a kick on both of my berries during a football match in early of July 2003. So, maybe that kick affects my wet dream. Before starting all these, I was doing what most teenage guys enjoyed: jacking off using the ‘hand’ method. I finally realized that getting a wet dream (or perhaps several of them) is possible, so, I started the quest. Also, after recalling those wet dreams myself, I found that they’re actually more intense and more enjoyable. Like most guys here agreed, wet dreams beat everything else!!

It’s of no surprise that you had had only one wet dream in your life. I myself had had several, I think around 8-10. Can you relate that experience to us in detail (if you can recall it)? I’d like to know you better. How do you masturbate last time?

Mike, it’s not unusual for you to feel ‘difficult’ or ‘unbearable’ initially. Erections will be more frequent and you’ll get hard sooo easily anytime. Though you’re not thinking about sex, your faithful little soldier will stand tall and high, and strain your briefs. You might also get ‘auto shooting’ during the day in which you’ll spill your fluid all of a sudden as a result of prolonged arousal or otherwise. Texanguy and Socks encountered that last month, and that’s simply a ‘no-no’ when you’re trying to get that wet dream. You have to make your tank full, wait, resist, relax and go to bed.

As answers to your previous questions, I’d say that I don’t think penis size affects wet dreams. Maybe the position of the penis does. I’m not sure. Any ideas, guys? My little boy stands tall at 5.8 inches and he’s just around 3.6 when asleep (small, I know). About his waist, he’s around 3.4-3.7 inches. Interestingly, I don’t really know how to measure the size around/diameter. I mean, which part does you measure? Glans? Center (shaft)? Or End? Can you provide help?

On behalf of day counts, I guess it’s about 3-4 months. I’m not entirely sure (this is my first time doing this). May I know which part of London are you from? I guess your Willy is quite big, if that’s from your real measurement. May I know its angle as well? (Mine is 30 degrees from vertical). Ronald is even higher; he got a 20 degrees boy down there! Good Boy!

Well, I guess you just have to be a bit careful during these days. Try to minimize sexy massages, and refrain from watching and seeing sexy pics. That’s my advice for you, Mike.

Maybe because of cultural difference, I seldom see guys hanging around in showers naked. I don’t see my brother’s tool either; he’s very secretive. You’re quite lucky, actually, being able to see so many shlongs in your life and to be well informed about it. Any of you here saw your sibling’s or even father’s?

As a conclusion, welcome to this place again. I’m looking forward for you guys’ replies! See ya!

brahms 28
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(8/20/03 12:03 am)
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I just woke up...

Hi Guys.

Dickenson. Thanks for your reply.
I just woke up, and my soldier is standing and jumping like crazy. I hope he gets more quiet eventually, as you said.
Last night I was abour to shoot. I'm sure, but I woke up.

About my wet dream, I recall it perfectly. It was a weird dream... I was in a unknown place with a friend. This woman suddenlycame and she was completely naked.
We grabbed her and with the movements, we started to loose our clothes as well.
I never saw the woman's face, but her body was amazing. My friend was also very handsome. Then I know that all our legs were tied together, and I was going harder and harder, until the tension was unbearable. Then I shooted. I immediately woke up, a little bit embarrased, as I was still thinking it really happened...
Then I saw the big stain in my underwear.
How do I masturbate....?
I don't know... I guess like everybody else. My penis is uncut, and I play with my skin back an forth. Sometimes I hold it back, making just pressure until I shoot. I also use my left hand sometimes. It all depends.

But I not only masturbate. I also have real sexual encounters. To be completely honest, it does not satisfy me completely. Now that I'm alone in London, I'll try to have a wet dream instead.


My angle? I guess that is the angle between the abdomen and the penis. Is that right?
Well, I don't know how important it is, or what is better.
To tell you the truth, I've noticed that most of my friends have a short angle, say 20, 30 degress. Mine is almost 45

I've also noticed that their penises are slightly curved. Mine stands absolutely straight. Is that a problem...? How can I make my angle shorter?

In any case, these questions do not relate to wet dreams, so answers are optional.

I have to go now. It's a pleasure chatting to you guys.

Texanguy
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(8/20/03 11:59 am)
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Dickenson, I don't think the position of the penis affects wet dreams, just like size doesn't. I think the thing that starts the wet dream process is the brain and the content of the dream. As far as measuring girth (circumference), I read that you measure the erect penis at its widest point.

You've been busy enough that you haven't commented on my previous posts much, although I think we basically agree anyway. But read back a few of them if you've run out of comments.

Mike, thanks for relating your wet dream to us. Your comment that having sex doesn't completely satisfy you made me go back to my 'web research' documents, since I remember reading such comments before. I collected lots of comments from people who had wet dreams, and some of them talked about their masturbation habits and made other observations. As I've said, most people who had frequent wet dreams didn't masturbate at all.

I ran across a 'summary' I made up after collecting quotes. This table was made up before I stopped gathering quotes, so it is not based on my complete 'data base', but here's part of it:

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Statistics
Of all the people who explicitly have MORE THAN 2 WET DREAMS PER MONTH, or 'lots, frequent, etc':
10 Never masturbate
1 Has to go a "long time without masturbating"


People who explicitly have MORE THAN ONE WET DREAM PER WEEK or otherwise very often:
6 Never masturbate
1 Long time (same guy)

People who have wet dreams in general, but frequency not stated:
21 Never masturbate
2 "Long time" without masturbating
1 "Week or so" without masturbating
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So as you can see, while a few people can get wet dreams easily, the vast majority of people who have them don't masturbate at all. Other posts I've collected show that you can quit masturbating long enough and you'll have the same wet dream rate as people who never masturbated.

My point is that there are a few uncommon people who can directly 'compare' wet dreams with other orgasms, and a couple of them made statements about having sex vs having wet dreams.

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Quotes:
"Hello all...ive been having wet dreams latly...STOP...im 17, ive been beating off since I was 12 so this is nothing new to me, HOWEVER...these wet dreams have been going on once a night every 3 weeks or so (one incident every 3 weeks)....quite a bit more than some people. This is a double edged sword...it feels better than sex (which ive had before) but of course my penis goes off before I can cover it up with a Kleenex, ah well...anyone else have this gift/curse?"

"A wet dream is gives the best orgasm, at least from what I remember. I have not had one for a long time, damn gf (girl friend) won't leave me alone..."
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Other quotes I've read imply that wet dreams are better than masturbating, and at least as good as the best sex. It's interesting that in a way it's better that way, since if you have great orgasms in wet dreams, you can better wait for the right person in the right relationship, rather than feel a 'need' to have sex with someone for the sake of sex. Usually, it's accepted that masturbation is that 'second best substitute' for sex, but once again, it seems that not masturbating at all and having wet dreams is really the best alternative.

As we've discussed in deleted posts, it seems that a lot of people would prefer wet dreams. So many, in fact, that it may be a natural tendency to masturbate when young, but quit soon after and prefer wet dreams. If it were taught that masturbation is normal, but also that quitting masturbation and having better organs in wet dreams is part of the maturation process, I think a lot more people would quit masturbating and many more people would be having wet dreams. And be happier for it.

Coupled with my own feelings, my 'wet dream research' pretty well convinces me that getting 'hooked' on masturbation is not as natural, mature, or as erotically expressive as never masturbating and having wet dreams. Too bad I (or we) didn't know that years ago. Now we have to 'pay the price' and wait for quite a while (as apparently most people do) before we can get back to the 'best' way - wet dreams.

Ronald WDM
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(8/20/03 8:59 pm)
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Dickenson

Thank for your comments, Dickenson. Did you read my post about my wet dream? What did you think of it?

Yes I've seen the penises of all 4 of my brothers at one time or another, and even my father's once a long time ago. It's nice to see where I stand that way.

Well it will soon be 4 full months since May 1, when you and Texanguy started going for your wet dream. So maybe one of you will finally have one soon. I wish you the best.

Well keep me posted everyone, and I'll drop in later.

Hoban
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(8/22/03 6:11 am)
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Hello again!

Hey guys! I'm back again. Just to check how you guys' progress. I'm happy that I'm still a 'full-tanker' after about more than a month. Like Dickenson and Mike, I'm enjoying my erections now. He's growing harder and harder each day. I'm approaching 2 months actually! And my calendar is so clean!! So, I'd like to tell you guys to be patient and keep up all the good work. Ronald, congrats on you latest "event"!! I like you! You're my idol!!

I hope other guys will be back soon, with "I Wear White Socks", Perot, and Dickenson writing back to us again soon.

Ask me anything, and I'll try reply to you.
Good Luck.

Texanguy
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(8/22/03 9:31 am)
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Hoban

Welcome back. Congratulations on approaching your second month. I think the support here helps. The goal is still wet dreams, but it seems that we are all enjoying the journey!

We haven't heard from Perot in a while, and Socks said he had trouble with his computer on this site and left. But you, Dickenson, Ronald, and myself have been joined by Mike.

Good luck to everyone.

Ronald WDM
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(8/22/03 2:07 pm)
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Hoban

Welcome back, Hoban! Thanks for your compliment. Congratulations on going for almost 2 months masturbation-free! That's great that you're enjoying your nice erections. I enjoy mine too. I was wondering if you got hard when you read the details of my last wet dream? I hope you can get a dream like that soon.

Well I noticed that Dickenson wrote in another post here today. So maybe he'll write here again soon too. But that puzzled me when he said that he was 20, because I thought he was just 18. So I hope he'll explain that.

Well good luck everyone in your wet dream quest, everyone. I'm looking foward to reading about your wet dreams! Take care!

brahms 28
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(8/22/03 4:47 pm)
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Almost....

Hey guys...! How is is going...?

Texanguy: Thanks for your previous post, and for the quotes. That was a really clever summary. I really like the way you write... I hope I get to know how to compose like that in english some day!

Hi Hoban....! Nice to meet you! How old are you...?
I guess you are two or three weeks ahead of me... Congratulations! I've been a good boy as well.

Now, why is it my post titled "almost"?

That's because I think I almost had a wet dream last night.

Following, I'll narrate my dream:

I was in a church.. (what an scenario for an erotic dream ).
I was talking to somebody, and I felt like I had to go to the restroom.
To my surprise, the bathroom was bisex, like the ones in Ally McBill. (Is that the right spelling?).

Anyway... I started peeing, in an very weird urinary. It comprised two aisles separated by a canal, where you are supposed to deposit your liquid. That way, people stand face to face. I started peeing, when a guy and a girl came in, and stood in front of me. I then realized that I was able to see their genitals. The girl was skinny, but really gorgeous. The guy was very handsome as well.
(Why is it that in my erotic dreams frequently a guy appears...? I'm I bisex...? )
I saw the guy's penis... It was big, straight, with soft skin, not much pubic hair. The woman's genitals were wet, big lips, and very provocative.

I was staring at hers, when I realized I was peeing on her shoe. She said..."hey man... be careful", and she deviated her liquid to my pants... We started playing making ourselves wet, then she grabbed the guy's penis, and I felt the boy's pee on my shirt as well.

After a lot of laughter and eroticism, they left. I then realized that in the real life I urged to go to the toilet. I had an extremely strong erection and my underwear had drops of this cristaline liquid, (I don't know the name, nor its function). But in any case, it was not semen. I was so hard, that peeing was very difficult.

The dream was really really vivid, and it remind me of my first and only wet dream I've ever had. I really wonder why a guy always appears in my dreams. Anyway, I'm a really open mind person, and I don't discard the posibility to experiment with a guy someday. I must confess, that the physical contact with men, does not bother me as much as other guys. (i.e I sometimes sleep in the same bed with my mates).

Well my friends, I would like to hear your opinions about my experience. I hope it is not too crude or coarse... And if so, please forgive me. I just wanted to tell you the "uncut" story.

Mike.

Texanguy
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(8/22/03 6:31 pm)
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Brahms

Your written English is very good. I would not know English was not your native language if you didn't tell us. I think getting rid of an accent while speaking is more difficult, but in this group we have two from the US, two from England, and one from Ireland, so there are different accents here anyway.

Your dream is interesting, thanks for telling us about it. I think it means that you may be getting closer to a wet dream. Most people have several non-erotic 'dry' dreams each night (yours was erotic and 'almost' wet), but like most people, I don't usually remember them. I don't know if people who remember their non-erotic 'dry' dreams are inclined to have more wet dreams or not.

While many people who haven't had a wet dream in a long time may have to wait quite a while to have one, it is possible that any one of us could have one at any time. It does seem absolutely certain, however, that each individual greatly maximizes his own likelihood of wet dreams by not masturbating. It may be like lifting weights. You may not gain muscle as fast or lift as heavy of weights as someone else, but if don't lift them at all, you won't get more muscle at all.

I'm not only looking forward to my first wet dream in years, I am equally determined to have them as frequently as I can. Years ago, I might have masturbated soon after getting a very rare wet dream. Now, getting a wet dream will only encourage me to continue not to masturbate. Not only do I want want orgasms only wet dreams, I'm sure that policy will make them more frequent and probably feel even better, as my body and brain gets used to having them.

Ronald WDM
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(8/23/03 9:45 am)
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Mike

Thanks for sharing your dream with us, Mike. I enjoyed reading about it. I hope you enjoyed reading about my wet dream as well. It looks like you might be geting closer to your wet dream with a dream like that, with some sort of emission during it.

Well it's nice to have you as part of our group, and I wish everyone the best. Take care!

Dickenson
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(8/24/03 11:20 pm)
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What happened??

Hello everyone! First of all, I really got no idea who’s that ‘Dickenson’ from the topic ‘circumcision’.

That’s NOT my reply!

Can somebody explain this? (If that guy (or lady?) is reading this, can you please use another name?). Please don’t mess up the authors here. I think I mentioned circumcision before, but that’s really NOT my post. Why should I post to that topic without visiting you good fellas here? I see no point in lying about my age either. The length of that stupid post doesn’t ‘fit’ my usual writing styles either. May be you guys can explain this.

I’m going to get registered soon, but that idea makes me wonder that whether I can come into this site without any obstacle(s). Apparently, being registered will get you into trouble(s) like “pop up ads” and etc. (like Mr. Socks). I don’t want to leave you guys here just because of that and everything. Maybe if the matter becomes worse, I got to leave you guys here like Socks eventually. But I really, really want to keep in touch with you guys here for as long as I live…Ronald, have you come across to those annoying ads ever since you registered as “Ronald WDM”? How do you treat them? Thanks.

Meanwhile, I’m sorry for not replying to this site for so many days. I got some family problems recently. I’m so depressed. I hope things will be ok soon.

Hoben, I’m glad to hear that you’re doing very fine. Like all of us here, wet dreams are our main goal, so, you have to treat that little member well. So, this will maximize your chances of getting wet during the night. Please, please tell us your wet dream once you got it.

Mike, it’s a pleasure reading your replies. That’s a fantastic dream. I don’t think that you’re gay actually, because I got wet dreams mostly about guys too! Though I never had a chance to look at the guy’s face, he’ll always ask me to do the same thing: suck his dick. So, that’s why I get hard and ejaculated during a wet dream. Like Mike, I’d like to apologize if that idea disgusts you guys, but that’s really my wet dreams were all about. Lots of investigations and research should be placed on this “Wet Dreams” or “Dreams” issues, so that all of us will be benefited. Mike, do you have any ideas of ‘changing your dreams’? Last month, I surfaced this issue. But Texanguy, Ronald, Perot, Socks, Hoben and others got no idea at all about this. May be you can help. Others are welcomed to help too. Thanks.

Mike, may I know whether you speak English in your country? Whether your answer is ‘yes’ or ‘no’, I think your written English is not too bad at all! Keep us posted, and maybe you’ll get improved soon and also getting support from all of us. As you know, learning and mastering any language requires a person to read, write, and speak more often. I really enjoyed talking to you, man.

Thanks for all the replies while I’m away. Wet dreams, here we come!!

Ronald WDM
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(8/25/03 9:54 am)
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Dickenson

Welcome back, Dickenson. I'm sorry if I offended you. I guess there's an imposter, since he said he was from the wet dreams post. But if that wasn't you, I'm wondering if it was really Texanguy in another recent post about a boy who thought he was too short.

Yes I've gotten some ads about a university and things. I guess you just have to put up woth them and try to get rid of them the best that you can.

Maybe you'd like to read up more on lucid dreaming to try to change your dreams. I'd rather dream about females myself.

Again welcome back, Dickenson. I like writing to you too. Take care!

Texanguy
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(8/25/03 11:03 am)
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Welcome back, Dickenson

I hope your family problems are working out OK.

As far as posting, I suppose anyone can use an unregistered name. I know Socks said he had problems with ads, but I get them all the time, and Ronald (who is registered) seems to get the same ads I do. I'm still not sure how to register, but I haven't spent any time trying to figure it out.

It's now been quite a while, and we who weren't having wet dreams still haven't had any. One of the differences between us here and others who quit masturbating and went on to have wet dreams is that we have quit masturbating 'IN ORDER TO' have wet dreams, where others have quit masturbating completely, 'THEN' started having wet dreams. Regardless, I like this forum and communication, and don't want to stop participating.

It's still clear that not masturbating is the major requirement to start having wet dreams. You, Dickenson, are an excellent example of that. You apparently had quite a few wet dreams and really enjoyed them before starting to masturbate. Then you had no more after that. With your age and your history, I think you are the best candidate to resume your wet dreams. Clearly, not masturbating is part of that.

So why haven't we gotten any yet? The short answer is that it looks like we just have to keep waiting. It's clear that starting to masturbate again will guarantee NO wet dreams whatsoever! (Even if a few rare people might capable of that, clearly none of us here are. We have to do it the way others in our situation have done it, including Ronald.)

Maybe you, Dickenson, might have more ideas than we've thought about. When you were having your wet dreams and before you started masturbating, how did you feel about wet dreams and masturbation? Did you find yourself having frequent erections during the day? Did you in any way 'resist' masturbation? Do you think that you may have 'focused' more on hoping for another wet dream than on being aroused while you were awake? Were your wet dreams all completely unexpected surprises? Perhaps if you try to recall your 'mental state' back then, as a wet dreamer who never masturbated, we can all benefit. Think about it, and give us your thoughts!

We here have been 'pursuing' wet dreams by not masturbating. Yet as I've said before, it appears that people who made the 'transition' to wet dreams quit masturbating completely FIRST, then later on went on to have wet dreams, even to their surprise. So maybe that is part of how to get them. But we are even 'involuntarily' taking that same path. The longer we don't masturbate, the more we become people who have just 'quit masturbating', independent of wet dreams. Maybe the path we've taken to 'quit masturbating' independent of wet dreams, is a longer path than someone like Perot was taking. If Perot is still 'putting masturbation completely behind him', perhaps he would be the first of us to start having wet dreams. Maybe his 'mental attitude' about masturbation more closely matches yours, Dickenson, back when you were having wet dreams.

When you look at the quotes I've posted by people who like their wet dreams, it seems that masturbation basically just doesn't exist for them. In contrast, Socks was always 'battling' masturbation, and seemed to enjoy the battle. My guess is that Socks and the rest of us could have more frequent wet dreams by 'abandoning' masturbation, not 'battling' it. Perhaps Ronald has a comment on this. Or even Socks, if he reads this.

So perhaps we may not be taking the 'absolute quickest path' to wet dreams -because no one knows exactly what that is! But we do know the general direction, including the major requirement of not masturbating. Maybe we have to not only 'not masturbate' we have to 'abandon' it and 'put it completely out of our minds' - emulating the people who have frequent wet dreams.

Personally, I feel I'm more 'out of the masturbation habit' now than ever before. At this point, I see no sensible alternative for me but to continue that process. Rather than 'miss' it, I'm just going to get even more out of the habit. I can't help but think that soon everything will fall into place, something will 'click' in our brains, and the wet dreams will begin. Like with other people, it may be at a point when it will be a complete surprise. Maybe that is even a requirement. Then they will become more and more frequent, and more and more intense and enjoyable. It's getting close to 4 months for me. But after coming this far I'm not giving up now! After all, I am older. Maybe it'll take my brain longer to get back to the 'natural' way. Besides, what's the alternative? Going back to masturbating now makes no sense!

Good luck to all in their pursuit.

brahms 28
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(8/25/03 2:06 pm)
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lol

TexanGuy, Dickenson. Thanks for your appreciations with regards to my written English. Yes, you are right. It takes a writer and a reader to complete the circle.
I’m your reader, and I learn from you, then I write, and I practice talking about things that normally are not taught in language schools.

Dickenson… Yes, I’m currently living in London, but I’ve been here only for few months.

It’s certainly weird that many times a guy appears in my dreams, but I have no doubt that I am not gay (I love women…!). I might be bisexual but I guess, in a way, we all are. As I said, I’m always quite open to try new things. But if I ever do that, it has to be with someone with the same way of thinking.

Hey hey…. I’m feeling very close to my wet dream!. I’ve been having very strong erotic dreams every night. Even more than one per night… and I recall them all. I might be wrong (‘cause I think it is too soon), but I really feel that my body and mind are reacting to the new way of living.

The problem is that I always wake up, right before the ejaculation. But I always get these strange drops in my underwear.

Anyway, I’ll keep you posted on my progress.

I think that you are right Texanguy. Our body has supreme intelligence. Beyond our understanding and control.
So we have to pretend sometimes that we have never masturbated, we do not need it, and that we don’t even know what it is. Then, our body will find a solution for us, an alternate way to relieve the tension.

Our wet dreams will come, with the beauty of a secret story, never told, that eventually only Mike and I will have experienced; with a cast and a scenario conceived by our mind that perfectly fits our mood.

Guys…. One question before I forget…. Have you experienced any testicular pain? I’ve been feeling some sort of annoyance, mainly in the big one.

Another thing I’ve noticed is that my penis looks (and feels) heavy when erect. Like… if it had become bigger in girth. Sometimes, the foreskin remains semi-retracted the whole day. Have you gone through this?

Looking forward to hearing from you soon, your friend.

Mike.