Wet Dream Forum

I don't know about how guys work but I know how girls work.

I've never had a wet dream the way the term is applied to guys. I don't think it's possible actually.

If I have a sexy dream I can wake up wet, but that's a bit different because its lubrication which happens whenever I am horny whether awake or asleep.

I don't squirt anything when I have an orgasm so if I had an orgasm in my sleep I would just wake up wet (lubricated) not anything special. I can't tell if its just horny wetness or just-had-an-orgasm wetness. But I highly doubt I have orgasms in my sleep because if I did I wouldn't be so horny when I wake up after a sexy dream.

If I want to have sexy dreams, all I have to do is hold off masturbating for a few days. This always works, and yes if I have a sexy dream I will wake up wet but this isn't a "wet dream" like a guy would have. Thats ejaculation!!

I usually masturbate every day so if I wait 2 or 3 days and hold off then it is almost guaranteed that it will work and I will wake up with wet undies. Whether or not I do something about it or just ignore it and go back to sleep is up to me..and my willpower I guess (lol).

So what you are saying is that you have never woken up during a very sexy dream and you are having an orgasm of some kind. I realize that there is no ejaculation as such, but girls do have contractions during orgasm, and you are saying you have not woken up having contractions?

There are tons of guys that don't get woken up by the orgasms from a WD. The last WD I had I woke up like 30 min after due to the wetness from my load. Could it be you just didn't wake up? Maybe if you went long enough without MB it might make sure you had a WD and maybe make it big enough to wake you up (last parts a guess).

maybe! but how long do you think that would take? i really dont like going without more than a few days.

I can only speak for me the first could take a month or two but the longer you go the WDs can become regular, maybe every couple weeks to a month.

There isn't anything you can do but wait for it and take care of yourself. It could take you a month or two to get your first WD but it is well worth the wait and you have us to help when you need encouragement and you can PM me whenever you need to. Remember the first week or two is the worst part and it get's easier after that.

My girlfriends never had a wet dream and I don't think it can happen. For men it's to release too much seamen which isn't going to be a problem for women. She's had dreams of having sex but not like a full on wet dream for men.
She does moan sometimes I her sleep and wakes up wanting sex straight away. Unless I ejaculate I don't count it as a wet dream.

Yes that is similar to me thats what I experience.

The question is: Do girls/ladies have (lets call them) sleeping orgasms? I know they don't have wet dreams as such - they don't ejaculate so not too much wetness is immediately visible. However my experience is that they are very much "wetter" internally after an orgasm than if they were simply horny - even being very horny does not leave them as wet as after an orgasm. Obviously my experience is limited to the limited number of women I have had sexual relations with.

MeganM, have you ever woken up with your heart still beating as it does after a waking orgasm? Also my, again somewhat limited, experience has shown that the lady's vagina does have "contractions" while she is having an orgasm.

So, if you have woken up with a pounding heart beat and some form of vaginal contractions, as well as being very wet internally (and possibly externally to a certain degree), then I would say that you have experienced what we guys call a wet dream.

Be interesting to hear your point of view.

No, I've never woken up with those kinds of feelings. There are other feelings I get right after an orgasm, like a warmth all through my body, a sort of shaking that's hard to describe, and my legs go weak. Ive never had those kinds of things after I wake up..like after an orgasm.

Usually when I wake up after a sexy dream I feel really aroused and horny the way I do before an orgasm not after!