Wet Dream Forum

So here goes.....

Hi everyone I got thinking about wet dreams about a week ago, started doing a bit of reading and ended up here, I’m sure many of you arrived with the same intrigue and curiosity as me. So I decided I’d try and WD again!

I’ve had a few before (probably about 7ish) mostly when I was younger and my last was 2 ½ years ago during 2 weeks of no MB while I was living in close quarters with another guy on a walking expedition across England (it’s called Wainwright’s walk and is a route from the west coast across amazing northern England to the east coast, highly recommended if you like that sort of thing). I remember how good and how real it felt so I figured I’d give ABing a go for a while.

I’ve been feeling down for a while now (I’ve suffered with serious depressed before and been medicated for it but I try to resist medication as much as possible) so I thought I need to just try changing a few things in my life. I’ve thought this for a while but not really kown where to start until a week ago reading these blogs and forums I figured ‘today I start ABing or I’ll never change anything’.

So here it is I’m starting my own blog!

I last MB on Sunday 18/1/15 (I know you Americans display the day and month the other way round but I’m British and by nature stubborn) so today marks 1 completed week 7 days and nights! My longest AB was 30 days when I was 15 as a competition/pact with some school mates although I later found out 3 of them had broken it MB each other. Since then my only AB was my 2 weeks walking and that wasn’t deliberate it was more a problem of privacy.

Now I have to explain I am going to have a problem totally ABing as.... well my sister is a married lesbian (well it’s a ‘civil partnership’ but I call it married, civil partnership is such a stupid term to me) and they are planning on having a baby and have asked me to donate my sperm to her partner. I was so proud and excited and slightly weirded out when they asked me and I’ve agreed and been ‘donating’/MB round their house once a month for the last 6 months (apparently it can take a long time to be successful as ‘DIY’ methods have quite low odds but is free vs the many thousands of pounds at a clinic with only slightly higher odds). So basically I will still be MB once a month as their quest to nurture life and start a family is far greater than mine. Actually it with probably be twice a month as I’ve heard/read 5-7 days of AB before donation are the optimum so I will MB about a week before aswell. This might sound like a cheat and not true ABing but it is the best I can do and will mean I’ll be ABing for around 3 weeks at a time.

For me my ABing quest has two focuses firstly I would like to have a WD again and hopefully I can do this in my 3 week window (no luck yet). Secondly and more importantly I want to start exercising more self control in a few areas of my life (I will probably explain more in later blogs). It is not about torturing myself, denying myself something or that I think MB is bad or mentally damaging more that I hope to keep this as a motivational ‘I can say no to something I want so much for a greater purpose’.

Anyway that was very long I know.

Here goes week two, I will try to keep this updated as much as possible but I do struggle for time so be patient and will see you soon/talk at you all soon.

I would appreciate any thoughts and comments as I go.

Good morning dillionoid, how are you?
Welcome to the forum and i hope you can succeed on your AB and get a WD. It's always nice to have new people around!



I understand you so well. I've also been suffering from d expression on the past 2 almost 3 years, since my dad dies. Unfortunately, i really did need the medication and i still take one pill every night. I don't like it, but, 2 years ago i did reached a really bad point of my life and i wasn't in a good shape, so i did need the medication. You must be aware of your own limitations and see if you need medication, don't think medication do you harm, it can really help. If you wanna talk, you can PM me, i'll be available to hear you. Any special reason to be depressed?



Thats an interesting goal, and certainly, if you can quit an habit, that does mean you have more self control. I really hope you can get more self control and directionality in your life, i really hope, and i'll be here to see your progress.

About your sister situation... I don't wanna judge and i understand your position. But isn't it weird to be, technically, the father of the child of your sister? Wouldn't be easier for them to go to a sperm bank? Cause, that child will be your child too, cause its your sperm...

I'll be hearing out your progress.

Cheers
futureWDmer

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Thanks for the reply and support.

I'm in a hurry so don't have time for a full post i'll probably discuss some of your points next time I just wanted to clear something up. I am not donating my sperm to my sister, it is her partner (female) I am donating to. I guess you are correct that I will be technically the farther and it will be her (actually their) child but to me I don't (at this point) feel as if I will feel ownership of the child (if they are successful) I will simply be an uncle/godparent figure. They do not want me to be 'a farther' although they plan to raise the child knowing about it's conception and there might be certain roles/duties I might need to fill from time to time particularly if it is a boy from boy n girl stuff to puberty to taking him to the park to play football etc. (and I'm sure similar times will arise if it's a girl). We have a contract written up about legal responsibility and what would happen ifs so don't worry....................... unless you have particular prejudices/ideas about gay parenting (I'm not meaning you specifically futureWDmer it doesn't sound like you do, I mean if anyone reading this does I would be happy to discuss this (not saying thats wrong or write but I have my view (just a view))).

Reading that back that sounds really defensive and a bit almost preachy it's not meant to, sorry. Gotta go

Welcome! My thoughts about your sperm donation vs AD to get WDs is that at some point hopefully it will work and you can then stop and fully AB on your quest to get a WD.

futureWDmer had a point about using a sperm bank. They may have techniques to increase the chance of your sperm actually creating a pregnancy.

8 days ABing now!

I got through the first week and it was actually a bit easier for me than I though it would be, of course there were moments when I had to clench my pillow in my fist to stop me grabbing my dick and I’m soooooo hard every morning. I usually MB everyday sometimes 2 or 3 times, but sometimes it’ll be once in 3 days and I’d say 9 out of 10 mornings I have wood (or ‘morning glory’ which I think is a great phrase and always makes me smile) but this week I have been supper hard and throbbing every day and it’s taken quite a while to shift.

This morning I woke up super hard again and could feel it throbbing and bouncing around I actually had to grit my teeth to stop myself touching but I resisted. I tried something jamiesimms suggested in one of his blogs ( viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6482 - great reading his blogs) about lying back with nothing touching me (I sleep naked so just threw my sheet off) put my hands behind my head to stop me touching and just thought dirty. I have cum hands free a couple of times deliberately but that’s not what I was trying here I was just working some mental tension out I guess, hard to explain really but I didn’t ejac anyway but there was quite a bit of pre. Anyway I realized I’d been laying there for ages and now I was really late for work and this oak wasn’t gunna be coming down easily so I thought ‘cold shower’ slipped my boxers on... still hard as! (do you know the expression ‘pitched tent’). Anyway as I was walking down the hall my housemate’s girlfriend came out his room (they both usually leave way earlier than me, turns out she had the day off) and saw me pitched tent and all, I just said ‘morning’ and went into the bathroom, closed the door and heard a little giggle. She’s a good friend of mine aswell and we’ve had pretty open conversations about MB and stuff and I know she’s seen my boner through my jeans before while watching a sex scene in a film so I didn’t feel embarrassed really. It did feel a bit like I’d just walked up to her and said ‘morning, here’s my dick, watch I don’t knock you cuppa tea out your hand’ so felt weird like I’d been caught it was like I was about 13 again even though I wasn’t doing anything, I know she thought I was MBing in the shower which I didn’t!

On my sperm donation they had considered a sperm bank but preferred the idea of using me for a couple of reasons - the child would be as close to being theirs as genetically possible (her partners egg and her brothers sperm), they would know everything about my family history as obviously it’s the same, they can choose to involve me as much or as little as they/we decide and it is basically free (the way we are doing it anyway). The three of us have been to clinics for fertility tests and advice and to learn about the process a lot, none of us are walking into this blind believe me I now know more about my sister-in-laws ovulation and hormone cycles, stress levels and diet and much more that anyone should. Yes a clinic would increase the odds but realistically looking at the statistics not drastically, I already know from tests that I have plenty of swimmers and their all going the right way and are raring to go (which did surprise me given my lifestyle) plus it is phenomenally expensive to use a clinic in the UK (I don’t know about anywhere else) like thousands every time (each month) still with no guarantee of success. Whereas ‘DIY’ we can try for as long as we want spending hardly anything (plastic cups, sterilizing wipes, syringe, ovulation kits and home pregnancy tests) and if in a year or two we decide this really isn’t working they can then look at spending money to increase their chances.

On my personal situation and past depression I have never been able to attribute it to one thing no major event or feeling but a contribution of many things which I think adds to the hopeless ‘why me’ feeling when down. I guess the main one is my sexuality, I am bisexual and spent a lot of my early teens beating myself up about it flipping between liking boy and girls and girls and boys and not knowing who I was or what there was in the world to be (not that I was looking for a label). This meant I wasn’t able to actually throw myself into relationships or dating or even really talking about those things as I felt if I went with a guy and later turned out to be straight I’d have been using him or if I’d gone with a girl and turned out to be gay I’d have been using her. This went on for a long time until I was probably 17 and learned that it was possible to be bisexual and not just gay or straight until then I had thought (mostly from school stories) that bisexual was basically just wanting sex all the time from anyone, not being fussy about who or if you liked them or wanting to do it with boys and girls at the same time - this totally is not the case. I am quite shy and have only had a couple of partners and don’t feel like a sex crazed loon (no more than any other guy my age) and I don’t like the ideas of two partners at once even just as a sex fantasy or in porn. I think of bisexuality now as simply being open to fall for anyone regardless of what dangles between their legs or doesn’t rather than categorizing guys and girls.

While I wrestled with this I developed a pretty heavy drug habit (or several drug habits) in early teens which surely didn’t help me open up and discuss things and work my problems out rather I just retract into my own world. I was bullied by one of my teachers at school (yes my teacher!) not physically but very heavily mentally but this meant I started to switch of at school even though I was a pretty high achiever (blowing my own trumpet) and I lost interest and didn’t turn up much. My dad has basically been absent all my life, I know who he is and see him from time to time and he’s not a bad person or malicious or anything but I don’t think he ever really wanted to be a dad or got what it was, he left my mum when I was about 11 (just when I probably needed him most). My mum was super conservative like ‘there’s ways people should be and behave’ and ‘you shouldn’t rock the boat’ and ‘people don’t need to know your business’ which aren’t really helpful when you have this burning up inside of sexuality and drugs you really should be talking about (both things I was brought up to thing were bad or only what low lives did). Anyway I don’t meant to turn this into a sob story - these are things that have happened to me, that’s life - many people have much bigger and tougher stuff going on than me and I know in many areas of my life I’m quite privileged. This is the internet and so I thought you might want a bit of background without anyone getting too judgmental (I hope).

Phew heavy!, I thought I just joined here to talk about WDs that was some real therapy for me thanks for listening. Maybe more on my past WDs next time or hopefully a new one.

Catch you around.

Thank you for your courage to share so much about yourself so freely. We have a fair bit in common and should talk. I've PM'ed you.

10 days AB!!!!

I woke up about 4am this morning I think in the middle of what was going to be a WD. I woke up super hard and I could feel my dick pulsing and bouncing uncontrollably and I remember what I was dreaming in a lot of detail - I was doing some sort of assault course, it felt kind of like what I imagine a fire service training program to be like. I remember it feeling really hot and I could see smoke and flames around, there were loads of guys probably 70 or 80 all around my age but I didn’t recognize anyone, we were all just in like gym shorts and topless sweaty and sticky running endlessly down stairs and through holes in walls and climbing over things. I know it was training and not a ‘real’ danger cause there were several guys in uniform standing to one side looking at their watches and shouting ‘come on, you can do this faster’ and ‘look he’s beating you’ things like that. It was a really busy hustle of us with guys overtaking in the line, squeezing past each other in tight spaces and I could feel their wet sweaty skin as I went past them or them past me or when we were helping each other through obstacles. There didn’t seem to be a end or somewhere I was trying to get to it was like a continuous loop, I remember going past what I guess was a checkpoint over and over again where someone was writing on a board I guess I was trying to beat my last time but I just kept doing it over and over and over again. It felt like I’d done the course a hundred times and just couldn’t stop, the same stairs and same obstacles again and again and brushing past other guys until all of a sudden a set of stairs just ended and I ran straight off the bottom into a huge water tank. I could feel the water rising up around me as I sank into it and then I felt someone swim up from behind me and put both their arms really tightly around my torso, I could feel their hands moving around my chest and stomach gently but firmly. I didn’t notice the water around me anymore but I could feel that this other person and I were wet and slippery I couldn’t see them though and I wasn’t trying to look at them or see who they were I was just feeling them touch me and I know I was finding it erotic, I could feel myself tingling and writhing around. Then I began to notice the water in the tank again and it was starting to rise around me, I could feel it rising up my legs, over my knees and then I woke up with my dick jumping around lifting my sheet.

I can’t believe how much detail I can remember this is like the most vivid dream I can remember. When I woke up I was sooooo hard and I felt like I was on the verge of cumming but I just wouldn’t, in my dozy state I was thrusting and writhing in my bed like I was trying to cum and then it was like a ‘click!’ in my head that sort of said ‘your awake and your thrusting against your sheets, your not asleep anymore this is’t a WD this counts as MD, your physically stimulating yourself now, that’s cheating, STOP!’ and some how I did just stop all of a sudden, I didn’t cum and I didn’t have a full wet dream but it felt sooooooooooooooooooooooooo good, the dream, the awake writhing around and that I could stop myself even in a dozy half asleep state.

It took me about a hour to get back to sleep, I was just playing the dream back in my head not the feeling but the details remembering what I’d seen and trying to think if I knew any of the faces I was running with or if I’d been anywhere like this before but I didn’t recognize anyone or the place.

This was weird mostly because of how real it was and how much I could feel not just see but also how much I could remember afterwards. I’m bi so I get the sweaty guys thing and the slippery skin but I’ve never had a fireman thing before which felt new and kind of mischievous like something I’d not been able to think about before for some reason. I’m not really into big muscley guys but these were all kind of slim ‘twink’ guys and there weren’t any women anywhere everyone I could see was a guy.

Odd, cool, and so awesome even though I didn’t properly WD or MB.

I have felt myself getting more imaginative in my horniness over the last few days which I guess comes from ABing from porn and my minds doing more work for me which is awesome, if a bit inconvenient at times - like in the middle of work when one of the hot waitresses comes to talk to me (I’m a chef by the way I don’t think I mentioned) my mind starts on it’s own agenda or like the other day when I got home from work and had to stay sat in my car outside my house for like 5 minutes cause I couldn’t shift my boner (I wear very loose trousers in the kitchen cause it gets so hot...... nowhere to tuck a boner).

Anyway felt good putting all that down thanks for listening, I never thought my posts would be this long. Til next time.

Still ABing!!!!!!

It seems like you are getting close rather quickly. Vivid erotic dreams often mean a WD is just around the corner. Keep going!