Wet Dream Forum

Hi so I thought I might just asked for a moment of your time to possibly answer this post. I was hoping for individuals that have and have not achieved a wet dream to write down a Quick summary of some of their first experiences trying to Achieve a wet dream. What I am most interested in is whether or not you looked at porn or any sexual or arousing material at that time or whether you edge or did none of that and the length of time it took you to achieve a wet dream. Thank you for your time

I was most successful by avoiding porn and avoiding edging and just taking my time. after about 3 weeks my libido lowered, first wet dream occurred after about 45 days and after that it has been 3 times per month.

In my experience it makes no difference. I have never noticed any connection between whether or not I've watched porn, or whether I've edged or not, and a subsequent wet dream. Heck, I've even had wet dreams after MB.

But what I would say is that if you are trying to achieve a WD, your best bet is to try and be patient. MB does reduce the chances of a wet dream, so anything you can do to avoid encouraging MB is probably sensible.

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The last time I watched porn on a regular basis was about 3 years ago so I'm not interested in it but I do have a nude picture in my room, also I don't edge either

I think ithat works best if you don't edge or mb because the it's believed that wd is used to keep the old spearm cleaned out and I believe that edging lowers the chance for wd because it primes you wasting some spearm and your seamen. The danger of porn is that it temps you into touching and/or mb.

I have found that abstaining is more a mental discipline than anything else. When I was trying to abstain and looked at porn, even for short moments, I found that my mind would dwell on the sexual aspects and then eventually cause me to Mb. This was particularly challenging for me.

I tried exercise, keeping busy and destroying my porn collection. Nothing really worked until I found another guy that I trusted to share my problem with and keep me accountable. It was a challenge but it did pay off. It took me 45 days to get my first wet dream ever at the age of 30! And let me tell you that blissful moment when I woke up in the middle of an orgasm was intense!

I'd agree with springboy...its all about your approach and mental discipline to ABing.
I failed by taking to mates about horny stuff and thats when you dwell on it and succumb to MBing.
Also your body will be trying everything to make you release from heightened libido to blue balls, precum and faster heart rates lol.

Keep with it!

In my experience it doesn't matter if I look at porn or don't. The most important thing is not to MB or even touch yourself. A lot of ABing is about retraining the brain to a time when you didn't know how to MB. Once your body has re-calibrated to living without physical stimulation, then your brain kicks in and takes over. It subconsciously provides the stimulation at night that you are not physically providing during the day. Personally, this method of ABing has always worked for me and after about 3 weeks I get a WD. I hope this helps.

for me porn or edging seems to delay things from happening. i think its cuz when i watch porn i get super worked up and if im able to keep from jerking off, my mind still thinks i had a release even though i didnt, same with edging. now i have like many still had a WD the day after i jerked off but its not common for me. if i AB i will typically have a WD within a week or so.

the quicker i remove sex from my daily routine the quicker my brain starts dreaming about sex which is pretty much every day, but most sex dreams still pass without actually having an orgasm but i guess the more dream i have the more chances of actually having a WD.

i will say make sure you are getting a good sleep, if your too cold or too hot or u toss and turn all night cuz your bed sucks then your not likely to have much of any dreams. i know this from first hand experience with my own bed causing me bad back problems that started when i was 15. i have a sleep number bed now and OMG it made such a big difference and i was sleeping better than i had been in years and started having multiple dreams per night. it never dawned on me till then that my sleep was so bad that i couldnt remember the last time i had a dream, cuz i wasnt having any. all i did was toss and turn trying to find a position that i could sleep in with no back pain which was usually fetal position but for some reason i cant hold that position long. with my new sleep number bed i was waking up sprawled out on my back and b4 i could never sleep on my back.

anyways something to think about - zACH

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