Wet Dream Forum

To answer Ducker005's questions:

"Do you work out regularly? What's your routine?
Do you edge to porn while AB, or just shower massage? I prefer to massage my balls, it is harder to pass the point-of-no-return.
Can you EJ only with nipple stimulation? It is a stragr feeling but hard not to MB afterwards for me."

I work out 5 days a week, mostly upper body with weight machines, cables and a few free weights.
I don't use porn. By my self-imposed rules I never self stimulate (while ab from ejaculation) except during the shower massage. Even then I follow my own rules of no fantasy, no fast stimulation, no muscle tensing or breath holding. 50 strokes only. I concentrate on the pleasure of each stroke for what it is. So far I have not failed during the shower massage. Failures occurred at other times. Although I find nipple stimulation and feather light touching of the pecs to be very erotic, I have not cum using only these methods.

Day 10
This is the best phase of ab, with all the benefits but no strong urges to cum.

Day 11

Short post due to lack of computer privacy. I'm more aware of the fact that I haven't released since July 7. Overall the benefits of ab are enjoyable.

Day 12

I still feel terrific, horny and full but no sudden urges to cum. My workout at the gym this morning was very intense due to a good T-buzz. Just enjoying one day at a time.

You can do it! We're all with you

I always hate the awkward morning wood when i go to the gym. I'm just like was that necessary

Day 14

Everything is the same. Horny and full, lots of energy, but no strong urges. Overall I'm feeling great. I still do my morning massage during my shower, but now I allow myself 60 strokes instead of 50.

Considering how I feel now, compared to the way I feel when I MB every day, I would permanently give up all orgasms and ejaculations (except for conception purposes) if things could stay just as they are. The problem is how to keep things the same. My biggest problem is the eventual extreme fullness that causes me to fail. Maybe a prostate massage (milking) or "ruined orgasm" might be the solution...

The 60 stroke massage in the morning without orgasm is more pleasurable than a quick jerk off. And strangely I don't feel frustrated or "high and dry" afterward. Actually I am more frustrated if I don't do the 60 strokes.

Hey,


During the July challenge for the first time I started to thing I can try giving up MB and do continuous AB. I love MB and have nothing against the joy but this time AB makes me feel different.

I can understand your point when you say you would permenatly give up EJ.

I don't think it is possible, but a month ago I was thinking the same about MB, not I have my doubts.

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Day 15

At this point I think I am holding the maximum amount of semen that I can hold. I'm beginning to be aware more often that I haven't ejaculated in over 2 weeks. The fullness is more intense than it was several days ago. The third week seems to be a time of feeling really horny, but good. Also, there are times when I begin to want to cum. The urges need to be suppressed if I am to go long term. At this moment I would really like to blow a huge load, but I'm not going to. My will power is starting to be tested, but I plan to stay strong, enjoy the strong sexual tension, and not cum. But OMG I am soooo full and the pressure is becoming very intense.

As I and many others have suggested, the extreme fullness is almost certainly due to your constant edging. Unless you do something different, the same cycle will just keep repeating. But if it works for you, perhaps your best option is to just continue and enjoy this phase of each cycle, then wait for the same enjoyable phase to come around again on the next cycle.

Day 16

Based on my past history, you are exactly right. I keep doing the same thing expecting a different result. The problem for me is that in order to ab for any significant time I have to have some pleasurable stimulation. I've tried a "no touch" method and usually can't go more than 3 or 4 days.

Yesterday I was uber horny and full, and thought about blowing my load. Even this morning I felt the same way. But after a shower and 50 strokes, I felt calm and relaxed (still horny, but in a good way) with no urge to cum.

Day 17 (Wed)

The fullness has gone, but where did it go? I haven't leaked any fluid. Maybe the nerves to my prostate and seminal vesicles have adapted to the constant pressure.

This morning I didn't edge, for the first time in 2 weeks. Maybe I can beat this edging behavior yet. Will try skipping it tomorrow and see how it goes.

I also keep on wondering about this case, one day I felt very full down there, then the next day it felt like nothing. where did it go? anyway goodluck on your journey man.

I've had a similar feeling a few times already, can't explain it either.

Day 18 (Thurs)

I am taking Texanguy's advice and have not edged for the last 2 days. So far I feel OK without edging, and if that will help get a WD then it will be worth it. Right now I'm alone in the house for the first time in weeks, and it would be so easy to MB and blow a huge load... but I'm not going to do it! When I leave the house in a few minutes, my willpower will have prevailed over my horny feeling.

keep it up man, you know you can do it. I do hope you'll get your WD soon

Thanks! It's time to try something different, so give it a good go! See if you can AB longer than you could from having to MB to relieve being overly full and uncomfortable from edging.

Give it some time to recover from all that edging, but soon you should be able to experience and enjoy the t-buzz without edging, and in fact you can reach the point where this new type of t-buzz would be reduced by edging.

This way may be new and different but (perhaps after some time) still pleasurable, and definitely sustainable long term. And hopefully it will soon include memorable and extremely enjoyable WDs!

It's the day 22 for me and I haven't edged even once . Highly recommend it too!

Day 20 - no release
Day 5 - no edging, no touch

Thanks guys for the comments and encouragement.
So far not edging has been easier than I thought it would be. At this point the overall feeling of no release and no touch is positive. I still have lots of energy and T-buzz, and of course I'm horny. But I like the way this feels.

For today, I will not edge or cum.

Good decision! If you don't edge you're less likely to get blue balls

Day 21 No EJ
Day 6 No edging

OMG this is so good. On a scale of 1-10: Horny-7, T-buzz-7, Fullness-3. An added benefit of not edging is that I no longer have to worry about who will come into the bathroom while I'm showering (with a glass door on the shower it could be embarrassing). Like most guys I think no one likes to be "caught" doing it.

For today I will not edge or cum.

Glad it's working for you! All that edging may have enabled you to better enjoy the horniness and t-buzz, and now you can without the edging. I don't know how it was for you before, but AB can allow you to feel the horniness and t-buzz without always getting an erection, which can make it even easier not to MB or edge.

Hopefully you'll start getting some WDs a well!

Day 23
Day 8 - no edging

This morning I am SOOOO horny and full. I really don't think I can hold it any longer.

Of course you can you did all those other times, it's just your brain telling you to MB, but it all comes down to what YOU choose to do. Hope you made it.

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thanks Slider, how you feel is the same as me, so very full and horny. but keep it up for that great t buzz and horny feeling soon you'll bust out a wicked wet dream or se and won't regret it a bit.

thanks for inspiring

I've slipped back to my old ways, MB every day. This time I'm going to try something different. I'm on day 7 now, and have decided to MB once every 7 days. If I can reach an equilibrium only cumming once a week, then maybe I can begin to increase the interval. The hard part will be not MBing multiple times after 7 days of AB. So tomorrow (7 days completed) will be MB day. At this moment I'm uber horny, dripping precum, and just holding on until tomorrow morning.

I know I tried the same thing at one point and you are probably stronger than I am but once I MB once I keep doing it. It's like once I'm off the wagon why even try so I just give in. I hope you find your way man. I don't want you to give up I understand the struggle.

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I think it may take more willpower that way. For one thing, you have to wait several days after MB for the t-buzz to come back. In the meantime, the only way you can come close to duplicating those feelings is to MB again.

You enjoyed the experience of AB with no edging last time more than you thought you would. So if you are going to try the '7 day interval' mode, at least do no edging in between. And if day 7 comes and you don't feel like MBing, force yourself to wait another 7 days before you even consider MB again.

Day 8 Thursday

Thanks for the comments, guys. Having gone a full week I'm really horny and would love to have a release. But as pointed out the T-buzz immediately stops. I had planned to MB today, but I'm undecided about how to proceed, so for today I'm not going to have a release.

The edging issue is hard for me to resolve. Edging for me provides great physical pleasure, and doesn't leave me frustrated due to lack of release. Also, it does not eliminate T-buzz. If anything, it increases it. A possibility would be to have a "ruined orgasm" once a week. I've tried "ruined orgasms" in the past, but I was doing it every day. If I understand the concept correctly I stimulate until I barely reach the point of no return, then stop all stimulation. Usually I will have several weak contractions with a small amount of semen released. If I am very accurate with my timing I can have a "wave" of orgasmic feeling (no contractions), and no semen expelled.

So for today I will not cum.

Day 9 Friday

Since the T-buzz is in full force, I don't want to lose it just to have an ejaculation. I'm very horny today, but it feels great. My workout at the gym this morning was much more intense than when I have no T-buzz. I'm going to edge in the shower this morning, but will try not to edge on Sat or Sun this week. Next week should be one of strong T-buzz, horniness, fullness and an overall energetic sense of well being. If I can avoid the I MUST CUM NOW urge, there won't be a problem.

Day 12 Monday
The last few days have been easy and pleasurable. This is the phase for me that is AB at its best... energy, horniness and moderate fullness, but no urges. I edged on Saturday, but not yesterday. Some soapy stroking would feel so good this morning, but for today I will not cum.