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Hey everyone,
First time poster, long time lurker.

So i have finally decided to take the plunge and embark on my first serious attempt at a wd. I believe i have a good understanding of what i am in for so lets are how this goes.

I have explored abstaining before but never taken it far enough to actually experience a wd. Currently, it has been 2 days since my last mb and it is quite challenging already lol. Previously i was mb ing about two to three times per day. I've lost a fair bit of weight recently and gained some muscle mass and i am unsure if it is coincidence but i have found I feel more aroused more frequently and unsure if this is connected to the weight loss a and exercise.

Besides mb, I've used those hypnosis recordings and wow, not quite a want certainly quite powerful. Anyway, this will hopefully be a means to track my progress and ultimately, success.

I am hoping that i can achieve it by the end of next month but if not, atleast make some good progress on ab discipline. I've removed all possible temptation, archived up my porn, and blocked browser settings to my usual sites and the sequence of numbers is with a friend, they don't know what its for. I've also gone back to sleeping in boxer briefs to remove any unwanted movements lol.

Here goes nothing. Don't know if i will stick with it forever but certainly willing to beat my mb addiction and explore something a bit more... Intense. I have had an se recently and wow. I woke up rock hard and super horny, stood up and next minute i could feel it starting... Next minute it happened. That was after 9 days of no mb so hopefully, if i can control myself physically, that my brain can do the rest.

Any advice or pointers? How does a wd compare to the erotic hypnosis tracks like the jackpot one?

Anyway, first milestone is 7 days so lets see how it goes... Currently i could probably mb about 3 consecutive times but... It is not happening... Self control!

Hey 11235,

Welcome on board. Sounds like your ambition is similar to mine, to experience a WD and enjoy the new sensations that AB will bring.
Exercise, building muscle mass and losing weight boost your Testosterone quite significantly. You get a double effect as lean muscle is a T factory and by contrast fat destroys it.

The extra T combined with better muscle tone and the increased nerve connectivity that comes from muscle training has a big effect on your body's ability to enjoy stimulation. I found that when I changed my lifestyle some years ago and built an athletic rather than bulky physique, my ability to enjoy sex and stimulation increased massively. The power of my orgasms and the size of my load took off as well and new stamina in the bedroom made me able to perform for hours, so I have never looked back since. The best way for anyone to improve their sexual performance and enjoyment into simply get fit and build some functional muscle, so your experience with this does not surprise me.

As far as tips, I found that edging when I feel like an full MB helped settle me down and prevented me from needing to blow a load for another day. My first AB was like a sexually charged fog. My log is Joining the quest if you want to read about it.

Enjoy your journey, this is a good group all here to help you.

Hello 11235, welcome.
I'l also kind new on the forum, this is my 4th day of AB.
Hope everything is going ok. Good luck on achieving your goals.

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Hey man good luck on this journey. It is very tough i know myself because I struggle to AB also.

Thank you for all the advice so far, certainly interesting to see how everyone travels along to reach success.

So today marks the end of day 3. I was fairly stressed at work, last day before leave however still enjoying this buzz/feeling from abstaining... Today it was like at moments i was so aroused, not physically but like throughout my body.

Some changes i have noticed is i feel a lot more energetic, the smallest things are starting to set me off. Like today this girl at work was showing me something, leaned over my shoulder (intentionally pressing against the back of my shoulder) and her perfume scent it well, i could have parked the thought and used it later... But i will resist.

Although feeling great, i still feel this compulsion to mb.. Not so much for the physical release but more that feeling after where you just feel... Euphoric. Anway, ive dropped around 12per cent body fat in four months and my lean muscle is increasing so that plus the abstaining is really making me feel good. Finally building uo some self confidence!

No interesting dreams, well none that i can remember. Hopefully at least something fun.

Also i was thinking about it today, with those hypnosis tracks that can take you from calm to hard and blowing a load without moving a hand or finger, a lot of that would be achieved through the brain triggering some sort of reaction or process. So, if one was to respond well to the hypnosis and achieve orgasm quite easily (just going along with thr track) do you think it would come into play with a wd. As from what i have read here yhere are two main factors conducive to a wd, physical build up and the brain triggering the body to release it... So would this help with the latter.

Anyway, off to sleep... Starting to get drowsy and best to keep my hands together under my pillow so as not to do anything counter productive lol

Ok so this post is more of a distraction more than anything. So i woke up half an hour ago feeling really strange and super hard for no apparent reason and also feeling my groin contract and tighten, almost like an orgasm... The pulsating has kind of stopped but i can feel as if a fair bit of pre has come out. The slightest movement on to my side was making it worse but it has been half an hour and ive still got this tingling and pleasurable sensation throughout my body. Hoping by writing this it will help it pass.

If this is what half a wd is, im certainly in for a surprise!

Sounds like you will splashing a WD soon enough.
Good luck and happy dreaming.

Hey 11235,

If you check my post (http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6086), last night i've also suffer from contractions on my penis. Woke up 2 times in the night rock hard and with my penis pulsing. Thought i was going to have an WD. But no. There were no pre cum and no cum, at all. For what i've read, is common to suffer from those sometime before an WD. So, it's good.

Good luck on that. Keep posting!

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Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
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Well so i am here with some mixed news this mornings... Incident didn't end well.. It started back when i went back to sleep... I woke up, kinda knew where it was going so i just laid back and went with it, 20 minutes later... Fireworks. I didn't use my hands or do anything to physically induce it.. My body just did it. I see it as more of an SE than Mb as my body just did it.. It was like i was in a trance just lying work my eyes open.

That is the bad news, good news was i almost mb'd, i wrapped my hand around in the shower, stroked few times then found the control to stop. I've lost TBA at getting full feeling i had before this morning but the arousal levels remain.

I am heading over to check out your journal now.. All the best!



A lot of truth there mate, i love what exercise does for the body. Ive dropped around 12kgand my trainer reckons my body fat per centage has substantially dropped as ive lost over 30cm in measurements and visibly building muscle.
I am glad to hear there is a connection or at least others feel a change to testosterone levels when doing extra exercise or building muscle. Idk it is awesome where i used to hae shocking self image perception now i find myself surprised and pleased with my body. Thx for the advice.

Happy training and abstaining!

Hello there 11235,

Very glad to hear you managed to control the will to mb. It's not easy, most definitely not easy at all. But beginning to have the strength to stop is an excellent sigh that you're beginning to not only training your body on AB, but more important your mind is beginning to reset to a no mb mode. But as boxer once said, we're young and our bodies are regulated to cum every time we get excited. So, nicely done.

Regarding your ejaculation last night, where you erected? Normally SE occur with your penis flaccid? Asking this because that could be your first WD. You woke up hard, stimulated and, although you keep aware, your penis continue to be stimulated (not my you) and then you cum. Maybe you've experience your first WD full awake. Not sure, but is possible.

Keep posting, really nice to hear you.

_________________
Ever tried.
Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

11235,

Great to hear your fitness story and your SE story. I don't know where you started, but it sounds like you have made huge progress.

Keep going. The more fat you loose and the more muscle mass you gain, the higher your T potential is, but you must have the right diet too.

I managed to increase my T from average to practically off the scale simply with exercise and the right food and some zinc and magnesium. All absolutely and completely naturally.

T is a crazy hormone. Confidence, focus, calmness and massive sex drive and levels of arousal are possible. Increased aggression is actually a myth.

Sounds like you are doing all the right thinks to get your WD. Keep posting.

Ok, so after my last failed attempt snd some issues i think that i am in a much better position to give this another crack.

Basically, my last attempt kind of died and i lost focus. I think this was to do with upcoming surgery and well mb was a stress relief for me in the lead up to the surgery. Nothing serious judt jaw surgery but i was extremely anxious and well i found taking matters in to my own hands so to speak, really helped.

Anyway i am back in a similar position to late December. Over and completely bored of mb. I used to love it and found it fun. Whereas recently it feels like a chore and and not as powerful as it used to. Sometimes its good sometimes im left with a feeling of wanting a stronger release.

So yesh, back for another attempt at kicking a habit and want to see how i go. I knoe a lot of my friends are observing lent, im not catholic however seems like a good opportunity to try and also give up a habit. Also reinstate s strict diet now thst i am back at the gym and have completely recovered from surgery.

I havr also noticed that after an mb session i end up binging on junk food. Anyone else notice things like this? I know one of my friends was sayimg they have a need to smoke afterwards andi guess its just hormone related.

But yeah, last mb was Tuesday night, probably could have done it one more time last night for the fun of it but i thought well it really wont help.

From past experience i found that once i got to around 4 days it got challenging so hopefully i will have s bit more resilience. However i stopped sleeping in like pyjama pants with boxer briefs to just pyjama shorts and i found the moving around snd all was something i eould have to get used to.

Ugh, well today

Survived two edging sessions that I didn't want to have to begin with but well, glad I made it through.

I think it is going to take a few days to get used to this. I think I am so used to having time alone and one thing needs to another and well 'lets just quickly look...' then you get hard and yeah. Needed to be a bit more proactive in stopping that. Dug out an old rubix cube and have it handy to distract myself should it happen again.

I know last time I had some mixed success and hopefully, I want to set a goal of 40 days, even if I had one of those spontaneous/hands free things I could live. THe main thing is I need to ensure that it is not a conscious or voluntary action.

Day 2: SURVIVED! Off to bed now and yeah -- normally before starting, I would have MB'd about 4 - 5 times by now. SO that is a small achievement in itself, I guess.

Alright, so after about 9 months of not keeping with my goal, I'm back and ready to start again!

I'm currently starting day 3 and in a very, very determined mood. I've dealt in the past with my ability to channel my bodie's urges and not use MB as a release, typically, I use those hypnosis recordings and my brain -- far more intense. One positive to this over normal MB is that the frequency has dropped, in a world where time or privacy is not an issue, i'd happily seek release about 3 times per day

I have noticed one thing, I feel extremely focused, moreso than last. For functional (not medical reasons) i'm booking in to be circ'd in Feb next year. It is something I have always wanted (found it quite exciting/erotic) but never seriously entertained the idea until recently. I'm not happy with the retraction I have on my foreskin and even putting a rubber on causes too much pain or friction. I saw my GP as i've booked in with a specialist surgeon who predominately does the procedure with an aesthetic outcome, and she basically said there isn't a current medical reason. i.e. its not diagnosed due to some bacteria/germ nor is it the condition where it tightens/closes from scarring. SHe believes it is just one of those things where the foreskin isn't big enough for me. Physically everything looks fine but its trying to retract and friction that causes a problem. Ultimately, it's a decision i've made for myself. In the future, when I have kids it wont influence my decision for them. It's something they can decide if they need and/or want when they are older.

So, with that coming up there is the recovery period of no sex/mb for about 6 weeks. Minimum 2-3 weeks but to eliminate chances of scarring etc, you're meant to wait the full 6 weeks, Here in lies a massive problem -- not that I can't abstain but getting used to that 'full' feeling and every other awesome feeling that comes with with abstaining for WD's. I have about 6-9 weeks to get in a good zone and prepare my body for dealing with it's urges.

Just a rambling note, after not realising i'm on day 3 already -- its funny how much more you notice the increased mental clarity you have. Hoping for a WD by Christmas however -- sometimes when i'm abstaining I get these lucid semi-awake/semi-asleep/paralysed 'events' where my body brings me to orgasm, I think this is a result of its need to find release and that normally using those hypnosis recordings (Jackpot/no hands 1-6) etc has kind of primed my brain and given it the ability to induce/replicate orgasm.

Anyway, strictly no MB at all. WHatever my brain/body decides to do is it's own decision and i'll just run with it!

Signing off with an iron-like/completely focused will to not MB once over the next 4months,

Good luck on all accounts, soon I guess mb really won't be an option for you

I hope the surgery went well bud. I'm sure the recovery is going to suck, but it will get better. Keep us posted on how your doing. Best of luck to you.