AB and sexual preferences

[InterestedGirl]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

[Rey92]

hahaha that's cool. When I Ab (as a straight guy) whenever I see sexy girls, it really hits me hard. It's so nice.
But when I'm not Ab, it's just like normal.

[bigguyatNYU]

I think this happens to me too! And I thought I was just crazy for thinking so... I'm bi, sexually more into guys and romantically more into girls. But when I'm t-buzzin' and AB, I definitely both a) fantasize and think about girls sexually more often and b) seem to be smoother and more natural when interacting with girls in a flirtatious way. Just another great (unexpected) side effect of AB...even though it's likely all in my head.

[InterestedGirl]

I think this happens to me too! And I thought I was just crazy for thinking so... I'm bi, sexually more into guys and romantically more into girls. But when I'm t-buzzin' and AB, I definitely both a) fantasize and think about girls sexually more often and b) seem to be smoother and more natural when interacting with girls in a flirtatious way. Just another great (unexpected) side effect of AB...even though it's likely all in my head.

That's how I am, too, more sexually interested in guys but more emotionally interested in girls. I read someplace many bi ppl, male and female, are like that. I guess cause women are more emotional in general and therefor are percieved as being better emotional/romantic partners, while men are typically more openly sexual than women and may therefor appear to be better partners for sex. I'm surprised at times when I realize how much the sex appeal of men is underestimated in our culture. I guess it's partly because this is a straight male dominated society, but I think ancient Rome was, too, yet they understood the attratcion of the male form. Just look at all those statues, with the chisled faces and long, lean muscles... Oh crud, now I need a cold shower.

[person101]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

I have abstained a few years back, when i didn't have the time to MB (exams and stuff) I found that i got turned on by EVERYTHING. My cat,nicely designed websites, cute animals, old women, girls, even guys raely. Even though im straight.

[Jkwdoc]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

Fascinating how our bodies tell us what they need .

There's some varied abuse in my background, so my sexual desires tend to span rather wide and eccentric. When I've had to AB for some time, though, it's true that my compass points back towards my true North - college-age coeds with athletic, petite physiques. Gets me every time .

[InterestedGirl]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

I have abstained a few years back, when i didn't have the time to MB (exams and stuff) I found that i got turned on by EVERYTHING. My cat,nicely designed websites, cute animals, old women, girls, even guys raely. Even though im straight.

LOL, me too. Here's a quote from my journal tonight:
I'm so aroused I feel a lil light-headed, like if I'm walking I have to stop for a minute and lean against the wall (mmm, that's a sexy word "wall"...). Now that I think of it the edge of my door looks pretty humpable, too...LOL Clearly my mind is pretty much mush at this point! The spoon I atem y supper with had some rather nice curves too...

[InterestedGirl]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

Fascinating how our bodies tell us what they need .

There's some varied abuse in my background, so my sexual desires tend to span rather wide and eccentric. When I've had to AB for some time, though, it's true that my compass points back towards my true North - college-age coeds with athletic, petite physiques. Gets me every time .

I like how you put it "varied interest, but it always comes back to true North". I think that's hoe it is with me, I like a variety of ppl, male and female, and have loads of fetishes too, but I think my attraction to sort of cute, baby-faced guys in the neighbor hood of 20, with slightly stocky build and hair around shoulder-length see Exhibit A Mr. Tom Chaplin in attachment) is the base of my sexuality.

[fightmaster24]

In my culture, girls are expected to stay virgin until marriage and their access to and interactions with men are closely monitored. Hence it is not uncommon for men to not have had sex with a woman well into their twenties or thirties.

I'm in my late twenties and have not had sex with a woman till date. That has not prevented me from having WDs where women have played a starring role. But frankly, WDs starring men are more common. This is perhaps augumented by the fact that much erotic activity in day to day life happens between men, the male sex drive being what it is. Why even yesterday I spent a considerable portion of my travel time enjoying the casual erotic ministrations of a fella (in public) who took a fancy to me.

Also, in my country, the vast majority of men you see walking the streets are well-proportioned, masculine and attractive. By contrast, the vast majority of women are heifers.
I am simply not used to seeing women as sexual creatures (outside of Baywatch, porn etc). The very idea of any of the monstrosities that I see on a daily basis getting sexual with me is enough to turn my stomach.

And while my "preferences" do not change during AB, I do notice that I feel more masculine; that is to say, aggressive, dominant and with a desire to do manly things, like go to the gym more than usual.

[Jkwdoc]

OK, so I'm bisexual and have noticed when ABing I tend to get "straighter". Like, when I'm not ABing I tend to be more turned on by guys anyway, but still also by girls, too (like on a scale of 1-10, I'm like an 8 for guys but a 6 for girls). But when I AB, although my interest in sex in general goes up, my interest in boys goes up at a greater rate than my interest in girls. When AB I'm more like girls 8 guys 20 on the 1-10 scale. I've also noticed I tend to feel more sexually dominant and even aggressive during AB, whereas when I'm MBing I have a more submisive, "just lay back and let my partner do everything" kinda attitude. I don't know if anyone elsehere is bi, but even if you're not, have you noticed any changes in your sexual desires/fantasies since ABing?

Fascinating how our bodies tell us what they need .

There's some varied abuse in my background, so my sexual desires tend to span rather wide and eccentric. When I've had to AB for some time, though, it's true that my compass points back towards my true North - college-age coeds with athletic, petite physiques. Gets me every time .

I like how you put it "varied interest, but it always comes back to true North". I think that's hoe it is with me, I like a variety of ppl, male and female, and have loads of fetishes too, but I think my attraction to sort of cute, baby-faced guys in the neighbor hood of 20, with slightly stocky build and hair around shoulder-length see Exhibit A Mr. Tom Chaplin in attachment) is the base of my sexuality.

Everyone has a flavor

There are a number of sexual pathologists and therapists that investigate the varying sexual maturity levels of adults. One theory is that there comes a certain period in our development where our sexual predilections become very impressionable. And for the rest of our life, that period is what we identify with sexually. And God help the people who happen to be in an abusive environment during this period, because their wiring gets majorly hosed...scientifically speaking .