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The meaning of SE

Postby LuvsCurvy » Mon Jul 08, 2013 9:11 am

I see the term SE used a lot on here, but am pretty sure there are two meanings for it being used interchangeably. Spontaneous Emission (where fluid comes out but you don't have an orgasm) and Spontaneous Ejaculation (where fluid comes out because you had a full-blown orgasm, but didn't touch yourself).

Which one is it? They are totally different things and I find it really confusing trying to figure out which one people are referring to.
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Re: The meaning of SE

Postby AGT » Mon Jul 08, 2013 1:41 pm

LuvsCurvy wrote:I see the term SE used a lot on here, but am pretty sure there are two meanings for it being used interchangeably. Spontaneous Emission (where fluid comes out but you don't have an orgasm) and Spontaneous Ejaculation (where fluid comes out because you had a full-blown orgasm, but didn't touch yourself).

Which one is it? They are totally different things and I find it really confusing trying to figure out which one people are referring to.


I would say that an SE (Spontaneous Ejaculation) is where fluid comes out but you don't have an orgasm.

The scenario where where fluid comes out because you had a full-blown orgasm, but didn't touch yourself, should be called a Hands Free ejaculation.

The scenario where where fluid comes out because you had a full-blown orgasm, but didn't touch yourself, AND you were asleep when it happened, should be called a Wet Dream.

But then, I am not an expert on these matters. :confusion-shrug:
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Re: The meaning of SE

Postby Zach » Mon Jul 08, 2013 4:22 pm

this is just my opinion and please dont grill me if u disagree but ive always considered a hands free to be from mental masturbation. where u think about sex or whatever turns u on and u cause yourself to buildup to the point of orgasm, meaning it was done on purpose with the intent of having a orgasm.

SE or spontaneous ejaculation to me is involuntary whether u orgasm or not and happens without intent.

i have had 2 what i call SEs and neither felt like a conventional orgasm but on one there was a orgasm of sorts. i dont remember which but one just kinda started flowing as i recall and then stopped and didnt really have a orgasm to speak of and i remember thinking at the time that jerking off would feel really good right now. the second one started pretty much the same way but i got super lightheaded like when i have an orgasm and felt hot like the temp suddenly went up several degrees. then as it was flowing out i recall it started pulsing a bit but not as hard as normal orgasm but started out slow and progressed faster and faster with each pulse. i had a super great feeling of contentment. when it stopped i felt like i was dreaming and then realized i was sitting in class with 35 other kids and i had a HUGE jizz stain on my pants.

anyways just my thoughts - zACH
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Re: The meaning of SE

Postby AGT » Tue Jul 09, 2013 1:50 am

Zach wrote:this is just my opinion and please dont grill me if u disagree but ive always considered a hands free to be from mental masturbation. where u think about sex or whatever turns u on and u cause yourself to buildup to the point of orgasm, meaning it was done on purpose with the intent of having a orgasm.

anyways just my thoughts - zACH


Good point, Zach. Hands Free is definitely mental masturbation!! So, maybe an SE(jaculation) includes a full blown orgasm, while an SE(mission) has no associated orgasm.

Hhhhmmmm, Interesting.
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Re: The meaning of SE

Postby Eleazar » Mon Aug 05, 2013 12:54 am

Zach wrote:this is just my opinion and please dont grill me if u disagree but ive always considered a hands free to be from mental masturbation. where u think about sex or whatever turns u on and u cause yourself to buildup to the point of orgasm, meaning it was done on purpose with the intent of having a orgasm.

SE or spontaneous ejaculation to me is involuntary whether u orgasm or not and happens without intent.

i have had 2 what i call SEs and neither felt like a conventional orgasm but on one there was a orgasm of sorts. i dont remember which but one just kinda started flowing as i recall and then stopped and didnt really have a orgasm to speak of and i remember thinking at the time that jerking off would feel really good right now. the second one started pretty much the same way but i got super lightheaded like when i have an orgasm and felt hot like the temp suddenly went up several degrees. then as it was flowing out i recall it started pulsing a bit but not as hard as normal orgasm but started out slow and progressed faster and faster with each pulse. i had a super great feeling of contentment. when it stopped i felt like i was dreaming and then realized i was sitting in class with 35 other kids and i had a HUGE jizz stain on my pants.

anyways just my thoughts - zACH


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