I hate edging!

[InterestedGirl]

Last night I had kind of a bad experience with edging. I had actually told myself I'd be on no-touch this month, but I was listening to a guided edging audio and decided it'd be fun to join in. I really meant to just edge and not cum. Really! But 7 minutes and about 3 edges in I almost lost it, in fact actually I think I did cum a tiny bit, and then 16 minutes and maybe 12 edges in I lost it even more, not total orgasm, but enough that I lost some of my arousal and took several minutes of really furious, determined MB to get the edge back. That has happened to me before, losing arousal after almost coming and having to work hard to get it back, and I hate it! After last night's incident, I started thinking about my experiences with edging and I've reached the conclusion that I suck at it. Sure, once in awhile I enjoy edging a couple times to intensify my orgasm, but lengthy, many-edged sessions just aren't for me, I think. As I said, I often lose arousal and then have to work to get it back, typically stop a second too late, and sometimes end up with a ruined orgasm, which makes me completely crazy. I may get better with continued practice, but I'm a quick cummer by nature, which I guess is odd for a female, but then so are other things about me, like having WD. For me lasting 10 minutes is good, on average, and 15 is about the limit for a session that's more satisfying than frustrating for me, I think. I guess it's good I'm a girl, cause if I was a guy and was this way in intercourse, I'd prolly have trouble, since I think most girls like going at it longer (and since I'm a virgin I don't know, but I could very well take longer to cum in intercourse than I do by MB).

[Zach]

Last night I had kind of a bad experience with edging. I had actually told myself I'd be on no-touch this month, but I was listening to a guided edging audio and decided it'd be fun to join in. I really meant to just edge and not cum. Really! But 7 minutes and about 3 edges in I almost lost it, in fact actually I think I did cum a tiny bit, and then 16 minutes and maybe 12 edges in I lost it even more, not total orgasm, but enough that I lost some of my arousal and took several minutes of really furious, determined MB to get the edge back. That has happened to me before, losing arousal after almost coming and having to work hard to get it back, and I hate it! After last night's incident, I started thinking about my experiences with edging and I've reached the conclusion that I suck at it. Sure, once in awhile I enjoy edging a couple times to intensify my orgasm, but lengthy, many-edged sessions just aren't for me, I think. As I said, I often lose arousal and then have to work to get it back, typically stop a second too late, and sometimes end up with a ruined orgasm, which makes me completely crazy. I may get better with continued practice, but I'm a quick cummer by nature, which I guess is odd for a female, but then so are other things about me, like having WD. For me lasting 10 minutes is good, on average, and 15 is about the limit for a session that's more satisfying than frustrating for me, I think. I guess it's good I'm a girl, cause if I was a guy and was this way in intercourse, I'd prolly have trouble, since I think most girls like going at it longer (and since I'm a virgin I don't know, but I could very well take longer to cum in intercourse than I do by MB).

my gf is a quick cummer too and ive always been told girls take a long time but that is not the case with my gf. that will make it easier on me when we do finally have sex cuz there is no way i will last 5 min my first time much less 10 or 15 min. ill just have to do it more than once to go longer than 5 min.