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Having sex without coming
by nofap » Thu Jun 27, 2013 4:54 am
I had sex with a guy 5 days ago. I had abstained from masturbation and sex since April 17, 2013. So I told him I wanted to have sex without having an orgasm. I asked him to penetrate me without touching my penis. He managed to do it and it was absolutely fantastic!! Some of the best sex I have ever had... The only problem is that the accumulated energy seems to have numbed my ability to feel pain during penetration. He kept penetrating for me for a very long time, and as I did not have an orgasm, I just encouraged him to keep on going, I was enjoying it a lot... I usually ask my partner to stop right after I have an orgasm, otherwise it hurts too much. But this time I allowed myself to be penetrated much longer and now I am very sore !! I enjoyed being able to have sex wihout losing any energy, but I got hurt much more than usual. Another very interesting thing is that although I didn't have an actual orgasm, I felt as though I had had one. It felt like my brain had had an orgasm... I was totally satisfied afterwards.... I would like to repeat the experience but without getting hurt... It's the first time ever I have been penetrated without having a spontaneous orgasm. It seems like not masturbating for so long has given me more control over whether I have an orgasm or not... I feel more in control... Any thoughts or advice about that?
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Re: Having sex without coming
by AGT » Thu Jun 27, 2013 10:15 am
Sex that hurts! Sex without an orgasm!
Why even bother? You feel good, but don't want to feel the ultimate sexual pleasure - an orgasm!!!
It simply doesn't make any sense to me. I just don't understand it.
I am not condemning anyone, just voicing my opinion. 
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Re: Having sex without coming
by Muz » Thu Jun 27, 2013 12:05 pm
nofap wrote:I had sex with a guy 5 days ago. I had abstained from masturbation and sex since April 17, 2013. So I told him I wanted to have sex without having an orgasm. I asked him to penetrate me without touching my penis. He managed to do it and it was absolutely fantastic!! Some of the best sex I have ever had... The only problem is that the accumulated energy seems to have numbed my ability to feel pain during penetration. He kept penetrating for me for a very long time, and as I did not have an orgasm, I just encouraged him to keep on going, I was enjoying it a lot... I usually ask my partner to stop right after I have an orgasm, otherwise it hurts too much. But this time I allowed myself to be penetrated much longer and now I am very sore !! I enjoyed being able to have sex wihout losing any energy, but I got hurt much more than usual. Another very interesting thing is that although I didn't have an actual orgasm, I felt as though I had had one. It felt like my brain had had an orgasm... I was totally satisfied afterwards.... I would like to repeat the experience but without getting hurt... It's the first time ever I have been penetrated without having a spontaneous orgasm. It seems like not masturbating for so long has given me more control over whether I have an orgasm or not... I feel more in control... Any thoughts or advice about that?
I assume this is homosexual anal penetration... I reckon its good that you and your boyfriend enjoyed a nice long sex session, and to not get hurt I would recommend you use more lube, or if already using plenty, use something thicker and slicker. Also, cleaning out before with enemas is good, then you don't have to be worrying about making a mess unexpectedly. Also, warm up! using fingers and slow sex, even if he's in you, it still takes some time to loosen up and relax.
I reckon that if you are aroused and really enjoying the penetration, you may just ejaculate, however I have also experienced the "Mind orgasm" you speak of, and it is great! Keep doing that if you can 
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Re: Having sex without coming
by nofap » Sun Jun 30, 2013 12:54 am
It was a homosexual anal penetration. I really appreciate your advice! I will definitely have to try it again with more lube and also, something thicker and slicker. I think using fingers and slow sex, as you said, even after he's in me will really help! You are absolutely right. My boyfriend was very excited and he just got inside me too fast and started pumping very hard right away! I will ask him to give me some time to loosen up and relax next time; to do it slowly and gently at first. I have very little experience being penetrated and your advice really helps! Thank you! It's something very important for me because I really enjoyed having a man inside me!
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Re: Having sex without coming
by Muz » Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:35 pm
Your welcome, I'm glad my advice was well recoeved.
Feel free to pm me if you want or ask more explicit questions.
Good luck! Be safe, have fun & enjoy!!!
2013 WD vs. AB(time) : [WD@ day 11. WD@ day 37.] [WD@ day 4.] [WD@ day 18.] [WD@ day 31, WD@ day 38] [WD @ day 6, WD@ day 40
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Having sex without coming
by nofap » Thu Jun 27, 2013 4:54 am
I had sex with a guy 5 days ago. I had abstained from masturbation and sex since April 17, 2013. So I told him I wanted to have sex without having an orgasm. I asked him to penetrate me without touching my penis. He managed to do it and it was absolutely fantastic!! Some of the best sex I have ever had... The only problem is that the accumulated energy seems to have numbed my ability to feel pain during penetration. He kept penetrating for me for a very long time, and as I did not have an orgasm, I just encouraged him to keep on going, I was enjoying it a lot... I usually ask my partner to stop right after I have an orgasm, otherwise it hurts too much. But this time I allowed myself to be penetrated much longer and now I am very sore !! I enjoyed being able to have sex wihout losing any energy, but I got hurt much more than usual. Another very interesting thing is that although I didn't have an actual orgasm, I felt as though I had had one. It felt like my brain had had an orgasm... I was totally satisfied afterwards.... I would like to repeat the experience but without getting hurt... It's the first time ever I have been penetrated without having a spontaneous orgasm. It seems like not masturbating for so long has given me more control over whether I have an orgasm or not... I feel more in control... Any thoughts or advice about that?
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Re: Having sex without coming
by AGT » Thu Jun 27, 2013 10:15 am
Sex that hurts! Sex without an orgasm!
Why even bother? You feel good, but don't want to feel the ultimate sexual pleasure - an orgasm!!!
It simply doesn't make any sense to me. I just don't understand it.
I am not condemning anyone, just voicing my opinion.
Why even bother? You feel good, but don't want to feel the ultimate sexual pleasure - an orgasm!!!
It simply doesn't make any sense to me. I just don't understand it.
I am not condemning anyone, just voicing my opinion.
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- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
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- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 14 Jul 2013
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Re: Having sex without coming
by Muz » Thu Jun 27, 2013 12:05 pm
nofap wrote:I had sex with a guy 5 days ago. I had abstained from masturbation and sex since April 17, 2013. So I told him I wanted to have sex without having an orgasm. I asked him to penetrate me without touching my penis. He managed to do it and it was absolutely fantastic!! Some of the best sex I have ever had... The only problem is that the accumulated energy seems to have numbed my ability to feel pain during penetration. He kept penetrating for me for a very long time, and as I did not have an orgasm, I just encouraged him to keep on going, I was enjoying it a lot... I usually ask my partner to stop right after I have an orgasm, otherwise it hurts too much. But this time I allowed myself to be penetrated much longer and now I am very sore !! I enjoyed being able to have sex wihout losing any energy, but I got hurt much more than usual. Another very interesting thing is that although I didn't have an actual orgasm, I felt as though I had had one. It felt like my brain had had an orgasm... I was totally satisfied afterwards.... I would like to repeat the experience but without getting hurt... It's the first time ever I have been penetrated without having a spontaneous orgasm. It seems like not masturbating for so long has given me more control over whether I have an orgasm or not... I feel more in control... Any thoughts or advice about that?
I assume this is homosexual anal penetration... I reckon its good that you and your boyfriend enjoyed a nice long sex session, and to not get hurt I would recommend you use more lube, or if already using plenty, use something thicker and slicker. Also, cleaning out before with enemas is good, then you don't have to be worrying about making a mess unexpectedly. Also, warm up! using fingers and slow sex, even if he's in you, it still takes some time to loosen up and relax.
I reckon that if you are aroused and really enjoying the penetration, you may just ejaculate, however I have also experienced the "Mind orgasm" you speak of, and it is great! Keep doing that if you can
2013 WD vs. AB(time) : [WD@ day 11. WD@ day 37.] [WD@ day 4.] [WD@ day 18.] [WD@ day 31, WD@ day 38] [WD @ day 6, WD@ day 40
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Re: Having sex without coming
by nofap » Sun Jun 30, 2013 12:54 am
It was a homosexual anal penetration. I really appreciate your advice! I will definitely have to try it again with more lube and also, something thicker and slicker. I think using fingers and slow sex, as you said, even after he's in me will really help! You are absolutely right. My boyfriend was very excited and he just got inside me too fast and started pumping very hard right away! I will ask him to give me some time to loosen up and relax next time; to do it slowly and gently at first. I have very little experience being penetrated and your advice really helps! Thank you! It's something very important for me because I really enjoyed having a man inside me!
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 1
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Apr 2013
- Sex: Male
Re: Having sex without coming
by Muz » Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:35 pm
Your welcome, I'm glad my advice was well recoeved.
Feel free to pm me if you want or ask more explicit questions.
Good luck! Be safe, have fun & enjoy!!!
Feel free to pm me if you want or ask more explicit questions.
Good luck! Be safe, have fun & enjoy!!!
2013 WD vs. AB(time) : [WD@ day 11. WD@ day 37.] [WD@ day 4.] [WD@ day 18.] [WD@ day 31, WD@ day 38] [WD @ day 6, WD@ day 40
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 2
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 13 Sep 2013
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