so lets see...I had some questions so I signed up for the forum here. Im hoping to learn some stuff. So here's my story and a few questions to go with it.
First off, I am a 22 year old male from pennsylvania. I would say I started puberty right in the middle of the crowd, and was completely developed (downstairs) around the age of 17 I would say. During that time I experienced tons of erections, all the time. But never did I have a wet dream. Some mornings I would wake up with precum flowing, but that was always it. I never seemed to have many sexual dreams either, and even to this day they are pretty rare.
About 3 years ago (age 19), I experienced my very first kinda wet dream haha. I was extremely stressed and overly tired at the time. I fell asleep one night and dreamed I was hooking up with some random girl at a party. As I was about to cum in my dream, I woke up and found myself mid ejaculation. Unfortunately me jumping awake stopped my orgasm completely and I never "finished" and therefor only had a partial wet dream. Has anyone else experienced waking up during one of their wet dreams?
Over the past winter (now 22 years old) I became interested in the whole no masturbation fad, and decided to give it a try. I did it for the benefits, not primarily to have a wd. As I went further into the nofap thing, I was really hoping to experience a wd mostly as a release but also because I somehow felt that I had maybe missed out on an experience that many men have in their lives, even if it wasn't something particularly pleasant. I did nofap for a total of 33 days, and I hadn't experienced anything as far as a wd or even sexual dreams. I only had crazy and vivid dreams but nothing sexual. After 33 days, I just jerked off and gave up.
I figured I wasn't a huge fan of nofap, but I was going to try to just hold off and not masturbate quite as often. This brings us to this week. I masturbated around sunday, and was not expecting anything as far as a wet dream is concerned. Last night I had a dream, of very light sexual nature. In the dream a girl was dancing with me. thats it. Next thing I know, I wake up and sure enough, I had a wet dream, and I was caught completely off guard and kinda irritated by it, as there was quite a mess. What I don't understand is how a dream that slight in sexual nature caused a wd?!? I didn't orgasm in my dream either, I just woke up to a mess. Is that the usual? Lasty, I recently had an extremely realistic sex dream about a girl I know very well. I felt everything in the dream and it seemed so real. At the end, I came in my dream...but when I woke up, there was no cum or even precum and I wasnt really even that hard, yet in the dream the orgasm felt so strong and real. Is that normal?
Sorry for the long and somewhat boring post, I mostly just wanted to throw my whole story out and see if anyone had any input
