Those who read my posts may know that I tend to fluctuate around on my goals for AB from time to time. The reason for this is because I am married, and as such, share a bed with my wife. I won't go into details but we are currently in very much a rebuilding phase with regard to our intimacy at the moment. I am trialling the use of AB as a tool to help me in a few regards, and from how I felt yesterday I am adamant that ABing is absolutely the right thing for me to do at this point in time.
However, I do have two hesitations about WDs. First is whether or not I will moan/thrash about in bed etc. Second is the load and where it will go. I know many have suggested briefs (which I sleep with every night) but having seen one of the videos where the guy's load is literally spurting out from the briefs and onto the sheets, I'm becoming concerned that briefs may have only a superficial effect if my WD loads will be large.
Obviously, if we are not having sex and I'm not MBing then it's to be reasonably expected that my body will need an outlet, and that this will be subconsciously through WDs. But let's be honest, there is something rather embarrassing about WDs and, no matter how well you know the person, it's never nice when you are aware that others know you're having them.
I've already put a suggestion on the AMP forum for more people to produce audio recordings of their sleep to hopefully begin to answer the moaning question, but what do others think about the WD protection? I've seen an earlier thread where some suggested putting a sock over their penis. This would work for me as I we briefs. I trialled it last night and when I woke up, it was still in place. Whether it would be effective during an ejaculation is another story. I should also add that condoms aren't really an option because wearing latex for long periods makes my skin red, and because I'm restored I normally sleep with my foreskin over the head. As I harden, I'd likely break a condom.
As I get further into my ABing and grow to realise that I may actually have the willpower for a serious spell of it, the prospect of a WD becomes more real. After watching that video yesterday (sorry, I forget whose it was) it got me feeling really uneasy, and that helped my mind to try and rationalise MB to eliminate the 'risk' of a WD. Fortunately, I didn't MB.