Prostate Massage and Kegels

[Roderick]

Hi guys, I have two questions. First one is about prostate massaging. Recently I've been experimenting with anal stimulation and I want to know how do you do a prostate massage. I know one needs to shovel a finger up in the ass and that's what I've done but I haven't felt any orgasm or anything, just stimulation and then I released a lot of precum. How do you do this??? Do you cum?? Do you feel the pleasure in the glans or elsewhere???

The second question is about kegels. I'm interested in controlling my ejaculation and have tried to do the exercises but don't know if I'm doing it correctly. First off I contract my PC muscles as if I were going to stop my urine flow. Is this the right way or you contract them like when you push for the urine to come faster???

[ruqas]

I've done a little of the prostate massage, just with my fingers also. It takes some practice since it is generally a hard to reach area by yourself. It is different per a person as many things. I did rub the prostate and felt it get harder and I came not too long afterwards. I mostly felt the rush of pleasure kind of shoot all over, not very much. I tried it more when I was younger and haven't done much with it since. Maybe looking around at a local sex shop or on Amazon for a prostate massager?

That is how you do kegels, you can develop some kegel exercises to build up control. Like do 100 in a row and then do a set of 10 by holding for 5-10 seconds and slowly release. That should help you get started Roderick!

[Rey92]

Hi guys, I have two questions. First one is about prostate massaging. Recently I've been experimenting with anal stimulation and I want to know how do you do a prostate massage. I know one needs to shovel a finger up in the ass and that's what I've done but I haven't felt any orgasm or anything, just stimulation and then I released a lot of precum. How do you do this??? Do you cum?? Do you feel the pleasure in the glans or elsewhere???

The second question is about kegels. I'm interested in controlling my ejaculation and have tried to do the exercises but don't know if I'm doing it correctly. First off I contract my PC muscles as if I were going to stop my urine flow. Is this the right way or you contract them like when you push for the urine to come faster???

I've done prostate massage/prostate milking thrice. You are supposed to stimulate/massage the prostate gland which is located just above 3-4cms above the rectum. If you put some pressure you will ejaculate even without orgasm. And you can reach orgasm too. Prostate massage is done to remove the "residues" from the prostate gland.

Kegels for men is meant for delaying or prevent premature ejaculations. And yes, you're doing the right way.

These prostate massage and kegels are good for men. Scientifically and especially, medically approved.

[jake360]

here's the steps:

1) empty your bowels!

2) lie on the bed, with your bum at the edge.

3) prop yourself up with pillows, so you are halfway to sitting up

4) get yourself a latex/rubber glove - not like a ashing up glove, one of those medical style ones. If you can't get one, get a condom - its just as good

5) get lube!

6) put on the glove, or if a condom put it on your middle finger

7) cover it with lube

add an extra big drop of lube on the tip.

9) gently rub the tip around your anus. do this for about 4 mins, to relax your hole

10) then, slowly start prodding the hole (applying pressure to it)

11) eventually (making sure there is still enough lube) push your finger into your anus

take it slow! It's quite an unusual experience the first time

12) puch your finger in almost all the way in, MAKING SURE the top of your hand is facing the floro, and your open palm is facing the ceiling - so you should be able to grab your balls with your spare fingers

13) move your finger so it curls back toward your palm a little - just a little, you should feel a sort of round lump

14) gently begin to circile your finger around the lump, gently! use little pressure

15) if you can't feel the lump, try sitting up - sometimes it is easier to find then

If you still cant find it, get an erection, the prostate gets bigger during erections, and will increase in size before orgasm

16) just relax and rubing circuling. It will feel like you need to pee...but don't worry, that's normal

17) it may take a while - maybe 2 mins. you shoudl start to notice precum oozing out slowly

18) if you keep going long enough, you'll ejaculate

throughout the whole thing you will want to masturbate - the desire will be very strong, even if you don't have an erection.

if you decide to masturbate, and keep massaging your prostate, the orgasm you havve will be absolutely intense! The most intense orgasm ever. but you have to keep massaging - at the point of orgasm, your anus wil shudder violently, and will try to force your finger out, but keep it there til the orgasm is competely finished, otherwise you are cheatign yourself of the pleasure
SO there you go - a complete guide

dont ask how i know this ...what i used to be Experimental with myself ok!!!

[jamesjon]

No need to be embarrassed jake lol. I think its pretty normal to try stuff, and I'll admit that I've tried it. Hellz, I'll admit I've tried it more than once. When you can get it right, it sure does feel great. Just my $0.02.

JJ

[jake360]

who said i was?

[uratino]

I do it.

[bobbyc112358]

I'm bi and I do it fairly often. Feels amazing

[JaysNaked]

Ive been trying for a while now and i keep getting close but dont actually cum. Its starting to piss me off lol it makes me hard as a rock and feel like an extreme pressure like im going to squirt a gallon of cum, but just doesnt happen. Thank you for posting your advise oh how to have a prostate orgasm i cant wait to do it tonight!!!!

[joshie]

i just started., they do get me very close. but i am trying not to O from it cause then i won't really be ABing from MB. but they are supposed to give you better control.

[Shay]

Couldn't have put it better myself Jake! Definitely something every guy should try