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Hello guys
Thought I would start my own log as I could do with some support. I've been practicing abstaining from mb (or rather, going natural) for quite a while now and started getting WD's along the way. Yes, they do naturally feel much better than mb, which was getting to be a really annoying habit. I have began to see positive effects of quitting mb, and was going well before falling into the habit again. I would like to completely eliminate the mb habit from my life and become a full time WD-er (as long as I'm single, of course!).
It would be of tremendous help if I could get support from here to achieve this goal; that's why I decided to keep a journal.
I decided to remain clean from my 22nd birthday. I completed 3 weeks now and I'm on day 22.
Thanks for reading, guys.

Well, good luck with your decision to quit MB! I'm pretty sure masturbation is a lazy habit that is picked up and just resorted to thoughtlessly. Believe me, if I could go back 30 years, I'd take the No-MB road. Aside from the WDs, it makes the orgasms you do have more intense & pleasant.

Asp, from what you describe, I think you already have a foundation well in place to be a full time WDer -- seeing MB as an annoying habit, already having experienced the positive effects of AB, and already knowing that you can get WDs that indeed feel much better than MB.

I think many people reach the point where MB is more of a negative than a positive. Then at some point it simply becomes more sexually mature to move beyond MB and replace it with WDs as the more natural and preferred outlet.

So I say 'give in' to your desires. Not to MB, which is an annoying and negative habit, but to becoming the full time WDer that you want to be.

Go for it and good luck.

good luck dude! We are here and support you.

Thanks smilingibis, Texanguy and USFincali for your advice and support!

Yes, Texanguy I completely agree with you. I'm finally learning to "give in" to WD mode. And I'm going for it, no matter how hard it would be to make the transition.

WEEK 4 (DAY 23):

I've had a difficult 2nd and 3rd week where I fell in danger of falling back, but somehow had the determination to go ahead. I'm so glad I didn't fall prey to my habit in that vulnerable period.

Entering into week 4, I feel much more calm and confident. I'm beginning to enjoy the changes happening in my body now, allowing it to reboot/heal itself. Got the energy back that I love so much. Still vulnerable though, but I'm determined!

WEEK 4 (DAY 24):

Still going strong. I'm becoming less and less inclined to mb as the days pass by. But I can't be complacent as I know that one mistake could make me fall into my old ways again.

I've keeping myself busy as I've got my university exams going on. So as for now, concentrating on academics and waiting for those intense WD's to start again.

Patience is virtue!

I'm on day 30 and I'm about to complete a month.

I've been very busy with exams and stuff in the past week. Also getting morning wood and stronger erections, as compared to the weak ones when I was in the mb habit. Had a couple of sexual dreams but sadly they didn't end up in a wet one. I hope they do come soon. Still hanging on!

Congratulations on the 30-day milestone! keeping busy or having other goals or things going on is probably the biggest help. Keep up the great attitude!

Thank you smilingibis! Yes, keeping busy does help. Working out, involving in hobbies and distracting myself are some of the techniques I used to reach this point.

It feels good having completed the 30-day mark. I had chances of a relapse on some days, but I stayed strong. I would continuously drip pre-cum but wouldn't mind it. It was tough, but I did it!

I feel clean, positive and good about myself. I do sincerely hope that I don't fall off the track. I really want freedom and achieve that goal of being the full time WD'er that I want to be. I'm really determined to go the distance, and there's no turning back now.

Current day of freedom: 31
WD's: 0

Had some trouble yesterday night while going to sleep. Got an erection and felt some tension down there. Almost had an urge to release, but I rationalized that my brain could be playing tricks on me. And besides, I decided that mb was not the option to use because from my past experiences, all mb gives is a pseudo-pleasure which lasts for about a few seconds and then gives a let-down or lonely kind of feeling. So I decided to just ignore it, prayed to God and tried to fall asleep somehow, hoping for a WD.

I'm glad my rational brain is strengthening and able to make these decisions. I'm now frequently overcoming suggestions from the 'don't think-just act out' part of my brain. I hope I get even stronger in the coming days. This forum provides good support!

Current day of freedom: 32
WD's: 0

Great journal! For you what did you find were the "positive effects of quitting mb"?

Thank you NeverHad1!

For me, the benefits were getting stronger and fuller erections without much effort, occasional pleasurable sensations, more energy, a feeling of self control (resulting in greater confidence), feeling clean and positive, greater attraction to the opposite sex, better spirituality, to name a few. And then of course, timely and intense WD's allowing me to release big loads.

Had a WD!

It wasn't a very intense one (not much ejaculate), but was good enough to wake me up. The dream was kind of weird too. It involved myself, but thankfully there wasn't any mb. It happened at around 4.45 am this morning. I was lying on my stomach, and after going 34 days without a release, I woke up blowing my load into my underwear. It was a huge relief and eased the sexual tension I was experiencing for a few days. I cleaned up, took a shower and after thanking God, went back to sleep with satisfaction.

I hope my future WD's evolve and become more intense!

Current day: 35
WD's: 1

Congratulations on your WD! Hopefully this will help make MB seem all the more unnecessary, pointless, and negative. This should be the start of more frequent and more intense WDs, which will hopefully enhance the positive effects of AB.

Good luck in getting many more WDs and leaving MB behind!

Thanks Texanguy!

Today: Day 36 (Friday)
WD's: 1
Previous WD: Day 35 (Thursday)

Good to see your posts, asp!!! You are doing good!!! Keep going!!!

Thanks Maximus. Good to hear from you!

Today: Day 39 (Monday)
WD's: 1
Previous WD: Day 35 (Thursday)

I have completed 6 weeks now and it really feels good. Something that's bothering me is a sort of pain/discomfort felt in my balls and groin area. So the other day, I thought maybe a release might be useful and tried to mb in the shower. I gave it a few strokes and some pre-cum started to flow out. But then, I got bored of the action and just didn't feel like continuing. I stopped it and completed my shower. I've got to admit, I was really amazed with my new behavior. I mean, this has never happened to me before. In the past, if I had started to mb, there was no stopping and my brain would just act out without thinking, only to cause regret afterwards. So this new attitude was a very pleasant surprise to me. When I didn't feel like continuing, I was actually able to do that! And I'm happy for that.

As I had mentioned, I didn't ejaculate much in my previous WD and I still have this full feeling down there. The pain/discomfort seems to be more in the right side of my body. Is this really due to arousal and lack of release? Is there any way to handle/reduce it? As is evident, I don't prefer mb and will resort to it only as a last option. I wonder if working out or doing certain exercises would help.

Today: Day 44 (Saturday)
WD's: 1
Previous WD: Day 35 (Thursday)

You may have some syptoms of 'blue balls'. I would suggest that you try not to get very aroused for a few days and see what happens. If that doesn't help, you could then always MB a few times as a last resort to see if it helps.

I think there is a natural built in tendency to move beyond MB and find it less enjoyable, and to ultimately disconnect sexuality from MB. If that were not the case, the longer we went without MB the more we'd crave it until we finally had no choice but to give in. But instead, we see positive and pleasurable effects from AB, and can even find going back to MB to become a negative. And if WDs existed at all, they would hardly be more pleasurable than MB. The positive aftereffects of WDs compared to the negative letdowns after MB can be seen as the brain/body actually discouraging MB as an outlet. Also, if MB were the ultimate, we would definitely not be having an overpopulation problem.

That brings up an interesting idea. While having sex would feel better if you don't MB, it is the MBers of the world who are most likely to be promiscuous and end up with premature and unanted pregnancies. It seems that AB and WDs are perhaps better alternatives to waking sex than MB is, and better allows a person to wait for the right partner at the right time.

Thanks for the advice, Texanguy. I'll try my best not to get very aroused, hehe. Yesterday was relatively calmer and I didn't have much trouble. I'll wait for a couple more days and see what happens. If I MB, I'll still continue to AB as I really like its positive effects.



Well said, Texanguy. It's absolutely true. We would do better if we avoided MB to a great extent and used it only as a last resort. AB and WD's are indeed better alternatives if we're single, and better prepares us for having sex in the future.

Today: Day 46 (Monday)
WD's: 1
Previous WD: Day 35 (Thursday)

I'm impressed with how long you're able to AB!!! Keep up the great work. I'll be following your journal with great interest!

Thanks jbarish! The trick is to enjoy AB and embrace its positive effects. It's not easy at first but with time and patience, it becomes a habit and eventually your brain rewires.

The 'blue balls' seemed to come and go for a few days so I decided to MB to get some relief. The funny part was that I didn't get aroused at all at the thought of MB and a part of me still wanted to delay it. But I badly needed the relief so decided to just do it in the shower. I didn't get an erection as I wasn't excited at all. But I got the release I wanted and that eased the pressure.

Anyways, it's a calm feeling down there for the last 2 days. But I still would have preferred a WD instead, and hope my next release is through one. I pray that I do not get those horrible blue balls or anything related to it!

I will not count this as a failure, and will continue AB. I'm glad I gained the strength to do that. In the past, if something like this happened and my AB broke, I would follow it up with another MB, then more MB, then porn would come in, it would lead to PMO, and it's all downhill from there. So this time, I take a new approach because I realized that AB doesn't have to be all or nothing. The odd MB shouldn't be a reason to get upset or stop AB. I will not reset my counter as it is very demoralizing to start all over again for something which cannot even be counted as a mistake. My aim will be to keep up AB while minimizing MB to the best of my ability.

AB statistics:
Today: Day 52 (Sunday)
WD: 1
MB: 1

It seems like ages since I posted. In fact, this is my 1st post in 2013.

Well, I had to MB 2 more times since my last post but looking overall, I've been able to remain clean. It's much better than before. Only 3 MB in the past 3 months is a rather good achievement for me.

I've developed the ability to abstain better with infrequent MB. Well, I'd like to make it as infrequent as I can, gradually pushing it aside.

Oh, and by the way, I had a WD today! After 17 days since previous MB. Really glad.

My Progress (since November 2012):
Total MB: 3
Total WD: 2

Congrats on your wet dream!

Thanks, Ronald!

The WD was a pleasant surprise. Funny how they come when you least expect them. I just dozed off for an afternoon nap and it happened. It wasn't a very intense one but felt good anyway.

3 weeks over since previous MB. The WD I had 5 days ago helped a lot. Feeling calm and good. Not much uncontrollable urges to MB like before. The progress is certainly showing.

Waiting for more good feelings as I journey through!

My internet connection was down so couldn't post earlier.

So I had a WD 2 days ago!

I went to sleep at 11 pm and was awakened at around 12.30 am by a moderately intense WD. The dream wasn't much but the intensity was greater than the last one. The release was rather satisfying and somewhat lessened the 'full' feeling. Some of it came on to my pants as well, so had to change them. After cleaning up, I went back to sleep again. Ah, that felt good!

Though the WD's are not at their peak levels yet, they surely are getting more stronger each time.

My Progress
Since November 2012: 4 months
MB: 3
WD: 3
Since last MB: 42 days
Since last WD: 2 days

I'm going well forward with AB and at present, I've decided to take it 4 months at a time. I'm really grateful and pleased with the progress I have shown over the first 4 months (November-February). Long term AB (with very infrequent MB) is really rewarding and I'm loving every minute of it. It does make you feel more masculine.

I would like to thank all those who have supported me up to here. I'm hoping for the same support in the second set of 4 months (and of course, more WD's!)

My progress:
Since November 2012: 4 months and 7 days
Total MB: 3
Total WD: 3
Since previous MB: 50 days
Since previous WD: 11 days

It's been a while since I posted here. Anyway, I have decided to restart my log once again.

From where I left off, I would like to say that I have improved tremendously in the last year and a half. I'm now able to abstain consistently for long periods of time. As for WD's, the frequency has been very unpredictable- ranging from not having one for 2 months to getting them twice in one night. The intensities and ejaculate volumes have also varied within each WD. For those interested in statistics, I've had 11 WD's in the last 10 months, averaging slightly more than once a month. As for MB, I've gone without it for more than a 100 days and am almost nearing 4 months (one more week to go!). I have to admit that I did have a waking ejaculation (without any physical stimulation) a month ago when I saw something erotic in a movie. But as it was not completely intentional, I decided to count it as an SE. (Well, at times you have to go easy on yourself ). So then, this is the longest I have gone without any physical stimulation to date!

But my last WD came more than 2 months ago, so I'm overdue. A little frustrated now as it has been a while and I'm feeling the pressure.
I hope maintaining a log again would help.