Wet Dream Forum

Texanguy
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(8/10/03 5:43 pm)
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Wet dreams II

Might as well start a new post.

Dickenson, I guess there is a lot to be known about wet dreams and how to best maximize them. But until rigorous scientific studies are done, all we can do is look at the large data base of 'anecdotal' information posted by people on the internet. It is probably the biggest and most complete set of information on wet dreams, who has them, and how to get them that exists. It doesn't tell us everything, but it does tell us that people who have the most wet dreams don't masturbate at all, even if they used to. And it tells us that many people who quit masturbating have to wait for perhaps several months before they get wet dreams.

Again, it's still not clear about the frequency of erections vs wet dreams. Certainly waking up erect every morning is completely normal, and I think a few during the day are also just be normal. If you don't 'try' to get increasingly aroused and excited, and don't concentrate too much on maximizing those feelings while trying to get closer to orgasm, I doubt if you'd get aroused to unwanted waking orgasms like Socks and I have had (I think me more than him). He says he knows when to focus his attention elsewhere in order to avoid them, and I may have actually 'overdone' avoiding them.


It's interesting that we quit masturbating determined to get wet dreams, but that we are 'evolving' into people who prefer not to masturbate at all independent of wet dreams. At first, I didn't want to masturbate because I wanted wet dreams instead. Now, I don't want to masturbate at all because I like it better this way! And that is the best description of people who started to have wet dreams! So maybe the real way to get wet dreams is to not just quit masturbating, but to prefer and enjoy not masturbating, and have no interest or intention of ever masturbating again. Maybe the 'real countdown' to wet dreams begins once you never want to masturbate, regardless of whether you wet dreams or not. I definitely want wet dreams, and plan on having many of them, but I don't think any longer about resuming masturbation if I don't get them by a certain date. Perhaps that's just another step on the way to getting them!

Hoban
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(8/10/03 11:44 pm)
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Greetings from Hoban...

Hey, I’m back! I’m really glad to find this site again. I can’t come into this place, because the search engines like “Yahoo!” does not allow me to view those old posts. Apparently, there’s a general ‘clean up’, so that explains that stupid “error” page. Like Dickenson, I think that’s really a waste. May I know how do you guys get back to this place? Do you remember that long-winded web address, or…? (I’m using a public PC, and the “history” will be deleted everyday). Suggestions?

I’m glad to know that “I wear white socks” is here. I’d like to welcome you! And man, your stories were interesting. Keep up the good work! Hey, where’s Perot? I think he’s lost…

Well, I’m very glad that I’m sitting here with the full sac (for more than a month!). That’s a record for me. Just in case (to the new comer), I’m 20. I started on the 1st July 2003 (for curiosity's sake). No wet dreams so far. Any comments from “I wear white socks”, say, from your past experiences (when you’re at around my age)? Others are free to comment too.

I do get hard sometimes (including viewing and posting messages here), but not as much as Dickenson. I think that’s a good sign, man! So, just let it get hard that way! Our friends will be happier that way!

I’m currently NOT in the mood of masturbating, and I doubt I’ll ever do it again. I think wet dreams are better. Like Texan guy, I’d like to get more wet dreams. So, let’s see when am I going to get it! (I hope I can post this).

Dickenson
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(8/11/03 7:24 am)
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All the best this week!!

Welcome back, Hoban! I’m glad to hear that you’re joining our forum. Congratulations for going for sooo many days! That’s your record, man! I know you’ll get one soon. So, good luck!

Texanguy, I guess you’re right; we must follow that anecdotal info to maximize our chances of getting one. I’m glad that we have the Internet today. If not…think about it…

People who’d quit masturbation long enough will definitely get wet dreams again, e.g., Ronald and Socks (our shining examples). There are also some other guys in “Wet Dreams” last time that got them once they’d quit the habit COMPLETELY. Apparently, it takes about several months. Another guy there also mentioned that he took about 4 months to get one. Well, I’ll wait for that, for as long as it will happen one day. After all, I’m all too used to this way of living already. Like you, Texanguy, I like this way of living, and masturbation is no longer in my every day “to do list”. I’m rooting for all of you here to have one too!!

Well, it’s too bad that we don’t have sufficient info on the wet dreams vs. erections. I’m all so hard today, but now he’s asleep. So, I think I’ll just let it get hard naturally. May be this is the way the penis gets more oxygenated blood while a guy is not masturbating.

Ronald, I’m all too happy to hear that your penis can get hard so easily while you’re in bed. Thanks for the compliments too, and I really hope that you’ll get a wet dream in this week!! I know you will!! Please, please, please, please tell us once you got it, boy! Please describe your dream too, and your feelings…aaaaahhhhhhh (picture this as your groaning during that night, everyone!).

Socks, do keep up your effort so far and tell him to be a good boy. Yeah, I know training is a life long process, but let him follow your commands; treat him like a boy scout. Yup, the penises sometimes don’t get the point; it’s too hard and sometimes it’s not hard (even though we wanted to get hard). You must control yourself, and picture yourself when you get the reward. Socks, you’re the strong knight, remember? I think you’re absolutely correct, Socks! I rather get hard (oops, he’s straining in my boxers now), than to feel tired after the ejaculation(s) as a result of masturbation(s) during the day. And, mind you, a wet dream during the night (nocturnal emission) will make us fall into slumber again, and that our body will relax and enjoy the intense feelings, naturally…Just be a bit careful every time you pat and rub your little guy, were you wearing anything that day? Good luck!

Well, it’s time again for conclusion. I’d like to wish you guys a great week, and all the best! I wonder any 2 (or perhaps more than 2) of us here will actually hit the big day during the same night in the future or not. If that’s the case, that’ll be an added motivation to continue to get more wet dreams!! I love them!! [My little boy scout is making a very tall tent with all his might…good work, boy…]

Ronald WDM
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(8/11/03 2:00 pm)
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Welcome back Hoban!

Welcome back, Hoban! I'm glad you found us. I still have them notify me when there's a new message in these posts, then I click and go right to the post. That's great that you've gone 6 weeks now without masturbating, Hoban. That's great that you and others don't even want to masturbate anymore. You do deserve to have a wet dream, from all your efforts.

Well, tomorrow will be 21 days sine my last wet dream, which will be the same as before. So we'll see what happens now. Yes that would be nice if 2 people could have a wet dream on the same night. Well I'm rooting for you all. Happy dreaming! If anything happens with me, you'll be the first to know.

Ronald WDM
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(8/12/03 9:54 am)
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still waiting!

Well haven't had a wet dream yet. But I had another nice erection this morning. So maybe soon. I"ll keep you posted. I wish the best for all of you as well. Take care!

I Wear White Socks
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(8/12/03 10:26 am)
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Re: Greetings from Hoban...

Hoban,

If you don’t want to type a really long URL to get here, maybe you could start out coming to the board through the main page address (http://www.TheMensCenter.com), then near the top of the home page (above the scrolling headline banner), you will see some links in a horizontal row: Search, Translate, Text Index, and Men’s Forum, etc. Click on the Men’s Forum link, and it will take you to “Men’s General Discussion”. One simple URL, three clicks, and you are here.

“Any comments from “I wear white socks”, say, from your past experiences (when you’re at around my age)? Others are free to comment too.”

Like I explained in previous posts, I’ve been practicing waiting on wet dreams, on and off, since 15. That’s not to say I didn’t go through some periods of whacking it like a wild man, but was always motivated to go back to a no-hands policy. At 20, I happened to be doing very well. Not much has changed since then, except that perhaps the wait time is not as predictable and varies more. No matter how well I have managed to keep my sac full by avoiding intentional spillage, the urges build until stubborn erections become a challenge. Perhaps if I had never known what it was like to masturbate at all, things would be different. However, I was so successful in waiting for wet dreams at 19 and 20, that I was basically one big walking hard on. I guess you didn’t see the deleted post about my accountability partner at 19, but it really helped. At 20, I no longer had anybody to talk to for encouragement, but held on to my determination (sometimes just barely). The problem was that at 20, I got into a bad habit of occasionally priming the pump, then stopping before ejaculation. I reasoned that if my balls were constantly churning anyway, why not fan the flames a little and try to hasten a massive wet dream? Another idiotic idea I had back then, was that if I gave it a few strokes before heading to lift weights, then stuffed the poor little guy back into my shorts or jock unfulfilled, the resultant and lasting frustration could make workouts more aggressive, like being on steroids. At 20, I guess I was under the stress of deciding what to do with my life, so testing my manhood like that became a diversionary game. I now call it my blue ball period, hah. During that stressful transition phase of young man to adult, I tried lots of things to deal with the constant urge for release, and/or to bring on wet dreams quicker. One of the worst and unwisest things I did was when in bed at night trying to go to sleep with an erection. I figured that hand to penis contact could easily cause an unwanted ejaculation, so I would slip a sock over my stiff member and very slowly stroke, or pull the sock up and down on the shaft and head. Often, just the feeling of being inside something was enough to make it buck upward from my stomach in a helpless plea for further stimulation. During the whole year I was 20, there were lots of close calls, but I only remember having two real accidents. One was in the shower, and the other was in a sock. Even though it sounds like I was rather reckless at times, I was really quite careful. I never seemed to get nocturnal releases any quicker, but did get an education in how much suffering I could tolerate with a throbbing boner and aching nuts. At least maybe hearing about all the stupid things I tried will keep you from ever driving yourself up a wall needlessly like I did for the sake of a quicker wet dream, which will eventually happen anyway on its own.

Texanguy
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(8/12/03 6:29 pm)
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I'm Back

I'm back from visiting friends out of town for a couple of days.

What Socks said about arousal and trying to get erections not helping to get wet dreams is interesting, as is the fact that it apparently didn't inhibit them either. That may be a clue that frequent erections won't make much difference in getting a wet dream. I do tend to think, however, that trying to maximize the feelings and trying to get yourself closer to orgasm while awake may not be good, since you want your brain to 'forget' about forcing it while awake, and 'learn' to do it while asleep.

Being older than the rest of you, I sometimes wonder if I'll get wet dreams after all. But then I realize that if I had aroused myself last April to a couple of orgasms only a few days apart with no physical stimulation while awake, it seems perfectly reasonable that I should be able to have orgasms in my sleep, as well. So I'm still going for it!

Even though part of my motivation for quitting masturbation is to get wet dreams, I don't see how I can put a 'time limit' on trying to get a wet dream any longer. Never masturbating is simply the best way to be, independent of wet dreams. It also fortunately maximizes the ability to have wet dreams. Two great reasons to never masturbate at all! Not having a wet dream next week or next month won't change either of those reasons, so there's no sense on putting any time limit on it. There's no other choice for me but to continue to enjoy never masturbating, and continue to maximize the chances for wet dreams. I plan on having many wet dreams, but I no longer masturbate, regardless. Masturbation is obsolete!

Dickenson
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(8/13/03 6:42 am)
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Oh, God...

Hi there. I'd like to tell you guys there's really something very wrong with my server. I can't send you guys a reply.

Right now, I can't 'copy' and 'paste' from the MS Word document. I wonder this post will actually reach you guys or not. A message in the Word "This document could not be registered. It will not be possible to create links from other documents to this document". Even if I can (yesterday), the computer will tell me that there's an internal error, and I can't post it here. I lost 2 posts... : (. Can anyone help me?? I'm using the computer from my college. I'll try to recapture everything that I'd said in the replies later (hopefully I can do that).

Well, I'm still waiting for one. And guys, thanks for all the support so far. I like your experience, Socks. Hoban, just keep up your good work. Big thanks for Texanguy and Ronald too (hugs!!). Ronald, just be patient...

Let the wet dreams begin...

Texanguy
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(8/13/03 10:27 am)
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Dickinson

As you can see, we got your post. It does sound like a local problem with your computer or server. It wasn't clear if you have your own computer at college, or are using one owned by the college.

If you have trouble with a Word document, try saving it onto your local hard drive. If you have problems doing that, it may be a problem with your computer, not the server. If it's the college server, other people are probably having problems, too. You could report it to the college, but others may have already.

If the problem is with your computer, you could probably get some help from someone in your dorm. If nothing else, you could re-install the Windows operating system on top of itself. That seems to fix lots of problems, and very likely will leave your programs and documents intact. But if you have important documents, you should try to save them first. Save them on floppy, CD, email them to someone, or copy them to a server if you can. Or at least print them out. You may also have to re-install Word or Office, but it sounds like a system problem.

Maybe someone else has more specific advice about this particular problem.

Good luck. Go ahead and have a wet dream anyway!

Ronald WDM
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(8/13/03 4:00 pm)
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wet and dry

Hi, it was nice reading everyone's comments again. I just applied for a dry cleaning job. So hopefully, the WET Dream Mentor will be working at the DRY Cleaners soon. So that would be interesting.

WEll I hope everyone continues to enjoy being masturbation free, and their bodies can give them the wet dreams that they surely deserve. It would indeed be nice to read about someone having one the same night as I do. That would be a red letter day. Take care!

Texanguy
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(8/14/03 12:14 pm)
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Questions for Socks

Socks,

I was thinking about other posts I've read by people who have wet dreams. Some people have them 2 or 3 times a week. One guy on the original deleted post (Wet Dreams) on this site said that he averages about 5 wet dreams a month, after quitting masturbation. He said he quit for 'spiritual' reasons, and thus tries his best to minimize any waking erotic thoughts or situations. Others seems to be similar, in that they don't post about very frequent and intense erections (although maybe they just ignore the topic in their posts). Some people who quit masturbating seemed to be taken by surprise when their wet dreams started, and weren't even sure that quitting masturbation casued them. Many of these kinds of posts were on 'sex advice' sites, so I think it may be that most people who quit masturbating and start having wet dreams know exactly why.

So a question is have you noticed correlations between how often you get erections and wet dreams? Have you ever been busy, stressed, occupied with other things so that erections while awake were less? Did you have more or less wet dreams then?

It seems like in a way you have to 'struggle' to keep from masturbating, even though you prefer not to masturbate. It's not clear, but from many of the postings I've read, it seems like people who have several wet dreams a week or month have basically put masturbation completly behind them, or have never masturbated in the first place. It's as if they no longer have to resist masturabting, they just don't do it. In other words, it may be that people who have the most wet dreams either never masturbated in their lives, or have basically become just like those people in thier feelings and attitudes about masturbation in their lives. It just doesn't exist for them.

Any comments?

I Wear White Socks
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(8/14/03 8:38 pm)
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Re: Questions for Socks

Texanguy,

Yes, there have been a few times when stress temporarily caused fewer erections, but not for very long. Then again, there were also times I viewed erections and self stimulation without orgasm as a "diversion" from stress. My experiences do not seem to parallel either end of the spectrum. I have been on both sides of the fence at one time or another. I am beginning to wonder if more frequent wet dreamers are as you described (those who never masturbated or with a similar mindset about it). It is interesting to think that suppressing one's sexual consciousness while awake, could result in more outlets during sleep. Sometimes I do have to struggle not to masturbate and/or allow myself enough stimulation to ejaculate. Like I said before, if I had never known what it was like to get release on demand through masturbation, things might be different.
Edited by: I Wear White Socks at: 8/14/03 10:30 pm

Texanguy
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(8/15/03 12:21 am)
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Socks and other 'theorists'

Socks,

Interesting thoughts. It seems that there is a lot unknown about wet dreams. One of the problems with the kind of 'anecdotal research' I did on the web about who has wet dreams and who doesn't, and what their masturbation and other habits are, is that you can't question any of them and can't get any more information than they chose to post. I did indeed find people who didn't masturbate or quit for 'spiritual' or religious reasons. But there were others who clearly didn't. Some people's posts were clearly not 'spiritual', they didn't like to masturbate, and preferred wet dreams.

I collected quotes during my 'web research', and I'll post some here that show the 'non-spiritual' pursuit of wet dreams. (It may also give us some 'inspiration' to continue our quests.) I've read that posting links is frowned upon here, but I can post all my collected quotes and links in a separate thread if anyone is interested.

The people in the last 4 of these quotes may or may not masturbate. However, I think someone who really loves their wet dreams and can't wait for the next one, or has them several times a week, very likely doesn't masturbate.

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QUOTES:
"I have wet dreams. Boy! Doesn't everybody? What do you have to masturbate for?"

"...I enjoy an erection, I enjoy pleasure, but I don't particularly enjoy masturbation. It's contrived! I prefer the "au naturale"... or the wet dream..."

"...i don't masturbate because i think it's f**king lame. But wet dreams always rules, especially when you wake up right after you cum..."

"I don't masturbate (not into it) but I have a lot of wet dreams (is it as a result of not masturbating?)."

"Last night I had a wet dream in which I was sucking my own dick. It was pretty cool. I've always wanted to suck myself off but have never been able to do it..."

"I just had one this morning in fact!! Man those are the best. This tall girl with her hair curled was jacking me off in the dream ...man they are awesome!!"

"I want to say something about wet dreams. The first time I got it, I said to myself: finally! I mean, it feel soooooooo good. Having a sexy dream, and wake up with that delicious, warm, wet and sticky stuff. It's so good I almost can't get enough of it. To bad it can't be controlled, eh? Don't get me wrong though, there are some situations where the timing couldn't be worse, like when I'm sleeping at somebody else's, or like that guy who gets it in class. Poor fellow. But under the sheets in my own room, oh yeah! The best dreams are the one where I dream about my favorite actress and then wake up just in time to feel the sperm being pumped into my PJs. "Sigh!" I'm sorry if this was a little to detailed, but I just had to talk about it somewhere, and if I spoke about it home, I'd probably get thrown out..."

"I have at least 6 wet dreams per week. I'm a guy yes, but WET DREAMS ROCK!"
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I think there is something other than 'spiritual' refraining from masturbation that gives wet dreams. My thinking has become that people have orgasms in different ways, and one of those ways is wet dreams. I think it depends on what a person is used to. An example might be someone who masturbates by 'humping' his pillow. Someone who does that all the time may have trouble masturbating the 'normal' way. They couldn't get 'complete' enjoyment from it. For them, the 'best' orgasms are had by humping their pillow. Other guys might try to hump their pillow and find it's not as satisfying as 'regular' masturbation, even if they could succeed in having an orgasm that way. Some guys are so used to masturbation that having sex with a girl is (at least at first) difficult, unsatisfactory, and not as good or intense as masturbation. Other guys find sex with a girl so much better than masturbation that they would have trouble masturbating, and would find it unsatisfactory.

My theory is that the 'brain' learns the way it has orgasms, and comes to expect them that way. It seems as if orgasms are tied quite closely to the events and states of mind that lead up to them, including the kinds of stimulation, both visual and physical. It becomes part of the enjoyment. So perhaps for some people, the 'way' they get orgasms is in wet dreams. If they have never masturbated, or put it completely behind them for whatever reason, wet dreams becomes their 'way'. It may not be 'repressing' waking sexual feelings as much as simply having orgasms the way they are used to. One guy masturbates by hand and thinks its great, another guy humps his pillow and can't imagine a better way, and another guy falls asleep and has an orgasm in an exciting wet dream, and thinks his way is best.

Spiritual or not, it seems that some people 'disconnect' orgasms from masturbation, and 'connect' them to wet dreams. The 'spiritual' people seem to accept wet dreams but don't necessarily enjoy them. Other people (obviously including the above quotes) love their wet dreams, and want more.

This theory also explains why it may be difficult for many people to have wet dreams. They simply don't easily make the 'connection' in their brain. The brain has to learn the difference between totally refraining from masturbation while awake, and yet be free to have orgasms while dreaming that you are awake. A guy who wants to stop humping his pillow and enjoy masturbating the regular way, could 'learn' to enjoy it by leaving his old way behind and doing it the new way exclusively. It seems most people can do likewise for wet dreams. Just stop the 'old' way completely, and let the brain 'learn' the new way. This theory would also suggest that the more a person has wet dreams as their only orgasms, the more they would enjoy them (assuming thy aren't too 'spiritual' to do so). It would seem that a person could reach the point where masturbation would be more difficult and less exciting than a wet dream, and it would be possible to lose all interest in ever masturbating - which explains some of the above quotes!

So are wet dreams 'better' than masturbation? Many people who have a rare wet dream post they really like them. It makes sense that the 'brain' is free to create, fantasize, and magnify the intensity of the feelings in the dream state more than while awake. In some sense, it may very well be that wet dreams ARE the best way. Many guys are quite fascinated by them, and would probably willingly quite masturbating to have them regularly - if only it wasn't for the long wait most people have to do.

In my above examples, I think the guy masturbating and the guy humping his pillow would be envious of the guy who had his orgasm in a wet dream. The wet dreamer himself would also probably prefer his dream, and want another one!

Dickenson
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(8/15/03 5:49 am)
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Hi buddies!

Thanks for each guy’s comments. I’m glad that the PC is okay now. Texanguy, thanks for that tips on the computer. You’re really a helpful guy. For your concern, I’m currently (and previously) using the computer(s) from my college’s computer lab. As one might expect, the quality and reliability of each of them is not guaranteed, what with the advent of the constant tapping and clicking by a plethora of users in the whole college. Anyway, I got good news: my Dad is planning to buy me a lap top before going to the university this September; so, I hope through that way, I can contact you guys here everyday (without fail) to tell you guys about my progress! I think I’ll get the wet dream(s) by the time I’m in the university…

Ronald, I jumped at joy with that good news of yours. I hope that job will be of help to you and thus, makes you a busier guy. That way, you’ll avoid feeling too lonely at home and (may be) try to masturbate your giant pecker when the proof of your arousal is really unbearable (you know, guys…). Thanks for being a good Wet Dream Mentor here from the very beginning. Yup, I’m enjoying a masturbation free life! My morning glory yesterday was superb; I can feel the throbbing of its head in sync with each of my heartbeat…that’s nice…but he woke up earlier than me…I do hope you’ll get your usual wet dreams this month, Ron!

Texanguy, I’d like to thank you for your input of questions. Those were good questions. I can only answer your 2nd question (I haven’t had had a wet dream lately).
Q: Have you ever been busy, stressed, occupied with other things so that erections while awake were less?

A: I think while a guy is very stressed or too busy; sick or even sad (e.g. when I saw the old posts being deleted), his erections occurred less frequently (for a certain period of time only, as said by Socks), and much more ‘energy’ or ‘force’ is needed to fuel each erection (if it does happened). Although the process of erection is more ‘psychological’ or ‘internally control’, certain hard-ons can be brought to life when pressures or rubs were applied to the penis’ shaft or glans (head). Masturbation may and may not be a major contributing factor for obtaining a ‘desired’ or ‘made’ erection. I think emotions do suppress the inflation of our sausages (and to some degree its firmness or angle). Why? I guess the heart is trying to bring more blood to those ‘more important’ places, e.g., our brain and hands and legs. Priorities are given to the needy. The penis, in this case (say while you’re crying) is considered to be less important. When sex, then it’s another story. Filling the chambers full of oxygenated blood will simply ‘waste’ the resources provided by the body. If a guy is occupied with other things, say, working with 100% concentration, his member will not make a surprise protrusion. The brain must be focused in only one thing at a time. But I’m not too sure about my woodies while I’m typing and reading posts here. Can’t these be considered as work too? [My boner is sooo naughty now…straining against my brief’s flyer].

Q: May I know when did you guys started wearing briefs? How’s the experience of being ‘cooped up’? (I wore them at 10; I get erections every time wearing them, but had no idea what’s all that about).

Q: Do you guys shake your penis after you pee? What about drying the tip with a soft tissue/handkerchief/socks [I know you like socks, Mr. Socks!] (Yes for the 1st and 2nd. I use my handkerchief- only for Him).

Q: Do you guys preferred to using a urinal (that can be seen by other guys) or going to the individual rooms while you wanna pee? Why? (I’ll wait for you guys’ answers first, very long story…).

On a more positive note, I hope all of us will be getting about 5-6 wet dreams later, say, in December. Only then our (those of us who haven’t got them) body will be very used to the usual spilling of seed while we’re sleeping. Texanguy, I know you’ll like to get wet dreams at such a frequency. Good Luck then, man! Wet dreams were purely created for guys’ enjoyment, and there’s no harm demanding more of it! They’re GREAT!!!

Socks, your latest reply is commendable too! I find it easy to believe all your thoughts. They’re both convincing and ‘very real life’. It’s amazing to know that you’re able to control yourself when there’s an unbearable erection(s). This is very normal, buddy, hehe. Our strong soldiers are just trying to seek attention from us, that’s the spirit!!

Whoa, what an amazing reply, Texanguy! I’d like to tell you that you’re very good at commenting on the wet dreams issue. Those were interesting quotes from the Net. May I know how you find them, and what’s your keyword every time you search from a search engine? Opting for the keyword ‘wet dreams’ is all too naïve, as the data you’ll obtain later can be disappointing, right? Those sites were only designed for ‘education’ purposes, and not for ‘having more wet dreams’ or ‘how to maximize their chances’. Once, I went to one site that mentioned wet dreams will come to you once you stop wanking for 2 weeks. Stupid idea!

I especially like the 3rd and the 7th quotes. I think they match my feelings when I was an early teen. God, the 8th quote was fantastic. I wonder I’ll ever get that or not…

Again I’d like to state that I’ll definitely go for wet dreams than jacking off. Why masturbate when you can get a TOTAL natural pumping while you’re sleeping soundly? And that doesn’t require ANY energy supplied intentionally by you.

All you just have do is to let your brain relax, sleep, dream, imagine; let our oh-sooo-sensitive scrotal sac to touch the brief; let the berries grow large at a tremendous rate; let the penis do all the show independent of our hands: get really, really, really, really, really hard, be firm and upright, throb, pulse, straining the brief and finally, shooooooooooooooot. (I mean to shoot all of the accumulated cum). And for some guys, to groan and moan like a boar while cumming. Awesome. But I’m still on the waiting list, hah. (Why? Is everybody very hard now? I’m sooo hard while typing these…sorry for being so naughty today). Just wanna encourage you guys.

Anyway, good luck to all of you reading this post. Please reply to me.

Ronald WDM
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(8/15/03 10:02 am)
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RE: Hi, buddies!

Thanks for your comments. I liked Texanguy's quotes too. I saw quote 7 before and printed it because I liked it. That's a smart guy. I wish more guys could read comments like that, so they would want to try for them more. I'd be happy if you were like that guy in quote 8, Dickenson, too.

Ij staated wearing briefs when I was a little kid. But I have some looser underwear now. No, I don't shake my penis after peeing, or dry the tip of my penis after peeing. But that 2nd thing does sound like a good way to keep it clean down there. So maybe I'll do it. I prefer a urinal, since they're usually closer and everything.

Well I had another erection in all its glory this morning in bed. Sometimes I thnnk that if I didn't wake up as soon, that I'd have a wet dream easier, since I feel like I'm ready to shoot, but I'm already awake, so it doesn't happen.

Yes I think I'd be busy on that job. Well I heard that today's National Relaxation Day over here. So everyone relax, and happy dreaming!

Ronald WDM
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(8/17/03 8:21 am)
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Ij had "You know what"!

Yes, after waiting all last week for one, I finally had another wet dream the first day of this week at around 2 a.m. So I guess the pressure was off me last night. I woke up for a while, but I must have gotten back to sleep, because all of a sudden my erect penis started shooting out semen several times. I thought "All right!" It felt soooo good!:-) It was 26 days after my last one. Hopefully this will be a good sign now with the job I just applied for.

Well, I had a wet dream this month. So Socks and others, how about you now? Well I hope you liked reading this, and I'll be looking for your comments. Take care!

Dickenson
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(8/18/03 11:28 pm)
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My buddies,

It’s been a long time since my last post days ago. Well, I finally got a place in the RCSI in Dublin, Ireland. Please check out the web for details of RCSI. It’s a beautiful place for study. Last week was exceptionally busy for me. For one thing, I’d go to-and-fro using the buses and cabs to go for interviews and everything. Secondly, I’d to get my referee (or Mentor; not you, Ronald) to sign some certificates for me. But I think it’s all paid off, having received the official offer letter recently. I’ll be in the university (or college, to be exact) in October. Haha....

Well, thanks for everyone’s comments on my questions. About my answer to the question on where to urinate, I’d preferred to use the urinals. Interestingly, I like to peek around when relieving myself in the urinals, haha. Do you guys do this?

For all you guys’ concern, the urinals in my college do not have a ‘partition’ to block other guys’ view of your pet. You can see theirs and they can have a look at yours (if there’s someone immediately next to you, and if you wished to peek at them). So, last year, I went to use this urinal (quite secluded) in the toilet on the 3rd floor, and I saw the other guy on the other side (also secluded urinal) peeing. But, psychologically, I was (I think I am) classified as a guy who possessed a ‘bashful’ bladder. This condition will make urination more difficult when you’re pressured and/or saw the other guy in the toilet peeing. The pressure is caused mainly by the fact that you’re either too worried about tool size or you want to have a look at the other guy’s. It’ll also happen when the toilet is very packed. Having a full bladder and not being able to pee is a painful experience, let alone the penis is trying to attain some angle and try to be ‘macho’. Trying my best to contract my stomach muscles to force out some urine in several spurts, I eventually got a good flow of urine. But, suddenly, my focus went back to the large mirror in front of the washbasins (I can see the mirror in this position, and to see that guy’s movements). Too bad, I noticed that he’s doing some ‘movements’ towards the urinal. I started to notice that he’s enjoying himself with that. Though not being able to see what his hands were up to, and not being able to see his member, I’m not entirely sure whether he had been masturbating in front of the urinal or not. This time around, I try to finish my last few drops of urine, and tried drying the soft tip with the handkerchief. As I looked back at the mirror, I saw that his left hand was pressing hard against the white tile on the wall above that urinal. His right hand, meanwhile, was trying to make tremendous movements on his member (I didn’t see his penis all this while). I heard some groaning from him too. His eyes are looking at the ceiling (but I guess his eyes were closed). So, basically, I guess that was the hand job session for him.

Zipping my pants again after my own urination, I went for the tap to wash my hands (I was still looking at the mirror). Then, I saw that he made a sudden glance at the washbasins area and noticed that he was not alone actually. I shouldn’t make the water to flow actually, and should have walk out straight away! [The tap was the ‘press’ type; you have to press with one hand, and wash the other]. He quickly turned to the other side of him and rush to the individual room without zipping his pants (to finish himself, I think). Essentially, I saw his erection this time, but only for 2 seconds, I guess. That’s the first and only erection that I’d seen in all my life (besides my naughty monster). I started to smile at myself at the mirror and been wondering how on earth can a guy do THAT in a public place. I was so excited that day; I went back to class with those faithful hard-ons.

Several days passed by, and I finally found out that that guy was a new teacher in my college, majoring in math. Fortunately (or unfortunately), I didn’t get a chance to be taught by him all the while in my college until my final year. What would actually happen if he teaches me? Will he try to penalize me for something very minor? I wonder…

About using the individual rooms for urination, I think other guys will try to think that I got a small penis; so hiding it from the others is the best way. So, I don’t use them when going with a group of friends to pee. It’s also more convenient to use the urinals. Do you guys have similar experience in the Gents’?

Well, hope you guys have a wet dream soon. J

[This is my yesterday’s post. I’d trouble sending post(s) yesterday and today. I’ll try sending replies to you guys soon, I promise. Congratulations, Bro Ron!].

Texanguy
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(8/19/03 12:13 am)
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Dickenson

We have a new topic now 'Wet Dreams III', and we have new person trying to have a wet dream, named 'Brahms 28'. Check out the topic. Let's continue there, and hope our posts don't get deleted again.

The rest of my response to you is there.

focus
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(9/1/03 11:07 am)
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new guy here wanting to join in

Hello all,

I've been lurking here for a little while, and decided to post and join in on your wet dream attempts. Texanguy knows me from some of the other men's health forums. I am as fascinated about wet dreams as you all are, and have a lot in common in with many of your wet dream experiences and attempts. I've scoured the internet for wet dream research information over the years, and I'm shocked at the lack of any scientific research on the topic. This forum right here is the most informative and most extensive research (albeit informal) that I've found yet. I think its great that this exists and want to join you guys in the quest for wet dreams by quitting masturbation.

First, a little about myself and my wet dream experience:

I'm a 29 year old straight male, with a pretty strong sex drive, that up this point has exclusively been relieved through masturbation. That's right, I'm a virgin (not proud of that either). I've had several relationships with women, but they never led to sex for various reasons. I'm willing to lose my virginity to the right woman, when I meet her. I'm currently dating, so who knows where that will take me, but no sexual activity currently.

As for my wet dream experience: I've been fascinated with wet dreams ever since I first learned about them in health class in Jr. High School. I was about age 12 at the time I learned about wet dreams in that class - I remember the teacher showing this corny movie about puberty, and there was a part that showed this kid who was paranoid that he wet his pajamas and sheets, complaining to his mom about it, worried, and then the film went into talking about what a wet dream was and how normal they are, etc. When I saw this, I was like "really - that actually happens? Cool!". I couldn't wait for that to happen to me, because I was curious about what it was like. Plus, a sexual dream sounded like fun.

I started masturbating when I was about 12, several years before I could even ejaculate. I was a late bloomer, and couldn't ejaculate until 15. Since I masturbated daily at the time, my first ejaculations were through masturbation. Besides being a late bloomer, I had a pretty normal adolescent period, and like most horny teenagers, I masturbated to ejaculation at least once a day, sometimes several times a day. Needless to say, I never had an issue of built up semen that may lead to a wet dream, and I never had a wet dream until I was in college.

When I first started college, I attempted a few times to stop masturbating to build up semen in the hopes I would get a wet dream. I would make it to 3-4 weeks sometimes, then my sexual urges would flood me and I gave in. Still never got a wet dream.

Then, on a cold winter day in January when I was 19, I was sleeping soundly in my dorm room. I had this incredibly vivid and fun sexual dream about a girl I liked at the time giving me oral sex. It felt so real that it was incredible - the sensations were amazing. The type of dream that you're not sure if your dreaming or not, because its so realistic. In my dream, I could feel like I was about to cum, and then bam, I started cumming, just like in real life. Then I suddenly woke up in the middle of this, and my penis was spurting semen all over my belly. I had no idea what was going on for the first few seconds. When I looked down into my underpants and saw my penis still ejaculating and the pools of cum on my belly, I suddenly put it all together and realized I just had my first wet dream! I was SO happy. So my initial confusion and fear as to what was going on quickly changed to pure joy once I realized I just had a wet dream. It felt really good. I remember the ejaculation was very different feeling than my normal awake ejaculations. This was all automatic for one - I had no control over anything, which I really liked. It felt wonderful during each spurt, but it wasn't quite an orgasm. I remember walking around that day feeling like a real man that I had a wet dream. This was 10 years ago, and I remember my wet dream as if it were yesterday.

Now here's the weird part. When I got that wet dream, I wasn't 'trying' for it. My last ejaculation was only 5 days before the wet dream (I was masturbating about once or twice a week at the time). I didn't do anything sexual that night before going to sleep. I was busy with homework and stuff, and when I finished, I just went to sleep like normal. I am still perplexed as to why I had that wet dream after only 5 days of not ejaculating, yet I had previously gone up to 3-4 weeks without ejaculating, and no wet dream. Even more curious is after that wet dream, I tried over the years to have another one by quitting masturbation several times, and no wet dream. I made it several times to 1 month of no ejaculation, and one time, I hit my personal record of 2 months of masturbation and no ejaculation, and yet still, no wet dream.

I began to give up on the theory that if you quit masturbation and don't have any ejaculations that you will eventually get a wet dream. Until I saw this forum, and there's at least 2 or 3 success stories right here. This really inspired me to try it again now. Especially Mike's experience, since I'm pretty similar to him in age, past wet dream experience, equipment, etc.

So, here I am pledging my abstinence to you guys in the hopes for another wet dream. I don't know how I'm going to do it, but I'm going to give it my best to quit masturbating. I know from past experience that it is extremely difficult to do. I've found my choke points (the periods of time when I really get horny and the urge to masturbate becomes almost unbearable) is at about 6-7 days of not ejaculating, and again at around 3-4 weeks. Then it seems to stabilize and get easier a little bit after that.

I face many obstacles to achieving my goal:

1) as I mentioned I have a pretty strong sex drive, and I'm almost always horny. I usually don't get spontaneous erections during the day, but I get many at night, and I almost always wake up with morning wood.

2) I have my own apartment and live alone - I think this makes it more difficult, because I always have the privacy and ability to masturbate whenever I want.

3) I'm not busy with work at all, and I work from my home. I think keeping busy and the mind occupied with other things is the key to not thinking about mastubating. That's how I did my 2 month abstinence period - I was extremely busy at the time. I've got many hobbies and interests, so I'm never bored, but my mind always puts sexual thoughts and masturbation at the top of the 'things to do list'.

4) I'm a very talented auto fellatioist. That's right, I can suck myself. Easily. Its another temptation that I need to resist, and a difficult one to resist at that.

Here's how I plan to tackle my masturbation urges:

1) I will not touch my penis under any circumstances except to urinate. Everytime I broke my abstinence streak in the past, it was 'by accident' where I was horny and just playing with my penis just a little bit. But it would feel so good and I couldn't stop myself. I sometimes thought I would just stop before the point of no return, but I found that point came on a lot faster the longer I went without ejaculating, and I couldn't stop it. In some cases I would ejaculate without orgasm, and it would spurt out from just being highly aroused and not even touching my penis - similar to what happens with a wet dream. I figure if I don't touch my penis at all, this won't happen.

2) I plan to keep a diary of my progress, and what I'm feeling/experiencing. I've never had a diary before, but I really feel it will help me this time. When I get strong urges to masturbate, I plan to pick up my diary and write down in detail what I am feeling, instead of taking my hand to my penis and playing with it like I normally would. Its like a habit I need to break, similar to what smokers go through to quit smoking.

3) I hope to lean on you guys quite a bit for support and confidence. Since we're all in the same boat together, I think this will really help me stay on track. I've never had this kind of support before. Plus, the success stories will be inspirational (they already are).

I've got more to say, but I've been too windy as it is. Sorry for the long post guys.

So, my last ejaculation was on Saturday, 8/30 (ejaculated twice that day). So the count begins - got 2 days of abstinence under my belt so far... One day at a time...