Chat Room
Post your wet dream experiences and questions here.
Moderator: Moderators
by Barkin » Wed Oct 31, 2012 9:58 pm
Well after I ended a 12-day AB streak by MB Monday, a chain reaction of sorts took place. The feelings down there got more and more uncomfortable until I just kept trying to MB more in an effort to relieve the discomfort. There was a twinge of pain, like you might feel with a urinary tract infection. Well, subsequent EJ's produced very clumpy semen, some that was the consistency of oatmeal. I'm thinking that all of this can't be good, and I'm wondering both how to get over this other than to MB more frequently, and also whether I will be able to AB if this could become a chronic issue for me.
If I have a prostate infection, I have no health insurance. I don't want to injure myself. So I really don't know what to do from here, guys.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by Muz » Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:45 pm
Keep calm. If the pain is severe and/or persistent (ie. painfull all the time, or even just bad pain when you urinate) go see a doctor. If its a pain when you EJ, or mild when you urinate, try drink lots of water, avoid straining and MB for a couple of days. It's likely to improve in a day or so.
2013 WD vs. AB(time) : [WD@ day 11. WD@ day 37.] [WD@ day 4.] [WD@ day 18.] [WD@ day 31, WD@ day 38] [WD @ day 6, WD@ day 40
-
Muz
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 283
- Joined: Fri Oct 19, 2012 8:06 pm
- Age: 25
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 13
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 2
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 13 Sep 2013
- Sex: Male
by Rey92 » Wed Oct 31, 2012 11:13 pm
Go see a doctor, Barkin! I haven't seen my doctor which is bad. I have to be accompanied though because I will embarrassed. Besides, my soon-to-be surgeon cousin is the only who can accompany me because I tell him my sexual health problems.
I also had this sharp pain in my prostate when I had my first WD and when I MB after I had my first WD. I heard it's normal due to long period of time without stimulation down there. I also experienced that, the pain in the urethra when peeing after EJ which I only feel after MB twice.
Rey~
Patience is Virtue
-
Rey92
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 468
- Joined: Sat Aug 06, 2011 11:13 pm
- Age: 23
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 2
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: No Precum
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 2-3 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 23 Nov 2012
- Sex: Male
by Oldwise_Version_Two » Thu Nov 01, 2012 12:34 am
All in all go to your doctor is always the number 1 thing, Cross bridges when they come to them, it might not be anything serious so don't fret at this stage!
The Obsession With Bodily Fluid Is Maddening!
-
Oldwise_Version_Two
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 129
- Joined: Wed Mar 31, 2004 8:38 am
- Location: Essex, England, United Kingdom
- Age: 26
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 19 Sep 2010
- Sex: Male
-
by Barkin » Thu Nov 01, 2012 12:41 am
Okay, guys. There is a free clinic that opens in about 8 hours. I'm going to have them give me an exam. I'll keep you posted.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by Decks » Thu Nov 01, 2012 8:39 am
It is from not MBing. i know this because i had the same thing after my 32 day streak. if you MB a few times you will be fine. Drink water and MB a few times you will be set.
Restoring my Foreskin. Going well so far
-
Decks
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 87
- Joined: Thu Aug 30, 2012 1:45 am
- Location: New York State
- Age: 21
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Restored (was circumcised, now uncut)
- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 0- 0-2013
- Sex: Male
-
by doughs » Thu Nov 01, 2012 4:46 pm
The most common cause of prostatitis is not ejaculating often enough or ejaculating unevenly. You ought to ejaculate often. And if you're going to ejaculate seven times in a week, it's better if you do it once a day instead of three times on Saturday and four times on Sunday.
Frequent ejaculation also prevents prostate cancer. A team of doctors led by Dr. Graham Giles found that men who ejaculated most often when they were younger had the least incidence of prostate cancer later. They found this by surveying a group of men with prostate cancer and an age-matched group of men without it and asking how often they ejaculated at various times in their life. They concluded that masturbating is better than intercourse because the body gets exposed to STDs in intercourse. Dr. Giles recommends that younger males masturbate at least six times weekly.
In your case, I don't think you need a doctor right away. In fact, it might be counterproductive because the doctor will assume you have an STD and treat you with antibiotics that won't help your situation. I suggest resuming a normal male schedule of masturbating (3 times a week to start with) and take an appropriate anti-inflammatory daily. Soaking in a hot tub daily and cutting out caffeine is also apt to help.
-
doughs
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 116
- Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2010 12:04 pm
- Age: 37
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 8
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
- Sex: Male
by Barkin » Sat Nov 03, 2012 12:49 pm
So my mother had a week's worth of amoxicillin that she was okay with letting me take in the case that it's an infection, and I've added ibuprofen in the case that it's inflammation (I did some research and they are okay to take together). I have been MBing to EJ 3-6 times per day to help ease the swelling. For most of those EJ's, the semen is thick, and just wells up around the tip of my penis. But I can tell there is some progress since a couple of days ago since I'm able to pee without having to push like it's a B.M.... it's just very slow progress, is all. So I really don't know whether AB is going to be an option for me if this is the way my body's going to react. It does make me a little sad, but I don't want to have to start taking FloMax at 28... Maybe I could try a more gradual cutting back, but I'm a little scared to try it again, now.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by Barkin » Sat Nov 03, 2012 12:49 pm
So my mother had a week's worth of amoxicillin that she was okay with letting me take in the case that it's an infection, and I've added ibuprofen in the case that it's inflammation (I did some research and they are okay to take together). I have been MBing to EJ 3-6 times per day to help ease the swelling. For most of those EJ's, the semen is thick, and just wells up around the tip of my penis. But I can tell there is some progress since a couple of days ago since I'm able to pee without having to push like it's a B.M.... it's just very slow progress, is all. So I really don't know whether AB is going to be an option for me if this is the way my body's going to react. It does make me a little sad, but I don't want to have to start taking FloMax at 28... Maybe I could try a more gradual cutting back, but I'm a little scared to try it again, now.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by shadow_flare » Sun Nov 04, 2012 10:20 am
Have you considered cycling ab and mbing periods? One day mb and the next few you ab? I get the same issue if I abstain after a long period of just mbing. It is like a sudden shock from mbing after awhile or something. If it persists after mbing from abstaining do go see a doctor.
Current Day of Abstaining: --- Longest Abstaining Record: 36 Days November 2011-December 2011 Date of Last Wet Dream: 07/21/2013 Total # of Wet Dreams: 13; First WD 07/21/2010
-
shadow_flare
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 617
- Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:54 pm
- Age: 27
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 13
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Restored (was circumcised, now uncut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 06 Nov 2012
- Sex: Male
by goerichmond » Wed Nov 07, 2012 10:01 am
I have recently after a prolonged period of abstinence used the aneros progasm for a prostate massage as I felt that I am getting very congested down there. The results were almost as spectacular as a WD!
-
goerichmond
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 50
- Joined: Wed May 03, 2006 7:14 pm
by Barkin » Fri Nov 09, 2012 1:50 am
Thanks for the suggestions, guys.
The swelling in my prostate is finally completely gone as of today, and semen is finally flowing out normally when I EJ. I did not MB yesterday, but I did today. I'm going to try to go with the flow (ha ha) of when I actually feel a need to EJ, and see if that need might eventually decrease on its own as long as I EJ just when I feel like I absolutely need to vs. the old me in early September who would compulsively MB just for the sake of doing it. One thing I've learned from AB is that MB just isn't as fun as it used to be, anymore. Once I got out of the habit, it's become something that I slightly begrudgingly have to do, instead of something I look forward to.
I have a couple things to do with my free time to keep me busy and tired out by the end of the day. The prostate swelling issue is unfortunate, and I'm sorry that my body is not as ready as my mind is to be as ambitious as some of you are, but perhaps I will get there by this time of year next year.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by jameshodge » Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:45 pm
I had a similar pain and started reading up, I read a Super Beta Prostate supplement review and decided to give it a shot since it had no side effects and was natural. That worked for me. It has all the nutrients and mineral required to promote a healthy prostate and it tends to increase your libido, which I'm happy to say it actually does. Give it a shot, it might work for you too.
-
jameshodge
- Newbie
-
- Posts: 2
- Joined: Tue Nov 27, 2012 10:17 pm
- Age: 26
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
- Precum Production: No Precum
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 27 Nov 2012
- Sex: Male
by Barkin » Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:34 am
Hi, jameshodge. In hopes that you did not just throw this response up here as a salesperson for the product, I will say that I HAD heard about this product a while back, but when I went to the web site, the only option available was the free sample bottle. I would like a free trial, sure, but I did not see anywhere on the site that directed to a paid order page for that particular product.
-
Barkin
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 136
- Joined: Wed May 30, 2012 11:52 pm
- Age: 29
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 15
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Oct 2012
- Sex: Male
by jdavis » Thu Nov 29, 2012 5:07 am
I like to slowly get into AB like if I was MB once a day I would slow to every other then to every fourth and then stop so that my body gets a chance to get used to it. It's always worked for me and I don't haven't had any problems since I started doing this.
Don't know if it would help you but I just thought I'd share.
-
jdavis
- Advanced Member
-
- Posts: 114
- Joined: Sat Feb 28, 2009 2:10 am
- Age: 28
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 4
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
- Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Other
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 09 Oct 2013
- Sex: Male
by endymion4 » Sun Dec 02, 2012 7:26 am
After I've ABed for about 10-14 days I start noticing a bit more discomfort and sometimes pain in my balls and prostate. Generally, if it doesn't go away I break the streak with an orgasm, and then everything feels better. It's generally best if it's a quick masturbation session instead of a long one. When I have a long masturbation session after abstaining for a while the orgasm tends to be more painful vs a few smaller quick orgasms.
-
endymion4
- Newbie
-
- Posts: 15
- Joined: Thu Feb 17, 2011 1:44 pm
- Age: 24
- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 2
- Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
- Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 15
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Sex: Male
Return to Wet Dream Forums - General Discussion
Who is online
Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot], lucifer and 4 guests
|