I have never had any real WD but I had some sort of (without ejaculation) WD. But the most weird thing is that most of the time I dream of somebody I never want to have sex in reality.
I have never even though of that, yet for unknown reason that person keeps coming into my dream (or WD).I feel much pained after I wake up. How come it keeps happening. Can we someway manipulate what we see or who we desire in WD (though WD doesnt have to be involved with a person). I feel sooooooooo ashamed and guilty after I wake up but I have no control over this. Is there any way out ? I am in AB for 15 days. I m drwaing closer to real WD this time but at the same time I fear that WD...
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by drkfuture » Sun Jan 01, 2012 1:34 am
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by jonesz » Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:01 am
Maybe you should try Lucid Dreaming techniques.
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by XRyanq » Wed Jul 18, 2012 4:25 pm
I recognized a recurrent scene which helped me get wd. You may do the oppisite and recognize the person, then back out of it and try to find a diff person. Try to stay somewhat lucid and keep on track. It helps me to speak aloud in my dreams what i am doing so i dont't get sidetracked. My concentration is for about 5 seconds if i am not careful.
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by SuckerPunch » Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:12 pm
Unwanted dream encounters happen man its really nothing to be ashamed of.
I don't believe there is any subconsious message hidden in there. Sometimes sure but dreams are pretty random and I just learned to accept that and laugh them off when they happen.
I understand not wanting to ruin your WD on one of those so lucid is a really good idea but don't waste any time feeling ashamed of yourself or over thinking it when they happen.
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by jaketoronto » Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:54 pm
Why do you feel guilty and shamed? I agree that there is no hidden message in these dreams. I've had dreams where I was doing sensual stuff with the most random people I know (not unattractive.. just people I never looked at it that way) and it makes me giggle when I see them in person the next time, but that's about it. It wasn't particularly during my AB days, so I don't know if MB would help reduce them. Just don't give much thought to it. 
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by jonesz » Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:01 am
Maybe you should try Lucid Dreaming techniques.
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by XRyanq » Wed Jul 18, 2012 4:25 pm
I recognized a recurrent scene which helped me get wd. You may do the oppisite and recognize the person, then back out of it and try to find a diff person. Try to stay somewhat lucid and keep on track. It helps me to speak aloud in my dreams what i am doing so i dont't get sidetracked. My concentration is for about 5 seconds if i am not careful.
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- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by SuckerPunch » Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:12 pm
Unwanted dream encounters happen man its really nothing to be ashamed of.
I don't believe there is any subconsious message hidden in there. Sometimes sure but dreams are pretty random and I just learned to accept that and laugh them off when they happen.
I understand not wanting to ruin your WD on one of those so lucid is a really good idea but don't waste any time feeling ashamed of yourself or over thinking it when they happen.
I don't believe there is any subconsious message hidden in there. Sometimes sure but dreams are pretty random and I just learned to accept that and laugh them off when they happen.
I understand not wanting to ruin your WD on one of those so lucid is a really good idea but don't waste any time feeling ashamed of yourself or over thinking it when they happen.
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Re: UNWANTED WD...ANY SUGGESTION, PLS HELP
by jaketoronto » Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:54 pm
Why do you feel guilty and shamed? I agree that there is no hidden message in these dreams. I've had dreams where I was doing sensual stuff with the most random people I know (not unattractive.. just people I never looked at it that way) and it makes me giggle when I see them in person the next time, but that's about it. It wasn't particularly during my AB days, so I don't know if MB would help reduce them. Just don't give much thought to it.
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