Wet Dream Forum

I've had frequent WDs ... almost 2-3 a week when I was a teenager, but then started MB n the frequency went down slowly .. still have them even without AB'ing - once in 2-3 months, but now I'm dying to become a full time WDer.

For me it's really going to be an uphill task, as I can't stop thinking about sex and am hard most of the time .. though I've been a member for quite a long time, never really thought of AB'ing as I was anyway getting WDs .. but the sweetness of the WD experience has really grown on me.

Though I still get these boners, my first accomplishment as Traveling guy pointed out to me in chat was to go hands-free .. hoping to keep it that way and progress to the next step, where I completely drop porn and erotica.

I was fortunate enough to get a WD the first day I decided to AB last weekend, when I fell asleep listening to Jackpot-no hands. Hope there's more to come.

Would be good to see how it goes from here ...

so the jackpot recording really worked for you?

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Longest AB: 17 Days
SEs Experienced: 0
WDs Experienced: 0
Day of Last MB of AB with Infrequent MB: December 1, 2012

sure didn't the way it was supposed to .. I should get a hands free waking ejac to say it did .. this one off WD could be just my fascination that worked ... I tried to sleep to jackpot for the whole of last week .. nothing happened!

I guess hearing music that long while sleeping might affect our ears. I tried sleeping with it I guess around twice though not consecutive nights but no results at all.

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Longest AB: 17 Days
SEs Experienced: 0
WDs Experienced: 0
Day of Last MB of AB with Infrequent MB: December 1, 2012

I had the same thoughts, but continued hearing it in the hope it would work yet again ... stopped since last night ... but I normally listen to music with earphones till I feel sleepy, because it makes me forget everything elese. Maybe it's time to break the habit.

Cutting out the porn will do wonders with helping you manage your thoughts. The less you are thinking abt sex, the less tempted you will be to MB and will be less distracted in general. Like they say, garbage in, garbage out.

Check out www.yourbrainonporn.com. Fascinating site. Lots of stories from guys who have gone w/out porn and masturbation for 60-90 days and how that helped them out. It has been just over a month since I have watched any porn clips (I have MB'd 3 times during that time; Before I was MBing abt 4 or 5 Xs a week), and I feel so mich better about muself, my body (including my man bits), am more confident, feel more positively masculine, have more drive towards woman, think dirty thoughts less, i rarely feel depressed, am more affectionate even with my guy friends, I am driven to work out more consistently, etc. All great things.

I don't know how your porn usage has affected you, but it's worth a shot to stay away from it for a while ( and give up MB during that tome as much as you can), and see what happens. WDs are just a side benefit!

Good luck

@Squeeze - I have certainly become somewhat of a porn addict and while I am trying to keep away from it, feeling some withdrawal symptoms - every time I start the internet, I feel like surfing for porn ... but I think I'm recovering slowly. Checked the site, but then feel confident enough that I'll be able to wean myself away from porn without any help.

Was super horny yesterday .. hard almost all the time ... but no morning wood today ... did get random boners during the day ... worked my ass off .. did 12 hours in office ... bossy was annoying as usual , but I managed to keep cool probably for the first time and without giving in ... guess this was the effect of AB'ing .. (even if it isn't, I'd like to attribute all the good to it). Did a nice job at presentations ... loved the waterfall graph that I created so much that I was singing all the way to myself ... "Sexy n I know it"

Feeling high even now .. must be the t-buzz .. but had a semen like substance in my pee today .. sticky and whitish .. did I just lose the jizz?!! I hope not ..

Anyhow .. also learnt about foreskin restoration last night .. worked on it too whenever I went to the washroom during the day .. hoping to get it back .. that's all for now!

Awesome on all accounts! Yeah, that prolly was some semen that leaked out in your pee. That's completely normal when your "tanks" are full. It's one way (along w/wet dreams) that your body keeps things clean and healthy. It also means that your body is looking for alternate ways to release your man fluids. It seems like a lot of guys get that sometimes before a wet dream comes. And don't worry abt your tanks getting empty from tht. Just like a guy can MB daily and still have enough semen, a little leakage like this won't deplete your ability to have a wet dream.

And props on looking into foreskin restoration. Where did u get ur information from?

"I'm sexy and I know it!" - haha. "I work out!"

It just can't get any worse!

Firstly no boner in the morning

My car's petrol tank cap got lost ... spent 3 hours looking for it n finally went and got a new one .. All this when have to work on the next year's plans! Had simply turned off my BB during this ordeal .. probably boss got mad ... cancelled all meetings ... well that's one good thing that came out of all this ...I really needed the time to prepare myself

Was so sleepy by the time I got into office .. almost dozed off staring at the computer screen!!

Silver lining - my boy decided to wake up while I was nodding off at my desk ... enough to make me happy

@Squeeze - Diy told me about restoration .. checked it out on restoringforeskin.org .. quite impressed with some of the results, but it seems like an uphill task

Day 11 for me today ... horny despite having a whole lot of work ... trying really really hard not to MB!

Day 12 - Don't understand what's wrong! No boners except in the morning ... May be the work's taking a toll.

Some guys experience a dead period where they seem to be sexually dead. So, don't worry. Just hang in there.

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Hey jack,

There comes a time while you are abstaining wherein boners entirely disappear( except for the morning wood ). Or sometimes some guys don't even have their morning erections..But, there is nothing to worry about; Your brain and body is re-booting itself as the masturbation habit is being released. Sometimes work too can pre-occupy you and you'll find a vacuum in you. Just hold on and be strong!! Consider yourself lucky that there are no over-the-top urges that can make you indulge in a 'wank'...But I do agree that the best part of abstaining is the increased horniness...I'm sure that too will return with time...

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Total SE's experienced since joining - 2
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Best AB cycle since joining - 14 days

sure .. maybe that's a phase almost everyone who's ab'ing hits some time. It's however quite excruciating ... I almost start to wonder if I've maybe lost the ability to get hard! That's terrible ... last night I almost lost it when I wanted to wank off while watching "Harry Potter" .. come on! there's nothing sexual about it, is there? ... one good thing however did happen to me ... for the first time in may be last 2-3 years, I could actually sleep peacefully .. usually I would wake up atleast 5-6 times during the night and never get a sound sleep ... slightest of sounds bother me and I find myself tired even in the morning