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PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:04 am 
Well, I finally found how masturbation is a sin. For those who want to know, here it is.

Adultery
"You have heard it is said 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you anyone who looks at a women lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than your whole body to go into hell."
Matthew 5:27-30


This has helped me a TREMENDOUS amount. Now knowing my eternal soul can burn for all eternity if I look at a women for sex. Repent and bye-bye masturbation!


Still... does hentai countXD


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 5:34 am 
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Guys, I think you may be a bit over reacting about the MB issue. For one don't you realize that your sex drive is a gift from God. Is it not true that if God created you a sexual being, that it would be natural for you to have sexual desires. Those desires we men have are not evil! They are ingrained in us, to make us seek out a wife and to be fruitful and multiply. If we had no sexual desires, then our need for a wife would be insignificant. I do agree we need to not have roaming eyes, and a heart full of lust. But it is natural for us guys to notice a beautiful woman. Don't be like the bleeding Pharisees who legalisticly tried to make themselves righteous by walking around with covering over their eyes so they wouldn't look at a woman.

I am thankful everyday for my sexual vigor and vitality. The key is however, that an untamed sex drive is a dangerous thing. We end up committing fornication, looking at porn, and become slaves to sexual pleasures. God wants us to enjoy sex and to enjoy the pleasures of sex, but not be a slave to sex. In the confines of marriage, sex is used to strengthen the marriage bond. But sex is more about giving than getting. Look at 1 Corinthian 7

1Co 7:1 Now concerning the things you wrote about: It's good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Co 7:2 But because sexual immorality is so rampant, every man should have his own wife, and every woman should have her own husband.
1Co 7:3 A husband should fulfill his obligation to his wife, and a wife should do the same for her husband.
1Co 7:4 A wife does not have authority over her own body, but her husband does. In the same way, a husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but his wife does.
1Co 7:5 Do not withhold yourselves from each other unless you agree to do so for a set time in order to devote yourselves to prayer. Then you should come together again so that Satan does not tempt you through your lack of self-control.
1Co 7:6 But I say this as a concession, not as a command.
1Co 7:7 I would like everyone to be like me. However, each person has a special gift from God, one this and another that.
1Co 7:8 I say to those who are unmarried, especially to widows: It is good for them to remain like me.
1Co 7:9 However, if they cannot control themselves, they should get married, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Our goal when it comes to sex, is to make sure that we are pleasing our wife sexually. We want to exhilirate her and focus on giving her ultimate satisifaction from sex. When our goal is to pleasure our wife instead of ourselves, then we have a biblical view of sex. Also our wife should have the same mindset, and it should be her upmost goal to satisfy us sexually. So you can see that if sex was selfish, then no one would truly enjoy it as much. It would be no different than masturbation.

Lust - Selfishness
Love - Selflessness

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 11:07 am 
rdgann wrote:
Guys, I think you may be a bit over reacting about the MB issue. For one don't you realize that your sex drive is a gift from God. Is it not true that if God created you a sexual being, that it would be natural for you to have sexual desires. Those desires we men have are not evil! They are ingrained in us, to make us seek out a wife and to be fruitful and multiply. If we had no sexual desires, then our need for a wife would be insignificant. I do agree we need to not have roaming eyes, and a heart full of lust. But it is natural for us guys to notice a beautiful woman. Don't be like the bleeding Pharisees who legalisticly tried to make themselves righteous by walking around with covering over their eyes so they wouldn't look at a woman.

I am thankful everyday for my sexual vigor and vitality. The key is however, that an untamed sex drive is a dangerous thing. We end up committing fornication, looking at porn, and become slaves to sexual pleasures. God wants us to enjoy sex and to enjoy the pleasures of sex, but not be a slave to sex. In the confines of marriage, sex is used to strengthen the marriage bond. But sex is more about giving than getting. Look at 1 Corinthian 7

1Co 7:1 Now concerning the things you wrote about: It's good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Co 7:2 But because sexual immorality is so rampant, every man should have his own wife, and every woman should have her own husband.
1Co 7:3 A husband should fulfill his obligation to his wife, and a wife should do the same for her husband.
1Co 7:4 A wife does not have authority over her own body, but her husband does. In the same way, a husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but his wife does.
1Co 7:5 Do not withhold yourselves from each other unless you agree to do so for a set time in order to devote yourselves to prayer. Then you should come together again so that Satan does not tempt you through your lack of self-control.
1Co 7:6 But I say this as a concession, not as a command.
1Co 7:7 I would like everyone to be like me. However, each person has a special gift from God, one this and another that.
1Co 7:8 I say to those who are unmarried, especially to widows: It is good for them to remain like me.
1Co 7:9 However, if they cannot control themselves, they should get married, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

Our goal when it comes to sex, is to make sure that we are pleasing our wife sexually. We want to exhilirate her and focus on giving her ultimate satisifaction from sex. When our goal is to pleasure our wife instead of ourselves, then we have a biblical view of sex. Also our wife should have the same mindset, and it should be her upmost goal to satisfy us sexually. So you can see that if sex was selfish, then no one would truly enjoy it as much. It would be no different than masturbation.

Lust - Selfishness
Love - Selflessness

What am I overreacting about? I just said masturbation really is a sin. It is adultery. You're getting into marriage. Oh sure, any guy can want to have sex, but my point is sexual desire for every woman is adultery and that is a sin. You kind of brought my point further saying sex is bad outside of marriage. I don't care much to bring up that point.

Another thing is that my stopping of lust is also through the thinking of women as people, and not sexual objects--not covering my eyes. Not that I went to any extreme looking at attractive women lustfully, but I've had trouble not eye-humping them.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2007 5:50 pm 
Very good find, I've read this before and a few others related to it. Regarding your question about hentai, I found a site with one of the passages you posted, and from what I've read, it doesn't specifically point out hentai as being sinful, but I wouldn't doubt it. <a href='http://www.new-life.net/mastrbte.htm#THE%20DOWNSIDE%20OF%20MASTURBATION' target='_blank'>the bible and masturbation</a>
Again, I can't say whats right for you and whats not, but I just posted it so you could read it if you haven't already. What I gathered from the whole page is that masturbation/lust after someone to whom you aren't married to is a sin, but within a marriage, MB'ing with sexual desire for your spouse is ok.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 7:08 am 
If you think masturbation is a sin, then you should read this. It helped me get over my guilt when I masturbated frequently <a href='http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/masturbation-sin.htm' target='_blank'>History of Masturbation</a>

Also, in Leviticus, when God spells out what is sexually right and wrong, not once does He even hint at masturbation.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:13 pm 
Phoenix wrote:
If you think masturbation is a sin, then you should read this. It helped me get over my guilt when I masturbated frequently <a href='http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/masturbation-sin.htm' target='_blank'>History of Masturbation</a>

Also, in Leviticus, when God spells out what is sexually right and wrong, not once does He even hint at masturbation.

That article is interesting, but wrong on my point.

Matthews is, of couse, in the New Testament. Jesus was the one talking in the verse I gave. Also, I am a Protestant. I don't know the new books in the King Jame's Bibles. Let me make this absolutely clear about what I am saying:

Jesus said that looking at a women lustfully is a sin.

Masturbation=Looking at women lustfully

It is impossible to masturbate without lust.

That is not from the questionable Catholic parts of the Bible.


Reading over more of the website, it says the Bible says do not lust for others (others--people other than spouse).


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 3:17 am 
I don't think about a woman lustfully. I just think about having a good time with myself so it is possible to masturbate without lust.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 7:04 pm 
Phoenix wrote:
I don't think about a woman lustfully. I just think about having a good time with myself so it is possible to masturbate without lust.

A good time with yourselfXD Yeah, you can pretty much say whatever you want. That still sounds like a sin, though. I might be able to find something on that. Sounds like you are gay. You either gay enough to want to screw yourself, or you are straight and lust after women. Another thing, how long until you get board of having sex with yourself? It leads straight into lust.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 1:12 pm 
For the record, I am not gay. And has it ever occured to you that maybe people can get off in different ways. We are both different people and thus capable of being to do different things differently.

And insults don't really add to and support your argument. So, lay off the insults and only say what is factual because it is hard to take people like you seriously.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 6:27 pm 
Phoenix wrote:
For the record, I am not gay. And has it ever occured to you that maybe people can get off in different ways. We are both different people and thus capable of being to do different things differently.

And insults don't really add to and support your argument. So, lay off the insults and only say what is factual because it is hard to take people like you seriously.

You fully dodged my points. Unless you are a guy and a girl then you are gay if you masturbate to yourself. The other point is at one point you are going to get sick of masturbating to yourself.

Another thing, doesn't it sound egotistical to masturbate to yourself?


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 12:36 pm 
Whatever. I'm done with this. <_<


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 11:49 am 
OK, I'm back and over my anger. Pubertyclimax, before you said that I was fully dodging your lust points so I searched the internet and found this website. But since you are so dead set that masturbation is lustful, I doubt it will even make a dent in your view on masturbation.


<a href='http://sexinchrist.com/masturbation.html' target='_blank'>Masturbation God's Gift to Us</a>

The website at one point touches upon what I've been saying about masturbating lustfully. When looking at their wording, they suggest that it is possible to masturbate without lust.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 1:44 pm 
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Phoenix, I think your website you sent was a fraudulent website about Christianity and masturbation. The website also implies threesomes and other forms of inappropriate sexual behavior. The website is not written from a Christian spirit, but from someone who wants to accommodate a sinful lifestyle into the role of Christianity.

Though the Bible is silent on the MB issue. I do believe God wants us to be pure and holy and not a slave to MB. God gave us a sex drive and it is not evil in and of itself. However it is our responsibility to use it in a way that honors him. I agree that I have morning woods every morning and they are not associated with lust. It is part of my REM sleep cycle. I enjoy WDS and find them far more superior than MB anyway.

I am not the judge, God is.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 8:55 am 
I'm a Catholic, sexual sins are: masturbation, fornication, adultery, in fact the ONLY correct sex it vaginal intercourse between a man and his wife, without any form of contraception.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:43 pm 
Non-orgasmic sex make the couple more strongly bonded, and has many health benefits. Regular orgasmic sex forces the couple apart. The Catholic church's teaching would cause a marriage to be more likely to fail.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:22 am 
Thought I'd chime in on this.
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Jesus said that looking at a women lustfully is a sin.
True.

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Masturbation=Looking at women lustfully
Not true.
Masturbation is generally understood as stimulating ones genitals for pleasure.
"Looking at women lustfully" is generally understood as looking at women lustfully. You can also understand it to mean fantasizing about women.
The two are completely separate activities, and can be done independently of each other. Perhaps you usually combine the two activities, but the fact is that they are not the same thing.

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It is impossible to masturbate without lust.
Maybe the way you do it.
Sometimes when I masturbate, I'm not fantasizing or "lusting" at all: I pretty much just close my eyes, sink back in the tub and focus on the physical sensations and feelings. (I admit that sometimes I do fantasize about my wife.)
I enjoy this basic pleasure and do not believe that it makes me letcherous or gay. I do not want to screw myself. (Besides, I'm not flexible enough for that!) I also enjoy eating and do not believe that it makes me gluttonous or fat. As I understand the bible, we are to control or bridle our passions, not stifle them. I agree with rdgann that we are not meant to be a slave to MB or any of our physical passions. The key question is "who is in control": you or your body?

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Unless you are a guy and a girl then you are gay if you masturbate to yourself.
Not true. Also, this is a direct contradiction of the previously quoted statement.
Although masturbation could be considered a homosexual activity (since it involves only one sex), it doesn't necessarily effect your sexual orientation.

I don't mind at all if your religion prohibits or disdains masturbation. (Mine does, but I still do it from time to time anyway.) I support you in following your beliefs.
What I do not agree with is creating or propagating falsehoods to support your arguments.
If you say: "God considers masturbating sinful", then you move the field of argument from semantics, scientific research or even my personal experience to your personal theological views. At that point, the most I could do is say: "I believe that too" or "I don't believe that".
(Note: I don't care what scientific research says about masturbation. My point is that faith often has little to do with scientific research.)


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 12:08 pm 
Ultimately we all use our brains to make a judgement for ourselves what to do with our own bodies. Following religious leaders like sheep or considering some book the word of God isn't what I do, and isn't what I'd recommend other do, but if that's the way you want to live your life then it's up to you.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 12:10 pm 
pheobus wrote:
The key question is "who is in control": you or your body?

A good question. Many people are controlled by their addictions. I have overcome my addiction to MB and now fully control my body.


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I fully control my body on two levels: conscious and unconscious. When I have a dream that I don't (consciously) control, while that's true from my conscious perspective, unconsciously I am controlling my dream. I'm not consciously controlling my dream, just as I control my breathing, but not consciously.

Everything else in your post is your own conjecture.

anonymous2007usa said: "[..] While you do not say so explicitly, you seem to imply that now that you have abandoned religion you are able to use reason to govern your life. [..]"

I have always used my intuition and experience to create my reality, what I read forms part of my experience. Belief in Catholicism seems to be based on 'faith,' which is to believe without reason -- faith and reason are a duality. I see a devout Catholic as the same and opposite as someone like Richard Dawkins; neither has an open mind.


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I mean they are in opposition as complementary opposites, like night and day, yin and yang etc. but they are both belief systems. I am imprisoned by neither, hence I use experience and intuition to create reality.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:49 am 
Adultery is also very sinful in Islam and is considered haraam. It is forbidden in Islam for a man and a woman to have an illicit relationship and to have sex outside of marriage. This means no married man or woman can have an illicit relationship with someone other than their spouse and no form of homosexuality is allowed which is also haraam[2]. However, the Qur’an gives a man permission to have sexual relations with his wives: “The believers must (eventually) win through, those who humble themselves in their prayers; who avoid vain talk; who are active in deeds of charity; who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond, or (the captives) whom their right hands possess, for (in their case) they are free from blame” (23:1-6). A Muslim is not to have sexual relations with a woman who is married to someone else “And all married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess. It is a decree of Allah for you” (4:24).


so guys its a good tip i started to do it helps alot when u see any sexy girl lower your gaze it will help u alot ..... girls in movies , news , market , class rooms where ever


why you christians are so afraid of doing sins .............. don;t mind people say that PROPHET JESUS (Peace Be Upon Him) died for ur sins

still MD makes alots of problems so stop it


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 3:45 am 
abdul aziz wrote:
Adultery is also very sinful in Islam and is considered haraam. It is forbidden in Islam for a man and a woman to have an illicit relationship and to have sex outside of marriage. This means no married man or woman can have an illicit relationship with someone other than their spouse and no form of homosexuality is allowed which is also haraam[2]. However, the Qur’an gives a man permission to have sexual relations with his wives: “The believers must (eventually) win through, those who humble themselves in their prayers; who avoid vain talk; who are active in deeds of charity; who abstain from sex, except with those joined to them in the marriage bond, or (the captives) whom their right hands possess, for (in their case) they are free from blame” (23:1-6). A Muslim is not to have sexual relations with a woman who is married to someone else “And all married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess. It is a decree of Allah for you” (4:24).


so guys its a good tip i started to do it helps alot when u see any sexy girl lower your gaze it will help u alot ..... girls in movies , news , market , class rooms where ever


why you christians are so afraid of doing sins .............. don;t mind people say that PROPHET JESUS (Peace Be Upon Him) died for ur sins

still MD makes alots of problems so stop it

Finding someone sexually attractive is normal. Acting on it may be be harmful to yourself and others - if so don't do it! There is no shame is being attracted to a married woman, for example. But to deliberately court her or lust after her would be dangerous because of where it could lead. You can choose to think negative and unhelpful thoughts about anything, or choose to think positive and helpful thoughts. Since we are human beings, we are subject to our human urges to a certain extent - thirst, hunger, sexual desire, etc.


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pubertyclimax wrote:
Phoenix wrote:

That is not from the questionable Catholic parts of the Bible.




and what exactly are the parts of the bible? the parts people don't like? it's odd. you look out and you see christians protesting against gay marriage and saying masturbation is a terrible sin, and yet you never see anyone promoting the stoning of disobbediant children or having sex with your dead brother's wife. i say that if you truly want to call yourself a christian, you can't just pick and choose passages in the bible.

the bible should not be used as a moral handbook. you may agree that masturbation is bad but do you also agree that it's ok to sell your daughter into slavery?

again, you can't pick and choose so either believe it all or stop calling yourself christian. religion in itself is no more than substitutes for questions people don't know the real answers to. the bible itslef is no more than an astrotheological literary hybrid. in other words it's a book of fairy tales based on astrology.

don't let religion bind you. be free of such senseless beliefs. the bible may state that it is a sin to look at a women with lust, but it is not possible to go through life without doing so. our human brains are wired to be attractedto women. it's a little thing called testosterone. when you turn your head to look at a girls butt as she walkes by, it doesn't mean you're perverted, it's just the animalistic tendencies of your brain kicking in and the girl just has a really nice ass!


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 3:42 pm 
I really like you taosty but you cant be so manipulative in your language you loaded your statement.

Toasty wrote:
pubertyclimax wrote:
Phoenix wrote:

That is not from the questionable Catholic parts of the Bible.




and what exactly are the parts of the bible? the parts people don't like? it's odd. you look out and you see christians protesting against gay marriage and saying masturbation is a terrible sin, and yet you never see anyone promoting the stoning of disobbediant children or having sex with your dead brother's wife. i say that if you truly want to call yourself a christian, you can't just pick and choose passages in the bible.

What was meant is that Martin Luther on his own decided that he didnt like what parts of the bible had to say so he took out seven books that had always been used by Christians. Catechism of the Catholic Church
2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139
and To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.

I absolutely agree you cant just pick and choose what parts of Revelation you want to believe if you do that then you are not Christian at all. however as for the whole stoning bit
I suggest that you check your NT a little closer.



Toasty wrote:
the bible should not be used as a moral handbook. you may agree that masturbation is bad but do you also agree that it's ok to sell your daughter into slavery?


There are three sets of laws in the OT and you cannot treat them equal. Somethings pertain to the Old while they are fulfilled in the New for example we do not circumcise our Children we baptise them. Circumcision is a stipulant of the Old covenant it is how you enter into the covenant with God where as Baptism is the new Circumcision it is how you enter the new covenant. the three types of laws are Divine, Natural, and Moral. I will remind you that "Slavery" as defined in the OT is not what most people think of as slavery (this is what I mean by you loading your question) for example in the OT if you beat a slave you had to pay reperation and if you did damage then you had to free them and pay them. Also slavery could not last for more than 7 years that is unless the individual chose to remain a slave. it was much more like indentured servatude.

Toasty wrote:
again, you can't pick and choose so either believe it all or stop calling yourself christian. religion in itself is no more than substitutes for questions people don't know the real answers to. the bible itslef is no more than an astrotheological literary hybrid. in other words it's a book of fairy tales based on astrology.
interesting... I was an Atheist for several years and knew better than that. The books of the bible are not based on astrology and no serious historian would say so. There are different literary types within the bible for example some is poetry while others are history and others are meant as fiction. For example it is widely thought by many even some of the early Church Fathers that the book of Tobit was fiction, it is not that it is a lie (fiction in its original sense did not mean lie or untruth) it was simply a moral story. This is while other books like more historic. Even Genesis since the begining there has always been some understanding that Genesis is not so much about a literal 7 day creation but is rather meant to demonstrate a point. To make this fact clear Ch 1 and Ch 2 conflict, common sense would say even if you go with the 5 author theory the editor should be smart enough not to make Ch1 so directly conflict with Ch 2. that is unless its not meant to be taken in a strict sense. and again i agree you need to believe in the whole thing.

Toasty wrote:
don't let religion bind you. be free of such senseless beliefs. the bible may state that it is a sin to look at a women with lust, but it is not possible to go through life without doing so. our human brains are wired to be attractedto women. it's a little thing called testosterone. when you turn your head to look at a girls butt as she walkes by, it doesn't mean you're perverted, it's just the animalistic tendencies of your brain kicking in and the girl just has a really nice ass!

There is a famous saying by Bishop Sheed "I do not know many one hand one eyed theologians." Another words Christ did not mean literally to cut off your hand our cut out your eyes. its called hyperbole. and you really dont understand with lust is, what you discribed is not lust. Lust is a deliberate act of the will for example undressing a woman with your eyes. If however your mind wanders and you are not aware of your thoughts at that moment then you are not as culpable.
and as for being blinded by religion, funny thing that reminded me of myself. 10 years as an atheist is a long time. I could tare down Christianity with the best of them, I had read everything from Russel to Nietzsche. Hell i have even read every book written by Anton LaVey. that man does not have one original thought he is a plagerist from crawly, Nietzche, Russel, and jung, with some freud in there. By they way i still like Nietzsche. You should learn what Christianity is before you start bashing it.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 3:59 am 
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I really like you taosty but you cant be so manipulative in your language you loaded your statement.

That is not from the questionable Catholic parts of the Bible.



and what exactly are the parts of the bible? the parts people don't like? it's odd. you look out and you see christians protesting against gay marriage and saying masturbation is a terrible sin, and yet you never see anyone promoting the stoning of disobbediant children or having sex with your dead brother's wife. i say that if you truly want to call yourself a christian, you can't just pick and choose passages in the bible.
What was meant is that Martin Luther on his own decided that he didnt like what parts of the bible had to say so he took out seven books that had always been used by Christians. Catechism of the Catholic Church
2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139
and To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.

I absolutely agree you cant just pick and choose what parts of Revelation you want to believe if you do that then you are not Christian at all. however as for the whole stoning bit
I suggest that you check your NT a little closer.




the bible should not be used as a moral handbook. you may agree that masturbation is bad but do you also agree that it's ok to sell your daughter into slavery?

There are three sets of laws in the OT and you cannot treat them equal. Somethings pertain to the Old while they are fulfilled in the New for example we do not circumcise our Children we baptise them. Circumcision is a stipulant of the Old covenant it is how you enter into the covenant with God where as Baptism is the new Circumcision it is how you enter the new covenant. the three types of laws are Divine, Natural, and Moral. I will remind you that "Slavery" as defined in the OT is not what most people think of as slavery (this is what I mean by you loading your question) for example in the OT if you beat a slave you had to pay reperation and if you did damage then you had to free them and pay them. Also slavery could not last for more than 7 years that is unless the individual chose to remain a slave. it was much more like indentured servatude.

again, you can't pick and choose so either believe it all or stop calling yourself christian. religion in itself is no more than substitutes for questions people don't know the real answers to. the bible itslef is no more than an astrotheological literary hybrid. in other words it's a book of fairy tales based on astrology. interesting... I was an Atheist for several years and knew better than that. The books of the bible are not based on astrology and no serious historian would say so. There are different literary types within the bible for example some is poetry while others are history and others are meant as fiction. For example it is widely thought by many even some of the early Church Fathers that the book of Tobit was fiction, it is not that it is a lie (fiction in its original sense did not mean lie or untruth) it was simply a moral story. This is while other books like more historic. Even Genesis since the begining there has always been some understanding that Genesis is not so much about a literal 7 day creation but is rather meant to demonstrate a point. To make this fact clear Ch 1 and Ch 2 conflict, common sense would say even if you go with the 5 author theory the editor should be smart enough not to make Ch1 so directly conflict with Ch 2. that is unless its not meant to be taken in a strict sense. and again i agree you need to believe in the whole thing.

don't let religion bind you. be free of such senseless beliefs. the bible may state that it is a sin to look at a women with lust, but it is not possible to go through life without doing so. our human brains are wired to be attractedto women. it's a little thing called testosterone. when you turn your head to look at a girls butt as she walkes by, it doesn't mean you're perverted, it's just the animalistic tendencies of your brain kicking in and the girl just has a really nice ass!
There is a famous saying by Bishop Sheed "I do not know many one hand one eyed theologians." Another words Christ did not mean literally to cut off your hand our cut out your eyes. its called hyperbole. and you really dont understand with lust is, what you discribed is not lust. Lust is a deliberate act of the will for example undressing a woman with your eyes. If however your mind wanders and you are not aware of your thoughts at that moment then you are not as culpable.
and as for being blinded by religion, funny thing that reminded me of myself. 10 years as an atheist is a long time. I could tare down Christianity with the best of them, I had read everything from Russel to Nietzsche. Hell i have even read every book written by Anton LaVey. that man does not have one original thought he is a plagerist from crawly, Nietzche, Russel, and jung, with some freud in there. By they way i still like Nietzsche. You should learn what Christianity is before you start bashing it.


Read as many books as you like .. then please use your own minds to decide how you want to live your lives. The bible is a collection of stories .. to take it seriously would be like taking any other fairy tale seriously.


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Thursday wrote:
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I really like you taosty but you cant be so manipulative in your language you loaded your statement.

That is not from the questionable Catholic parts of the Bible.



and what exactly are the parts of the bible? the parts people don't like? it's odd. you look out and you see christians protesting against gay marriage and saying masturbation is a terrible sin, and yet you never see anyone promoting the stoning of disobbediant children or having sex with your dead brother's wife. i say that if you truly want to call yourself a christian, you can't just pick and choose passages in the bible.
What was meant is that Martin Luther on his own decided that he didnt like what parts of the bible had to say so he took out seven books that had always been used by Christians. Catechism of the Catholic Church
2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139
and To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.

I absolutely agree you cant just pick and choose what parts of Revelation you want to believe if you do that then you are not Christian at all. however as for the whole stoning bit
I suggest that you check your NT a little closer.




the bible should not be used as a moral handbook. you may agree that masturbation is bad but do you also agree that it's ok to sell your daughter into slavery?

There are three sets of laws in the OT and you cannot treat them equal. Somethings pertain to the Old while they are fulfilled in the New for example we do not circumcise our Children we baptise them. Circumcision is a stipulant of the Old covenant it is how you enter into the covenant with God where as Baptism is the new Circumcision it is how you enter the new covenant. the three types of laws are Divine, Natural, and Moral. I will remind you that "Slavery" as defined in the OT is not what most people think of as slavery (this is what I mean by you loading your question) for example in the OT if you beat a slave you had to pay reperation and if you did damage then you had to free them and pay them. Also slavery could not last for more than 7 years that is unless the individual chose to remain a slave. it was much more like indentured servatude.

again, you can't pick and choose so either believe it all or stop calling yourself christian. religion in itself is no more than substitutes for questions people don't know the real answers to. the bible itslef is no more than an astrotheological literary hybrid. in other words it's a book of fairy tales based on astrology. interesting... I was an Atheist for several years and knew better than that. The books of the bible are not based on astrology and no serious historian would say so. There are different literary types within the bible for example some is poetry while others are history and others are meant as fiction. For example it is widely thought by many even some of the early Church Fathers that the book of Tobit was fiction, it is not that it is a lie (fiction in its original sense did not mean lie or untruth) it was simply a moral story. This is while other books like more historic. Even Genesis since the begining there has always been some understanding that Genesis is not so much about a literal 7 day creation but is rather meant to demonstrate a point. To make this fact clear Ch 1 and Ch 2 conflict, common sense would say even if you go with the 5 author theory the editor should be smart enough not to make Ch1 so directly conflict with Ch 2. that is unless its not meant to be taken in a strict sense. and again i agree you need to believe in the whole thing.

don't let religion bind you. be free of such senseless beliefs. the bible may state that it is a sin to look at a women with lust, but it is not possible to go through life without doing so. our human brains are wired to be attractedto women. it's a little thing called testosterone. when you turn your head to look at a girls butt as she walkes by, it doesn't mean you're perverted, it's just the animalistic tendencies of your brain kicking in and the girl just has a really nice ass!
There is a famous saying by Bishop Sheed "I do not know many one hand one eyed theologians." Another words Christ did not mean literally to cut off your hand our cut out your eyes. its called hyperbole. and you really dont understand with lust is, what you discribed is not lust. Lust is a deliberate act of the will for example undressing a woman with your eyes. If however your mind wanders and you are not aware of your thoughts at that moment then you are not as culpable.
and as for being blinded by religion, funny thing that reminded me of myself. 10 years as an atheist is a long time. I could tare down Christianity with the best of them, I had read everything from Russel to Nietzsche. Hell i have even read every book written by Anton LaVey. that man does not have one original thought he is a plagerist from crawly, Nietzche, Russel, and jung, with some freud in there. By they way i still like Nietzsche. You should learn what Christianity is before you start bashing it.


Read as many books as you like .. then please use your own minds to decide how you want to live your lives. The bible is a collection of stories .. to take it seriously would be like taking any other fairy tale seriously.


again "The Bible" is a collection of writtings from differnt authors some of which are using very different literary styles. And I agree there are things which are not meant to be taken in the strictest sense. but "The Bible" has proven to be a rather accurate History where it is meant to be history. (not tobit). And the bible is not a fairy tale. I do not mind if you disagree with the theology however there is good evidence that the vast majority of things claimed did happen.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 16, 2010 5:49 am 
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