Wet Dream Forum

Texanguy
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(8/25/03 9:14 pm)
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Mike

I think there is no reason why you couldn't have a wet dream soon. It appears that your erotic dreams are more vivid or you remember them better than the rest of us do. No matter who has a wet dream first, it should only encourage the rest of us. And of course, if you want more wet dreams, you want to continue not to masturbate. As you may have read, some people who don't masturbate may have 3 or more wet dreams a week, maybe even almost every night. I thinks it's uncommon, but who knows, perhaps some of us might achieve that. I imagine it would take a while of no masturbation and wet dreams exclusively to reach that level.

As for testicular pain, it may be what is called in English slang 'blue balls'. That means discomfort when having long lasting erections without having an orgasm. Usually, it refers to a teenage guy who gets very aroused for an extended period of time doing things with his girl friend, but who does not finish with sex or masturbation. It normally goes away in a while. Perhaps you may be spending a lot of time aroused and erect lately from not masturbating. The discomfort should not be constant, and should go away after many hours without erections. I also think your body will adapt, and the discomfort should go away completely.

Dickenson also mentioned that he thought his penis might be a bit bigger. It may be that it is partially erect more often during the day, and so seems bigger. I suppose it's possible that frequent erection could 'stretch' the penis, but I've never read that it can actually happen.

I have read another idea that may or may not be true: After sex or masturbation, the male hormone levels drop for a while. If you don't masturbate, they don't drop, which could cause the penis to grow. I'm not sure if that is true, but who knows? I always thought that a loss of sexual feelings after orgasm was more related to not having much semen left, but I don't know. Has anyone else heard about this? If masturbtion does indeed reduce male hormone levels, it would seem that you could get bigger and stronger muscles from exercising if you don't masturbate. It would be an interesting study to look at penis size and muscle size vs masturbation frequency, and see if changes in masturbation frequency affect penis and/or muscle size. I don't think such a study exists.

Happy (and wet) dreaming!

Dickenson
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(8/25/03 10:37 pm)
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Ronald and Texanguy

Hi, I’m here again.

Ronald, it’s not anybody’s fault. I know you’re very concerned about me as a friend, right? It’s good actually for you to ask me about that. Thanks. About that ‘Dickenson’, I suspect he might NOT be an imposter (though it’s also possible as well). May be he IS really the ‘old’ Dickenson, having participated into that very, very original ‘Wet Dreams’ topics started several months (or years) ago. I don’t know, just guessing. If that’s true, I’d be glad, as we’ll be having another wet dreamer in this forum. Hehe…..

About those ads, I’m quite suspicious that the existence of them were actually due to what and which PC you use. A couple of days go, while I was in a big dilemma, I got this PC in the lab. That’s the worst computer!! The ads kept popping out and eventually the computer was ‘hang’. But, recently, I found another PC—this is too good!! The pages don’t even display those ads about medical help, universities, and etc. Any suggestions/ideas, guys?

Ronald, I like writing to you too!! Hope you’ll get a wet dream soon in August (another month is coming to an end, believe or not!).

Texanguy, thanks for your detailed post. I like reading your posts. I’ll try to answer you previous post later (I just wanna catch up with the latest post first). Sorry if you’d waited in great desperation. Like you, I wouldn’t bother to get myself registered. But, it seems that people who’d registered had the privilege of ‘editing’ his post; besides avoiding unwanted imposter(s) like my case. Taking Ronald and Socks for instance, they can enjoy all the facilities here (though they also encountered pop up ads). Well, we do get those ads too, right? So, all in all, I guess I’ll get myself registered soon. I hope I’m making the right choice. Comments?

Texanguy, I enjoyed my wet dreams last time. But I do get some ‘relieve’ through masturbation last time, undoubtedly. At least, during depression last time, I’m in control of my ejaculations and orgasms. Essentially, I’m still not sure whether age IS the main factor in determining the ‘frequency’ of a man’s wet dreams, but I’m doing what is best to maximize their chances. If we go back to masturbation, we shouldn’t have get ourselves involved in this place. In order to get those juicy dreams; we must wait, resist, and hope for the best for our little soldiers under there to get hard and fire off bullets during the night, heh.

Q: Maybe you, Dickenson, might have more ideas than we've thought about. When you were having your wet dreams and before you started masturbating, how did you feel about wet dreams and masturbation?

A: I don’t know what happened during my 1st nocturnal emission when I was 14. I thought I peed on my pants actually! I soon find out from my guy friend that this is the signal of ‘becoming a man’. And according to them, I can become a daddy IF I get laid with a girl. But, I’m very innocent; I don’t know what were they talking about! Basically, I enjoyed that feeling during each wet dream. I stay on bed with that macho Joey, and he pulsed a few times, each time cumming some ‘white’ stuff. That’s such an amazing finding for a guy!


Q: Did you find yourself having frequent erections during the day?

A: Absolutely. Those were top quality hard-ons, and you know what I mean. You just have to ignore them and hope for the best. Often, those monster woodies will cause my briefs to become sticky (a tiny wet spot).


Q: Did you in any way 'resist' masturbation?

A: Sometimes, for fun. I just wanna see how hard my boy can go and just to make my sac ‘full’ and get more semen in my next hand job session. But I dare not eat them, don’t know why. Do you, Texanguy?

Q: Do you think that you may have 'focused' more on hoping for another wet dream than on being aroused while you were awake?

A: No, not until I found out from this site. I used to think that getting a wet dream is not due to the absence of masturbation or sex. Even if so, I can’t do it. I can only hold up to about 5/7 days. Too bad, right?

Q: Were your wet dreams all completely unexpected surprises?

A: Exactly. I love them, but I got no control over them. They just occurred naturally….aaahhhh.

Q: Perhaps if you try to recall your 'mental state' back then, as a wet dreamer who never masturbated, we can all benefit. Think about it, and give us your thoughts!

A: Try to imagine that there’s no such thing as masturbation. Don’t picture it. Be innocent and don’t (I mean DON’T) watch sexy pics/ movies. These are all my mentality as a 14 year old (very, very shy and innocent). Hope this helps.

Perhaps you guys have to try those questions above so that we can compare our answers. Thanks, Texanguy!

I’m also very tired of masturbation and like to adopt a ‘newer version’ of orgasms. I love wet dreams sooo much!! Texanguy, just be tough and resist all the temptations; treat your hard buddy right, and you’ll get one eventually, I promise. I suspect that you (though older) might beat me this time, since I got kick in the nuts last month. So, GOOD LUCK, man!

[All the while typing this post, my penis is soooooooo hard, that my breathing is heavy, heh].

Texanguy
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(8/26/03 9:08 am)
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Dickenson

Some PC's may have 'ad blocker' software installed, and so you don't see the ads. So becoming registered at this site is probably a good idea, and probably won't cause more ads. When you get your own PC, there is probably free 'ad blocker' software available. I just need to look for it.

Thanks for answering my questions. There was one I'm not sure I made myself clear on: At 14, during the time you were having wet dreams and before you discovered masturbation, did you have lots of erections while you were awake? Also, what was the least amount of time between two wet dreams before you started masturbating?

As far as age vs frequency of wet dreams, it seems that the younger you are (after full puberty), the more often you can have them if you don't masturbate. But I saw several posts by people in their 20's who had several wet dreams per week. Some of them were concerned about having so many wet dreams (they were on sites where people ask for advice). Some of them became concerned because they never had them before, and seemed to be unsure if quitting masturbation earlier was the cause. These people were some of the examples of people who quit masturbating (for whatever reasons) then later to their surprise started having frequent wet dreams. They didn't quit masturbating to get wet dreams, they just happened.

So I'd say that at your ages, you, Dickenson and Hoban, have the best chances of having several wet dreams per week. I can easily see you, Dickenson, as one of those people who would post about how much they love their wet dreams and despise masturbation.

Sometimes I wonder if all the attention we focus on wet dreams while we are awake reduces their chance of having them. Nevertheless, I still like the support and communication, and I feel that our bodies and brains will 'settle in' to the right modes and attitudes, and the wet dreams will begin - or actually resume!

Ronald WDM
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(8/26/03 10:15 am)
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having a wet dream

I enjoyed reading everyone's coments. Yes I had to totally abandon masturbation, but then while I was sleeping while on a trip visiting friends, I suddenly got one, helping make it a memorable trip. So you never know when or where you will start having them. Just enjoy it when it happens!

Yes Dickenson, I'm sure that if I don't concentrate on it too much, that I could have another wet dream before this month is over.

I think it would be fun if we could all talk about our own wet dream in the future here.

Here's a joke I read in an e-mail today. I hope you like it. How is knowledge like a bikini? It's interesting what it reveals, but it's even more interesting what it conceals! Hopefully that joke will help someone to have a nice wet dream. Good luck to everyone!

brahms 28
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(8/27/03 1:54 am)
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YES!

Hey my friends...!

Last night, after 45 days of total abstinence, I’ve had a wet dream!!!
Now, I know many questions will come, and I’ll try to answer some of them beforehand. I also have some questions for you.

The dream:
It was very simple. In my dream I was a humongous fountain with a vertical tower (which was my penis). I saw the liquid coming out from the fountain, rhythmically.

The facts:
I woke up, sweating, with a huge stain in my t-shirt! . I did not understand. I also had two more (smaller) spots: one in my underwear and one at the back of my t-shirt.
I guess what happened was, that I was so hard, that my penis escaped from my boxers, ejaculated beneath my t-shirt. The big stain, about 5 inches in diameter, was very watery, with no odor. The two smaller spots, about two inches in diameter were very thick, with the particular semen smell.
Maybe, the first part of the ejaculation was very watery, and the rest, when my penis was going flaccid, was more consistent.

Ronald, Dickenson, Socks (if you happen to read this):
Do you find an explanation for this? Why two different types of semen?

When awake, I experienced one of the biggest erections I have ever seen. And actually, my penis reached 20 cm (8 inches) long and 14cm (5.5 inches) in girth. (I was so excited, that I grabbed a ruler to measure it)

Texanguy, I definitely think my penis has grown a bit (1 cm) during this time. It may retract back to the original size once the hormone levels go down. What do you think?


Did I make something different?
Yes!
As usual, I went to work, then to the gym and then I had dinner.
However, I was very relieved from stress, as I finally made an application work, after two weeks of struggle.

But I think the big difference was, that I took a “valerian” pill before going to bed.
Remember that I told you that I was having very strong erotic dreams lately, but I was waking up right before ejaculation. It seems that the pill made me sleep more deeply, and I did not wake up this time!

I now have one robust erection, almost painful, but I will not masturbate, because from now onwards, I am committed to become a regular wet dreamer.

Good luck to all of you. If you have questions, just let me know!

Mike.

Texanguy
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(8/27/03 10:27 am)
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Congratulations!

Mike, Congratulations on your wet dream! You got it easier than the rest of us, so I'm sure we all have some questions for our 'new mentor'.

Since it was the second one in your life, the first one in many years, and the first one as an adult, I'm sure you are quite excited about it. I'm glad you want more. You may not have been sure before, but after coming to this site you know that the best way to get more of them is to completely stop masturbating.

I think the first one is a breakthrough, and you'll start having them more and more frequently. I think your brain, subconscious, and body will become more adapted to wet dreams, and they will become even more enjoyable and more intense.

Younger people tend to want 'conscious' and immediate orgasms that they can control voluntarily by masturbation. But after years of masturbating, there is something attractive to all of us here and many others about the idea of doing it 'naturally' exclusively. From posts I've seen on the web, I think many people who masturbate all the time and don't have the willpower to stop would just love to have wet dreams instead. And it's quite clear that many people who have wet dreams and never masturbate enjoy them tremendously.

So now some questions: I think 'mental state' is a big part of it. Obviously, we are all not masturbating, and pursuing wet dreams, but let me ask:

-What has been your recent attitude about masturbation? Were you 'resisting' it, fighting the desire to masturbate, or had you more or less decided that you had put it behind you? Any comments about your 'attitudes' and 'feelings' about masturbation quite recently?

-What about arousal and erections while awake? I know you were getting more erections since stopping masturbating, but what about the last few days? Did you notice any differences? Did you go bed and to sleep with an erection? Have you been so 'turned on' and aroused when going to sleep that you had trouble falling asleep? Or has it been getting easier to fall asleep at night recently?

-Stress and other waking focus. You said you were just relieved of stress. It wasn't clear: did you just finish an application for employment? Did you just get hired? Nevertheless, it sounds like you were recently dealing with some stress while awake, and just experienced some relief. Did that mean less 'focus' on erotic feelings recently while awake, less erections, and perhaps being just 'too busy' and occupied with other matters to be so aware of not masturbating and the pursuit of wet dreams? In other words, was 'waking reality' causing less focus and time spent on erotic feelings and arousal while awake? Or have you been having even more erections and arousal the last few days?

-Physical exercise: Have you been working out more regularly or more intensely lately? Do you see any connection between recent fitness and wet dreams?

-Erotic dreams: You said you were having more erotic dreams lately but waking up too soon, and that the Valerian may have helped. But have you noticed any difference in 'focus' between arousal and erections while awake and erotic dreams recently? In other words, do you think you may have been unconsciously focusing 'more' on erotic dreams and 'less' on erotic feelings while awake? Any thoughts or comments on this idea?

-After masturbation, it seems you can lose 'erotic interest' for a while. Yet with a wet dream the 'erotic power' doesn't seem to diminish. Masturbation 'turns you off' for a while after, while a wet dream may 'turn you on' even more, and make you eager for another one. Does this match your experience?

More specific questions/comments about your wet dream experience:
-Did you wake up soon after the dream? Did your 'biggest erection you had ever seen' happen right after you woke you from the wet dream? What about the rest of the night and the morning? Was it easy to go back to sleep? Are you more aroused and get more easily erect after the wet dream?

How did the wet dream feel? How did it compare in intensity to masturbation? I suppose there are two components, the actual orgasm, and the 'psychological excitement'. How would you compare both aspects?

For those of us here who want wet dreams, even the idea of having orgasms that way might make them more attractive than masturbation, even if the feelings were about the same. But from the writings of many other people, I feel that if you have continued wet dreams exclusively that they will feel much better and more intense than masturbation.
-Did your wet dream make you all the more interested and determined to have more? Does it make masturbation seem even less attractive and easy to resist? In other words, how has the experience changed you feelings about masturbation and wet dreams?

As far as 'two kinds of semen' goes, there does seem to be a 'thin and watery' component that I think might be a result of recent arousal, and a 'thicker' part that accumulates more slowly over time. I think that the actual orgasm in a wet dream can be more prolonged, and it can happen while not completely erect, at least during the start. It may be that once the orgasm started, you got rid of virtually all of the semen you had built up.

Again, congratulations. I know I asked a lot of questions. You don't have to answer them all in one post. Hopefully they will make you think of other comments as well. I think that a lot is not known about wet dreams. Perhaps your thoughts and self examination will advance the knowledge for all of us. And I'm sure you'd like to help the rest of us get our own wet dreams soon.

I wouldn't be surprised if you have another one soon.

Texanguy
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(8/27/03 6:15 pm)
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Congratulations, part 2

I think you probably already answered some of my questions in your post, so you don't have to spend time on those.

-I think what you said was that your 'biggest erection' was immediately after waking up from the wet dream.

-I think your stress may have been from working on an 'application' at work, perhaps software.

-It seems like you are quite determined to have wet dreams exclusively, but feel free to go into more detail about how your wet dream has affected your thoughts, feelings, and attitudes.

Ronald WDM
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(8/27/03 8:14 pm)
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Congratulations!

Way to go, Mike! Congratulations on having a wet dream and joining me in being a wet dreamer. Maybe we can share our experiences now.

I have 2 questions for you. First, were you thinking about having a wet dream before you went to sleep that night, or did it take you totally by surprise? Second, do you remember if there were other people in your dream watching your fountain shoot, or were you all alone in your dream? Thanks for your answers.

Yes if you're like I was when I started, you'll have a few close together now. So I'm sure you'd like that.

I had another rock hard erection this morning. So maybe I'll have another wet dream soon.

You were asking about painful testicles. I know that Hoban was having that earlier. So maybe he can tell more about that to you.

Again congratulations on your wet dream, and I wish you the best in having more! Good luck to the rest of you as well.

Dickenson
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(8/27/03 10:50 pm)
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Mike et al.

To begin with…congratulations (1,000,000,000,000), Mike! Whoa, you’re great, having the power to be an auto slime-oozing machine during the night in such a short period of time!! Right now, I’m creating a lot questions on my little ‘WD note pad’; I’ll post these questions to you once you made a reply to Texanguy’s and Ron’s questions. But I’ll ask you some important questions here anyway…

About the dream, I think that’s awesome. You were lying there erect picturing yourself as a fountain (right?) and shot out the warm yet sticky fluid. May I ask you whether you’re seeing your own tool or what? So, you got so excited by imaging yourself shooting the precious juice? Please, please clarify.

I’m having a supreme quality morning glory here…

It’s interesting to note that most guys woke up from their wet dreams once the ejaculations were over. Too bad, for some guys like our favorite Wet Dream Mentor, Ronald; they can’t ‘fully’ enjoy the whole episode of the fantastic dream that brought them the ejaculations during sleep. But I guess that’s Nature’s way of letting us to note that something awesome and extraordinary had happened to our body (our male member); and to be able to clean everything up. Mike, may I know whether you clean up the ‘puddles’on your shirt and boxers? One more, were you wearing briefs or boxers or both? (Please re-read your post).

Perhaps all your guessing was correct; your monster hardy just escaped from all the boundary and gained some form of freedom to shoot out the semen recklessly and enthusiastically, haha. I guess the 1st spot is the ‘pre-cum’ and the 2 smaller were the real thing (semen). The former is ‘a big stain’ likely due to the fact that you’d aroused for a long time. The latter is smaller because not all semen was ejaculated through your steel shlong in every bullet-spitting session. I think that distinct smell justified everything.

Mike, what’s the difference between the taste of the 1st spot and the 2nd spot (if you happened to taste the two)? To be honest, I really haven’t tasted that liquid in all my life (though as a late teen). That good guy Ronald once revealed to me that he enjoyed his own essence, with little difference in terms of the color and its taste (he compared it with those he got from hand jobs and wet dreams). Mike, which semen was thicker? The one you got from masturbation or from wet dream?

You mentioned, “…Maybe, the first part of the ejaculation was very watery, and the rest, when my penis was going flaccid, was more consistent…” As an explanation to this, I guess your little boy tried to get the idea at first, having gained the signal later; and performed a well-informed job by squirting all the fluid out (hence, more ‘consistent’). I think he did a good job, man! Comments?

It’s a natural tendency for men to measure their little friends once in a while, in the hope that some ‘remarkable growth’ had had taken place (or just to make sure that everything’s in right order!). I did that once a fortnight. You’re a big guy, man! How do you grow it? Any secrets you wanna share with us?

I’m not entirely sure about that pill. Ronald got wet dreams by surprise (right, buddy?) and I got them by surprise too! Well, may be each person is unique. Frankly, you’re one of the ‘well-endowed’: being gifted a giant tool, and getting wet dreams easier than the rest of us.

Going back to your reply on the 25th August, I think your body is performing well to remember all the paths to get wet dreams (proof: you’re having may erotic dreams). About the pain in the nuts, I think Hoban might be of help. But I’d suggest that you don’t have to worry too much about it; once you’re soft, the pain will taper off over time. And, the good news is, when you’re used to the all-day-hard lifestyles, your balls will not hurt anymore, trust me (that’s my experience so far).

Mike, can your foreskin retract itself naturally while you’re hard? I can’t do this! My foreskin is quite tight (it’s closed until the tip even though my evidence of arousal is obvious). May I know how do you make it loose? Ronald, can you help? Hoban? Perot?

Mike, it’s not uncommon for guys to notice fuller softies when they’re not indulged in masturbations. I was like that once, and it’s still prevalent nowadays!! I guess Texanguy’s explanation helps, and I really hope that this will make our tool bigger. Is this possible, Mike? Please help me (as a small guy) to grow like you do. Thanks, thanks, thanks…

Thanks for reading this. Hope you guys will get lucky these days. I’m really excited to get one after all the waiting months ago. I’ll let you guys know once I got the reward (as a strong knight)! Good Luck!

Dickenson
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(8/27/03 11:31 pm)
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Definitions...

Due to the immense length of my previous reply to ‘Mike et al.’, I’m making this a separate reply…

To all my good buddies: I found 2 interesting definitions recently while on the quest of equipping myself with some new textbooks (eventually I didn’t buy any of them; I haven’t decided which book to buy). But, I tell ya, I knew a lot of things about the human body (and some about our goal!) while browsing through those musty books…

Q: Please, please clarify these 2 definitions for me (Ron, Perot, Socks, Texanguy, Hoban, Mike, etc.). Thanks a lot.

Source: Merriam-Webster’s Medical Desk Dictionary (Revised Edition)

Definitions:

1) Wet dream: an erotic dream culminating in orgasm and in the male accompanied by seminal emission.

2) Nocturnal emission: an involuntary discharge of semen during sleep often accompanied by an erotic dream.

Since 2 definitions were given, I guess both of them are NOT the same thing after all. But that made me puzzled; I mean, what’s the difference(s)? I’m really helpless.

In both definitions, ‘semen’ and ‘seminal’ were mentioned (so both have to be a guy’s thing!).

But I know for sure that this is a good dictionary (medical, ya know?). So, the authors must have to be researchers, having many years of experience in their respective fields. I don't think there's error in this publication, since it's international and everything. How do you guys provide an explanation to that?

Thanks. Good Luck.

Texanguy
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(8/27/03 11:59 pm)
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Dickenson

It's great that Mike got a wet dream. Let's hope he can give us some insight to help us. It probably makes the rest of us feel a little bad about not having any yet, but each person is unique.

It only inspires me and makes me more determined to start (or rather resume) having them myself. I do believe that his having one can help our subconscious minds say 'me too'! Mike's wet dream also underscores for me that wet dreams ARE the only sensible way to have orgasms. It makes masturbation seem all the more pointless and obsolete. The 'natural' way IS best.

If a wet dream is like a great movie, masturbation is like a bad, boring movie that's not worth going to. If you can't go to a good movie right now, that is no reason to waste money on a bad one. Better to save the money for the good movie later!

It's inevitable: soon we all will be joining Mike and millions of others around the world who enjoy their wet dreams and never masturbate because for them wet dreams are better.

Texanguy
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(8/28/03 12:08 am)
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Dickenson: Definitions

I think the two definitions are the same. The biggest distinction seems to be that their definition of 'wet dream' can apply to both sexes, whereas 'nocturnal emission' applies only to males, since it specifically refers to the discharge of semen. 'Seminal discharge' means the discharging of semen.

I suppose 'nocturnal emission' implies it could happen without a dream, although most people take it to mean the same as 'wet dream'.

Texanguy
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(8/28/03 12:10 am)
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Let's try another topic

This one is getting rather long.