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Hi all!



I've found this forum three days ago and since then have been reading many of the topics and diaries. I've learned tons of new things about my body. What amazing stories you have! Since I've started to AB this month I decided to join the forum and write my own journal as well. I really hope that it will motivate me to stay committed. Also it feels good to know that there are some like-minded guys out there.

I first discovered MB at the age of 12 by accident. Since then I've been MBing almost every day. I've never experienced WD or SE the way many of you guys did. Recently, I started wondering whether I really do need to MB (or PMO) so often and what the benefits of ABing might be. Also, I'm very curious how will my body react to MB withdrawal after 20 years of cultivating the habit. How will I get rid of accumulated fluids? How does it feel to have WD or SE? Will AB impact my health, energy levels, performance, confidence, self-esteem, spirituality, relationships, etc.?

Well, so far I managed to AB only for 12 days in a row (my personal record). After one week or so, I've noticed that I have a bit more energy throughout the day and don't need to sleep so much. Indeed, I also quit drinking coffee at the same time and I didn't feel as tired as one would expect. The side effects of ABing were however substantial. I felt extremely horny and had random boners during the day. Time to time I literally felt like a pressurised cooker with strange tingling in my chest. In the evening and in the morning I had "permanent" erections with lot of precum (I normally have only 1-2 small drops) and could not stop thinking about MB. The things became quite critical on Friday evening and it simply shot far too quick. What a shame!

But now I'm ready to start the experiment over and I'm definitely more motivated than before. I just have to encounter that WD/SE thing! Hopefully it is not an experience for the few. I will document that journey with photos whenever possible.

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

DAY 2

After reading some other posts here, I've learned that wearing briefs at night might substantially increase the chance of having a WD. Although I don't expect a WD any soon, from last night on I'm wearing briefs under my loose pyjama pants.

Today, I woke up with a hard erection and I found some dry precum spots on the briefs. After couple of minutes I fell asleep again. I must have been dreaming as I found a fresh spot when I woke up. This gonna be an exciting experiment!

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

Welcome! It looks like you are already noticing some positive effects from AB.

It's interesting that you said you "could not stop thinking about MB", because it is indeed possible to feel horny and not think about MB. It is clear that a lot of full time wet dreamers who have better orgasms in their WDs rarely if ever think about MB, and may very well have negative feelings and opinions about MB.

A strong MB habit tangles arousal, erection, and MB completely together when in fact they are all separate.

Longer term AB allows arousal and erection to separate, so you can feel horny without always having an erection. Guys who don't have the MB habit don't go around erect all the time. Even a non-MBer who knows he will be having sex on the weekend doesn't stay erect all the time until then.

While someone posted that tight underwear helps get WDs, not everyone agrees. In fact it seems that actual successful wet dreamers often sleep nude. At first sleeping nude may lead to too much arousal during AB, but as AB continues guys get more control and many enjoy the sensuality.

There are a couple of recent logs of guys successfully going from MB to WDs. They both have since stopped posting, but they can be interesting to read because they were successful, and because there was a lot of discussion about MB, AB, and the effects of both. It would seem that neither of them were likely to ever go back to regular MB.

http://wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=6307

http://wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6288

I agree that you are on the right track away from MB.
BTW - I wear lose fitting sleep shorts and they are great for WD's but everyone has different experiences, find out what works for you and keep up the great progress!!

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The key to WD is no PMO!

Good luck buddy on your quest to success!

Thanks for your lines Texanguy. I think you have nailed it down! Really, I haven't realized that. Just hope a long-term AB will help in my case as well. I'm on the recommended logs now. It will keep me busy reading for a while!

DAY 3

Just a quick update. Today, I'm a bit busy and tired so everything else is on a sidetrack. Nothing new to post today

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

DAY 5

Beginning of day No. 5 and counting. It seems that the first energy kick is already here. Could anyone suggest how to transform it or use it in some meaningful way (pls PM me links to other WDF posts or some literature)? I went jogging but not much releaf. It is just difficult not to think about it with this subtle yet ever-present sensation in my chest. Should I get use to it or will it cease after some AB period?

To keep track of this experiment and my progress I'm using quite useful online tool. Hope it is fine to share it here with you:

http://everydaysystems.com/habitcal/view/?o=9170&v=ta&sc=1&m=10&y=2014&t=AB&t=MB&t=WD&t=SE

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

Your previous record is about where mine was. It is tough, especially if you have a wife or gf, or constantly think about not MBing. Doing so just makes it worse but it can be fun to have the control to not give in.

I get more anxiety when I abstain and need to do long sessions of running and also free weights. Exhaust yourself enough and that chest thing should not be there and your mind will be less focused on MBing/abstaining.

I do think being uncut gives you s better chance at WD. That is if you have full coverage of your glans when flaccid bc the random erections in the night will make the ridged band roll on and over your head. I'm actually trying to restore my foreskin since I was circumsized. A long endeavor....

Good luck!

DAY 7

I don't know what happened to my energy levels but I have been super tired today. So it was pretty easy to AB

Last night, I had a strange dream, though: In order to cut a deal, I was kind of forced to drink a big shot of something very strong (I normally don't drink alcohol). When I did so, I had a massive SE (or maybe I peed in my pants, not 100% sure, just remember something wet and cold)! Everyone in the dream was laughing at me. Very embarrassing! Needless to say, I woke up immediately. My heart was beating like runaway horse and the blood was pulsing in my erecting penis. But nothing else, not even a drop in my briefs! Crazy!!!

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

dreams like this mean a wet dream is VERY VERY likely and will happen very very soon....just be patient...you'll have a dream just like it and you WILL be wet (and sticky) in real life too.....

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WD #12.....First Wet Dream in over 7 months...and WHAT A BIG LOAD IT WAS....wish me luck on getting to my next and 150 days of not mb....

DAY 10

The end of Day 10 and I feel so good. In particular, I'm enjoying being in control of my habits; to have the power to choose my behaviour. Plus the energy boost. Now I can easily imagine that this curiosity WD/SE experiment might turn out to be a permanent one.

Today, I've finally analysed why I'd relapsed during my first run of ABing (13-23.10.). The problem was that deep inside I felt that I'm giving up something good (the MB pleasure) for nothing (an unknown feeling of ABing or WD/SE). Therefore, my subconscious mind was working against me and inevitably I had to fail. But in reality it was the other way round. While MBing daily I was actually giving up something good (the great benefits of ABing) for nothing (a dull MB feeling). This realisation alone was like a paradigm shift for me. Does it make any sense?

So far no WD/SE but I'm patient. To see my overall progress check my HabitCal

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

DAY 13

My new personal record: 13th day w/o MB! Holding on...

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse

That's great! Keep going!!

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The key to WD is no PMO!

DAY 19

So it is beginning of DAY 19. I wish I could post some interesting WD experience after such a long time of ABing but not much is happening yet. Apparently, things have stabilised and I don't feel any unmanageable sexual tension anymore. My body must be channelling the extra energy elsewhere. For example, I'm more resistant to stress at work and when it comes to crises I keep thinking positively. I'm also more sociable and initiate small talks and conversations more often. My sport performance improved noticeably over the last two weeks and I'm loosing some belly fat as well. I pray every evening and every morning and feel restored afterwards. It is a bit too early to celebrate, I know, but so far it seems that one small change in my life (breaking the MB habit) has triggered a chain of other small positive changes. Therefore, I do encourage everyone: TRY IT AND SEE FOR YOURSELF!
But don't take me wrong. I'm not an asexual person now. I feel manly and quite full down there. It would be really nice to have some relief. Hopefully, I will be dreaming productively soon.

My overall progress: HabitCal

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“A thousand mile journey begins with one step.”
– Lao Tse