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Well, after reading a bunch of the posts and just joining last week, I figured I should log too. Just every once in a while. I don't feel like I need support necessarily but maybe I can be an encouragement to others. Either way, I like the idea of open sharing by others so will just add my own stuff here too.

I'm a pretty resolved person so can choose to do or not do certain things. For the past several months I've been wanting to cut back on MB. So I just resolved that it would be once every three or four days. That was pretty easy. Then more recently I started reading all of this stuff about wet dreams and thought that would be awesome. Well, I started out and made it just 9 days.
I did not have a WD but had a little leakage after 6 days. What I noticed when I MB after 9 days was longer staying power and my orgasm was longer with LOTS of precum just prior to ejaculation, usually I only have a small quantity. The ejaculate was pure white too..."healthy" I would suspect!!! That experience alone will make it easy to get to 9 days again. So I think I'm on a "stepped" program. I went from 4 to 9 so maybe I can easily go from 9 to 18? Another thing I noticed was that I didn't really lose energy after MB. That was definitely not the case when I would MB every day or every other day. Even at 3-4 days I would still feel the energy drain a bit. Not this time!

I do look at porn or read porn once in a while but mostly find it like TV, a distraction and not very fulfilling so I try to go without both. Again, not much of a problem for me if I'm resolved even a little bit.

I'm on day 2 again so will see if I can make it to 9 then step up from there. I'm sure it won't be a problem getting to 9
I've been taking supplements at an increased level too since I began my adventure. I've amped up the amounts more recently.
I always drink a ton of water and eat extremely healthy, mostly vegetarian but plenty of protein from beans/nuts/dairy.

I'm traveling over the holiday weekend so it will be 7 days of no MB when I return so again, I do not think 9 days will be an issue at all. It looks like most people need several weeks before a WD so I'm guessing if I can make it to 18 days that it'll happen, even if not...worthy target.

Good luck on your quest

Seven days today...noticed a tiny amount of leak last night. Looked at a few porn photos in day five but certainly didn't spend much time with that. As others, I have noticed increased awareness of various parts of the human body. I certainly like looking at female assets, but the butts have been something I find myself looking at often after several days with no MB, etc. Normally, it is reserved to women my age but I noticed myself looking at any age while I was traveling through airports, etc.
additionally, we were doing some outdoor activities over the holiday weekend and I found myself appreciating the male body more than usual too. So, I suspect hormone shift is a good thing for human kind...at least for me. I'm happy to appreciate everyone. To clarify, in either case it wasn't sexual as much as really noticing the human form.

Good lucky man

Welcome and good luck.

Please continue with updates.

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Well nothing to report other than that my last post had my day count incorrect
it would have been 8 days. Now the count is 10 days. Think I was more focused at work today as I was able to accomplish quite a bit and under a deadline. I normally don't sweat much but today was an exception. Wonder if it is related?
sexual desire is low I would say, but feeling fine with that.
that's all folks.

13 days, was horny on day 12 and MB a little but no orgasm, and noticed erection significantly harder and I think thicker than normal. It seems every four days my testicles are larger than normal too, more "full" than other days. The last few days have also had points where I would become erect randomly...no reason at all. Ha, just like I'm a teenager again.

I have been noticing this too. Good luck.

I blew it...literally. 14 days in and I decided to listen to my favorite HFO hypnosis file. So, I didn't MB but definitely had an enjoyable trance trip. Whoa. My dick was pulsing, vibrating. It was intense. That is probably the longest I've gone without MB in my life but it wasn't really that difficult. Breaking the MB habit originally and getting it down to once every 3-4 days was the first struggle. Now though I know I can do 10 days easily and 14 wasn't so bad. So, I'll just reset the clock and see how long it lasts this time. I'm heading to Europe at the end of the month. I'll be traveling on days 15-23 if I refrain until then. Where I'm going to be it WOULD NOT be very convenient or desireable to have a WD. I can say, again, that releasing didn't make me tired at all like it has in the past. Refraining defintely seems to help with that.

Well, reset and went another five days without MBO and decided I wanted to do this now and then refrain until my trip is over or until I achieve a WD.
I've been taking supplements for about a month now too and can say my load was the thickest I've ever seen and quantity was the most also. The ejaculation was powerful, and all of this while only semi erect. I was impressed. This time though I didn't last very long. No porn involved at all.
So here is the end of one day of abstaining. 8 days from now I head out for a 7 day trip. That means day 16 when I return. That is my goal. As stated before, I think I will be one of the lucky ones who hit WD earlier than most. This will be a good start though.

Well 3 days in on my quest again. Three days is really easy now. The one thing I have noticed from previously "resetting" to MB only every 3-4 days is that even with that I had more firm erections and had a random one once in a while. It seems though after the 4-5 day mark and each group of 4-5 more days that the random erections occur. I notice already my balls are larger so as before, just a few days in and results are physical. 6 more days until I leave on my trip so that will be 9 days at that point. That will be a good goal/set point. Again, easy I think! After that, I'm gone for about a week so no posts or updates but will come back on day 17 and back to work on day 18. I'll be so tired from jetlag I'll bet night 17 is the magical night...haha.

Good luck!

Strange things today...was horny all day. Day 5. Came home from work and tried to relax with a short nap. After I got up I chose to read some erotic material. I got hard and next thing you know I had a mess. We are talking about reading for about 10 minutes and no touching. I don't think anything like that has happened to me since early high school age. So I definitely had an ejaculation but amazed that I didn't touch anything to make that happen. So, do I consider that a reset it what? I still want a wet dream but this was actually kind of frustrating and certainly unexpected. It was like three underpowered pulses and not a huge amount but more than leakage for sure. Should have snapped a photo but didn't think about it as I was still dwelling on the confusion/amazement. I don't know if this is a good thing or bad thing. Input would be appreciated.

Since you weren't touching yourself, I wouldn't reset for an SE. I didn't reset a couple of weeks ago when I had one. You were lucky it happened at home.

So, I must not be as strong willed as I believed. Anyway, day after the SE, so day 6 I was horny all day and finally at about 6 at night I MBO. Not much of a load in quantity but quite thick. I guess my will power was low since I knew I was heading on vacation where l will be busy.
Sunday was day 1, tomorrow I head overseas for a week and a day. So, day 10 when I return. I am confident in one thing, my masturbation habits are definitely never going back to anything less than 4 days between. The increase in libido is nice and orgasm more enjoyable and less drain of energy. I want to keep trying for the WD though. I think this is going to be a progression for me though based on my track record so far. When I return will be hitting the gym so that may help occupy my brain

Day 4 no PMO. I slept l, as I usually do, on my international flight but woke up three times from some interesting "dreams" I don't sleep deeply when on a plane but I do sleep well. I noticed too that everytime I woke up I had an erection. After the third time I thought to check, had a but of precum leaks or spots but nothing major. I won't go into detail but the dreams were definitely the same theme and surprised me because they were about something I would consider taboo. As usual, day three or four brings full balls.
As a side note I have always been small in the equipment department. But the other day I thought I looked bigger. I don't make a habit of measuring but I do remember the last time I did... increase has been .25 inch in length and about the same in girth. Not a bad thing in my book. I am going to keep track of that too over time now.

Thanks for sharing Curious! I am going to try to track if I get harder as I ab and watch for the increased length.

Does anyone else notice a lot of increase/? a quarter inch is a lot

Yes I visually thought so after a week Ab, at the end of July. Just started to notice that as though it's a bit more now. But when I haved SE everything was in normal condition.
I also watch, and maybe even take measurements during my Ab.

Well day 10 and all is well. No leaking, full feeling though. Heading home from vacation so long flight ahead of me. Had some good sleeps the last few nights even though sleeping conditions not the best. Looking forward to seeing if I can make it to WD. Waiting to see if SE happens again as that was interesting to me. Size of soft has definitely increased. Also chest hair growing like mad....going to have to shave it off soon and let it start over, haha. Fun stuff, this hormone, body science.

Flight was cancelled so spent another day in Europe. Also another couple days of no MB and no WD. Today makes 13 days! Noticed erections several times last night, woke up bit don't remember dreaming at all. Had a little precum leak. Noticing random erections again like before when I made it this far. Will be busy the next few days so guess I will make 16 days as my next goal of this time. Erections definitely firm, and size is bigger than before too. I shaved chest hair the other day as it was out of hand (and I dislike hair as noted previously). Noticing the sweating more than normal too. In general though feeling full of energy. Jetlag not a factor on this trip home for some reason...testosterone?

Well I'm on day 15 today. Yesterday was great. Woke up early, had energy all day and slept well the night before and also last night. The last few mornings I have woken with morning wood. Before my time of cutting down on MB I rarely experienced morning erections. I did watch a 10 minute video that was somewhat sexual in nature yesterday and about 7 minutes in realized I better be careful...i was pulsing slightly and not even really aware of it. I had a few spots of precum. I guess I'm susceptible to SE since I already had that happen once. I will need to be more careful.
also leaked a little precum last night too. Balls have returned to normal size yesterday, wonder if body reabsorbs the sperm and balls return to normal? No ejaculation so can't think of any other reason. Hoping this run will be my first WD after starting this journey.

Well, on day 16. Yesterday I viewed some porn, about 15 minutes worth then decided I didn't need that. But, I got worked up pretty quickly and had precum in underwear. Last night I got up after dozing off early and used the bathroom. I noticed a bit of cloudy white substance in the bowl. I guess maybe getting all worked up caused a little release while urinating. It was probably a good four hours time difference between the two and I had used the bathroom in-between.
Today, at the office I had to use the bathroom and notice a few small precum spots in my underwear, so starting to leak a tiny bit during a normal day. I'm hoping this is all a good sign that things are heading in the right direction.
maybe the 21 day mark will be the magical time.

Day 17, leaking more than normal...especially during the day but not major amount. Feeling energetic and a bit aggressive. Sleeping soundly and not as much as normal. Nothing more to report.

Grrrr... I'm kind of mad at myself now. 17 days and I caved. I was so horny today. I came home, listened to hypnosis file for HFO and released!
I can say this much, the orgasm was intense, like none I've had in my adult life! I'll reset today and see if I can make another run. It's been fun learning and seeing what I can accomplish.

Day 1 complete. I did feel more tired than usual and notice some lack of focus at work. Otherwise, I'm just looking forward to trying to beat my 17 days.

Well folks I am not nearly as strong as I thought I was. I think spreading my MBs out several months ago to several days and then trying to go without for even longer to accomplish a WD has made me a raging horny guy. In the time since my last post I made it five days, twice, but that's it. I will tell you that this feeling that I've had inside, energized, etc. is like when I was a teenager. Now if I could use my adult mind to control my urge We'll see where I end up this time but counter is reset today. The first time was another hands free hypno one the last one was a good old MB, which felt great at the moment but, we all know how it works after that. I have been having more leakage on and off though during even these short periods of 5 days of no MB. I guess that's a good thing too.

Hey man, just read your log. Keep on going and you will get a WD and then you will be addicted to them. I'm 39 too and still get them. Stay strong and stay connected on this forum!

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Hi George, interesting journey to WD! I can really relate. I tried a similar thing a while back where I tried to get a WD with infrequent MB. One thing I learned was that the occasional MB made abstaining MUCH harder!!! If it helps I posted what I was trying here. http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=5113

I summed up what happened on July 4th and 6th of 2012.

How long do you want to abstain for for the next stretch?

TG

I agree on your opinion. 100% AB is easier than 90% AB. When you AB from all the things that will arouse you, your mind will get a better reset and it's much easier and much more likely for you to get a fresh mind and WD.

Thanks for the link to your posts. I read them all. I am now on day 3 of my next try. In the last several weeks I have had 3-5 day windows where I don't MB but then break down. Change of seasons? I don't know. But I'm busy this week and going to spend some time with my parents so can probably keep the current 3 days and make it another 8 for sure. That would be 11 toward my record of 17. We'll see how it goes. If I'm feeling weak, I'll pop on here. Really, I would have never made it even to the 3-5 day mark without this forum. At least I can regularly make it that far between so I think I'm going to follow some advice and try the "double-up" method. If I do MB after 3 days then I need to go 6, if at 6 then 12. I should be able to do that. I think that mindset change would be easy. I've also started exercising a bit. I usually notice focus and good sleep when I exercise regularly. Those two things might help me toward WD!
Thanks for the support.