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Hi everyone

When I was 12 or 13 I had a wd. The feeling wasn't actually very intense, but I could feel all the mechanical movements of the contractions even inside my body which was interesting. Over the years I thought it would be nice to have another but didn't think it was worth not mbing for.

Recently I happened across this forum and after reading your experiences and learning how much more fun wds and ab can be, I decided I'd go for it. My goals are to feel super horny (I'm not a horny guy), produce more precum (normally I make very little), and of course have a wet dream or maybe even a few if things go well. Luckily even if I don't get a wd I'll still have experienced the first two things which will be new to me.


I started on January 11th. The first few days were the most "exciting", but I think it was just because I was actively aware of abing and mbing throughout the day. Normally I don't mb every day of the week and out of coincidence I can go a few days without mbing without even thinking about it.

The first night after I decided to do this I actually had a dream about masturbation. There was the dream itself, and then I started waking up a little bit and the dream continued but I was more aware. There was nothing sexual in the first part of the dream but it seemed to be a set up for what happened in the 2nd part which included masturbation. And then a few nights ago I had a more explicitly sexual dream also involving masturbation (neither was about sex). Even though the situations in dreams are usually bizarre, when I'm in them I still act like I do in rl, and in this dream, after I couldn't figure out how to "make something happen" without being awkward my brain short circuited and the dream ended. But to have two erotic dreams in this period of time is a lot for me and I think it's a good sign.

It didn't take long to start producing more precum. I haven't had much of a desire to mb, but I *have* had a desire to see how much precum I can make, and that's caused a problem twice so far, on the 14th and 17th. The first time I was stimulating myself, not thinking I was anywhere near cumming, when suddenly I felt a liquid flow out of me, without any contractions, and with good sensations but not the normal orgasm feeling. I thought it might have been one of the big precum flows that I've read about here, but when I looked in my boxers it was was cum. The same thing happened on the 17th, except I was doing some actual edging, although I still didn't think I was that close to cumming. And the 2nd time it started out without contractions and then near the end there were some contractions and more of a normal orgasm experience. Now it seems like the precum novelty is wearing off so I should be in good shape in the future.

Like I said I normally make very little precum, but I've been making more now. And with making more I've found that sometimes it makes sensations in my penis. And I was feeling that sensation more and more but I felt like I was somehow unintentionally holding it back. So I relaxed and allowed whatever was happening to happen. Then the feeling got a little more intense, and a some clear liquid came out! "Wow!!" But I instinctively stopped as soon as it started. It looked like water but when I touched it it was sticky like precum but a lot runnier than I expected. It had no smell and no taste, and was crystal clear. So I decided to do it again but not stop. Some clear liquid came out, then some more came out a little more forcefully, and then some more, and then my heart sank, I stopped, and I knew what had happened. I was peeing! The pee was sticky because I guess there was enough actual precum mixed in that was already in my penis, and it was so clear because apparently I had drunk a ton of water. Thankfully it didn't get on anything so there was no mess. Totally deflated (both figuratively and literally), I got up and went to the bathroom and peed a ton, then went back to bed. A few hours later in the morning I went to the bathroom again and once again peed a ton. Normally I have a good sense of how full I am but since ab I can't really tell as well. And since then I've also felt actual precum feelings (at least I think so), so it was just a matter of not being familiar with those feelings, but now I know.

I also experienced blue balls which I had no idea was an actual physical thing. I thought it was just something people said! I didn't understand or even believe it when people talked about blue balls. But after being aroused for too long without a rest one day I got sore. And like the other stuff, now I know.


Overall I haven't felt any new heights of horniness, it's just that I'm at a low level of horniness throughout the day. Maybe that will change in the next few days.


Anyway, that's everything notable that's happened so far. Kind of lengthy but a lot has happened. When something new happens I'll post about it. I've also dug out my camera in case I have anything to show, but it has abysmally bad image quality (which is why I never use it), so I'm not sure if I'll be able to share any pictures, and I'm still not sure if I'd want to share them. The battery is charging now.

Had another erotic dream last night.

The dream I had on the first night of ab was at a university auditorium at a public event, and I was talking with a woman about the subject of the event (some weird amalgamation of current events and topics I've been reading about lately), and during the dream she had her 12 year old son with her, and he was fidgeting in his seat in the way that 12 year old boys do when they're trying to touch their boner without actually looking like they're doing it. This was just in the background of the dream and had nothing to do with me, but that it happened at all was a good sign for the first night.

The second dream took place in a youth camp kind of cabin (a cabin full of bunk beds) and some of my old college classmates were mbing together. I tried to get involved but the dream ended when I couldn't figure out a non-awkward way of joining them.

Last night's dream took place in a different cabin. We were all in our bunks reading. I was reading a silly erotic novel, for humorous purposes. Another guy had a boner that he was passively enjoying, but suddenly a girl in a nearby bunk reached over and started giving him a handjob through his pants. Then the dream shifted and a girl came in. I was chummy with her even though she was a stranger. She had the game Twister in her hand and I think I was supposed to do stuff with her if the dream hadn't ended.

The dreams are getting closer to the kind I think I would need in order to have a wd.

Hi Qubeley.

I love your blog. Whenever I'm reading it, I somehow can relate to your experiences. I'm also not a horny guy, bit after 3 weeks, I had some really horny days, and days when I wasn't horny at all. Also while ABing, I'm leaking lots of precum mostly all the time, even though if I'm not hard. My balls feel bigger and heavier. I didn't have sexual dreams yet, maybe because I don't dream very often. Hope you'll get WD soon.

Have a nice day.

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Since I've found this site I've been following your log too and I agree.


Although I'm jealous of your good camera! I think it was meant for taking macros of flowers and stuff and not precum but that's ok.

I'd do photography myself if cameras weren't so expensive.

Hey Qubeleys's
Welcome to the forum! Happy to have another mate on board!
You already have a nice log! And an interesting one! Keep it up!

Cheers
futureWDmer

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Hi Qubeley,
Thanks for writing your experiences, I like how you have been able to so accurately describe some of the different sensations that go along with abstinence that are so unfamiliar if you're used to jerking off fairly regularly. I've experienced exactly what you described both with the peeing and with the "edging that got a little too close." It's neat to see how our bodies react so differently in situations they're not used to, like AB for several weeks.

I wish you the best with your journey, absolutely keep us updated!

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Hi, welcome! You are making great progress, I know you will have your WD soon. Precum helps a lot when AB, so good job so far.

How is your Abing now? Any news?

Well Qubeley, I don't take my pictures with my DSLR, because it's too heavy and I would need another person to help me taking them So I take them with my iPhone (I have 4S). I promise I'll take some close ups with DSLR, but I also now, that I need to resize them, so I don't see the point

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Thanks everyone

Nothing much to update about. This morning and yesterday morning my penis felt very sensitive and I thought even my sheets brushing up against it might make me cum. Even stretching seemed risky. But by the time I got up and took a shower I was back to just having a semi or a boner like what's been normal so far. Overall I've done little touching today and yesterday, less than the previous days.

It's hard to believe it's been almost two weeks since I last purposefully mbed, and almost a week since I accidentally ejaculated.

Reducto: ahhhh Even the iphone cameras are surprisingly good.

I think I literally had only two brief boners today. Both times happened when I was thinking about how I hadn't had any boners. Zero horniness. Wasn't expecting it at all.

idk whether this is good or bad for having a wd.


I might have said before that normally I mb most days, but sometimes I'll just "forget" to mb for a few days in a row. I wonder if that's what's happening now. I've read that even though guys don't have periods, they do have cycles similar to girl's, but not as dramatic. If there's a pattern eventually it will be visible.

After a few nights of not doing anything, last night I tried making precum again. I made much more than I had a few days before, which is great, except that it lead to edging and then it lead to me being back on day 1...

I cummed a ton (where did it all come from!?!), and the contractions just kept on going, and it felt better than usual. But next time it will be on purpose and I'll get to enjoy it fully without feeling regret or panic (I wasn't prepared to deal with such a big mess).

The way I'd describe how abing works for me, is that when I'm not thinking about sexual things I'm not horny at all, just like normal. And when I do get horny I get more hard and sensitive than I normally would. Also, when I'm in bed in sleep-mode my judgement is worse, and when I'm horny my judgement is worse, so I'm going to avoid those things. This is how all of my setbacks have happened. Overall I'm going to try and have more zero horniness days.

Hi Qubeley! Great job with all the precum. I've for sure noticed an increase as well. Somehow, even though when edging I lately have gotten very close, I'm able to just will myself to be still enough to back away from the edge. Does it help that your increase in precum while AB is a motivator to not take it too far, and just enjoy the PC, and hopefully even a WD. Keep it up and I'm rooting for you!

Great log! Please keep us posted on your progress.

Hey qubeley!

Great experiences, right? The amount of your cum, or the changes... And the WD's, it'll be the best part, trust me Keep going, I'll be following your log.

Good luck

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Hi quebley,
sorry to hear about your recent reset. Sometimes the whole "just want to have some more precum" or "just want to get hard again" can be the most dangerous thing for sticking to AB. You don't feel yourself getting close and you're not intending to orgasm by MB, but before you know it you're shooting cum all over.

Hopefully you can get back on track quickly and be mindful of when you're going to be more tempted. You're doing great overall though, keep it up!

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Current challenge: 30 days

Thanks everyone

Luckily the reset only set me back a few days, as far as horniness and precum goes.

PacificOcean & sleepydreamer: the precum is both a motivator and a reward, and a risk when I try to "collect my 'reward'"! I still don't get enough precum that it just comes out on its own. While watching porn I might get some, but to really get any I basically have to mb.

Everything's been going well so far, and there's nothing really to report right now.

The only thing is that I've been sleeping in the positions that I normally would. I do sleep on my back sometimes, but I also sleep on my side and on my stomach. I'm worried that if I have a wd and I'm not on my back I'll stain the mattress (I'm not worried about the sheets). Early on I was sleeping only on my back to avoid this. But it's probably going to be a while before I get a wd anyway, and I'll only be getting one or maybe a few of them, so I think I just have to accept that it's going to happen?

Ya your probably gonna roll in your sleep anyways I wouldn't worry about it plus there's ways to clean it off and you won't see the stain anyways. People cum all over their bed when I have sex and don't have problems its pretty thick so it doesn't really seep in like urine.does

Very well said! That basically sums up my experience as well.

Regarding your concern about stains on the mattress, I think super23 is right, people have sex and MB in bed all the time and it's not that big of a deal what stains do or don't get on the mattress. If you're really worried though you could buy a mattress pad, those are usually thick enough to keep all but the biggest stains from getting through to the mattress.

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LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Thanks guys

So since my last mess up I figured maybe I was overreacting a little, by banning myself from doing anything in bed at night or in the morning. Well I wasn't actually overreacting. Messed up again this morning doing literally the exact same thing that I did the last time. I've learned my lesson! :p

Live and learn!

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Last night I had a dream with two short bits of erotic content. In one, I got a pair of track pants. Somehow they were collectible (idk?) and they came from the 1990s and had something to do with britpop music. And they came with a pair of boxer briefs that were made out of some kind of synthetic spandex material like spandex or something. Anyway I put them and I either edged or mbed or something (this part of the dream was skipped over, all I know is that it happened), and I got a wet spot on the front of them, and I thought I shouldn't have because it would degrade their collectible value. This was a small part of a very long dream. I've literally never worn trackies in my life, and I've never worn any unusual or novelty underwear before, and I didn't think I associated trackies and spandex boxer briefs with britpop before either. The funny things that happen in dreams! Then either later in the dream or in a different dream there was something to do with normal boxers but I don't remember what.

Other than that nothing has happened. It's been almost two full days since my reset so maybe tomorrow I'll start feeling the effects of ab again. Haven't really felt any different from normal. But I think the dream shows that my body and brain still have their eyes on the prize. :p

Had more dreams last night that had sexual elements.

When you guys have dreams, let's say you're mbing or having sex in a dream, do you feel the sensations on your penis like you do if you were doing it in rl?

I'm trying to think but I don't think I ever have in my dreams. In the dreams it's something I want to do and it might "feel good" in an abstract way (like I know it feels good without actually feeling it feeling good), but I don't remember ever actually feeling anything.

Hi Qubeley, from my experience the dream and the sensations go together and that's when you realize you're WDing. Then you can't be too excited or you'll wake up, instead just enjoy and go with the flow, so to speak

I was going great and then my horniness got the best of me.

It started yesterday evening. I don't remember how it started but I started feeling horny, when I hadn't at all in the previous days. The horniness continued until I went to bed. While sleeping I had a dream that answered my own question from my last post. I was mbed in the dream and I felt it in the dream. But then I woke up, and when I did I was still horny. Throughout this story so far I'd been making more and more precum, and during some of the time I was mbing a little. Then I fell asleep again, and when I woke up and throughout the morning and early afternoon I was slowly leaking precum, without any stimulation. After a few hours of this it finally got me back to being horny. Eventually I had to go to the bathroom, and that lead to edging which led me to restarting. It might be better for me to forget that I have a penis altogether. :/

Hey buddy! Don't loose confidence in you. You can do it! In the past 2 weeks i have been a perfect failure regarding AB. i've not been able to get more than 2 days without looking at porn, or get horny and mb. Its only human to fall sometimes. And, for sure, there are dark periods during our quest to AB. Don't blame too much! Its hard do mb after sometime of AB, but as soon we realize we're not perfect and that sometimes we'll cave in, well, the better we'll be. That does not mean we'll not think before mb and just forgive ourselves. It means that if we cave in after battling with it, and even after that, we fail well, we did good and are learning new and stronger ways to fight the mb urges. Trust yourself and trust that you can overcome that! You'll do it! As me, we just need to be very strong regarding the mb temptation, as well, we do need to focus on the big picture, in the wonders that AB brings and how good it can be! Also, you don't need to forget you have a penis. Its very nice that you have one! Be proud of him... just not let him control you, let your mind control your body and not your desires!

Be strong and keep patient!

Hug
futureWDmer

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Thank you.


Two nights ago I had a lot of dreams and some of them were erotic.

Last night I watched porn, without touching. When I went to bed I was laying on my back, and like, humped the inside of my boxers (if that makes sense. Basically there was very little contact), and did that maybe a dozen times over a few minutes, and that was, unexpectedly, all it took. Then this morning I drifted back into half-sleep and was half dreaming that I was mbing.

So let's see if I can make it past three days this time. :p

The good news is that even though, in practical terms, I haven't really been abing (mb every three days...), general sensitivity and stuff is still increasing.

I mbed on the 11th. Another case of edging going a little too far, and another case of totally knowing better. :p

My records so far:

4 days
3 days
8
4
5
3

and now 2 so far.

Keep up the good determination. The erotic dreams of MBing bod well for your having a WD. If you must E, you have to stop in time or else, well you know! I got your back buddy, we're in this together!

Thanks!


Nothing new to report, except that I decided to try "thinking off"/mental masturbation after reading the thread about it here. That was pretty uneventful, but! I think it lead to me having an erotic dream. In the dream I was mbing, like, really mbing, not quite a lucid dream, but it felt real. And in the dream I felt like I was close to cumming but wasn't quite able to finish, and then I started waking up. In the dream I was in my bed on my stomach, holding myself in the air like I was doing a push-up, which is hard to do and mb at the same time. But in real life I was in my bed laying on my back. Fell back asleep and had unrelated non-erotic, but good, dreams.

Anyway, since then I've needed to focus on sleeping, in order to wake up the next morning on time, but I should be able to try it again now.

Hi Qubeley! Hey awesome job on the "mental MBing" and having that lead to a semi-lucid sexual dream. That's really great hope for your WD coming soon. I really think that there is something to the dream aspect of attaining a WD, and being able to focus your mind when the moment is right. Keep it up bro!