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hey everyone, I figured now's as good a time as any to start a journal to track my AB progress. This will be partially an AB log and partially a journal to help keep myself accountable with other things like fitness.

This a great place, I've already talked with some awesome guys, I'm looking forward to talking with whoever is interested in chatting, and helping each other along this journey. As I've read so many times, it's really difficult, but in a supportive environment like this it's amazing to see the success that some people have had.

My primary goal is full abstinence, no MB, no porn, no edging, no intentional sexual stimulation whatsoever. A wet dream would be awesome if I could get one, never had one though so I'm not holding my breath.

Today I'm at five days AB, last time I jerked was Monday morning, no porn at that time, that's been a little longer.

I need to get back on the bandwagon with yoga, pushups, and bike riding as it's been a few weeks for each of them. I think getting into a better routine with exercise will help with AB. What do you guys think? I'm open to as many suggestions as are available.

Thanks everyone!

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Great goals, and I want to start with that too. I think exercise goes right hand in hand with your goal to start ABing. Talk about mind/body reform! Best of luck, bro, and may the odds be ever in your favor.

Sounds like you have a really solid plan. We'll all be interested to hear how it works out, hopefully in a nice WD!

Yeah, good luck! I do yoga and work out a bit, but I can't say whether itks made a difference. I will say that no edging or porn will make a difference, though. The less pressure you release, the more quickly it will build. Plus, nude sleeping helps.

Hi slepydreamer,
Suport is something you'll not feel lack of it. And that's the point of the forum, to talk about our experiences, talk about our desires, get help, be helped and give helped, as i said sometimes already.
Looking forward to your posts and congrats on your AB days.

cheers,

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Ever tried.
Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

Go for it. You gonna have a lot of great experiences.
Just remember however your only human, so if you fail, do so with style and go again.
Keep us posted.

Doing really great today. I'm getting to that point where I'm able to fully enjoy arousal, without venturing into the zone where I feel controlled by it. I miscounted the other day, I'm on day 7 of AB today. Noticing increased precum production, and waking up hard just about every morning.

I'm doing better also with my exercise routine, did my pushups and yoga yesterday, planning for a bike ride first thing tomorrow morning, and maybe a yoga class or two later in the week.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone! I'm really enjoying being a part of this community!

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Hey
Good to know that AB is getting easier and that you're also enjoying the feeling that AB brings. For me, much of this sensations are new, and i'm loving it, as much as you i assume
Hope you have a nice day.

Love,
futureWDmer

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Ever tried.
Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

Just a quick update. Things are going very well, I've been staying in the mindset that I need to to nurture sexual purity and abstinence for the most part, and when I begin to backtrack it doesn't take too long for me to realize what's happening and I'll do what I need to to get turned around and moving in the right direction again.

This happened the other day when I "sleep-jerked" and rather than getting upset at myself and regressing further into negativity which I would do often in the past I reminded myself (over and over) that sleep jerking is merely a signpost that I'm going the wrong way, I just need to turn around. So that's what I did, I started keeping a tighter reign on what I allow myself to look at and think about, and the last few days have been very positive and I feel like I'm right back on track despite having to reset my counter.

It's a process, and I think maintaining the right mindset and boundaries is much more important for me then how many times I do or don't reset my MB counter and how long it actually takes to get a WD.

Thanks everyone for making this place what it is!

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

I couldn't have said it better myself. It's just an opportunity to reposition yourself, nothing to fret unnecessarily over. As you make those small course corrections, big changes gradual begin to happen. But beating yourself up over not reaching your goals pushes you down further. I think we're both learning that!

Keep it up, we're there for you!

Hey men, how are you?
Glad to know everything is on check and that your managing the urges. Very happy for you my friend!
I'm not that okey. After 18 days of AB, i cave in... Today is my day Zero, again. Give me strength bro.

Always enjoy a lot your post!

Love, futureWDmer

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Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

Just checking in, things are going pretty well. I had a good long weekend away with lots of close friends over last weekend so I really haven't even experienced any temptation until overnight last night. I know I was dreaming a lot and was hard a lot, the dreams I remember centered around auto-fellatio among other things, which is funny since I haven't been able to do that for like 10 years. No WD though, no surprise there. Still progressing with AB though and with my workout routine. I got right back into yoga on my own today, did a lot of extra core stuff, got a semi at one point and started producing some precum, which is always nice. I probably will just update when there's something notable to talk about.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Hey man
Glad that everything is cool! I see you're enjoying much the AB journey! You make me so proud! And i'm also so happy for you!
I wish that a WD may come soon!

Hug,
futureWDmer

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Ever tried.
Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

Hey sleepydreamer! Good luck on your challenge, good to hear that things are well. Stay strong!

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My Log: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=4792
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Hey sleepydreamer. You are doing great. Awesome goals to also get fitter as well as striving for your WD, which I know will come one day to you. Keep up the good fitness and AB, you're on the right track.

Well, it happened, I discovered yet another way to not succeed at long term AB!

Without wanting to get too graphic, the other day I was trying to quickly get hard for a reason that will remain a mystery, during the course of that, almost without even realizing what was happening I ended up cumming all over without a full erection and without a lot of the normal sensations that let me know that an orgasm is pending. It was like the cum was sitting in an overfull reservoir just waiting for the dam to break so it could all escape. Needless to say, this is not what I was aiming for, but since I had already cum once, I decided to MB once more that night, and again last night. I would have looked at porn last night as well if it hadn't been for some internet issues which were a blessing in disguise.

I'm working on getting back on the AB train now, sometimes it's just difficult to make that first jump to get on. I feel good today though, so for now today is day 1.

In other news, the fitness routine has been going pretty good. I haven't been on my bike much because I was away for a week and we've had a good bit of snow here, but I've been better at doing yoga at home and push ups. I'm thinking of getting a pull up bar.

http://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Fitness-31010-Multi-Gym/dp/B008DNAJYI/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1390499731&sr=8-6&keywords=pull+up+bar

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Figured I'd post an update. Things have been going very well lately. It's been at least a week since I last sleep-jerked, AB is progressing fine, I don't even feel tempted at all. Without wanting to be too dramatic I really do feel that I'm moving into a new place in life, one where I'm no longer controlled by sexuality, either the expression of desires, or the constant threat of temptation. Not that I ever feel I can fully let my guard down, I guess the difference is I don't feel the weight of having to think about sexuality in one way or another all the time. I'm experiencing the beginnings of an attraction for someone, and sexuality isn't a part of that at all, it's all about beauty, emotional connection, spirituality, etc. It's like a freedom that I've never really fully felt before.

Exercising has been better too, I've been keeping up with yoga, I talked to a trainer friend of mine who encouraged me to go from 3 sets of push ups every other day to ten sets every day, so I'm working my way up to that. I'm typically between 6 and 9 sets per day now. I did get the pull-up bar, waiting for it to arrive.

God is good.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Hey men! How are you buddy?


I'm so happy for you men! That means your brain is rewiring to the reality that we should not be driven by our impulses and with rationality we need to control them and set them right! You make me so proud!

love
futureWDmer

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Ever tried.
Ever Failed.
No matter.
Try Again.
Fail Again.
Fail Better - Samuel Beckett

So, even though I haven't been on here much, I've definitely still been pursuing AB. Haven't made it too far in terms of prolonged success, but I've made progress in terms of successive longer periods of AB, in other words 2-3 weeks at a time, one after the other. Even if I would MB after 3 weeks or so, I would get right back on, rather than degenerating into a long period of MB every day or couple days. So, even though it's not huge, it's definitely progress.

I've stopped keeping track of the days because I found that to be a distraction for me and wasn't helping me get to where I wanted to be, but I know I'm at least a couple weeks in this time around, and am feeling a lot of the positive markers of stored up sexual energy. That's been helping me open up to people in my life in ways that I never saw myself doing and would have never been comfortable with. I had a dream last night that involved having a huge release of precum brought on by a really attractive guy, and it was definitely precum because I remember thinking about the color and consistency in the dream, unfortunately nothing came out in real life though.

I definitely see myself on the right track, even if it's taking a while.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

So something happened overnight that I've never quite experienced. I was going to the bathroom, (number two) and as I was peeing I noticed some thick milky discharge that looked just like semen when you haven't ejaculated in a while. I grabbed a picture of it on the paper. There was also some that came out of my penis when I milked the rest of the pee out. I got a picture of that too but I don't think I'm allowed to post that one here.

I was feeling slightly horny ahead of time but nothing over the top, and there was no sensation of ejaculation or orgasm, I wasn't even hard, it was just all of a sudden like, oh, there's cum there. Different but enjoyable.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Just your body is cleaning the tubes. Most of the sperm was absorbed and the remaining part is pushed away from your prostate.

Some in the forum say that this is a good sign for a powerful WD is just around the corner.
Good luck

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Good luck and keep it up I'm on day 14 now!

Hmmm, sleep jerked last night, which was a little weird since I'm usually much more likely to sleep jerk when I have some type of sexual stimulation during the day or before bed (i.e. looking at porn) but there was none of that all day yesterday. In fact it was a really good day by all counts, then I sleep jerked, not sure what happened. But oh well, I decided to MB this morning because I hadn't done it awake in a looooooong time and because I was already starting over.

Back on the AB train now though, feeling good. Going away for the weekend with a bunch of guys so that'll help give me a head start.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Sleepydreamer, your journal is interesting. What day are you on?

This happened to me nearly every day during my last AB streak. I only noticed it the first time it happened because when I poop at work I kind of crouch over the toilet so I don't have to sit on the seat! I haven't seen it happening during first days of this streak. Today is day 4.

I guess not everyone looks at their dick when they poop, so many guys would not notice this happening. It seems to be one of the body's ways of readjusting the semen levels during AB. I would prefer to have a WD, though. I wonder if guys who pee out semen have less WDs than guys who don't?

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Home sick today. It'll probably be the first time I will have felt really tempted in a while. Usually I do so much running around I don't think about it much. I'll have to very intentionally keep away from temptation today, which is a good exercise to go through sometimes.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Doing better, cold's gone but fighting bad allergies, they've still kept me under the weather. Need to work out more to keep the adrenaline going but it's tough to get going when my sinuses are constantly blocked.

Making it without jerking off though, looked at some porn briefly the other night but doing better now, continuing to get away from that!

Just putting up with the inevitable emotional strain that often accompanies prolonged AB. Waking up with morning wood again, which is nice! Looking forward to getting over this next hump in the AB road.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Stay strong brother I feel your pain. I have bad allergies and asthma as well. I have only ever abstained for 10days but is was brutal so I understand that as well. I am always around and here to support.

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Things are going really well, staying active, keeping away from MB. I'm just about at a month right now which is my record, so I'm really happy to be looking toward extending that. Waking up a lot at night with erections, but I'll usually just feel it and then go back to sleep, no "sleep jerking" activity lately, which is a huge relief! Hopefully things will stay on this way, it's been a long time coming.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 20 August 2014
Current challenge: 30 days