B3n's WD Log

[B3n163]

So, hello to this forum and came across it while on the internet, im 16 years old and have never had a wet dream, i am going to keep a log about my attempts to have a wet dream. The last time i MB was last night (5th Aug 3013) so this is day one of my AB. i am looking tips from people about how to have a wet dream and how to abstain. also i would like tips from people around my age who are/were in my 'situation'

[Starburst33]

Hi there and welcome to the forum!

Congrats for starting the AB process, there are lots of tips on achieving a WD in the 'FAQ: How do I get a wet dream?' in the general discussion area.

From what I've found so far, the consensus is that the best way to get a WD is no 1: don't masturbate, 2: don't touch or stimulate yourself in any way (apart from the necessary such as peeing and cleaning) and 3: don't watch porn or view anything which may get you aroused.

Lots of people on this site want to cut down on watching porn so they do this at the same time as AB. You may not want to do this, but not watching porn is advisable as it may increase the chance of you having a WD and stops you from being tempted to MB.

Apart from these things when AB, the best thing to do is to stay busy. It's a mind over matter thing and your willpower will determine how long you can AB for. But you also have your age on your side, as younger guys tend to have WD's more regularly when not MB, compared to older guys.

It may take a month or less than a week for you to achieve a WD as everyone is different but it is definitely worth the effort. I'm older than you (22) and I had never had a WD before joining this forum and I managed to have one quite quickly a few months ago (I'm now working towards my second). Log your progress and experience and hopefully you will be able to have a WD soon!

(The hardest part tends to be the first few days and then you start to enjoy the 'buzz' from AB so try your best to resist from MB. But don't feel bad if you can't go without MB for a long time to start with, it's all a learning experience and members on this site are very supportive if you're struggling)

Good Luck and keep us updated!

[B3n163]

Thanks for the advice and good luck with your 2nd WD

[nicknodream]

I can really recommend to watch no porn at all as starburst said. I am at day 16 now and after the first week i cut out porn which really helped to decrease my hornyness and focus on other things. My mindset is now I'll see when i get my first WD and than be thankfull for it, instead of: I want a wd as soon as possible.

Anyway good luck!

[B3n163]

thanks for the advice

[B3n163]

i have heard that watching porn just before you go to bed on a 'look and no touch' basis might help ?

[Starburst33]

This might work for some people?
For your first try, I'd suggest no touching or porn for the first week at least.
But if you want to ease yourself into the AB process, watch a bit or porn and then stop after a few days, just as long as you know you'll be able to resist the urge to MB if you do!

[B3n163]

Thanks i think ill try that for my first attempt, now that i have grasped what to do i am going to count tonight as night 1, here we go

[nicknodream]

Well, good luck!