Hey guys. I'm new here. I want to get rid of porn. I'm 18 years old and have a gf for 1,5 year. We're not having sex, we're virgins.
Im Masturbating since 1st grade and watching porn often since 12. Have had years when i watched porn more then 2 times a day!
Therefore i want to have the best sexual life in my future marriage and want to be free from any porn. Just watched porn to O this morning, dang.
I've read forums on porn addictions and what does porn do to brain. I want to be a real man, that has no addictions. Read a lot of success stories that inspired me. I will track my process and share it with you guys. I had 2 WD.
1) Was in my room. And was fapping to porn in my room. Then had O and woke up.
stupid that it i fapped in dream.
2) random girl gave me a BJ, but i didn't quite feel anything.
My target for now is 21 days. Hopefully WD to keep me motivated each time. It will be tough. I've tried before, but my record has been a week...
A freshman making it's way to being porn free. Want your help guys. Thanks!
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by ronalds141 » Sat May 04, 2013 6:18 pm
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Re: For better life in future!
by Ronald » Sun May 05, 2013 1:35 am
Welcome Ronald and good luck in abstaining and getting a wet dream!
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Re: For better life in future!
by 1to9 » Tue May 07, 2013 12:37 pm
Provide yourself with as much distractions as you can, whenever you feel like masturbating. Go for a walk or something. Try to avoid porn too. 
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Re: For better life in future!
by BePositive » Wed May 08, 2013 8:43 am
Hi, try and take it one day at a time. forget about long term goals, just get through today! Once you get through today and tomorrow arrives, get through that day,and so on and so on. Eventually your progress will accumulate into many days of abstinent. good luck!
How much AB from masturbation can help your life in general,demonstrated by;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzterc3NqeU
-http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1fweh5/day_365_my_journey_is_complete/
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Re: For better life in future!
by LuvsCurvy » Wed May 08, 2013 9:54 am
I would advocate setting short term goals, but keep them longer than one day at a time. My first goal was 6 days, then 7, then 10, then 14 ... Etc
Leader board:
Personal Best: 44 days (26 May 2013)
2nd: 33 days (2 Feb 2013)
3rd: 20 days (1 Mar 2013)
4th: 15 days (23 Mar 2013)
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Re: For better life in future!
by BePositive » Wed May 08, 2013 1:44 pm
LuvsCurvy wrote:I would advocate setting short term goals, but keep them longer than one day at a time. My first goal was 6 days, then 7, then 10, then 14 ... Etc
I should have explained further. I have found that by having long term goals, I tend to get inpatient and restless, knowing that my target is so far away. As a result, I kind of feel under pressure and stressed out, and this stress has led me to failing in the past. It might do for others too.
So my changed approach is to take it a day at a time, and have a set goal 'looming in the distance', but don't dwell or constantly think about it, just enjoy the moment when you pass it, but first and foremost, get through today!
Just a way to look at it- a successful member I spoke to on chat room told me about it, forgotten his name but remember avatar will get back to you when I find him...
How much AB from masturbation can help your life in general,demonstrated by;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzterc3NqeU
-http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1fweh5/day_365_my_journey_is_complete/
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BePositive
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Re: For better life in future!
by ronalds141 » Sat May 11, 2013 5:48 am
Thanks for all the nice comments! I really should make smaller goals. I watched porn today. :/ arrived home, had a lot of free time and it just happened.
Other days were quite good. Kept myself busy, though had hard moments too. Was really horny past days.
guess this is day 0 again, Gonna try to keep AB till sunday.
i will keep updating my journal. heading to chat room now.
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- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
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- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 01 May 2013
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Re: For better life in future!
by ronalds141 » Sat May 11, 2013 5:52 am
it's really hard to keep ABing, when i have had mbed. Have this feeling - eh i did it, it wont be bad if i'll do this again.
gonna keep myself busy. workout maybe?
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
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Re: For better life in future!
by Ronald » Sun May 05, 2013 1:35 am
Welcome Ronald and good luck in abstaining and getting a wet dream!
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Re: For better life in future!
by 1to9 » Tue May 07, 2013 12:37 pm
Provide yourself with as much distractions as you can, whenever you feel like masturbating. Go for a walk or something. Try to avoid porn too. )
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Re: For better life in future!
by BePositive » Wed May 08, 2013 8:43 am
Hi, try and take it one day at a time. forget about long term goals, just get through today! Once you get through today and tomorrow arrives, get through that day,and so on and so on. Eventually your progress will accumulate into many days of abstinent. good luck!
How much AB from masturbation can help your life in general,demonstrated by;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzterc3NqeU
-http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1fweh5/day_365_my_journey_is_complete/
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 03 May 2013
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Re: For better life in future!
by LuvsCurvy » Wed May 08, 2013 9:54 am
I would advocate setting short term goals, but keep them longer than one day at a time. My first goal was 6 days, then 7, then 10, then 14 ... Etc
Leader board:
Personal Best: 44 days (26 May 2013)
2nd: 33 days (2 Feb 2013)
3rd: 20 days (1 Mar 2013)
4th: 15 days (23 Mar 2013)
Personal Best: 44 days (26 May 2013)
2nd: 33 days (2 Feb 2013)
3rd: 20 days (1 Mar 2013)
4th: 15 days (23 Mar 2013)
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Re: For better life in future!
by BePositive » Wed May 08, 2013 1:44 pm
LuvsCurvy wrote:I would advocate setting short term goals, but keep them longer than one day at a time. My first goal was 6 days, then 7, then 10, then 14 ... Etc
I should have explained further. I have found that by having long term goals, I tend to get inpatient and restless, knowing that my target is so far away. As a result, I kind of feel under pressure and stressed out, and this stress has led me to failing in the past. It might do for others too.
So my changed approach is to take it a day at a time, and have a set goal 'looming in the distance', but don't dwell or constantly think about it, just enjoy the moment when you pass it, but first and foremost, get through today!
Just a way to look at it- a successful member I spoke to on chat room told me about it, forgotten his name but remember avatar will get back to you when I find him...
How much AB from masturbation can help your life in general,demonstrated by;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzterc3NqeU
-http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1fweh5/day_365_my_journey_is_complete/
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 03 May 2013
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Re: For better life in future!
by ronalds141 » Sat May 11, 2013 5:48 am
Thanks for all the nice comments! I really should make smaller goals. I watched porn today. :/ arrived home, had a lot of free time and it just happened.
Other days were quite good. Kept myself busy, though had hard moments too. Was really horny past days.
guess this is day 0 again, Gonna try to keep AB till sunday.
i will keep updating my journal. heading to chat room now.
Other days were quite good. Kept myself busy, though had hard moments too. Was really horny past days.
guess this is day 0 again, Gonna try to keep AB till sunday.
i will keep updating my journal. heading to chat room now.
- ronalds141
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 01 May 2013
- Sex: Male
Re: For better life in future!
by ronalds141 » Sat May 11, 2013 5:52 am
it's really hard to keep ABing, when i have had mbed. Have this feeling - eh i did it, it wont be bad if i'll do this again.
gonna keep myself busy. workout maybe?
gonna keep myself busy. workout maybe?
- ronalds141
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 01 May 2013
- Sex: Male
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