briefguy1976's log

[briefguy1976]

Hey everyone. 36 year old guy here who used to have WD's all the time (didn't MB until I started college--long story) and then stopped, owing to being unable to take my hand off my junk (and sex and all the usual stuff). Now I'm curious about getting back into the WD groove again. Had my last orgasm Saturday morning, already getting pre in my briefs when I don't really expect it, but trying not to get my hopes up or anything. 36 is not 16, I keep telling myself. Anyway, just wanted to say hi and see if I can keep this up.

[averageme]

Hey welcome to the forum and hang in there mate hopfully u get a WD

[briefguy1976]

Hey welcome to the forum and hang in there mate hopfully u get a WD

Thanks, man. I need all the encouragement I can get to keep my hands out of my briefs.

[ATC747]

U will do good. The most I've gone is about two weeks awhile back. Of you have set backs like I have had don't worry. Just keep going and try to stay away from things that will trigger a response. Much success to you on your journey.

[briefguy1976]

U will do good. The most I've gone is about two weeks awhile back. Of you have set backs like I have had don't worry. Just keep going and try to stay away from things that will trigger a response. Much success to you on your journey.

Thanks, man. So far it's just hard to ignore the precum that I'm dripping into my underwear, even though it's only been three days. Trying not to focus on it too much, probably shouldn't have worn boxers after my shower today (usually a briefs guy and the loose shorts get me boned so easily) but also kind of hoping that the pre is a sign that it won't take two or three weeks for my first WD. Any advice from you or anyone would be more than welcome, esp. since I'm throbbing in my pants as I write this.

[briefguy1976]

It's the beginning of day 4 here. Woke up only semi-hard but by the time my eyes were totally open it was a raging boner. Funny thing is that mine usually sticks straight out, not up, but it's pointing a little north of 90 degrees for a change. Went to bed really horny but was so tired from a long day that I fell right asleep. Wore grey patterned boxers to bed so it's kind of tough to see how much pre I leaked during the night, I'm thinking that I might wear white boxers or briefs for the next few days and just see how much I end up leaking. Could be cool to compare from day to day, as long as I can keep my hands off my tool when it's hard like this. Would there be any interest in me documenting that? As a newbie here I've found Jamie's pictures really inspiring. Anyway the main thing is to enjoy the feeling of horniness (I even got boned at the grocery store last night, what's up with that?) without taking matters into my own hands.

[briefguy1976]

Update from the same day: really hard to focus today on anything other than my penis. And it's just day 4! This morning a big wad of what I'm guessing was seminal fluid (thick and pretty white) oozed out when I was using the bathroom (#2). Not going to make a habit of talking about my bathroom habits, but that was kinda interesting. Also, my boner just now did this thing where it started almost contracting without stimulation (unless you count the fabric of my boxers--wore white ones today, instead of briefs) just like pulse pulse pulse. Went to the bathroom to check, just a big drop of precum. Need to get out of the house!

[briefguy1976]

End of day 4 here. I know, not very long by you guys' standards but for me it's huge. Having a hard time focusing because of the boner I've got, also wondering whether I should try to hold back if my penis just decides it wants to shoot without me touching it. I'd really like to wait for a WD but sometimes I just start spasming, so far just precum. The whole front of my shorts is wet. What do you guys do in similar situations?

[hary]

you better not to think about boner, excessive semen, let the body control it because you want to give wet dream privilege to your body, good luck and and wish you have a strong faith for WD

[briefguy1976]

Start of day 5 here. Woke up dry after a night of sub-par sleep (noisy roommate walking around at all hours). But when I checked for pre, I got instant wood and oozed a ton of it. I'm taking a picture to show what I've been dealing with for the past two days any time I think about trying *not* to touch my dick. Maybe I need to switch back to briefs.

[briefguy1976]

Middle of day 6 here. More precum, and more ooze while on the toilet this morning. I'm also noticing that I've got a short fuse today, psychologically. I get pissed off more easily. I'm just kind of charged up. I woke up dry and soft-to-semi, then went to check for pre and got instantly super hard and wet. Kind of a weird delayed response. Horny, it goes without saying. Boxerbriefs are keeping things in check.

By the way, I guess lots of people read these things, but feedback would be awesome.

[briefguy1976]

We seem to have a similar situation. So far, I'm on day 12 and I just leak a lot and have dry orgasms. Every day feels a little closer to a WD, however.

That would be great, man. But I'm trying also to remind myself that it's about the journey (the horniness, the energy, the constant precum) as much as the destination. If I wake up with briefs full of cum, though, I won't complain.

[briefguy1976]

I tend to think all the stuff about testosterone is exaggerated, but I'll admit that I'm feeling hyper-energetic today. Also, don't know if this is just me or what, but I'm smellier, I think. More sweat, more BO (and I'm a clean guy). Also, here's a pic of the boxerbriefs I'm wearing today, just to prove that my precum stories aren't made up.

[pookie20262]

By the way, I guess lots of people read these things, but feedback would be awesome.

Here's some feedback!

More precum, and more ooze while on the toilet this morning.

Whenever I abstain, I always notice this. It's definitely one of the weirder things about abstaining, and I don't like it because I feel as if I'm wasting the stuff that could eventually contribute to a WD!

Your boxer briefs in the photo above remind me of my last attempt. I remember having a weird sense of pride about all the precum. Good luck!

[briefguy1976]

Thanks, pookie20262. It's good to know that these experiences are shared. I weirdly do feel proud of my precum. Good luck to you, too.

[ATC747]

Keep up the good work 1976. Your determination is encouraging

[briefguy1976]

Day 7. The main thing to say about today is that I'm not sleeping that well. On the one hand, I understand: all that extra energy during the day is translating into tossing and turning at night, and sometimes sexual dreamlike thoughts that make it tough to settle down. (I remember waking up after three hours of sleep and then, in a kind of halfway state between waking and dreaming, thinking about watching a woman suck a guy's shaved nutsack, and then I was that guy, and then thankfully the scenario ended.) On the other hand, how am I supposed to have a wet dream if I don't sleep? Speaking of sacks, shaving mine yesterday was a real test of will power but I came through it without masturbating.

[briefguy1976]

Beginning of day 8. Slept better last night. Made a point of trying to get some exercise during the day: walked for a couple of miles, then did some crunches/pushups/stationary bike time at home. In addition to feeling more revved up in general I'm also feeling more aware/proud of my body. Spent the whole evening wearing nothing but gym shorts (oh, and underwear, still can't let myself have too much access to my johnson). Same story waking up this morning as the past few days: not hard or wet, but then I think about it and I become both, fast. Maybe less precum in general, though, than the first few days of AB'ing. One last thing, and I don't think I'm making this up: my balls have become enormous. I'd show you, but you'll just have to take my word on that.

[ATC747]

Keep up the good work. I hope I can be as focused as u

[briefguy1976]

Later in day 8: I made the mistake or whatever of tugging on my nuts, which have gotten so huge, after I finished taking a leak, and I was putting my penis back in my briefs, a thin stream of fluid shot out into the briefs. Probably seminal ooze--there wasn't an orgasm--but it was like a little warning light going off. I feel like I could SE.

[ATC747]

I know it's hard for you right now but stay the coarse bro. You could be Super close to a WD. Just enjoy the feelings. You are doing great so far.

[briefguy1976]

Beginning of day 9 here. Harder and harder not to touch my penis, but hopefully I'll find ways to distract myself. Slept okay: four solid hours, then some tossing and turning. Some vivid dreams but no sex dreams. Woke up semi, then got hard and leaking when I checked for pre, the new routine. Shaved my chest for first time ever yesterday and it feels pretty cool. Trying to focus the energy I'd spend MB'ing on other ways to enjoy my body. That's about it.

[thebrit]

Best of luck dude, keep busy. I haven't been at day 9 for so long now. That's what I'm aiming for by the end of the week!

[briefguy1976]

Thanks, thebrit and ATC. Having to go to work helps, although I think I've got to give up the thought of wearing boxers, for obvious reasons. What do you guys wear when you need to keep your boner resolutely under wraps? I'm thinking either a jockstrap under boxerbriefs or some compression shorts. Any other suggestions or things you've found helpful? My boys don't mind being cooped up if it keeps my hands and thoughts off my package.

[briefguy1976]

Good question, slovensko. Actually, I meant during the day at work, not at night. More for boner/precum control than as a safeguard against a messy WD.

[Tzel]

Awesome to see another briefs-wearer around here. Best underwear to have a WD in, in my opinion!

[briefguy1976]

Awesome to see another briefs-wearer around here. Best underwear to have a WD in, in my opinion!

Man, I'm looking forward to that. Beginning of day 10 here, and still no signs of flooding my shorts with cum in my sleep, although a man can dream, right? (Heh. I guess in this case a man *has* to dream.)

[briefguy1976]

Well, guys, a close call this morning. I didn't masturbate, but I did discover that if, after ten days of not having an orgasm, I pulled my boner up (my dick usually points out when it's hard, or down in my underwear) so that the head popped a little bit out of my briefs, which are basically just an elastic strap with a fabric pouch and butt, and if the waistband came to rest just under the head, the pressure felt pretty awesome. I sat at my desk like that for about five minutes and allowed myself to flex my bone a few times: instant precum fountain all over my newly smooth abs, and that feeling of not wanting to stop (just keep flexing, my brain kept saying) that usually accompanies a build-up to orgasm. It felt, I'll admit, really incredible. I quickly figured out what I was doing and reluctantly tucked my hard-on back down, but I won't promise I'll never do it again. I'll try to distract myself, though. I just needed an outlet, I guess, after ten days.

[W-Guy]

Good job stopping yourself, man!

[briefguy1976]

Day 11 here. Thought I'd take a picture of my morning wood. If you squint there's pre, but my camera's not great so you might just have to imagine it.