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by JoeShmoe3 » Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:31 am
I just found this forum and after reading a lot, I'm really eager to start having WDs again. MB is just not as satisfying and doesn't feel worth it. I remember having a few WDs during puberty and my most recent one was last year after ~11 days of AB.
My goal is to completely AB to start having WDs frequently. For me, AB means: no MB, no edging, no porn. I MB once yesterday, so I'm starting today at day 1 of AB. I'm hoping this log will help motivate me and keep me on track!
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JoeShmoe3
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by Zach » Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:51 am
Joe Shmoe haha i like the name! Welcome and good luck.
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2013
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:05 am
Zach wrote:Joe Shmoe haha i like the name! Welcome and good luck.
Haha, thanks. I forgot to mention, I will also be doing kegel exercises every day and trying to increase my semen volume by: drinking lots of water and eating peanuts (for L-Arginine). I have read that zinc helps increase sperm production, but since a man with a vasectomy can apparently still have WDs, sperm count is probably not a factor.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 5:02 am
Day 2. Had to fight off a few urges to MB today already. Still very motivated. I also want to have a SE since I've never had one before.
To those of you who have had WD and SE from AB, which usually comes first?
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- Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 10
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by WetHope » Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:07 am
Good luck
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 20
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Thu Aug 30, 2012 11:22 am
Day 3. Not much to report, still pretty easy. I haven't been sleeping well, but I don't think it's AB-related.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Fri Aug 31, 2012 12:55 am
Day 4. Last night, I humped the bed for a while out of horniness. I'm not going to count it as edging because 1) there was not touching with hands and 2) I was not close to ejaculating (on the edge). Still, I'm going to try to refrain from doing it in the future.
Now I'm just waiting for this horniness to pass so I can concentrate on work.
Update: This is getting pretty tough. I almost MBed today, but NO. It's only been 4 days, I can do much better.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by Rey92 » Fri Aug 31, 2012 1:21 pm
Good luck with your AB. Have your vasectomy cut?
Rey~
Patience is Virtue
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 2-3 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 23 Nov 2012
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by JoeShmoe3 » Sat Sep 01, 2012 11:11 am
Day 5. Clearly the key to success will be keeping myself busy. It's just so tempting to look at porn out of boredom. Rey92 wrote:Have your vasectomy cut?
No; I have just read that people who have had a vasectomy can still have WDs.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by activa » Sat Sep 01, 2012 3:58 pm
JoeShmoe3 wrote:No; I have just read that people who have had a vasectomy can still have WDs.
I can confirm this is correct.
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 11 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Sun Sep 02, 2012 3:27 pm
Day 6. Still staying strong. I've been redirect my energy elsewhere, like sports, work, and seeing friends. It's honestly a lot easier to not MB with porn out of the picture.
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Mon Sep 03, 2012 12:35 pm
Day 7. Even though I had little to distract me today, I'm still going strong. Time would go by a lot faster with distractions though.
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Fri Sep 07, 2012 1:23 am
I failed. I couldn't get to sleep, so I watched porn and couldn't resist. I barely had to touch at all, which was pretty interesting. I've been losing too much sleep and I think it's from ABing. Is it common to have difficulty sleeping due to ABing? Day 1. Starting over. Same rules as before. This time, I'm setting a goal for 2 weeks (Sept 20).
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by wdreamer » Fri Sep 07, 2012 7:27 am
I understand the temptation, when your laying in bed & can't get to sleep. Sometimes I take melatonin if I can't get to sleep & that seems to help or I try to find something to do until I feel like sleeping. Watch TV, find something to do on the computer (game, write/answer emails, chat, update a blog, research something) or finish something I've been putting off (cleaning/laundry ect.). Just some thoughts for you... Good luck on making it to your two week goal!
Record: 38 days Last MB: Sep/3/2013 WDs since last MB: 0 Day "6" Last Updated: Sep/9/2013
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 03 Sep 2013
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by JoeShmoe3 » Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:53 am
Thanks for the good words guys!
Day 2. I've still been having trouble sleeping and I'm not sure why, but I don't think it's due to AB. Either way, it's been pretty easy so far (the first few days usually are).
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by traveling guy » Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:40 pm
Joe Schmoe3 -
Welcome to forum. It is excellent to see that you went right back to abstaining even though you had a slip up. That is really important. Plus you had the benefit of learning first hand how porn and touching can really mess up abstaining and getting to a wd. I know from my own experience that abstaining really works and hope you are successful and can get some wd's in the near future.
TG
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by DrWinner » Sun Sep 09, 2012 5:54 am
Masturbation is a headche, it's not satisfying at all thats true.
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 08 Sep 2012
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by JoeShmoe3 » Sun Sep 09, 2012 2:57 pm
traveling guy wrote:Joe Schmoe3 -
Welcome to forum. It is excellent to see that you went right back to abstaining even though you had a slip up. That is really important. Plus you had the benefit of learning first hand how porn and touching can really mess up abstaining and getting to a wd. I know from my own experience that abstaining really works and hope you are successful and can get some wd's in the near future.
TG
Thanks Yes, porn is the enemy in disguise. It leads directly to MB. Day 3. Still very easy right now. I'm getting more used to AB and finding that I have a lot of time to do more productive things.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by JoeShmoe3 » Mon Sep 10, 2012 7:13 am
Damn it, failed on day 4. It's not a huge disappointment because I had a hands-free orgasm (intentionally, by doing kegels and with a bit of porn), which I've always wanted to have. AB day 1 will start again tomorrow. I don't think I should do kegels while AB...
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
by traveling guy » Mon Sep 10, 2012 7:39 am
JoeSchmoe -
Glad to see you are still posting here. Unsure how often you you mb'd before the attempt to abstain. But I bet if you look at how many days you have abstained since August 27, I am sure you have had many more successful days than failures. I am confident you can successfully learn from what works vs. causes setbacks and get to the point where you are in control and can successfully abstain long term.
Good luck and your persistance is great so far.
TG
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by DrWinner » Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:04 am
Just keep it simple. Don't think too much that you failed and all that. It's ok. They are a lot of thousand other things to be happy with...mere masturbation infact spoils all the fun :-) . It's ok. Have a target that will make you easy. I don't know if you can quit for 300 days with just saying I won't masturbate.. I will have sex.. but after some days.. after reaching my target .. have a beer and cheers You are better than those people who don't know what it means to AB AB is fun Try again with power
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- Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
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by JoeShmoe3 » Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:26 am
Thanks everyone! Very inspiring!
My goal will be 2 weeks, so Sept 24.
Day 2. Had a close call already, but still going strong. I should have a lot of good distractions this week.
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- Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
- Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
- Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
- Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
- If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
- Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Aug 2012
- Sex: Male
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