Wet Dream Forum

I just started abstaining again and was encouraged by guys in chat room to start a journal.

I last tried this seriously in 2006 and it worked for me. I had WD's eventually. I started in late 2005 and abstained for 60 days with no WD's. I then got annoyed and MB'd four times in close succesion in Feb 2006. I MB'd one more time in March 2006, then abstained for 60 days again with no success. I was then super annoyed because I had essentially abstained for 5 months with no wet dream results. So I MB'd one more time on May 6, 2006.

Two weeks later on May 20. I had a WD!
Then 5 days later on May 25 I had a second one!!
Over the course of 60 days I had 3 WDs and 3 SE's

I bothered me when abstaining that I felt very horny for a few weeks and then things would just kind of go into a lull for me. I have also seen studies that testosterone increases from day 1-6 after an ejaculation and spikes on day 7. On day 8 it drops off and by day 9 is back to normal. so based on my experience and the testosterone study I want to try a new abstaining tatic. Here is my initial plan.

Abstain for 10 days
Allow an SE (spontaneous ejaculation) (If think this is a fair chance it will happen to me. If not i can wait or MB.)
Abstain for 11 days.
Allow an SE (or MB).
Keep repeating and add 1 day for every cycle until there is a WD.

I am picking 10 days to start because back in 2006 when I had succesful WD's I had a release every 10 days. Also in theory this should keep testosterone at maximum levels most of the time. I am increasing by 1 day each cycle just in case 10 days in not enough time to induce wet dreams.

I want to try the SE between abstaining for a couple reasons. In the past when I abstained I could get an SE just by lying on my stomach. I had had to turn on my side to remove pressure to prevent an ejaculation. So I am hoping it will work again. Secondly the SE to me is as close as I can get to an awake wet dream. If my body can ejac from pressure while awake, maybe it is just a step away to ejac from pressure while sleeping.

Last ejaculation was on April 25, so I am planning on a relase May 5.

If anyone has any thoughts, tips or tried anything similar I would be interested in hearing.

Unsure if this will work, but I want to try it and will hopefully learn something new.

We will see what happens to my best laid plans ....

yes! traveling guy's own journal...... I'm excited to see your progress TG.... I'm with you on this one....

Hey Traveling Guy,
What was different during those dates that you had so many wet dreams? Do you think anything in particular help you get so many WD in such a short amount of time?

Hey Nicsh

I have given it quite a bit of thought and have really wonder what secrets, besides abstaining, lead to wd's. Here are some of my theories:

1)Very infrequent ejaculations. Based on my experience I am unsure that total abstaining is the best. Hence my epxeriement to try abstaining with infrequent ejaculations.
2) Traveling. My first two adult WD's happened while traveling. So it is possible that that had something to do with getting WD's. I think that being a new place and expereiencing new people helped in a couple of ways. It took my mind off the preocupation with abstaining and getting a wd. It also gave my mind also sorts of new experiences that could be incorporated into dreams so maybe that helped. (These first two WD's happened in completely different parts of the world. First one was in Asia. Second one was in USA.)
3) Staying busy and being with people. This is really just an at home version of idea number 2. I just think this helps with succesful abstaining and gives the brain more epxeriences and material to work into dreams, and hopefully a WD!

TG

Day 8

Still successfully abstaining. Had minor milestone today with some cum leakage. Good to see sex organs are a fully as humanely (or at least manly) possible:)

Thanks for comments I receive from those watching to see where this ends up.

TG

Day 9

More cum leakage today. Only slightly horny. Was more wound up a couple of days ago. So unsure SE will be reality on day 10. I am debating whether to mb tomorrow on day 10 or wait a few more days. Any opininions?

TG

Wait a few more days for sure

Day 10

Still abstaining at the moment. 2 and 1/2 hours to go today.

More semen leakage today also. Enough to show in shorts. No pictures though ... I will just put in laundry to restore.

I am leaning toward waiting a few days past the 10 day mark to see if an SE is a possiblity. So planning to not MB at the moment.

TG

Hey TG! I'm following your log cause you're trying to get WDs in another way. I hope you'll be successful with this new method!

Good luck!

_________________
Sorry if I made grammar or expression mistakes.
My Log: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=4792
My Guitar Works Topic: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=5325

Day 11

Overload, thanks for the encouragment.

Still abstaining for the moment. I am still feeling the 'horniness' at 11 days so there is still a chance for an SE. I am planning to hold off on MB until SE or until horniness wears off. Doing laundry tonoght. Sadly there is no spooge to clean up yet.

I am still doing pretty good avoiding porn. Not 100 percent but have been able to get past it when tempted. I recalled this week that the last time I successfully abstained, I had seen at least some porn. I had no access to it when I had first WD because I was out of the country. So no porn may have been a factor for me to get a WD. Anyhow, this is giving me more incentive to avoid porn too.

TG

Day 14

Still abstaining. Experienced some cum leakage today. More than usual for me. Also a early in the weak experienced 'blue balls' a couple of times. That is unusual for me while abstain so unsure what that was about. Still feel a general level of excitment from the abstaining so I am holding off on MB for the moment.

I have been keeping a dream journal (old fashioned hand written kind ), so I can remember a regular dream on most days. Hopefully there will be a few erotic ones along the way to keep things interesting while working on a wd.

TG

Day 17

Still abstaining and happy with progress.

Today I was trying to figure out if any of my hundreds of posts from years ago still exist. In my search I found this dialog between Squeeze, Maverick and Lucid.




My posting Lucid referred to has been lost and is no longer available

Squeeze it has taken me four years, but thanks for the compliment

Now if we only had record of what I wrote .....

TG

Hey TG, glad you're happy with the ABing! Hope you'll get the benefits soon. Good luck, stay strong!
(And by the way, I won't be able to be online tomorrow, my teacher have just called me and said that I have to go to his office for some missing lessons, I apologize for that pal)(PM isn't working at the moment, decided to write here)

_________________
Sorry if I made grammar or expression mistakes.
My Log: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=4792
My Guitar Works Topic: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=5325

Day 24

Okay here is latest on my abstaining and wet dream endeavor. (i.e abstaining with infrquent ejacs).

I really wanted an SE so decided to watch some porn to see if I could induce one. After I watched some porn I layed on my stomach. (laying on my stomach can cause SE if I have abstained for a while and am horny enough.) Well I was super tired and not particularily horny and should have just postponed but I didn't. After a moment some semen oozed out with no orgasm . Then I decided that since I started this I should at least follow through completly, so I decided to MB. I ejaculated after like 30 seconds with the big amount of semen a guy can expect after 3 weeks of abstainng.... but feeling was pretty lame. It was basicly a one star orgasm. . After 3 weeks, a guy wants to be rewarded with the MB feelings to be as good as possible. So I learned I should have mb when more in the mood.

The last 2 weeks my horniness level has been fairly low key. Nothing like the 1st 10 days. I plan to see how horniness is over the next 10 days following todays ejac. So here is where things are at:

Day 0 - started abstaining
Day 10 - horniness tapered off
Day 24 - MB
Day 48 - target for next ejac (if no WD)

Thanks to all the guys here and in chat that have provided encouragment so far. As alway, I am interested in your thoughts/suggestions.

TG

Hey TG, it's sad that you had a bad orgasm after all that ABing. Mood really changes the effect of orgasm. Don't MB if you're down, or bored so much, or you won't get that orgasm that you want(experienced).

Good luck on your travel! I'll be following ya

_________________
Sorry if I made grammar or expression mistakes.
My Log: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=4792
My Guitar Works Topic: http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=5325

Day 24 update

Yesterday, a little over 12 hours after I masturbated, I experienced a significant leakage of semen. Now I am wondering .... "Whats up with that?!!"

Leakage happens to me quite a bit (and I know some other guys here) when abstaining. Particularly when using rest room. I just didn't expect it just a few hours after expelling a major 3 week load masturbating.

I guess it shows that one ejaculation doesn't neccesarily empty all the semen. Must also fit with the reports here that ejac amount from WD can be much greater than from a normal MB.

On the bright side I guess I already am starting out pretty full for next round of abstaining and hopefull WD.

TG

Day 26 (2 days since last MB)

Horniness level was way up yesterday. It was similar to the first week of abstaining. Yesterday morning my brain REALLY wanted to MB again. It was the hardest day of abstaining I in the last two and a half weeks. Fortunately I made it through to get one more day closer to a WD .

TG

Day 27 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 3 (since last MB)

The MB on Saturday has definitely increased the horniness. I am still feeling the effects today.

Today I just did some statistics and averaged for the last time I did successful abstaining effort a few years ago.
- Abstained most of 5 months
- Two records of 60 days
- Ejaculated 6 times over these 5 months
- Had WD 2 weeks after last ejac
- Over 5 months MB on average every 22 days
- After first abstaining wet dream, started getting WD's or SE an average of every 10 days.

Unsure if I should ajust frequency of MB for current experiment. But I am still planning to go to day 48 with no more MB.

TG

Day 30 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 6 (since last MB)
1 MB since starting abstaining effort

This has been the hardwest week of abstaining so far. I have been wound up all week and the whole abstaining thing and wanting a release has been with me every the day. Only relief is when I sleep. (Hopefully at night brain is working on remembering how WD's work!). I think the MB 6 days ago on Saturday changed things and just elevated the overal 'horniness' level.

Had a significant semen leakage on day 29. There were no contractions, or orgasm though. Just leakage from glands full to overflowing.

I think one of the most helpful things I could try is getting more sleep. (More sleep allows more time for dreams, which means more WD opportunities. So if anybody has any tips for how to get to bed on time I would love to here them.

Not sure if you live in the U.S. or, if you do, you get a long weekend this weekend die to the Memorial Day holiday. If so, maybe you could sleep in a bit? I'm planning to do that. I don't know about anyone else, but it seems one side effect of AB is more energy overall but also trouble getting to sleep at night and a tendency to wake up in the middle of the night more often. Strangely, it doesn't seem to affect my ability to sleep in if I don't have to be up early to take care of things. As far as things that can help a bit with getting to sleep, I find that ZMA, melatonin, and valarien can work to some extent.

Day 40 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 16 (since last MB)
1 MB since starting abstaining effort

I have settle into a resigned waiting routine. Still need to get more diciplined so I can get to bed earlier and get more sleep. The nights I have slept longer I have had dreams that I have recorded in a hand written journal next to bed. (No erotic dreams recorded yet.)

Over the memorial day weekend I was guest at two different homes. Just as well there were no WD's that weekend. I was happy to leave the guest rooms in dry condition!

On a plus side, on day 39, after I woke up and got out of bed i noticed a wet spot in the hair on my abs. It was precum, so I must have had some type of erotic dream even though it wasn't rememembered long enough to make it into my written journal.


TG

nice. i hope to have my precum while asleep anytime soon.

_________________
Longest AB: 17 Days
SEs Experienced: 0
WDs Experienced: 0
Day of Last MB of AB with Infrequent MB: December 1, 2012

Day 41 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 17 (since last MB)
1 MB since starting abstaining effort

I have a nice update for today. Last night I had an erotic dream, which to me is encouraging.

In the dream, I was inside some sort of changing area or locker room. I was wearing the same thing a guy wears swimming, less the swiming trunks . I noticed I was slightly aroused. So things were a bit larger but still generally hanging down. I then saw a woman in the room and she comment that I was aroused! I turned away, pretended everything was normal and walked into the next room.

My brain definitely needs to come to sense if I hope to get a WD!. Walking away was a fine response for real life but way too modest for a WD. Yes, my brain just had me walk away from a dream encounter when I spend the whole day wanting a wd

In all, it was nice to get an erotic dream; but, hopefully next time my brain takes a hint from my body going nuts from abstaining and can do a little better with dream story!

TG

its a good dream you had there TG. i think i myself have better control in my dreams because sometimes i know in my dream that i am actually dreaming, i just go with the flow and i dont get myself to wake up after realizing its just a dream. never had a sexual encounter in my dreams before. just me sleeping beside a girl. the most erotic dream that i had is myself MBing in my dream. and i cant distinguish whether in real life while i was dreaming if i am actually placing my hands inside my briefs and maneuvering it. its shameful since my cousin which is a girl is sharing my room with me. i just hope she didnt notice. luckily i didnt cum in real life. just in the dream. haha.

i guess you should practice determining if your in a dream or in a reality. it sure is fun if you have some control in your dreams.

_________________
Longest AB: 17 Days
SEs Experienced: 0
WDs Experienced: 0
Day of Last MB of AB with Infrequent MB: December 1, 2012

My brain is doing exactly the same these days. It's giving me erotic dreams, but when the moment is there it says "No! I don't want it! I'll control myself!"

Day 58 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 1 (since last MB)
2 MB since starting abstaining effort

So the last few days I started edging . I was just getting a little nuts abstaining. So yesterday morning during hotel room shower.... I am thinking this is feeling good, I have gone over a month since my last mb and I am per my plan allowing for an occasional MB. I decided on the spot it would be the day for a release and went for it. Because I had been abstaining so long my ..... ummm ..... lets say control is pretty rediculous. With everything aroused it just took some final light stroking in the frenulum area and things raced past point of no return in but a moment or so.

It was kind of anti-climatic and a few pulses later I was thinking a wd is way better.

Anyhow I am hoping the MB brings back more T-buzz.
But am also thinking the MB brings back a more challenging week ahead for abstaining.

TG

I had slipped the other day too. As long as you make MB infrequent I guess it's somehow okay since you're letting some air out. Good luck buddy.

_________________
Longest AB: 17 Days
SEs Experienced: 0
WDs Experienced: 0
Day of Last MB of AB with Infrequent MB: December 1, 2012

TG! lets make it AB with very infrequent MB this time. I suggest you try to space out your MB one week apart everytime you slip. That is if you MB 2 weeks after 2 weeks from AB, then make it a rule that your next MB (if any) will be no sooner than 3 weeks. By that you will go into total AB mode easily. Trust me, after my 9+months streak few years ago. when I MB the orgasm was unbelievable, I mean it literally. My body was shivering form head to toe. OF course it is better not to MB but at least use this as the carrot for your brain to space MB apart more and more.

_________________
AB: 436 (personal best) | No-edging: 422 (personal best) | WDs: 0 (personal worst lol )

Start date: 8/26/11
Last updated: 11/4/12

Day 65 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 8 (since last MB)
2 MB since starting abstaining effort

Time for an update. Made it through a 'horny' week from abstaining. Yesterady had pretty significant semen leakage probably equivalent to one ejac spurt. Little bit more today. Still happens several times a week. Good to know that everything is completely full

I got some good encouragement in chat the other day from zach to avoid porn. Really appreciated that. So I am thankfully avoiding porn again. Also doing a good job of not edging. So at moment things are just a bit of a waiting game! (Good thing I can be patient if I need to be.)

This morning I decided to start working on dream journal again (hand written one at bedside). Had a couple of dreams concerning running and ice skating/zamboni. Nothing erotic last night. Or at least nothing I could remember to record.

Day 68 (of abstaining with infrequent MB)
Day 11 (since last MB)
2 MB since starting abstaining effort

I had an erotic dream last night. In dream i was MB'ing in a semi public place. Then I was caught by a co-worker

It seems my brain is failling to fullly accept abstaining and is trying to cheat at night by dreaming it!!

Oh well . . . hopefully just another sign I will get wd sometime in near future

TG