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Ronald, you are an inspiration to many of us here. Please change your thoughts. Keep Cheering!!!

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Current AB: 4 as of May 15th 2013 | Started Current AB: May 11th 2013 | Best AB to date: 150 | Total WD after joining site: Many |

Ronald,
I just re-read your last post. You are quite the inspiration for a lot of us!! Take pride and feel good about your self-control, your determination, and the personal goals you have set for yourself on this site alone! (Whether you succeed or not) These are certainly characteristics that make you date-able. I'd suggest another goal.... being OK with who you are. We all have things we want to change, and things we don't like about ourselves. You are not alone! But you have to be able to be OK with who you are. I listed a few great things about you above - just my feelings about how great you are from the posts you have shared with us. I'm sure there's much more about you that other people would want to hear about. Both good and bad. That's what makes us all human. Money doesn't solve problems. There is so much more to you that a lot of people will want to learn about. Hang in there! We are all here for you. Don't let us down!!!

WD #49 was on 5/20/2013 in the early morning.
WD #50 was on 5/29/2013 in the afternoon during a nap.

Thanks, gone2bed2day and thanks, trybest!

Glad to see you are back and posting again!

WD #51 on 6/12/2013 early morning

WD #52 on 6/18/2013 in the morning

WD #53 on July 5, early morning.

Congrats on all your wet dreams! Keep up the good work!

WD #54 on 7/14/2013 (Bastille Day), early morning.
I was having a lucid dream and somehow managed to induce an orgasm. I hope I can do that more often, except make the dream more vivid and have it include a woman. I think I've only had a WD in which I came inside a woman's vagina in my dream once.

WD #55 on 7/16/2013, early morning
(68th anniversary of Trinity Test at Alamogordo, NM)

Only 2 days after previous one!
That is 20 for this year (averaging one every 9.8 days)

I am still waiting on WD #56. It has been 16 days since WD #55! I feel like any day now I will get one! I have a terrible headache and took some Tylenol PM. It usually dampens my libido for the next day or two A LOT to take it but I have had WD's the night after taking Tylenol PM.

There was a really cute and nice girl that I was talking to at my workplace a couple of days ago. As soon as she left I regretted not asking her for her number. I hope she comes back...if so I will not miss my shot if I get a second one.

WD #56 was 8/11/2013, c. 5:00 a.m.

WD #57 was 8/21/2013, early morning.
WD #58 was 8/26/2013, early morning.
WD #59 was 8/31/2013 late morning.

WD #60 was 9/7/2013 in the afternoon.

Congrats on WD #60 in your abstinence! Keep up the good work!

60! That's just absolutely astounding to me... and very cool!
Thanks for keeping us updated. Best of luck as you continue!

Thanks, rebelmisfit.

WD #61 was 9/23/2013 in the early morning.

That is very impressive achievement, congratulations!

Your journal is very inspiring. If I had 20% of your persistence, I would be very happy!

WD #62 was 9/30/2013 in the late morning.

Congratulations on getting yet another one within just 7 days, I think you will probably get around 40 WD by the end of this year. In 2012 you had 35 WD in total

WD # 63 was 10/9/2013, in the morning.
On track for 36 WDs in 2013.

Astounding!! I hope you reach your 36 WD goal for this year... hell, you may even surpass that!

I read your log and I find your perseverance amazing! I hope your feelings of being lonely and feeling of being not much worth will pass soon.

Thanks, Spankminator, thanks rebelmisfit!

I will decide in December whether to continue my AB into 2014 or go back to my previous habit of regular masturbation. But I am leaning toward continuing...we'll see.

Also I am considering a change in my own definition of what constitutes masturbation (for me) to include deliberate nipple rubbing...I can't come from it (have tried for years unsuccessfully) but I can get super aroused, meaning it releases dopamine just as masturbation does, but doesn't cause orgasm...it's become a replacement for masturbation over the last 1-2 years (like I do it almost subconsciously when I see a hot girl on TV) and I think I may be ready to take AB to the next level to include AB from nipple stimulation.

Also...I want SO BADLY to be circumcised. I hope 2014 will finally be the year of my long-awaited circumcision. Sometimes I fall asleep fantasizing about what I will actually experience on my circumcision day, and in the days immediately after. To me, the idea of my glans penis being fully exposed and permanently bared—irreversibly—is so erotic! It is such a turn-on to think about it. After my circumcision, anybody who might happen to see my penis will be guaranteed to see my glans because it will never again be possible to cover it with foreskin...that is so hot!!! Within a few weeks after circumcision, the glans penis becomes incredibly smooth and dry, and the color gets more pink. And if the scar line is back a good distance from the glans, the penis shaft skin is two different colors (above and below the scar)...the abrupt color shift remains permanently, even after the scar fades. How erotic to have a penis with two different colors! And how thrilling to always be aware of one's permanently exposed glans penis, as it rubs against the fabric of one's underwear! And for the shaft skin to be so tight that it cannot cover any portion of the glans penis, even when pulled....that is so fucking hot!

As someone who has been cut all my life (although I have restored some of my foreskin at least) the one thing I would suggest is that you ask them to leave a small amount of skin. Typically, circumcisions are very tight and leave absolutely no remaining skin. Once upon a time, I believe masturbation was done to try and discourage masturbation, and it's hardly surprising, since when you have a tight cut (as I did) it's practically impossible without lube.

I guess if you don't mind being tied to lube for the rest of your life, it doesn't matter, but one thing I've really enjoyed since restoring a decent amount of skin is the ability to masturbate without needing lube.

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I vote for continuing.

Thanks for you comments and suggestions. LuvsCurvy: For one, I am hoping to become someone who is not interested in masturbation, in which case, what the masturbation experience is like is a non-issue (hopefully). Secondly, most guys who choose to be circumcised as adults (and there are a lot more than you might have guessed) request a very tight circumcision, and that is what I want also. As tight as possible!