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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 1:27 am 
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I had my first wet dream last night :D

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Hey buddy, that's great news! :greetings-clappingyellow: :banana-dance: :obscene-drinkingcheers: :happy-partydance: :banana-dance: :greetings-clappingyellow: :text-bravo:

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
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Congratulations! :greetings-clappingyellow: Nothing like your first wet dream. I hope you can have many more.


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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Fri Jun 07, 2013 10:20 am 
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Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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So this is the beginning of day 2. Let's do this.

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Mon Jun 10, 2013 1:48 am 
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Well, that didn't go very good. This is day 1. Haven't mb'd for 32 hours or so. This time I will get to 100 days. :banana-dance:

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Thu Jan 02, 2014 6:33 am 
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You thought I was gone? WRONG!
I'm back and stronger than ever before.
Happy 2014 everyone!

This year will be my year, no more mb and porn.
Day 2 today.

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
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Date that you last had an ejaculation: 22 Jan 2015
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Hey mbfree,

Happy to see you again. Stay strong on that! We wanna see more post on this journey! Keep those AB days coming, we're with you!

Keep strong mate!

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 1:45 am 
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Day 3.

Yes, I have failed already this year but I'm not giving up.
I've made an Excel sheet where I keep log of my mb and use of alcohol and weed.
So far:

MB: 1
Alcohol: 2 beers (new years-night)
Weed: 0

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 4:24 am 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 01 Dec 2013
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That's actually a very good idea, and a great way to look at the factors that influence WDs. Please keep us posted on the results.


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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 4:59 am 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 22 Jan 2015
Sex: Male
Good to know you're not giving up. You can do it!
Keep strong and master your will!

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 6:40 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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Thanks for the support guys!

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 22 Jan 2015
Sex: Male
That's why we are here! You can always count on us :happy-partydance: :happy-partydance: :happy-partydance: :happy-partydance:

You count on just as i count on you! Hope everything goes good on your AB! Wish you luck! I'll be watching the posts! Very much like them! :D

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 2:07 am 
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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 20, 2014 2:52 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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Day 5

I'm gonna focus just on the girl I'm dating right now, so no more Porn and MB.
My next ejaculation will be with her, even if it takes more than a month, I don't care.

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 26 Jan 2014
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Great decision Mbfree, hope, you'll make it :D

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 Post subject: Re: MBFree's log
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2014 2:36 am 
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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 22 Jan 2015
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That's a really nice resolution!

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 1:38 am 
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Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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Day 7

I believe in the power of abstinence since I’ve read about yin and yang and the influence of masturbating on your overall health. So I’ll never do it again. This is it.

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Day 9

Just smooth sailing.

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Day 5

Not much to report.

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Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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Day 2

I will not fail this month. No PMO.

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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 22 Jan 2015
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Hey mbfree!
You'll get that! Just need a strong will and good motivation!
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 7:27 am 
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So I just accidentaly formatted my hard drive while installing Linux Mint and that means all of the nude pics/vids I've collected are gone.
At first I was panicking, but then I thought, this is great!
This means I can finally stop watching that shit.

Day 1 of a new life!

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Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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This is day 2.
It still feels like a great decision and I'm confident about reaching 100 days this time.

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Day 3

There is no chance that I will ever go back to PMO.
I've said it before but this time it's for real.

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I think really quitting PMO requires an attitude change. I think these are some thoughts that can help.

- With 'no fap' sites becoming ever more popular, and more and more guys are succeeding in ABing for a long time, people see a large number of benefits. The right way to look at this large amount of evidence is that MB and PMO have negative effects on psychology and hormones.

- MB is not necessary at all. We are built not to do it. All the effects guys notice when ABing are in fact natural and normal. MB 'short circuits' and prevents those natural and normal physical, mental, hormonal, and emotional changes.

- Many guys on no fap sites who succeed in reaching their 90 day AB goal often keep going. They don't want to start up MB again.

- PMO is not a simple act. It has consequences. The negative aftereffects are an inseparable part of it, and they continue for days.

- Part of MB is regret afterwards. Nobody who is ABing ever thinks "I sure wish I had MB'd last night" or "I wish I had just finished MBing". Instead, after MB they wonder "why did I do that?" with regret. Yet they are happy and excited about going another day on AB, they are happy and excited after a WD, and are happy and excited after having sex if they are in what is for them is an appropriate relationship. MB is thus not really a substitute for AB, WDs, or sex.

- Mature male sexuality is more than just MB. It is what happens when you don't MB. To quote Squeeze:
Squeeze wrote:
To me, abstaining from PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) ISN'T about being asexual. If you want to be asexual, masturbate every day so you don't have any virility the rest of the time. No, a positive type of abstaining is about enjoying yourself as fully male. Only when you abstain most of the time do you experience that virility and the more natural ebbs and flows of your male energy, that "fire in the belly." Only then are you tested and strengthened in developing positive self-control. Only then do you get to experience that natural, full genital/full body type pleasure that the OP was describing--just a natural, innocent, awesome T-buzz that nourishes body and soul. And only then do you get to experience wet dreams! Ha.

Abstaining isn't about denying your sexuality; it's about developing a healthy, whole-person, truly masculine sexuality. :)

MB and its aftereffects are limiting and in actuality the MB-regret cycle doesn't feel as good as getting away from it. Start seeing MB as not that fun or exciting. Start seeing it as a waste of time and energy, and as preventing more natural, normal, and mature feelings and expression as an adult male.

Unfortunately, not every guy gets WDs easily. But the simple fact is that they are a more mature and complete outlet than MB. They not only feel much better than MB ever can, you'll wake up happy, excited, and feeling good about yourself.

Here's an interesting article from a porn free site:
http://pornfree.net/how-to-have-wet-dreams-a-k-a-nocturnal-emissions/

Some quotes from it:
Article wrote:
"Perhaps one of the most enjoyable benefits of being free from porn and free from masturbation is the benefit of wet dreams."

"The reality of wet dreams is something that cannot be matched by watching porn and masturbating."

"Enjoy wet dreams. When you have a wet dream you should be on top of the world. You have achieved a great feat. You have officially cast aside porn and no longer need porn to cycle through sperm. Your brain has found a more natural and fulfilling way to clean out old sperm. Don’t let anything bring you down. No speeding ticket, no rejection from girls, no hassle from work can bring you down when you have a wet dream that morning."


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 10:10 am 
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Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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Texanguy wrote:
I think really quitting PMO requires an attitude change. I think these are some thoughts that can help.

- With 'no fap' sites becoming ever more popular, and more and more guys are succeeding in ABing for a long time, people see a large number of benefits. The right way to look at this large amount of evidence is that MB and PMO have negative effects on psychology and hormones.

- MB is not necessary at all. We are built not to do it. All the effects guys notice when ABing are in fact natural and normal. MB 'short circuits' and prevents those natural and normal physical, mental, hormonal, and emotional changes.

- Many guys on no fap sites who succeed in reaching their 90 day AB goal often keep going. They don't want to start up MB again.

- PMO is not a simple act. It has consequences. The negative aftereffects are an inseparable part of it, and they continue for days.

- Part of MB is regret afterwards. Nobody who is ABing ever thinks "I sure wish I had MB'd last night" or "I wish I had just finished MBing". Instead, after MB they wonder "why did I do that?" with regret. Yet they are happy and excited about going another day on AB, they are happy and excited after a WD, and are happy and excited after having sex if they are in what is for them is an appropriate relationship. MB is thus not really a substitute for AB, WDs, or sex.

- Mature male sexuality is more than just MB. It is what happens when you don't MB. To quote Squeeze:
Squeeze wrote:
To me, abstaining from PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) ISN'T about being asexual. If you want to be asexual, masturbate every day so you don't have any virility the rest of the time. No, a positive type of abstaining is about enjoying yourself as fully male. Only when you abstain most of the time do you experience that virility and the more natural ebbs and flows of your male energy, that "fire in the belly." Only then are you tested and strengthened in developing positive self-control. Only then do you get to experience that natural, full genital/full body type pleasure that the OP was describing--just a natural, innocent, awesome T-buzz that nourishes body and soul. And only then do you get to experience wet dreams! Ha.

Abstaining isn't about denying your sexuality; it's about developing a healthy, whole-person, truly masculine sexuality. :)

MB and its aftereffects are limiting and in actuality the MB-regret cycle doesn't feel as good as getting away from it. Start seeing MB as not that fun or exciting. Start seeing it as a waste of time and energy, and as preventing more natural, normal, and mature feelings and expression as an adult male.

Unfortunately, not every guy gets WDs easily. But the simple fact is that they are a more mature and complete outlet than MB. They not only feel much better than MB ever can, you'll wake up happy, excited, and feeling good about yourself.

Here's an interesting article from a porn free site:
http://pornfree.net/how-to-have-wet-dreams-a-k-a-nocturnal-emissions/

Some quotes from it:
Article wrote:
"Perhaps one of the most enjoyable benefits of being free from porn and free from masturbation is the benefit of wet dreams."

"The reality of wet dreams is something that cannot be matched by watching porn and masturbating."

"Enjoy wet dreams. When you have a wet dream you should be on top of the world. You have achieved a great feat. You have officially cast aside porn and no longer need porn to cycle through sperm. Your brain has found a more natural and fulfilling way to clean out old sperm. Don’t let anything bring you down. No speeding ticket, no rejection from girls, no hassle from work can bring you down when you have a wet dream that morning."


Thanks a lot for your awesome comment! These are certainly things that will help me and most of them I already knew.
My attitude has definitely changed right now. PM is no longer an option. I know how good it feels to AB. Especially the t-buzz is a great feeling. MB is worthless.

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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 1
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Oct 2014
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So I had my first sexual dream in a long time last night. May the next one be a wet one. :banana-dance:

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Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 10 Oct 2014
Sex: Male
mbfree wrote:
My attitude has definitely changed right now. PM is no longer an option. I know how good it feels to AB. Especially the t-buzz is a great feeling. MB is worthless.
Good summary! There is nothing wrong with reinforcing those thoughts and attitudes until MB seems quite unappealing and unnatural. After all, the positive feelings of AB, from energy to t-buzz to WDs are natural and normal, and are likely nature's way of encouraging us not to waste it in MB.

It may be quite natural for a person to reach the point where for them the best feelings, expression, excitement, and enjoyment of mature sexuality is with an MB rate of zero. At that point MB is indeed worthless.

Good luck in turning your sexual dreams into wet ones!


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Average time to ejaculation normally: 20
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 02 Mar 2014
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Good luck man, hope you get your second WD soon!

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I've survived day 5 :)

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