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16 weeks today

I haven't edged in 4 days, and this morning I'm horny and wanting to edge. It will be a test to see if I can take a shower today without edging or stimulating in any way. With a big boner sitting right there, it's hard not to stroke it a few times. Hmmm... sounds like I'm giving in before even trying not to. I know cumming is not going to happen, but edging is a more difficult issue.

If you hadn't been edging at all in those 16 weeks, by now you could feel horny and not want to edge -- which, it can be argued, would be the more 'natural' way to be.

Agree, Texanguy.

Day 114

It's been 5 days of no touch, and now I'm uber horny. I just want something to happen... SE, WD, anything would be good. Today I feel like I did when I used to MB every day, but then went 5 days of AB. My skin is so sensitive that the slightest touch feels like something crawling on me. Something is telling me, just let it happen... soon.

Hey Slider, I have been following your log for quite a while now and I have to admit I can relate to your situation. This fight against this huge urge made me edge sometimes for months without allowing myself to orgasm. The same as you it all started when I began to play with my nipples.

Perhaps you should allow yourself one relief but an intense one. I did that purely by nipple play two months ago. I played with my nipples, got harder by the minute and at a certain point I had to decide if I should let it happen. I did and kept on playing with my nipples until my dick was throbbing all by itself like crazy and I was flooded by an intense orgasmic wave. I felt like weeping because of its intensity.

Strangely: Afterwards I did not feel any letdown and my level of horniness was high again only perhaps two hours later. So I also did not feel any regrets luckily.

So perhaps a nipple orgasm would give you what you want.

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2018 Releases:
Jan: MB 3

Last MB: 1/8
Last Sex: 12/29

2017: MB 35 / HF 3 / Sex 12
Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days

Thanks for the comments, lorenzo. I don't think I can orgasm by nipple stimulation alone. Years ago I had a HF orgasm, but that was one time only.

Yesterday I did edge to within one stroke of orgasm, then stopped. Afterward I felt much better, with no urges, and just a pleasant, almost euphoric sensation. For this morning I might not have time to edge.

Day 121

I didn't edge for 4 days, then edged to the edge yesterday. It seems odd, but I feel lots of sexual tension before edging, but afterward, the feeling is one of satisfaction and relaxation. With lots of practice edging, I can get to within one stroke of cumming, then stop. At that point, the feeling is not that I want to cum, but rather "That felt so good."

will it makes you feel a "blueballs"?

It can, and it can make getting WDs more difficult or even impossible.

I think I edged too much. I broke my AB by masturbating to orgasm. It didn't happen just after edging, but rather the next day when I felt like I needed to "clear the pipes". So I did a planned MBO, which felt very good. Strangely, afterward I didn't feel the sense of regret that I had felt in the past. For now I'm going to do whatever feels good. No particular plan at this time.

Given the increasing edging, it's hardly surprising that a slip up occurred.

I think you'll eventually go back to 'natural'. If nothing else, when you reach for the natural and good feelings of controlled horniness in a situation like working out in the gym, you'll find it's now not there, and will want it back.

I agree with Texanguy, when I slip up, I miss that feeling very soon. Especially at gym.

Interesting that you have lots of WDs that allow you to keep that feeling, whereas MB takes it away.

MB and WDs are indeed two completely different things.

It is very interesting indeed. I feel totally spent when I MB whereas I would wake up energised after WD.

Do you have any explanation as to how or why you get WDs so much more easily and more often than most people?

Can't pinpoint exactly, but will create a post in my own log as not to hijack Slider's log

Good discussion, guys.

After day 121, I MB'd to orgasm on three consecutive days. So now it's been 4 days since I MB'd to O. I have 3 choices today:
1. Do nothing
2. Edge
3. MBO
I just returned from an intense workout at the gym, and am feeling horny. Not sure what I'm going to do.

Good luck Slider. I know restarting after a long streak is difficult.

I MB'd 4 days ago, and feel really horny today. As an experiment I'm going to try a 2 day a week MBO plan... Monday and Thursday. Doing what I would like to do would involve MB every day. I'm hoping that with limited ejaculation, I'll be able to be horny and full most of the time, and enjoy the T-buzz. If this works, I will try to limit it to once a week.

Day 4 (3 days since last MBO)

To continue my plan, I'll MB today and again in 4 days.

I'm sure I'll become bored doing twice weekly MBO, and will resume long term AB at some point.

Last week I MB'd on Monday and again on Tuesday. I had planned to MB again on Friday, but with Thanksgiving weekend, there were too many people around to have any privacy. So I'm now on day 7 today, and very horny. Do I MB today as planned, or should I do nothing and just go with it?? It would feel so good to cum, but do I want to? Grrrrrrr.....

If I was there, I would put you in a shower and let the cold water run. It would refresh you and your mind

If you have to think about it, you don‘t really need it. )

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2018 Releases:
Jan: MB 3

Last MB: 1/8
Last Sex: 12/29

2017: MB 35 / HF 3 / Sex 12
Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days

Well said!

P.S. but what if we are late? Maybe Slider has already done all the job... Let's see what he will tell, when he is back.

Thanks for the comments, guys.

I was so horny and wanted to cum so badly that I decided to MB. When I edge I do it in the shower with lots of soap, but when the plan is to MBO, I do it dry and without any lubricants. So I started pumping dry, and it didn't take long to approach the point of no return. As I knew orgasm was just about to begin, I thought, "Can I stop??" I can't remember ever pumping hard and fast, muscle tensing and breath holding when I was able to stop before orgasm... but I did stop! For a brief moment I wanted to restart and complete the act. But that feeling passed, and my little dry guy was put back in my pants. Oddly I felt less horny after this than before. The urge to "do something" passed and now I find myself on day 8.
What's another day? One day at a time.

What a story Slider, I was holding my breath while reading it... But I am really happy about you Keep it up!

Thanks for the encouragement, Volnou.

Day 9

This morning I'm uber horny and full. My workout at the gym was intense, adding to my horniness. I'm going to repeat what I did yesterday, doing a dry MB, without cumming. As horny as I am, it only takes about 30-45 seconds to approach the point of no return. So the stimulation is very brief, and then it's over. So for today, I will not cum.

Day 10

I did (dry) edge yesterday, and it felt great. For some reason dry edging leaves me satisfied, relaxed, horny, and the urge to ejaculate is gone after several minutes have passed. So I think I'll try it again today. For today I will not cum.

Well, to me abstinence associates with no mb and por at all. Otherwise it's not abstinence, right? Little cheating is not bad, knowing how horny a man can be, lol. But anyway, I wouldn't recommend to keep cheating often. You might fail one day. Finally, what's the purpose of abstaining if you're edging. You should try and see how far away you can go without even thinking about mb. And even if you failed, you'd know you did really fully abstain.

I will take my words back, if you reach 30 days
Good luck, dear Slider!

Volnou is right. Edging is risky business, but it feels so good. My goal is not to be asexual, but to have extended sexual tension, possibly with edging, but no letdown due to orgasm and ejaculation. I have also found that I become bored regardless of what I do: total AB, AB with edging, ruined orgasms, once a week ejaculation, or jerking off every day. The way that seems to be the most pleasurable over time is edging without orgasm or ejaculation... risky, but fun.

Day 14

No edging for the last 3 days, and I am uber horny this morning. My gym workout was intense, adding to the horniness. So the plan today is to dry edge (as opposed to using soap and water as lubricants).

Logically, edging isn't as natural as not edging. Besides the risk, which you acknowledge, it keeps you focused on more edging. When you went for months without MB or edging, you could probably feel pleasantly horny and have good workouts without being tempted to MB or edge for weeks on end.

Speaking of working out, not only do intense muscle workouts increase testosterone, they help reduce fat. It has been discovered that fat holds estrogen, which cancels out the effects of testosterone. Being lean and muscular, with a good diet, will make you more masculine and more horny. And you can find lots of anecdotal posts on nofap or bodybuilding sites that say that they get more WDs when they work out intensely.