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Day 45 (Sunday)
Successful end of the November challenge
WD 0... SE 0... MTO 0... MSO 38 (edging)
Last release of any kind Oct 18

Yesterday was difficult, but today I feel much better. Since the t-buzz is back, I think I am better able to enjoy the horny and full feeling. I wasn't so sure yesterday, but today I feel confident enough to go for a December challenge.

I pledge: Today I will not cum.

Day 46 (Monday)
Successful end of the November challenge
Day 2 of the December challenge
WD 0... SE 0... MTO 0... MSO 39 (days of edging)
Last release of any kind Oct 18

Just signed up for the December challenge. The memory of orgasm and ejaculation is fading. In fact, I'm a little afraid that it might be painful. It seems that in the last week I'm had more bursts of sexual feeling. Not really an urge to cum, but more of a strong awareness that I haven't cum in a long time. Each time I try to enjoy the sensation. The ONLY way I can do this is to feel good about it, and not deprived.

Right now my goal is to complete the rest of the year without self induced ejaculation. But it has to be done one day at a time.

For today I pledge I will not cum.

Day 47 (Tuesday)
Day 3 of the December challenge
WD 0... SE 0... MTO 0... MSO 40 (days of edging)
Last release of any kind Oct 18

My dilemma is whether or not to try skipping my "edging" session in the shower. It feels so good to do it, and so far I've not had any difficulty stopping after the allowed number of strokes. But if I do stop edging, I'm afraid I'll get so horny that I will fail. So what to do? One clue is that now that I am doing 40 strokes, I don't get as turned on as I did a few weeks ago. So today I'm going to allow myself 50 strokes. Possibly I'm getting desensitized and maybe one morning I just won't feel like doing any strokes at all.

So for today I will not cum.

Failed on what would have been day 48. I don't know what happened. I had just gotten out of the shower and was getting dressed, when an overwhelming urge to cum caused me to start stroking... 20 seconds later BOOM, and it was over.

At this point I'm not sure what I want to do. I'll give myself a "free week" to do what feels right, then decide from there.

It's been four months since my last ab run, and I have fallen back into my old daily MB routine. But I'm bored with this so I'm going to ab again. Today is day 6 and I'm really horny... and it feels awesome. As before I'm going to "edge" every morning. My edging is not going to the edge, but rather a sensual, soapy massage which is slow and controlled. A good number of strokes for me seems to be 50. Last time I did this method up until day 47, when the fullness and pressure were just too much.

I've been doing the massage each day since day 2. The rules go like this:
- Only one shower massage session allowed per day. No other stimulation at any time.
- 50 strokes - no extra ones allowed.
- Physically - No muscle tension, breath holding, or fast stroking. If I seem to be going too fast, I'll stop for a brief time, then resume.
- Mentally - No fantasy. Keep my mind occupied by counting the strokes. Don't think about anything but counting the strokes and how good it feels. The goal is pleasure in the stroking. Stay in the moment. Savor each one. Orgasm / ejaculation is not the goal, and is off the table. Never get even close to the "edge".

I have found that if I follow this plan, there is no frustration after the 50th stroke. I feel warm, turned on, horny, but yet relaxed and satisfied. And I get to do it again tomorrow.

This is a really great idea for people who are struggling! I tried something similar a few years ago to get my MB habit under control. It sounds like a great natural stress reliever too!

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Day 7 (Wednesday)

Thanks for the comments, Monkeymagic. One thing I didn't mention in my previous post is that after the 50th stroke, I quickly put my face under the shower stream and wash my face and hair. This sudden change abruptly ends the massage and eliminates the temptation to "do just a little more".

The T-buzz is strong and energizing. It's like I'm high on horniness. My workout at the gym this morning was more intense than usual, and it felt good. For me this is the best phase of ab -> horny, T-buzzed, energetic, but not so full that I have strong urges to cum. Right now I have no desire to cum, and then immediately feel nothing. In fact I have a strong desire NOT to cum.

Day 8 (Thursday)

The sexual tension increases each day. I'm beginning to feel some fullness and pressure. From past ab I think my tank and tubes reach max capacity at about 10 to 14 days, so I'm still in the filling up phase. At this moment I feel extremely horny, and it would be so good to cum. But I'm not going to. At least I will get 50 strokes in the shower.

Something I haven't figured out about ab. My last run ended at day 47. What was different on that day that was not there on the previous day? If I could ab for 47 days, why not 48 or 49, or more? The challenge seems to be that when the urge, pressure, fullness and horniness are all very strong, and the will is weak, to somehow just not MB. Just don't do it. Easy to say, but hard to do. Some guys never MB. They must have times when the urges are unbearably strong, but they don't MB. I need to increase my tolerance for sexual tension and fullness. Maybe it's stronger will power, or maybe it's learning to accept and enjoy the totally full and uber horny feeling over a long time without having to do anything about it. And wet dreams may provide relief at unpredictable intervals.

Welcome back!

A lot of guys will tell you that edging reduces or prevents WDs.

People are more different than you might think. Some guys never got into the MB habit and don't miss it at all. Some guys regularly have intense, full on sex in WDs, and have no desire to MB whatsoever. Why would they when their WDs are so much more intense and enjoyable?

Some guys only have waking sex and MB never even occurs to them. If they can't have sex for extended periods, they just wait, and are much more likely to have sex in a rare (for them) WD in those circumstances than it is for MB to even occur to them as an option.

It is interesting to consider that the most natural way to have orgasms is through relatively slow pelvic thrusts, not manual stimulation. Some guys simply are not used to, and don't want, the manual stimulation of MB. Guys who have only MBd and never had sex are still very likely have sex in their first WD rather than dream of MB, and will find it more intense and enjoyable than any MB.

So there's nothing wrong with edging every day, but it is only one of many ways that guys experience sexuality. Some guys have no desire to MB or edge whatsoever.

I hope that I can AB for the long period of times that you have, it usually only takes 1-2 weeks for me to have a WD (In my case I desire the WD) based on my previous experiences.

Great work so far, I hope you achieve your goals.

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Thanks for the comments, guys.

Day 9 (Friday)

I'm feeling about the same as yesterday, horny, getting full, energetic and T-buzzed. If I don't MB today (and I won't), there will not be another chance for the next 10 days. With spring break I won't have any time alone in the house. And the bathroom doesn't lock. I can manage the massage in the shower OK. If someone comes in I'll just stop for a few minutes, but if I am MBing for orgasm it could be embarrassing to cum with "sound effects".

So, for today I will not cum.

I think I'm feeling what you call the T-Buzz, what is it exactly? What it feels like, when do you get it etc.

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To answer the question from NMAUL1: T-buzz (testosterone buzz) is the horny, energetic, motivated, non-procrastinating, more outgoing mood guys get from rising testosterone levels. During ab the T levels rise to a peak at about 7 to 10 days after the last ejaculation. For some guys the T-buzz continues beyond that time. For others it comes and goes. For most the T levels slowly return to normal after the initial peak.

Day 13 (Tuesday)
Feeling good... horninesss increases each day, as well as fullness. Overall I'm still enjoying the changes that ab brings.

For today, I will not cum.

Day 14 (Wednesday)

I'm beginning to become aware more often how horny I am. If I stay busy, it's rarely noticed, but if I'm just sitting around, the waves of horniness come frequently. This ab run I'm going to try to go as far as I can... i.e until I can't stand it any longer and feel like I MUST cum. At that point the real test begins. The goal then is to get through the low, weak points during which I want to break my ab, and just keep going. At a certain point, being totally horny and full must begin to feel "normal". If I can only stay with the ab program and get to the acceptance phase.

So, for today I will not cum.

I will actually do the same. I'm only at day 2 now. i'm back in the challenge.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Oct. 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 23 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION:
Current challenge: --

Good luck to you, Slider. May I make a humble suggestion? As I read through your log, I noticed that you have kept up edging every day but you haven't gotten any WDs yet. Maybe you can try not edging for a few days or a week and see if that leads to a WD. I've heard from many people that edging will delay a WD, and in my experience, I have been able to get a pretty good amount of WDs by not MB'ing or edging at all. Just my two cents.

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Last MB: March 2, 2014
AB Record: 54 Days
Total WD's: ~ 16
SE's or HFO's: 0

Day 16 (Friday)

Thanks for the suggestion, Xeom. I'm afraid that if I don't edge I'll fail quickly. So for now I'll keep doing the "massage". Maybe by day 40 or so I can stop the edging.

I'm still in the plateau phase: T-buzz, horny and energetic, but not so full that I get unbearable urges. Soon the fullness will become difficult to manage, so I'll need all the willpower I can get.

Hey Slider, what is your AB streak?
I'm starting to feel the T-buzz as well at the moment. I'm only on the day 4 of my AB but the fullness becomes more difficult to manage.

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Oct. 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 23 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION:
Current challenge: --

Ok, I see. Keep at it work toward beating that record. I think it gets easier after the first couple weeks, as long as you keep your mind off it.

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Last MB: March 2, 2014
AB Record: 54 Days
Total WD's: ~ 16
SE's or HFO's: 0

Day 19 (Monday)

OMG, I am so horny this morning. Began thinking about how good it would feel to blow a huge load, but then almost 3 weeks would be lost. So I'm going to continue to be horny, full, and edge but not cum.

Day 20 (Tuesday)

Things settled down after yesterday morning. The shower massage helped by giving me physical pleasure, even though I didn't cum. As each day passes, I'm beginning to have a more frequent awareness that I'm full and horny. Being busy distracts me, but my awareness is heightened. At this moment I feel better about not cumming than I would if I did. Four more days and I'm halfway to my longest run.

So for today I will not cum.

Day 21 (Wednesday)

For me this is the best time in an ab run. Without the strong urge to cum, I can enjoy the full and horny feeling any time I think about it. Some people on other forums have questioned ab, and thought it was an attempt to be asexual. For me it's just the opposite. I have a high level of sexual tension during ab, and I enjoy the feeling. When I MB every day, the sexual tension lasts about 2 minutes or less, then nothing until the next MB session.

Recently I have noticed that my nipples are uber sensitive. They are normally an erotic zone for me, but now the slightest feather-light touch is like an on switch for a boner. At the same time, I get a crawling sensation in the skin over my pecs. And it feels really good.

So for today, I will not cum.

Day 23 (Friday)

This morning while lying in bed, I was enjoying a rock hard erection and the waves of horniness as they washed over me. For me the feeling is similar to the one I get when I pass over the edge and am in the inevitable phase of pre-orgasm, but it's only about 5% as intense. Also, it's not as localized in the pelvic area. The sensation is more over my whole body from the knees up, especially the abdomen and chest. I would describe it as an erotic, prickly sort of sensation. By thinking about it, I can repeat the waves over and over again... great feeling.

This is the best phase of ab for me. I am enjoying all of the great feelings of ab without the overwhelming urges to cum. If only it would continue just like this.

For today I will not cum.

Some guys who MB all the time never discover that it can feel a lot better NOT to MB, and that MB actually ends the good feelings.

I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would suggest this, but since you've reached the point where you can feel this way without edging, you might try cutting back and/or skipping your edging sessions entirely. That may help you maintain at this level, and might even increase the feelings you described. Edging is not necessary, and may actually contribute to the uncomfortably full feeling that seems to cause you to eventually end it all and MB.

Try it and see what happens.

I always found that eventually after MB for long periods of time constantly, that it would slowly get less and less pleasurable, to the point where I got bored with it.

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Day 26 (Monday)

This is awesome. My most enjoyable ab run so far. For some reason I haven't had the extreme "so full I really need to cum" urges this time. The T-buzz, horniness, energy and great overall feeling continue. Several members have suggested that I stop or reduce my edging sessions to try to improve my chances of getting a wet dream. I plan to do that later, but for now I hate to tamper with success in my ab.

I say I edge, but it's really a slow, sensual, controlled massage. Completely different from my usual jerk-off method. When I MB to orgasm I don't use lubricants, but stimulate by moving the foreskin back and forth over the end of my penis. I do this fast, with muscle tension, breath holding and a good fantasy in my head. It usually takes about 60 to 90 seconds. From the start, ejaculation is the goal. The ride is just a means to an end. But with the massage, the goal is pleasure in each slow slippery stroke, with no fantasy or thought of ejaculation. I never even get to the plateau phase just prior to the inevitable phase. If I edged by the same method I use for MB to orgasm, I would fail easily, because it would be too hard to stop at the edge.

So for today, I will not cum.

Day 27 (Tuesday)
WD 0... SE 0... MTO 0... MSO 26 (days of edging)
Last release of any kind April 3

I am a little more on edge today, with thoughts of release. It's not a strong urge, but more an awareness that I haven't released in almost 4 weeks. But overall the feeling is good.

My workouts at the gym have been intense due to T-buzz and creatine supplement. The T-buzz energizes me and the creatine supplies extra fuel to the muscles, enabling more reps.

I pledge that I will not cum today.... but a WD would be good.

This morning it suddenly hit. Massive urge to release, and I couldn't stop it. So I MBd and released a huge load. Now I feel both regret and relief.

For the last two and a half months I've MB almost every day, and once again I'm tired of doing things this way. I didn't want to post until I had done at least a week of ab. Today is day 9 and I'm feeling much better... horny, pleasantly full, T-buzzed and energetic. As in previous ab attempts I have been edging every day since day 3. Maybe I can stop edging and get a wet dream this time. The only problem is that it feels so good to edge.

Hey, it is nice to find someone that likes edging while AB.

I have few questions;)

Do you work out regularly? What's your routine?
Do you edge to porn while AB, or just shower massage? I prefer to massage my balls, it is harder to pass the point-of-no-return.
Can you EJ only with nipple stimulation? It is a stragr feeling but hard not to MB afterwards for me.

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