lets see how long i can last...

[shadow_flare]

i decided to do this for support more than anything...i accidently came across this website and it really intrigued me. So I decided to go ahead and give it all a try. I can remember waking up with wet underwear when I was younger but nothing like a true WD. I don't knw how long I will be able to last

Anyways...im actually on Day 11...its getting harder by the day but I am pretty motivated to keep going...I think the longest ive gone is like 35 days with out MB'ing and I didn't have a WD, so I knew its gonna take me a while ...well see

Awesome man! Welcome to the site. Like you I stumbled here by accident also. Currently my record is 29 days... everyday is a new record. Never had a wd myself. I have been abstaining off and on prior to this site. I'm happy you started a log, if you need advice this is a great site to get it.

[shadow_flare]

Day 14

Almost lost it last night. I couldnt sleep so I started lookin at some porn and edging, but luckily I stopped before it went anywhere. i did have a weird dream last night. All I remember was that in my dream I was MB'ing and I ejaculated. I woke up in panic thnkin I broke my streak but I checked my boxers and evrything was dry. I wonder if this means im getting close. I hope so.

Some would say that is a sign of getting closer. I'm not sure myself. Never had a wd... so I do know these types of dreams increase quite often the longer I have been abstaining.

[shadow_flare]

Day 15

Def one of the easier days...I wonder what abstaining does to your sex drive...any thoughts on this?

For me... my libido changes daily... there are days where I'm horny and days when I'm not.

[shadow_flare]

Day 16!

I slept pretty well last night, the weekdays go by quickly without too much tempatation...which is great!!!! I'm scared for the long weekend. Excited to sleep in and food...but i'll be more prone to giving in. But more chances to sleep = greater chances for a WD

...hopefully it happens this weekend

Lol don't worry dude... if it happens it happens XD

Stay determined on what you want and you will get it.

[sopater]

i decided to do this for support more than anything...i accidently came across this website and it really intrigued me. So I decided to go ahead and give it all a try. I can remember waking up with wet underwear when I was younger but nothing like a true WD. I don't knw how long I will be able to last

Anyways...im actually on Day 11...its getting harder by the day but I am pretty motivated to keep going...I think the longest ive gone is like 35 days with out MB'ing and I didn't have a WD, so I knew its gonna take me a while ...well see

Wellcome stud847. I too surfed on to this site by accident. I've been inspired by the people on here. It makes me feel not alone, and that my quest of an abstinent life is not a futile one. Goodluck, and once again, wellcome.

[shadow_flare]

Day 19...

I feel strong and motivated enough to control MB, but part of me cant help to think how awesome it would feel if MB right now. 19 days really makes you forget wat it feels like. Like i said before, the weekends are the hard times, after the weekdays are smooth sailing. I'm just excited to break the 3 week mark

Oh tell me about it. Right now, I kind of have a slight urge to mb right now... but it is nowhere as strong as it was back when I first attempted abstaining. I will break my record soon... and in that time I hope I get a wd.

[goldalu]

Day 19...

I feel strong and motivated enough to control MB, but part of me cant help to think how awesome it would feel if MB right now. 19 days really makes you forget wat it feels like. Like i said before, the weekends are the hard times, after the weekdays are smooth sailing. I'm just excited to break the 3 week mark

I went 42 days until I reached the point that I couldn't stop thinking about it, and just thinking about it brought me so close to a huge cum. In the end I spanked my monkey just to give me peace of mind. No regrets.
That was 7 days ago...

[sopater]

Day 23

wooo gettin close to beating my record...only 12 more days!!! I wonder how close I am to getting a wet dream...I am kinda scared that I am part of that small population that will never get one no matter how long Iabstain....I am pretty sure it will take a while if I do get one...ive never had one and I used to MB a lot....like A LOT.

Just keep a positive mind set. I read a post on here, and it said it takes a while for the body/mind to switch into WD mode, so patience would be your best bet.

[goldalu]

I had that weird fear too. Sadly didn't make it to the WD, but soon your dick starts to get into a serious battle with your brain. 99.9999% of the time the dick wins...

[scorkin21]

well im on day 20..almost half way to 42 lol
so ive been reading a lot on this forum and Im finding my experiance abstaining VERRY different than everyone else. It seems that around 20 days, everyone is CRAZY horny and just needs to explode. I am actually comfortable, I mean i have my moments now and then(especially when I'm drinking, but who doesnt?), aside from taht I am usually okay. Also everyone talks bout this crazy "t-buzz." I kinda know how it feels, i felt it the first couple of days I started to abstain, but i just feel normal now. I also find it wierd that I don't precum...at all...or have any sort of leakage, not semen in my urning, or anything. I watched some porn last night...and it wasnt even that great. During the times when I MB, whenever I watched porn, I would go crazyyyy and need to whack it. I did read an article saying how weight training incraeses testosterone levels and aerobic exercise decreases them. I do hardcore aerobic exercise (running) every morning, so this might be the explanation. But i know my tanks are full because my balls are definitaely bigger. Whatever it is...I hope everything is all right down there. I feel like by saying this ill get a crazy hard on tonight and will blow it all....

hey, welcome to this forum.

I'm also the same as you. I have once abstained for 3 months (May to August 2009), but nothing happened to me. No precum, no leakage, which all the other FMs have mentioned about. Thought I was the only one to be experiencing these, but after hearing from you then I got relieved.

i'm now back again, currently on day 11, hoping to break my record of 3 months and quit MB completely, and enjoy the joy of WD that I can ever have.

As to the balls getting larger, I have also experienced it before but some FM told me that it was just an illusion. It got "bigger" because of the load that is not released yet. I'm also a runner, not a weights person, that may explain why I'm experiencing all these.

Day 31

WOOOOOOOO one month!!!!!!!!!! but this is starting to get REALLLLLY HARD.....no SE or WD, i really need a release of hormones....some tips on how to stay away from MB would reallly help!

do more exercises, that's what I can say. Keep your body fit!

hope these help.

[scorkin21]

all the best to you. confident that with your perseverance, u can definitely do it.

scorkin21

[Squeeze]

Dude, you're 21 and healthy, it shouldn't take too much longer. For me, it would take about a month and 1/2 until I would get one after having gotten in the habit of MBing for a while. You could be a little quicker or longer, but getting erotic type dreams is a good indicator! You are doing so well! Better than I have in a long time. I totally understand those mind trips like "I can't even remember what an ejaculation feels like", etc and worry about if everything's ok down there even though nothing hurts, etc. Your body "missing" it is what will drive it to find another outlet. Keep going man, you are a marathon runner--you can go the distance!!! I know it! Don't give up now when you are so close the finish line. Prove it to us! We need to follow your example.

[Kivan]

Dont' give up now, you may never get another chance. I mean its hard to do these so you don't want to throw away your hard earned days abstaining for a cheap orgasm that proabably won't even be good.

[bluegarden]

Wow I'm surprised to hear you're as far along as a Day 57. Man don't give up, that is a high number of days you'll probably have one very soon, and if not so soon then you've waited 57 days so far, what's a few more?

[Squeeze]

You are made of iron, man, IRON!! They should call you Iron Man!! haah

Dude, yeah, don't give up now, your reward is on its way, I'm sure of it!

[bluegarden]

You know man you're inspiring me, if you can make 62 days without jacking off, I know I can too. I played with myself a little last night, not too much, but before then I was feeling great about it all, hadn't once thought about sex or MBing, or looked at porn and if I can go 8 days without looking at it, it really doesn't become an issue. So thanks for the inspiration and hope it happens soon man, if not it'll happen in the long run, I mean a 62+ day orgasm from a WD has got to be a wild one!

[Squeeze]

Dittos to the above post, IronMan! Yeah, you may not be "normal," haha, but it seems like with WDs there is no "normal" pattern. Keep holding out for your goal, you've made it this far and it's gotta be around the corner. Like blue said, I can only imagine it would be pretty intense!

Have you been getting any sexual-type dreams at all lately? In the past I would usually have a few "dry" ones over a week or two before I would get a proper WD. But again, there is no definite pattern.