aiming for a first WD while married

[goldalu]

Hey, I've been reading this board for about a week. I'm 38yrs old... I'm now at 32 days without a MB. (I learned all your jingo from reading).

I didn't intend to setout this way, but I recently came down with a heavy cold and lost all desire which gave me a 2 week headstart. I'm also married, but we both travel a lot so it turns out that we avoid orgasm for a while. I doubt I can hold out making love with the wife much longer, so I expect in the next couple of days if I don't have a WD then we will make love.

BTW, 32 days is my personal record ...I think my previous best was 2 weeks.
I do notice some changes about my body - my dick became extremely sensitive. Simple exercise in the gym or even driving the car can feel pretty good. Problem is it even reached the point where just walking feels pretty good, so this is on my mind a bit too often. The lower part of my stomach became very sensitive too.

Overall I think this is probably good, because I was MB a lot (when I travel in different timezones, I often MB coz it helps me get to sleep). But the MB was rather routine, and the cums were in fact pretty boring. Has been a long time since I had that 'full body' orgasm.

I've never had a WD, never a SE. I'm curious now which is the only reason I haven't just taken out my tool and unloaded.

I read on another forum that sleeping with a pillow between your legs may help get a WD. Anyone tried that?

So anyhow, my clock is ticking. Its time for bed now. I hope I get one tonight...

[shadow_flare]

Welcome to the site! Wow! you are way ahead of me. I actually just broke my 2 week record last week really. Best of luck.

[goldalu]

so no wet dream last night

the urge to MB isn't that big. the real problem is that the whole dick/balls region became so sensitive that I can feel pleasure all the time..which is mostly that feeling AFTER the tingling that you are about to cum but BEFORE the cum. Is this what you guys are calling the t-buzz? Anyhow, it gives me always that feeling that a big load is about to shoot, ...which is sometimes pleasurable, but sometimes a bit annoying.

[shadow_flare]

so no wet dream last night

the urge to MB isn't that big. the real problem is that the whole dick/balls region became so sensitive that I can feel pleasure all the time..which is mostly that feeling AFTER the tingling that you are about to cum but BEFORE the cum. Is this what you guys are calling the t-buzz? Anyhow, it gives me always that feeling that a big load is about to shoot, ...which is sometimes pleasurable, but sometimes a bit annoying.

I know how you feel.
The t-buzz thing is possible for what your experiencing... or so I heard. I'm feeling some small effects of it... but not like your getting.

[lukester19]

so no wet dream last night

the urge to MB isn't that big. the real problem is that the whole dick/balls region became so sensitive that I can feel pleasure all the time..which is mostly that feeling AFTER the tingling that you are about to cum but BEFORE the cum. Is this what you guys are calling the t-buzz? Anyhow, it gives me always that feeling that a big load is about to shoot, ...which is sometimes pleasurable, but sometimes a bit annoying.

I know how you feel.
The t-buzz thing is possible for what your experiencing... or so I heard. I'm feeling some small effects of it... but not like your getting.

Im not sure if that is t-buzz or blue balls? I remember blue balls being the sensation that the area is getting heavy and you are ready to shoot out. It is almost time and the signals are coming. T-buzz is kind of the high you get from doing daily things. This is due to testostorone a hormone being involved in aggressiveness and stuff like that. If anyone would like to explain that would be great.

[goldalu]

today makes 35 days (5 weeks!). the last couple of days a lot more erections, but less feeling in my tool. thank goodness really, because the constant 'nice feeling' was making it difficult to think about anything else.
no erotic dreams, no indications of a WD or SE. I really don't want to experience SE..

[goldalu]

I thought the blue balls was some pain in the balls. Definitely not experiencing that.
37 days now... lots of erections still and last night went to bed with the feeling that I was fully loaded. No WD thought

[goldalu]

Day #38 has so far been a bit unusual. My cock has felt the whole day like a hand is giving it a slow massage - but I haven't had an erection, and I haven't touched it.
I have a long haul flight tonight. Geeze I hope I don't get a WD on the flight, that would be embarrassing.

[goldalu]

Day 39: survived the long haul flight. Geeze I stuffed so many tissues into my pants, I must have looked like a porn star. One rather hot lady approached me at the baggage belt and tried to pick me up. Sadly for me (and her) #1 I'm married and don't sleep around #2 If if I did, I'm determined to have a WD.

[goldalu]

Day 40: So last night was kind of weird. I had to sleep in the buff last night, because the airline lost my luggage and I don't have a change of clothes with me. I also tried to decide sleeping with a pillow between my legs (it also stops snoring).
I woke up after a short sleep with a raging hard-on, and it felt goooood. After a short time I had that feeling I was about to cum. That last half an hour, then I must have dozed off and had an erotic dream, and woke up again with that feeling I was about to cum..but even stronger. My cock was throbbing. I was sure I was about to have a SE. This lasted another half hour (at this point also I just wanted to sleep and the temptation to finish it off was huge). Somehow I resisted the urge to squirt one out, and fell asleep again. Woke up this morning ..no WD
Anyhow, I think I am getting close to a WD.

[shadow_flare]

Day 40: So last night was kind of weird. I had to sleep in the buff last night, because the airline lost my luggage and I don't have a change of clothes with me. I also tried to decide sleeping with a pillow between my legs (it also stops snoring).
I woke up after a short sleep with a raging hard-on, and it felt goooood. After a short time I had that feeling I was about to cum. That last half an hour, then I must have dozed off and had an erotic dream, and woke up again with that feeling I was about to cum..but even stronger. My cock was throbbing. I was sure I was about to have a SE. This lasted another half hour (at this point also I just wanted to sleep and the temptation to finish it off was huge). Somehow I resisted the urge to squirt one out, and fell asleep again. Woke up this morning ..no WD
Anyhow, I think I am getting close to a WD.

wow it does sound like you are getting close.

[goldalu]

Day 41: Almost no sensitivity at all today. Strangely in the middle of a meeting, I got a huge boner and it felt like some stuff came out, but in fact nothing did. Weird. going to sleep soon.

[goldalu]

Day 42: Woke up last night in the middle of an amazingly erotic dream, cock was throbbing, but didnt cum
2 erotic dreams in 3 nights! I haven't had an erotic dream in a year! So something is happening.

[shadow_flare]

Day 42: Woke up last night in the middle of an amazingly erotic dream, cock was throbbing, but didnt cum
2 erotic dreams in 3 nights! I haven't had an erotic dream in a year! So something is happening.

wow dude, it sounds like your getting closer every day.

[sopater]

Day 42: Woke up last night in the middle of an amazingly erotic dream, cock was throbbing, but didnt cum
2 erotic dreams in 3 nights! I haven't had an erotic dream in a year! So something is happening.

wow dude, it sounds like your getting closer every day.

It's the final countdown. Leaving for Venis via your lone penis. LOL

[goldalu]

So last Thu night was a weird night, and not to be repeated.
I went to bed around midnight, after 42 days with no MB, no touching, a few recent erotic dreams.

Lying in bed, I started thinking some erotic thoughts and my cock went hard. Nothing unusual there, but then I started thinking more about this erotica and my cock went ultra ultra hard..and started pulsing. Before I knew it, I was moaning louder than when fucking and my cock was feeling like it was inside a pussy (I've had a LOT of sex, although not in the previous 42 days). Suddenly my pc muscles started contracting and I was sure that I was going to cum, but didn't

The amazing thing was that all of that happened without me touching. This happened 3 times. Then I dozed off, and woke up probably 20mins later and the same thing happened again. I had a constant hard-on. Maybe 3 or 4 times I dozed off, but always woke-up with a rock hard tool.

Fast forward to 4.30am - I've had maybe a grand total of 45mins sleep and nearly constant erection. There reaches a point when you gotta say enough is enough. I mean, having a wet dream might be great and all that, but clearly my body was sending me a message and I'm not sacrificing sleep for the sake of staining the sheets.

So I started just rubbing my cock gently on the sheets. Quickly I reached that "I'm gonna blow" (IGB) point, but it just stayed there. So I rubbed faster and harder and the IGB just got stronger. So I thought, great I'm gonna stroke him with my hand. The IGB became bigger and bigger, but no cumshot. It was amazing and frustrating, coz I thought that after 42 days with no cum, just the littlest of touches would set him off...abstinence of that length increases stamina !

Finally it came. My hand was touching only ever so lightly, most of the work was done with my hips. The sensation was almost that 'all body' orgasm. There was a lot of stuff that came out (8-10 shots), I didn't see how much because it was dark, but when I went to the bathroom to clean up, I didn't see a lot. I guess the fluid was mostly prostate fluid (clear) mixed with some of the baby batter.

My conclusion is that the 42 day holdout was worth it, but I'm not doing it again. The drive to abstain actually led me to think about my cock even more than ever. However, I do think I broke the MB habit and the last couple of days when normally I would just jerk one out for the relief of boredom, I've managed to do something else.

[shadow_flare]

So last Thu night was a weird night, and not to be repeated.
I went to bed around midnight, after 42 days with no MB, no touching, a few recent erotic dreams.

Lying in bed, I started thinking some erotic thoughts and my cock went hard. Nothing unusual there, but then I started thinking more about this erotica and my cock went ultra ultra hard..and started pulsing. Before I knew it, I was moaning louder than when fucking and my cock was feeling like it was inside a pussy (I've had a LOT of sex, although not in the previous 42 days). Suddenly my pc muscles started contracting and I was sure that I was going to cum, but didn't

The amazing thing was that all of that happened without me touching. This happened 3 times. Then I dozed off, and woke up probably 20mins later and the same thing happened again. I had a constant hard-on. Maybe 3 or 4 times I dozed off, but always woke-up with a rock hard tool.

Fast forward to 4.30am - I've had maybe a grand total of 45mins sleep and nearly constant erection. There reaches a point when you gotta say enough is enough. I mean, having a wet dream might be great and all that, but clearly my body was sending me a message and I'm not sacrificing sleep for the sake of staining the sheets.

So I started just rubbing my cock gently on the sheets. Quickly I reached that "I'm gonna blow" (IGB) point, but it just stayed there. So I rubbed faster and harder and the IGB just got stronger. So I thought, great I'm gonna stroke him with my hand. The IGB became bigger and bigger, but no cumshot. It was amazing and frustrating, coz I thought that after 42 days with no cum, just the littlest of touches would set him off...abstinence of that length increases stamina !

Finally it came. My hand was touching only ever so lightly, most of the work was done with my hips. The sensation was almost that 'all body' orgasm. There was a lot of stuff that came out (8-10 shots), I didn't see how much because it was dark, but when I went to the bathroom to clean up, I didn't see a lot. I guess the fluid was mostly prostate fluid (clear) mixed with some of the baby batter.

My conclusion is that the 42 day holdout was worth it, but I'm not doing it again. The drive to abstain actually led me to think about my cock even more than ever. However, I do think I broke the MB habit and the last couple of days when normally I would just jerk one out for the relief of boredom, I've managed to do something else.

Pretty similar for me having that "I am going to blow" but I never did because I didn't mb.