1 Dj journal - Guys I am back again

[1dj]

Hey, I tried to control masturbation alots of times but all the times I messed up.

This time I am going to talk less and will come up with good news.I dont know why , I am feeling confident that I am going to get a wetdream this time. So I am on




DAY 1

My policy is : put ur hands off .. I not gonna touch my dick except when I want to pee.

[1dj]

Please give me tips , ideas , and tell me whats the easy way to control . I dont want to lose this time, I lost enough this time I ain't gonna lose.So please give me tips

[1dj]

[size=150]on DAY 2 [/size]

Day 1 passed easily

no porn
no sexual thoughts just had once but controlled it
no touching

hands off approach rox

[1dj]

on DAY 3

Day 2 passed easily

no porn
no sexual thoughts
no touching

hands off approach rox

[lukester19]

hey welcome back man. I havent seen any of your previous attempts to log but i know it is tough. Hopefully this time it will work for you and a wet dream will happen. One thing I can say is checking in to this forum helps to keep you in the wet dream mode. When you see other people make it that long it asks you why it cant happen to you also. So atleast in that sense the trend continues in the positive direction. Also the basics such as edging and viewing visuals should be kept to a minimum. Also if i do tend to get the urge to masturbate i have found that reading stories with exotic words seems to keep me from ejaculating and ruining everything. That is considered my reward but it is a small enough one that i can surely control it. I guess it comes to your mind controlling the urges and putting your thinking in to some other place. This is what has worked for me so far and maybe can work for you.

[1dj]

@lukester19

hey welcome back man. I havent seen any of your previous attempts to log but i know it is tough. Hopefully this time it will work for you and a wet dream will happen. One thing I can say is checking in to this forum helps to keep you in the wet dream mode. When you see other people make it that long it asks you why it cant happen to you also. So atleast in that sense the trend continues in the positive direction. Also the basics such as edging and viewing visuals should be kept to a minimum. Also if i do tend to get the urge to masturbate i have found that reading stories with exotic words seems to keep me from ejaculating and ruining everything. That is considered my reward but it is a small enough one that i can surely control it. I guess it comes to your mind controlling the urges and putting your thinking in to some other place. This is what has worked for me so far and maybe can work for you.

Thanks alot bro for the encouragement.Yeh I am on my way.. Btw off from sexual thoughts , girls , porn , etc *huh* I do like it but for my priority is my natural wetdream and I gonna have it in sometime no matter it takes me 1000 days

By the way when i get a wetdream I will tell you. i am on fire these days :-) and will be .. you know sometimes we masturbate when depressed or etc but I tried alot to control and I know whats teh main problem.. the main problem is when we start trying and checking ourseleves by confusing and watching visuals.. or toucing our dick *huh*

Now ... No sexual thoughts .. No Visuals .. No porn .. and no toucing the private parts at only one cost and thats if I have itchign or I want to pee .Other Why did'nt even touched my dick and i feel so happy Thanks for encouragement ..

[1dj]

@lukester19
sorry for the bad english :-/ hope u got wat I meant//and i forgot to tell on which day i am on now



Day 7 is about to finish in some hours and I am going to
DAY 8 .. and now its so easy for me to control :-) ...

[lukester19]

No your English is good. I understood it. I will be checking in to your log and hope you get a wet dream. Im 24 days in and have not had one. Atleast I am experiencing positive effects from abstaining.

[1dj]

Day 10 almost gone

on DAY 11


@lukster thanks for ur post


hey i am having a lil drops may be too much drops cause i am horny and wanna watch some hot stuff... hand off approach rox ... will that make me not have wetdreams ? tell me by the way i am on my way and not gonna watch porn for sure just some hot videos and thats it

[Tor]

The main problem with porn is that it makes it REALLY hard to not MB. But if you can watch it without MB go ahead. Just try and work out after to lose soom of that extra energy.
You're doing great man!

[1dj]

On DAY 12

porn is no problem if hands approach is used porn is like cartoon for me easy to abstian


thanks tor

[1dj]

on DAY 16 and is about to be finished

[1dj]

on DAY 19 i think

[Tor]

Good luck idj! Day 20 is milestone for a lot of guys trying to abstain.

[1dj]

day 24 passed now on






DAY 25

@TOR man its easy i just use this hands off approach and porn is now nothing for me .. i aint gonna have real sex can u tell me when will i get a wetdream ? how much more i have to abstain 90 days more or 290 ? :O

well i wont compromise on my vision untill i get this wetdream thanks to hands off approach

[Tor]

can u tell me when will i get a wetdream ? how much more i have to abstain 90 days more or 290 ? :O

I wish I could tell you for sure. Lets hope one soon!

[1dj]

ON 6th SEPTEMBER I WILL REACH daY 30


and now i am on day dont know but near of braking my record which is 35 days and i am using this hands off approach its really profitable guys

[1dj]

On [size=200]DAY 31 [/size]

[rdgann]

Awesome. I remember having my first full blown WD at day 31 of abstaining the first time I tried to pursue a WD. Keep the good fight. What is your motivation for WD? I bet you have a ton of t-buzz and feel amazingly different since you gave up MB. Do you feel more aggressive and I bet your morning woods are Rock Solid. Do you enjoy the extra sexual feelings you have now, even though you aren't mbing.

STay strong. ON day 3 myself. Long way to go.


Daniel G.

[1dj]

Awesome. I remember having my first full blown WD at day 31 of abstaining the first time I tried to pursue a WD. Keep the good fight. What is your motivation for WD? I bet you have a ton of t-buzz and feel amazingly different since you gave up MB. Do you feel more aggressive and I bet your morning woods are Rock Solid. Do you enjoy the extra sexual feelings you have now, even though you aren't mbing.

STay strong. ON day 3 myself. Long way to go.

Well man this is my first time i am going this strong.. though i am not watching porn etc.. i used to even when i was abstaining using this hands off approach.. and in my life i have only this thing to be proud of and i am feeling strong.. very strong i feel like i can brake a whole mountain .. bro i love those t buzzes and all that and i hate masturbation and that hands off approach is also working .....its easy and i can wait for years but can u tell me when u have drops when u watch porn does it decrease the chances of having wetdreams though its been 6 days i also am not watching porn.. u can think from which feeling i am going and yay i am feeling cool just dont know how much more i have to wait but i will wait... ok bro.. and i am feeeling strong thanks for ur encouragement .. and i am not fucking any babe so tell me what will happen with me ? in how much time .. though i abstained alot from masturbation but this time i am too strong and i feel i am gonna get it .. tell me what should i do

[1dj]

on DAY 33


2 days left to brake the record of abstaining

[rdgann]

Awesome Bro! U should have one soon.

[1dj]

I broke my record .. now i am on DAY 37




Waooooooooooooooooo i am so happy




Still waiting for my wetdream ... Aug 6-Sep 13(half day gone)..may be even if count one day less or even two still i broke my record










WAITING FOR A WET DREAM

[Squeeze]

Congrats, man!!! Just keep holding out down the fort--you'll get one soon! The troops are getting ready for rapid deployment, I'm sure, haha

[rdgann]

Yeah, I watched porn as a child and have seen a few times recently, but I am not a person addicted to it, and don't necessarily feel the urge to watch it, so I don't know how that affects your quest for a WD. I think the key is to learn not to intentionally stimulate yourself throughout the day. You may feel horniness and t-buzz, but you just sort of keep that energy stored up in your loins, but don't even think about releasing that sexual energy. Just find ways to use that primal sexual energy in productive ways. Go for a run, lift weights, go hit a punching bag, but don't release the juice. It will release itself when it needs to. Just like a woman has her ovulation cycle. Likewise our bodies have a WD cycle if we don't short circuit the cycle with a few strokes of MB.

Way to go! I think my record for no MB was 38 days. I haven't gone that long in a long time. I am working on it though. Good luck!!

[1dj]

on DAY 42

[1dj]

46 days gone now on [size=200]day 47 [/size]






can anyone help me will i get a wetdream even if i have some drops during some sexual things i do .. i am cool now but worried

[Squeeze]

1Dj--those wet drops are simply what's called "pre-cum" and most guys get some once they have been aroused for a while. It is designed to help lubricate the vagina once you have sex, and perhaps also to neutralize the pH inside there to make it more sperm-friendly. All it means for you now is that you are aroused, and if you are doing that kind of stuff, that makes sense that you would get some. It isn't sperm or semen, (it comes from a different gland in your body--the Cowper's gland), and so I don't think that getting it would harm your chances of getting a wet dream, in fact, a lot of guys here get drops of pre-cum quite often after they have been abstaining for a while, simply bec they get horny a lot and their body is desiring a release! The verdict is out, though, on if edging (masturbating right to where you are about to cum but then stopping just before you do) will make it more difficult for you to get a WD soon. You have abstained for so long now, man, I wouldn't risk a slip up by pushing your limit through MBing and sex chat, etc. It would be way too easy to slip up and go all of the way. I have to imagine you are pretty sensitive down there right now. I think your best bet is to avoid sexual thoughts and touching as much as possible. Then, the only way your body can relieve itself is when you are asleep! Most of my wet dreams have come when I have thinking abt sex the least, not the other way around. Good luck!

[1dj]

SQUEEEZ
i did'nt get u






I am using hands-off approach ok !! bro :S sorry i am feeling sad a lil dont mind i abstained alot and i do feel the urge of masturbation .. but remember I USE HANDS OFF APPROACH !! dont think i will slip i will never i know that i learned alot from my mistakes just tell me if i have sexual thoughts annd naughty things i do they make me have a lil drops but i dont touch i can easily use hands off approach i know that i can use it .. so answer again :S

1- USE HANDS OFF APPROACH (FULLY)
2-BUT I DO GET THOSE DROPS WHEN I GET HORNY OR DO NAUGHTY THINGS ?
now answer will i get a wetdream or not



i am worried about this situation useem a nice bro do answer me according to my situation . .cause i am using hands off approach and will use it forever

[1dj]

on DAY 48