Wet Dream Forum

I really feel it would help me in many ways to "switch" from MB to wet dreams. I've been spending WAY too much time masturbating and thinking about my next chance to MB. I need to break out of this stuck pattern:

1. I get horny, but am OK with that for a few days
2. My testicles start to actually ache
3. Thinking I'll "just relieve the pressure" to "solve" the problem, I cum once. The orgasm isn't all that special. It's mainly mechanical "clearing the pipes."
4. Within a couple hours, my horniness factor then spikes through the roof!
5. Within 12 hours, I "have to" MB a 2nd time, sometimes a 3rd time. This time the ejaculation(s) is mind-blowing.
6. Now I'm incredibly tired, blah, almost depressed for 2 or 3 days. (This happens regardless of whether or not I add that 3rd ejac.)

Thus, I MB once Mon. June 15 as per step 3 above.
And I MB once Tues. June 16 as per step 5 above.

Wed. June 17 I had no sexual desire at all. I was sleepy though, of course, and went to take a quick shower before bed. I never even touched my penis with my bare hand--just a quick swipe with a washrag. All of a sudden for absolutely no reason I felt like I was about to cum in seconds! This is stupid, I thought. How will I ever get a wet dream or break free from this MB pattern if I cum yet again? I abandoned my shower (and orgasm), rinsed off, went to sleep.

My penis has been unusually aroused now ever since I woke up this morning. I felt like I had to do a BM, but before I got anywhere near the bathroom I felt several drops of precum leak out. No semen, though.

Is it too late to make June 16 my last day of masturbating? Or did the sudden fully erect moment in the shower last night get my body too worked up? I feel strongly tempted to "clear out the pipes" ever since the shower erection last night... But then I'd have to put June 18 as my last MB date--and how am I ever going to get a WD if I can't overcome the horniness that's overwhelming me today after a measly 2 days without ejac?

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BACK TO DAY ONE - I SPURTED TWICE JUNE 18

OK, so I was really horny all day yesterday. I tried not to think about it, but even simply taking a quick piss got my penis way too excited. I felt so full of sperm that a wet dream would have been perfect timing. Evenings are usually when I'm most horny--and maybe I'd been OK if I'd accepted my friend's invitation to go hear a live band play (so I wouldn't PLAY with myself). Around maybe 7pm I remembered reading that it's really hard to cum if all you do is make very small circles with only one finger just under your penis' head: You hold your penis with one hand. With only the index finger of your other hand, you make very slow, small, tight little circles only on the area just under your frenulum. Stupidly I thought it would be OK to do that to feel at least just that one finger on my dick. True enough, doing just this small circle motion feels pretty good, but it didn't seem like I was in danger of cumming. I figured it'd we be easy to stop and just go to sleep. Maybe I'd been OK if I'd stopped this sooner, but after about 15 minutes it felt SO good. Kinda suddenly then my penis got super, super hard, and it felt sorta like pee or something starting to flow somewhere "inside" my penis, but nothing was coming out the end. So again I told myself "Stop it! You made a vow to stop masturbating however--long it takes--till you get a wet dream." Sad to say, it was too late. Several spurts of cum went flying near my shoulder, followed by a pretty good orgasm; but it was nothing special really. Sure not worth it! I thought this was good, since a mediocre orgasm actually makes me less sexually frustrated than an explosive cum would. One minute later I felt that tingly tension AGAIN--what's going on??--and this time my penis blasted out like a volcano! I admit, this 2nd cum did feel exquisite. Pretty unusual, though. I hardly ever cum twice within one minute. Before I get too caught up in that last thought...Enough already! I'm sick of being such a slave to MB and my own's body's desires. I SINCERELY WANT JUNE 18 TO BE THE LAST TIME I MASTURBATE! I DON'T want to cum any more until I get a wet dream. How can I make this happen?

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Wahoo! I haven't masturbated-nor cum--since June 18. For me, incredible.

Horny, horny, horny when I work up today. I found myself actually humping the kitchen cabinets. Soon my penis poked himself out the waistband of my shorts as if to say "Here I am! Touch me! Stoke me, and don't you dare stop stroking until I spurt." This is beyond pathetic, I thought. It's only been TWO lousy days since I've last cum. And I got to cum TWICE two days ago. So no way should there be any semen built up yet. I had to give my penis a slap, kinda like swatting a fly. Not hard enough to hurt it, but hard enough to make the erection die down. I don't usually hump cabinets, nor slap my cock. Is this what only two days of not cumming is doing to me???

I really, really want June 18 to be the last time I masturbated until I get a wet dream, at least. So I hurried out the door to the mall. Been walking around here for quite a while. Stopped at an Internet terminal to write this update. My take on racing to the mall before I could masturbate:

Cons: Lots of hot, hot cuties here to increase my sexual frustration.

Pros: Going here kept me from jacking off! No way to masturbate here, thank God. I guess there's the bathroom stall--but there's tons of security, so no way would I even try to jack off. Does this mean I have to pretty much stay away from home in order not to masturbate?

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Your level of determination is inspiring, TooFull. It's great to see you so committed.

As far as staying away from home to avoid j/o, yeah, it gets pretty pathetic what you have to do to stay abstinent. MB is as much a physical addiction as a mental one - you have to ween yourself off of the dopamine high that MB gives, just like a smoker has to break the nicotine addiction.

Just hang in there, and don't give up, even if you have a set-back and blow it.

I truly agree with PlainsMustang.

Your determination is already halfway to achieving a WD. Keep it up.

All the best to you. May you get your WD soon.

scorkin21

4 Days Without Masturbating, Without Cumming, Without an Orgasm

Thanks Plains and Scorkin for the encouraging words! Amazingly I haven't cum since June 18! Day 3 is usually a deal-breaker for me, when I get that antsy "gotta cum gotta CUM GOTTA CUM" vibe goin'. To save myself on day 3 I volunteered all day dismantling a house board by board. Got home and was STILL horny, so then swam so laps. OK, finally after all that I was no longer aroused and got sleep.

I hardly ever make it past Day 4, so Day 4 is potentially explosive territory for me. Normally I only get to Day 4 if there's really no chance to masturbate sooner. The times I've made it to Day 4 without ejaculating I normally explode with cum flying near my shoulders. So usually when I get to Day 4 I KNOW I'm gonna have a mind-blowing orgasm with the cum shooting out a lot further than even Day 3. Unfortunately, that thought alone makes it even harder to get past 4 days!

I awoke on Day 4 today pretty erect, and my penis felt like it was already 60% on the way to cumming. Thankfully I remembered no touching and definitely no cumming because we're in WET DREAM MODE now. Briefly I admired Mr. Purple and his shiny head with just a tiny sticky drop on its tip (not sure what that's all about--no way did I WD or cum last night) then I took a piss and my morning wood somehow went back down. The past few hours my penis feels like it's under control. But I know this can be misleading, because it seems like my penis tends to go from not aroused to AROUSED to ejaculating all within 30 minutes! I wish there was a way to prolong the wonderful sensations of being fully erect without being so desperate to spurt right away. Also, I think I'm still feeling the effects of "orgasm hangover," having cum 4 times last week, including twice on June 18. After HOW MANY DAYS since my last ejaculation will this t-buzz stuff start to kick in?

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From the sounds of your horniness level, I'd say it already has. The "T-buzz" is nothing more than an energy boost from the abstinence, most likely due to excess testosterone in your bloodstream. Based on your house-demolishing and swimming activities, I'd say you're taking pretty good advantage of it too.

Keep up the good work!

5 Days

PlainsMustang: A technical question. How'd you get your avatar pic? I tried resizing an image to the 200 x 200 specifications, and followed all the directions, but my image wouldn't upload. Thank you for the t-buzz assessment. Certainly I'd rather have too much testosterone, maybe WAY too much T coursing thru me rather than not enough. I'm starting to think I'll choose horny over blah any day. At least being horny I can be productive, except for time spent thinking about if/when I might next get to spurt and/or contemplating how I might make that occur...

Got a beauty of an erection while swimming last night without even trying just from the sensation of water flowing against my groin area and/or the shorts rubbing against that area. It's always been difficult for me to find swimming trunks--and for that matter briefs--that are the perfect size. Either they're too loose or so tight I'm afraid of becoming a eunuch. Too loose isn't necessarily a bad thing, 'cause going commando is great fun while not being overly arousing. Too loose can actually be less arousing for me than too tight! Anyway my swim trunks safely contained my enlargement, and being black, helped keep it from being obvious.

Awoke hard and throbbing today . Good sign of an impending wet dream, methinks! Don't worry, I didn't even touch the penis. Just enjoyed the pleasurable sensation it was causing all by itself. After ignoring the erection for maybe an hour it finally became mostly flaccid.

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Re: the avatar, I'm not sure why it won't upload for you. As far as I know the only restrictions are that the image be less than 200x200 and less than about 976KB. Focus would be the one to talk to if you're still having trouble.

What size are you that you have trouble finding trunks and briefs? I have a similar problem in that I'm a 29" waist and they don't make many men's clothes that small, and boys' pants are too short/don't fit right.

6 Days - Spontaneous Ejaculation

Usually at least semi-hard last night and this morning, but resisted all temptation to caress and/or cum. Had a spontaneous ejaculation this morning right after a bm. LOTS and LOTS of cum, not just pre-cum. No pleasure or orgasm at all; just a thick river of cum started flowing from my penis, off and on, for a minute or two. Am wondering if this will delay the onset of wet dream(s) for me?

I am so enjoying not masturbating, especially not cumming. From the perspective of only 6 days, it seems like "Why on earth would I ever want to start masturbating again? There's truly no NEED to do that."

PlainsMustang: I'm a 31". It seems most clothing comes in even sizes from 30" to 32". A friend of mine wears a 35", yet another really tough to find waist size.

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That kind of SE is related to a BM. It probably won't affect the timing of a WD, since you don't have to be really 'full' to have a WD. Proof of that is that some guys might wait many days or weeks for a WD, and once they start getting them they might even get two WD's in one night.

Some people enjoy the effects of not MBing more than others, and you seem to be enjoying the feelings and extra energy quite a bit. MB can actually take away more feelings and enjoyment than it brings. I think you will find as the days go by that you can start to separate arousal from erection at times, so you can feel aroused and horny without always getting an erection.

Several guys have been posting about going commando and enjoying it, and some of them are sleeping nude. Yet they wouldn't be enjoying nearly as much (if at all) it if they started MBing regularly again. But neither do they have constant erections.

It seems to be natural and built in for the human brain/body to enjoy the effects of not MBing. It is natural to not want to waste the feelings, energy, and semen in MB. MB isn't the least bit necessary, so why do it? Why not take the natural route of WD's exclusively while enjoying the effects, instead of wasting the feelings and energy in MB?

Go for it and good luck!

9 days

Mostly horny yesterday. Might've been tempted to MB last evening if not for the visitors stopping by. "No privacy to masturbate" really does keep one from wasting his sperm in a weak moment. Had some beer, which made me so potently horny I actually got blue balls (very rare for me). Am wondering if beer reduces or increases horniness for others?

Awoke in the middle of the night subconsciously stroking!! Damn, that's a no no! STOPPED as soon as I realized I had to stop NOW or I'd spurt . Not a drop escaped; underwear still totally dry. Since I kept it from cumming I hope I'm still "filling the chambers" for a wet dream. If I hadn't awakened before ejaculating, would this have been a wet dream?

Since I did wake up, if I hadn't been able to stop before ejaculating, I'm guessing it would've been "sleep masturbation," which is still masturbation nonetheless.

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Yup, that's true. It wouldn't have been a wet dream but just a normal masturbation, except that this time round you did it sub-consciously. I'm glad that you actually manage to stop yourself from carrying on or else you would have wasted your 9 days of preserved load.

All the best in achieving your wet dream.



Just curious to know, when your spontaneous ejaculation happened during your bowel movement, was your penis erect, or semi-erect or just flaccid ? Was the cum flowing out like when peeing or spurting out?

Thanks for your answers.

scorkin21

Scorkin, my penis was semi-erect when I had the recent spontaneous ejaculation . (I'd awoken rock hard with morning wood, but it usually goes back down pretty soon if I urinate.) The cum came out a thick, white (no yellow) mixture of spurts and flows, about 4 separate increments. Now this morning at 10 days I've had another SE. I felt sorta like I had to have a bm, but not like I had to "race to the bathroom." So was finishing up washing dishes when I felt the emission in my shorts. It did feel pleasureable; not like a full-blown orgasm, but it felt nice. I didn't touch my penis at all, since my hands were doing dishes. Normally always I love going commando, but I happened to have briefs on. Briefs seem to cause me more stimulation than commando. I don't know if the semen spurted or oozed, since I didn't see it happen. But the briefs were pretty full of cum. Luckily I was about to take a shower, since it was messy. Since I did not manually cause this emission, I'm thinking I'm still on track for a wet dream. I haven't cum intentionally for 10 full days.

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still 10 days since I've last cum

Simply incredibly horny! The physical desire to CUM is strong right now, despite the ibuprofen I've taken for a strained neck and headache installing a ceiling fan out in the intense heat today. My scrotal area has a dull ache, not like blue balls, but a "too full" sensation. Quite a testament to the intense power of male horniness that I'm even considering masturbating all the way to ejaculation despite the neck pain and analgesic. However, isn't it likely the ibuprofen would dull or greatly diminish any orgasm I might feel? Part of me (not my penis!) knows that if I can somehow wait out this momentary wave of arousal, the erection will die down and all will be OK again enroute to a spectacular WET DREAM. But the penis wants to CUM....now.... I'm trying to hang on here, though...

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Achieved One Full Week - 7 Whole Days Without Masturbating

Happy to report I'm back on the wet dream track with one week total abstinence as of July 7. Had a setback on June 30. Cute gal about 20 on my street who I've known for years sweetly asked me to help her move furniture. Already that day I was really sexually frustrated, horny beyond words, and usually physical activity helps cure my horniness. So I greatly welcomed her distraction: I knew as long as I was busy moving furniture I wouldn't have the opportunity to MB. But she and I got sweaty together moving furniture just in the normal course of things, reminding me of another course: intercourse. Our sweaty arms and legs even briefly slid against one another. However, unless I'm really clueless, dense, or stupid-- I don't think she was coming on to me. I don't think she was making a pass at me. I don't think she wanted sex. I'm pretty sure she just wanted some male muscle to come inside her apartment only to move her heavy furniture. We were just honestly getting sweaty together moving furniture for several hours.

After all that I was hoping the tiredness would prevent me from masturbating, almost like a default sort of chastity. Either my sexual frustration was boiling over, or my defenses were down. I got caught in that "end of month" trap, thinking I gotta cum "one last time" on the last day of the month. But my mind was in control enough to negotiate: You're going to have to really work for it if you think you really need to cum so badly. So I stroked myself to the edge of ejaculating then stopped over and over again for four hours. Already physically exhausted, I thought there'd be a chance I'd fall asleep before I'd cum. Or my penis would give up trying to spurt. After four hours of constantly being brought to the brink of orgasm I bellowed as my body disobeyed me and spurted nearly two weeks of pent up semen down the drain. Literally and figuratively. That one cum felt like only the tip of the iceberg, though. My penis did NOT go down at all, and it felt ready to cum again within a few minutes. I knew that a 2nd ejaculation would really ruin my wet dream quest. So the good news is I resisted the urge to cum again. It's been very hard, but I haven't masturbated, cum, or anything now for a full week. Since I only ejaculated ONCE on June 30 and never since then, my arousal hasn't gone down hardly at all. Woke up with super hard morning wood today. Am going jogging now to hopefully squelch my sexual frustration. Wish me luck, guys. Cause sometimes running only makes me hornier still. Then when I get home I'm really, really, tempted to stroke/spurt & squirt. My mind and body know that the sensation of orgasm is much stronger after going for a run, so I have to be DETERMINED not to touch it all when I get home...

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Good job making it to a week! Now just keep your hands off!

Sorry you slipped up. I think you enjoy the effects of not MBing, so try to focus on things you had already mentioned (like the quotes below), and away from MB. Embrace, express, and enjoy your sexuality by NOT MBing it away, and not wanting to.
Since several people mentioned enjoying going commando (I think especially when not MBing), I saw something a few years ago that made me think a guy had probably quit MB and moved on to WD's. When I was unemployed for a while I would go to the gym around lunchtime. I noticed that a guy who changed in the same area always went commando. But he seemed shy about it and would try to hide it by sitting down and always having a shirt on when he changed his pants.

But that changed later. After exercise he started stripping down and going over to the basins and mirrors and would wash his hands and face completely nude. He was the only one to do that nude and started to do it every day (although other guys do take showers). He would take his time and check himself out in the mirror. I could be wrong, but I figured there was a good chance that it was the t-buzz that motivated him to overcome his shyness and take 'commando' to that extreme every day. I think an MBer probably wouldn't have the desire and courage to actually do that, especially after seeming so embarrassed before. Also, abstaining for a long time allows a guy to feel and enjoy the horniness and t-buzz and still have 'control' over getting an erection.

So I could be wrong, but this seemed to have non-MBer t-buzz expression written all over it. I think he had likely quit MB and moved on to t-buzz expression. Logically then, on some of those days he was probably feeling good and happy from the WD he had the night before, and was hoping for another one soon.

The reason I brought this up is that if you want to quit MB and enjoy the feelings and effects, you should try to emphasize enjoying the 'new' way and leave the old way behind. That means leaving edging behind too. People say that edging reduces the chance for a WD. It can also make it harder to get over MB as an outlet.

If a guy has been enjoying WD's, he would most likely seriously hope for another WD tonight without even thinking about MB or edging. I think for a guy like the one at the gym, edging would reduce the t-buzz enjoyment, decrease the chance for another WD, and risk ending all the good feelings in an unwanted ejaculation. Not fun!

Aficionado and Texanguy, thank I appreciate your timely encouragement, which is likely helping prevent a relapse. 8 days today without MB!

Arousal for most of yesterday wasn't too bad, actually surprisingly low. "This abstaining for a wet dream is easy," I recall thinking. Late afternoon the sexual frustration suddenly went from 2 to 10. I don't understand why horniness suddenly spikes for no apparent reason--increases exponentially like that, rather than the body gradually getting hornier? While driving home from Taco Bell last night all I could think of was how all it would take would be as few as 5 strokes to immediately, gloriously release all this pent up arousal as soon as I get home. Once home, I turned on the computer--normally an accomplice in my stuck cycle of repeatedly wasting every ounce of my sexual energy. Fortunately the first thing I came across was Aficionado's post, reminding me of the self-inflicted consequences of masturbating : ejaculation usually ruins my motivation in many ways, in addition to leaving that uneasy, unpleasant "blah" feeling. Just one ejaculation won't always immediately ruin my mood. But unfortunately "only one" ejaculation inevitably leads to several in quick succession--which definitely have serious adverse effects.

Even so, why is it so annoying being horny? It's not exactly painful, other than occasional testicle "heaviness." Horniness is certainly preferable to real, actual pain like a root canal. Horniness is sneaky. The hornier I get, the easier it is to forget the serious drawbacks to ejaculating. It was hard to do, but I'm very thankful I got to sleep without masturbating last night.

Atypically, my arousal did not die down overnight. Awoke with "hard as steel" morning wood today which felt in danger of exploding with only the slightest touch, or maybe no touch at all. I'm surprised I'm so sexually frustrated after only 8 days, seeing how others on this forum last longer before seriously considering ejaculation as the only option. Hopefully my arousal is peaking now, so if I can just get past the next few hours, the horniness can be manageable again--even enjoyable.

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9 Days Without MB
large volume SE today

Morning wood again. Then felt like I needed a bathroom, but instead had a SE. LARGE volume of semen flooded my Jockey bikini briefs, but no orgasm at all. I thoroughly cleaned up, then found even more semen 30 minutes later and had to get clean underwear yet again. Seems like a lot of cum for only 9 days since I've last ejaculated.

Desperate to cum, physically, or maybe physiologically. Persistent dull ache in scrotal area, but not unpleasant, really.

Still trying to resist the urge, mentally. On the 9th day since my last ejaculation I've often given up fighting the urge to cum--so I'm trying to be really careful on this 9th day and not touch anything at any time.

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Hey TooFull, Good job so far…. I’m about where you are with abstaining. (day 10 here) I had a very similar experience yesterday as well. Odd that both of these experiences happened on day 9 for both of us, Here what happened to me.. I had another very hardcore workout at the gym, and almost had what felt like a SE. Although, there was no orgasm and only a few drops were in my jock when I was done. Later on in the evening I was chilling and watching some tv, and all the sudden I became semi-erect…and precum started dripping out of my dick, periodically, for about five minutes. I would stop short of calling this a spontaneous ejaculation but certainty was a welcomed release. Keep up the good work with abstaining and with the hands off policy. I’m having to do the same thing here… lol

Wow, that's quite alot. I wondered why it didn't happen to me. Hmm..

10 Days

Ever hornier, it seems. Sexual frustration is still reaching a fever pitch. There's usually a PEAK horniest day, after which the desire becomes mostly manageable. I'd thought that peak arousal would have been Wed. or Thurs. It's unusual for me to be even hornier still today. I usually have excellent self-control. Prior to this wet dream journey, I could always safely stop shy of ejaculating even after enjoying hours, even days of edging. But I don't plan to touch anything today! If I did begin even the briefest massage today, I fear being unable to stop without ejaculating. I'm afraid my body would take over in "automatic mode" until my penis exploded with volley after volley of semen. If I hadn't already invested 10 days in this wet dream quest, I'd probably let my penis explode at this point, forgetting about the very real, really unpleasant post-orgasm blahs until it was too late.

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Hands off! You've worked too hard to make it 10 days to succumb now to temptation.

11 Days

Easily awoke early, refreshed and energetic this morning!! This is really fantastic! Usually it's hard for me to crawl out of bed because I'm so tired. The t-buzz might finally be kicking in after 11 days without masturbating. Possibly this also means 11 days needs to be my absolute bare minimum days between ejaculations, regardless whether they're via WD or giving in to MB. Actually I read that for optimal health, a male's maximum ejaculation frequency should be no more than once every 16 days, preferably longer--i.e. when switching to wet dream mode to completely replace masturbation.

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Very awesome.. I’m on day 11 the same as you…. Like me, your almost certainly running Tbuzz high. I wonder what day 16 will feel like for us? Keep up the great job abstaining.

Still on Day 11; Doing Fine

Just wanted to give some encouragement to those abstaining. Day 11 is really awesome! I'm not bothered at all by horniness today; instead easily able to focus on things I need to get done, and basically just feel great. So if you can just get past days 9 and 10, which were PEAK annoying horny arousal days for me at least, things are a lot better by Day 11.

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Yep.... That's what I get after abstaining as well.

I become more focused when doing work.

All the best to you in achieving your WD.

scorkin21

13 Wonderful Days Thus Far

Wonderfully productive day yesterday. Late evening I suddenly felt that powerful "I MUST CUM now" urge. Do you know that exact feeling?? Fortunately I had already taken a Benydryl for allergies, so fell asleep before I had any chance to possibly masturbate. If not for quickly falling asleep, I might have needed to employ my delay strategy:

When occasional horniness strikes, for me the trick is convincing myself to do nothing except check back LATER. Maybe in a couple hours. Or maybe tomorrow. Whatever I (you) decide. Say to yourself, "OK, if you're STILL really all THAT desperate to cum ASAP (in two hours, tomorrow morning, whatever) we'll CONSIDER options, maybe even including ejaculation .

The beautiful thing is, a couple hours later, I hardly ever still feel like I MUST CUM. When conquering persistent arousal, it's better to opt for the "see if I'm still horny tomorrow morning" option.

My "delay strategy" ultimately preserves my wet dream quest.

Very pleasant t-buzz this morning, but no imminent danger of ejaculating just yet. SO GLAD I did not SPURT SPURT SPURT last night!! 13 days abstinence is pretty good so far, for me.

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Day 15

For me it's mainly the evenings when's it's hardest to resist MB. If/when I'll get to cum is all I can think about sometimes, and have to make a concerted effort to quickly redirect my sexual energy to almost anything other than MB. It's a great way to get long-delayed projects finally completed, like cluttered closets, garages, etc. The "urge" is unusually potent today, yet ironically I really don't have any desire to MB. Maybe I'm finally starting to disassociate "masturbation all the way to ejaculation " as the only possible "solution" to sexual frustration, since MB is such a temporary solution at best? If so that would be a really good, welcome conclusion for my body/mind to make.

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