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Congratulations!!!

Congrats on the wd!!!

37 days since last MB
7 days since last WD

Thanks everyone for the congratulations on my wet dream Nov. 30. I have to admit I was really tempted to mb just once that same day due to the lure of "fully cleaning the pipes" but I did not. The WD orgasm was so much more intense that it made the decision NOT to mb easier at the time. Now that I haven't MB since Oct. 31, and haven't ejac since my Nov. 30 wet dream, I'm almost kinda wishing I had mb on Nov. 30. But alas, I'm now invested 37 days since last MB, and 7 full days since last ejac, so I guess I'll have to hold off . Pretty horny--but in a "good" kind of way for several wonderful days after my Nov. 30 WD. Relative intensity of horniness has def increased the past couple of days. Overall it's not felt bad, mostly feels "refilled, recharged, and rather ready for the the next wet dream." I awoke to super solid, ultra firm morning wood today--which even seemed to be throbbing just a bit. I've been having sexy dreams again, but all was bone dry on my morning wood today. Of course, that morning wood was just itching for attention, so I quickly put on some undies and shorts to keep that temptation "out of sight" at least. I could really, really, really use another WD tonight ...

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Wow, sounds amazing. Good luck on your next one. Did you take any photos?

No. Before I was fully awake, I had rolled over onto the sheet, which was amazingly absorbent. Consequently, this time it would have been hard to see much in a picture. Thanks for your inquiry, though.

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52 days since last MB
22 days since last WD

Overall urge has been reasonably, even surprisingly, tolerable most of the time since my Nov. 30 wet dream . Horniness has finally begun to be more noticeable, perhaps stronger, but usually not overwhelming. Time will tell if this is a temporarily horny phase, but the majority of the time intense horniness is fairly short-lived (few hours, maybe even few days) and thus goes away on its own with no valid reason to MB.

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Oh, that darned brick wall! It would be great if we could feel nothing during AB, and then suddenly, BAM!

Yeah and it comes on unprovoked, just out of no where. But keep going! Things will eventually die way down and then likely your body is going to look for another outlet to all of that frustration. Hence our midnight friend.

Member of January Challenge

Last usual mb: Oct. 31
Last full sexual frustration release: Nov. 30 wet dream
Last fluid release: minimally orgasmic "sleep jerk" ejac on Dec. 29

After successfully resisting countless "spikes" of intense horniness, I was having some really nice sexy dreams on Dec. 29. Gradually I awoke to find myself "sleep jerking" that morning. First time that has happened to me, but others on this forum have encountered that almost subconscious behavior. Anyway, as I felt closer and closer to an impending ejaculation, I finally awoke in time to stop. Then I remembered that for me, anyway, only one ejac is actually worse than none at all. If I'm truly desperate with pent up sexual frustration, it's always taken at least 2 or 3 ejaculations to make a noticeable dent in the horniness factor. I hadn't succumbed to mb for so long that I knew to cum only once probably wouldn't make a dent in my accumulated level of pent up fluid destined for a wet dream. In fact, I knew it would only cause worse horniness. Then I wondered if the markedly increased urge to mb, caused by ejac only once after a lengthy abstinence, might give me a head start on the January challenge--by hopefully accelerating the timetable for future wet dreams. In theory, if true, the greater likelihood of increased number of wet dreams would motivate me to persevere during the January challenge. So on Dec. 29 I allowed the sleep jerking to resume just enough to allow only one cum. Early morning orgasms tend to be the least powerful time of day for me to have them. Thus, the spurts felt nice but not the huge relief that most of us expect an orgasm will/should be.

As expected, I was horny as hell starting Dec. 29. Quite tempted to release more of that pent up sperm Dec. 30 and Dec. 31. Decided if I was truly beyond desperate to cum once more before the end of 2013 I would consider it. But if I could hold off mb till Jan 1, I'd just have to find a way to handle the increased level of libido. Despite the fervent urge to 'clear the pipes' before the end of 2013, I managed to ignore the intense horniness.

In some ways it's been nice starting 2014 by already having a "baseline" level of horniness, as opposed to the "blah" feeling one tends to get after a multi-cum mb session. If I can manage this urge just right, the wet dreams should start coming before the urge to mb becomes overwhelming (thereby reducing chances for wet dreams).

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Hang in there! I know I need to have multiple MB sessions after my AB periods, so I feel for you. But, I think it will help your body to build up to a WD much faster if you abstain. Good luck!

Good on you, Scott! Glad to hear you were successful in resisting the temptation. Well done!

Good luck on your January challenge! And I hope you'll get rid of that urge. Try to focus on the 'prize', or the benefits of ABing.

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Day 17

Amazingly, not particularly horny past couple of days. Awoke to uber strong morning wood with a semi-dried yet pretty thick fluid discharge accompanying it several days ago. I don't remember any wet dream nor ejaculation whatsoever. Yet the fluid was too thick to be just precum. Looked more like actual semen. Anyway, enjoying the reduced level of urge while it lasts--just in case it doesn't. In contrast, was uber horned last week.

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Day 18

Superb conversation in the chat room here last evening/night. Interesting, encouraging, and informative. I always love learning new things. Reminded me of the lively chat room era of 2011-2012.

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Hang in there! We're keeping up with your progress, and you seem to be doing pretty well.

Yes, the last time that I use a chat room was more than a decade ago. I really fns this group encouraging.

I just read your Nov.30 wet dream and i feel so jealous. I hope I can experience it again. Keep it up Scott.

Day 28

Increasing frequency of erotic dreams, albeit none yet wet for January. Super-strong daily morning wood , yet not particularly horny so far this entire past week. While it's nice having a break from the usual relentless urge, it feels unusual NOT having intense desire to MB or ejac.

PS This is my very first posting using Linux Mint 16 Cinnamon. So far it works great!

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Hang in there, you can do it. It's normal for the urges to fade after a while; it just means you're getting closer. Be sure to drink lots of water, and it'll happen soon enough.

Hi Scott, glad you're getting a little break from the strong urges. Hope you can enjoy it!

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Day 16

Last evening I was thinking "Wow, it's been so easy this time to abs for 15 days." Periodic arousal had reasonable and thus not annoying, distracting, nor enticing any significant temptation to . Then I awoke today with diamond-strength morning wood. Now suddenly the powerful urge is back, seemingly out of no where. The "hard to ignore" kind, not just the moderately/pleasantly horned level of urge. Just gotta keep reminding oneself to that intense horniness is only temporary, and "this too shall pass…" Here's a mantra for really horny times; IGNORE. DO NOTHING. IGNORE.

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Day 28

Fairly urgent temptations to last weekend and early in the week. I managed to avoid succumbing to all temptations despite the inability to log in here for moral support. (This was due to a building fiber optic wiring installation for a huge internet upgrade from DSL to FIOS.) Even so, overall manageable urge this week. One exception was a period of seemingly intolerable horniness last evening. I bravely ignored the temptation and instead participated in the chat room here. As usual, the interesting, helpful, diverse chat room dialogue TOTALLY distracted me from the urge until bedtime--when I promptly went to sleep. So that was nice, problem solved. Even better, only minimal morning wood today. Not totally flaccid, yet not emanating any urgent urge. So essentially ideal: just enough morning wood to know everything still works, yet not even close to being a mb temptation. If there is such a thing as an "ideal" or "perfect" level of horniness, today seems like a good example. Anyway, thanks to those who also participated in the convo. Likewise, the journeys chronicled within the forums here quite often also contain helpful ideas, data, comparision/contrasts, etc. which tend to motivate me to consider things in ways I hadn't thought of before. I love learning and it's so cool reading something that makes you think "Wow: that never even occurred to me." Or for me to arrive at the happy realization of "So cool! I've never thought of this subject or situation in this context." Sure, there can be a brief "duh!" moment upon learning something most people likely learned a few years ago. Yet, momentarily feeling stupid can be the best inspiration for learning some concept/idea/strategy that I either didn't know, and/or didn't fully and clearly understand.

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Day 23

I almost gave in to toward the end of March, but held off. So now I've accumulated 23 days abs (so far!) Urge is kinda strong at times but overall pretty tolerable thus far. Side benefit is having some unusually sexy erotic dreams lately. Sexy erotic dreams combined with a really pent-up feeling ought to lead to sexy erotic WET dreams...

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Hey that's pretty good 23 days so fr. it's my record actually;) I'd lke to beat it.

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Day 35

35 days and suddenly struggling. Grateful I have not given in to ANY since March, nor when tempted on day 23, since I did have a fantastic wet dream that night. The wet dream was more powerful than anything I'd felt in quite some time. As such, it seemed to more fully relieve pent-up sexual tension to the extent that the horniness hasn't been altogether intolerable. Sure, there was a strong urge the morning of the Apr. 13 wet dream to MB for that "2nd ej" that guys tend to think is needed to "fully clear" the pipes. I resisted that urge, and have been rewarded with the awesome "sweet spot" of abstinence ever since day 23. Actually kinda enjoying the extra morning wood, t-buzz and random boners. Then inexplicably yesterday, day 35, quite persistent horniness suddenly appeared. I know it's cliché to say one was unbearably horny, but yesterday it was almost all I could do not to MB. I even tried logged in here seeking supportive conversation, but this site was down--something about SQL error. Anyway, to help calm things down, I spent last evening moving things from one storage locker to another. That cured the horniness pretty good. But now this evening it's again a horny struggle. Quite unusual to have 2 consecutive uber horny days. It's tempting, for sure, to consider "clearing the pipes" before the end of April...yet that could also ruin my chances for another intensely powerful wet dream...

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Day 36

Still holding off/hanging in there/continuing abs. Rearranging storage lockers, moving boxes up and down stairs, etc. works so well to cure horniness that I've been doing that work the past 3 evenings. The feverishly urgent pitch of MB urge is a bit calmer now, thankfully, compared to last few days. Which is usually the case. Which means I'm most grateful, of course, that I didn't give in to that measly 10 seconds of during weaker moments in recent days. Even better, I had one of the most intense dreams ever last night. Alas, I awoke with totally dry Jockey briefs, so no wet dream. Just a really nice sexy dream. Which is always a bonus.

Still, I'm taking no chances. Heading out now to sweep and mop out the storage unit in the slightly cooler evening air. Now matter how great the desire, I'll be too tired/dirty/sweaty when I get back to want anything but shower/sleep. To be sure, mopping dusty cement ought to banish "the urge," plus I'm putting the t-buzz to good use all week. Which makes me feel good in a way that no MB ever could.

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Day 12

Getting close to 2 weeks' abstinence now, 12 days so far, after a relapse late last month. Was feeling proud for once that I'd been able to keep "the urge" mostly out of mind. Then yesterday morning a pretty young woman wearing white started fondling my scrotum ...

Don't jump to conclusions. I FINALLY went to get an ultrasound done of an area that could have possibly indicated something serious. (Testicular or some other cancer could have been one possiblity. I know, we should all be doing frequent fondling aka self-exams of our scrotums. But I usually prefer NOT to do extra touching that can lead to MB.) Anyhow, been trying to schedule this since January. With all the delays, I began to think if it was malignant, etc. I might be a goner by now. At the same time, if it was something terminal, I wasn't sure I really wanted to know.

At any rate, staying up all night concerned about this test totally cured my horniness. I showered and left early for an outpatient clinic to which I'd never been before. I'm not sure what I expected, but for some reason it just didn't occur to me that a pretty woman of about age 22 would ask me to get nude and lie down on an exam table. It wasn't until she began sliding her FINGERS and some equipment around my scrotal area that I thought "Holy crap, I really hope I don't get erect." She was really nice, too. Very pleasant in every way. This is one time that an elderly nurse with her hair in a bun, wearing the hats that nurses wear in old movies, might have made things not as hard, so to speak.

Needless to say, her touches were fairly stimulating . Yet it gave me confidence being able to keep from getting more than semi-hard while this was going on. Nervously asking about the sounds her scanning equipment was making (sounded exactly like instant messaging) plus having had no sleep kept things from getting fully erect.

Then there was an agonizing hour-long wait alone on that exam table, under a thin sheet, while specialists decided whether more tests (or even hospitalization) might be needed. Talk about a nail-biter of an hour! It was huge relief better than the best ejac to hear that everything looks OK.

I put a lot of extra concentration into driving home, to help compensate for being so tired. Got some much-needed sleep. Awoke rock hard erect, but am so far successfully resisting the urgent urge to MB. And now the sudden prolonged horniness. Either it's just one of those typical day 12 masturbatory urges. And/or it's a consequence of such a highly emotional roller coaster of a day yesterday. Either way, if I dream about that cute young female in the white lab coat, I'm not going to complain.

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Day 6

Back on the abstinence journey after a brief relapse. Soooooooooooooooooooo many advantages to abstaining rather than MB, including energy, happiness, sociability, etc. Two mornings ago, on day 4, I finally found one, albeit minor, "advantage" to MB: less precum leakage and few spontaneous ejaculations. I was out of the shower, rushing to get dressed in order to be somewhere on time. There was no touching at all in the shower, and only moderate horniness at best. (Nothing even close to a desperate urge to ejac. I had no warning that an involuntary discharge was about to occur.)

Without fail, these "discharges" tend to happen at the most inconvenient times, like that morning of day 4. Just as I'm starting to get dressed, I get an impending sensation of "something" about to happen. Seconds later a LARGE quantity of fluid begins slowly but surely flowing from the glans. Not quick like ejaculatory spurts. Yet not trivial like minor precum leakage. The viscosity of the fluid was thicker then precum, and not purely clear as pre-c tends to be. And it KEPT flowing for several minutes, at least. I kept cleaning up the mess and putting on fresh Jockey briefs--only to find more fluid. Keep in mind I was on the verge of heading out the door into rush hour traffic.

After stepping into the 4th pair of fresh briefs, I finally resorted to placing a paper towel inside there to catch the continuing leakage--as I HAD to get on the road asap. When I arrived at my destination, the paper towel was stuck like glue to my glans! It hurt at bit removing the towel. Yet at least my slacks showed no wet spot. Nothing to report since then other that typical horniness to be expected when one is on the verge of a full week of abstinence.

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It's good that you made it to your appointment on time...

Thank you, iroselyem!

Day 7 - aka 1st FULL week

"The urge" hit full force Saturday. It's a bit more challenging when that most insistent of urges known to red-blooded humans hits on a weekend. "This too shall pass" is helpful to keep in mind, because the urge varies in its intensity. It's on a continuum ranging from "must mb now or will die" to "this is quite manageable --why did it seem so urgent yesterday." Can't tell you how often I've felt like I couldn't possibly hold off another minute much less another day, somehow convince myself to wait till the next day, and sure enough, urge is gone or minimal.

I had a rare bit of good luck and fortunate timing Saturday evening, when hormones and horniness were raging into a tempest of temptation : my dad called and was quite talkative over an hour. Great convo, actually. Some of u might say, ok, yeah, talking with a parent would help take one's mind off horniness. It gets better: My stepmother made the phone call before my dad came on the line. A few words from my stepmother is among the best boner-killers known to mankind. Guaranteed to cure horniness for hours on end. A few worlds from her, regardless of topic, and it's as though one has put ice cubes into his Jockey shorts. Guaranteed erection reducer/boner killer/abstinence saver.

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Day 8

"The urge" was unusually intense early this evening. Once again, I'm saved by an unexpected, 164-minute phone call from my brother. He's quite a talker, to be sure. (Yep, I'm the introverted one.) But reliving and laughing over various memories from our childhood had the pleasant side-effect of toning down my persistent horniness, waaaay down, to almost non-existent. Guess I was distracted enough by the phone call to forget about being horny. Either way, it works for me.

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