Wet Dream Or Bust

[CHIP]

Congrats on 15 days!!!

[Scott]

Thanks Chip!

Day 16 - Waves of minor, yet very pleasant contractions last night.

Had an interesting, pleasurable experience last night as I was drifting off to sleep. Waves of minor, yet very pleasant contractions suddenly just started happening as I was almost asleep. I remember hoping that I went all the way asleep, since this seemed like a sign that my body is ripe for a wet dream. The sensations continued for several minutes, at least! And then I did fall asleep with this still happening. Alas, there were no signs of any discharge when I woke up this morning. Not even a dry stain. Nor any dream whatsoever. Still, this is the 1st time anything exactly like this has happened to me. Bladder and bowels were empty, so I can't attribute it to fullness/pressure in either one of those--as sometimes happens to members of this forum.

So there was no semen. And no dream. Just highly pleasurable contractions in the genital area. I was wearing a Puma athletic short which includes a built-in brief.

[Squeeze]

Dude, that's awesome. Sounds like your body is "priming the pump" so to speak, haha. Keep holdin' on--it should be time for your engine to engage full blast soon! :lol:

[Scott]

17 Days Without Ejaculating - A few thoughts/ideas I've found useful/helpful

One would think running commando would be too much sensitivity for the penis. But I've found that after a brief initial wave of it being too stimulating from the penis rubbing inside the shorts, the body gets used to the dick flopping around and "turns off" the penile sensitivity nerves.

It's kinda like when you try vigorously rubbing only the glans (but nothing else) when you're super horny: For a moment the glans is way too sensitive, then before long your body just wants you to stop entirely rather than continue MB only the glans. Glans-only massage is a great way to get a little stimulation with far less risk of ejaculation. It helps to wrap a thick towel around all of your penis except the head. Sometimes I'll massage the entire head (glans), or sometimes only the meatus (the very tip), with the palm of my hand. It's very hard to cum that way, so is a good way to save all one's semen exclusively for wet dreams. Also excellent is touching only the frenulum with only 1 finger with very slow, small circles. IF you're already planning to ejaculate, that's a great way to do it. It's also a great way just to edge, since the small circles method takes quite a while before you can't stand any more and either have to quit or ejaculate.

I agree with what some forum members have said about maintaining a degree of sexual interest in the penis Currently I'm on day 17 of a no-touching abstinence. But usually when I'm abstaining, I do exactly the same as Scorkin said: "As for touching my dick, if sexual frustrations are back, I won;t do anything to it. But if nothing happens like last 2 weeks, then I will occasionally give it some warming-up, but no worries, I won't let it ejaculate." Nicely put! Yeah, I think it's good to have consistent morning wood, etc. as reassurance that the body is still physically charged, sexually. When abstaining for longer periods I've encountered day(s) without any desire, no erections. That's when I do a little teasing just so the penis doesn't "forget" about sex. Usually only a few pumps, just enough to get it fully erect, and usually only once a day, sometimes twice. The tricky part is how many pumps. I'm in complete control of ejaculation, so I have no problem making sure I stop before cumming, unless I've decided beforehand that this will be a rare chance to ejaculate. I shoot for enough pumps to get a nice, firm hard-on, but not enough to get blue balls. If my libido has been particularly absent, I keep pumping until I start to feel throbbing or contractions, but no more. It helps to stroke only one direction, to reduce the risk of unintended ejaculation. Thus, I enjoy have at least one full erection every day, whether it's naturally occurring or I have to make it happen manually.

[scorkin21]

I agree with what some forum members have said about maintaining a degree of sexual interest in the penis Currently I'm on day 17 of a no-touching abstinence. But usually when I'm abstaining, I do exactly the same as Scorkin said: "As for touching my dick, if sexual frustrations are back, I won;t do anything to it. But if nothing happens like last 2 weeks, then I will occasionally give it some warming-up, but no worries, I won't let it ejaculate." Nicely put! Yeah, I think it's good to have consistent morning wood, etc. as reassurance that the body is still physically charged, sexually. When abstaining for longer periods I've encountered day(s) without any desire, no erections. That's when I do a little teasing just so the penis doesn't "forget" about sex. Usually only a few pumps, just enough to get it fully erect, and usually only once a day, sometimes twice. The tricky part is how many pumps. I'm in complete control of ejaculation, so I have no problem making sure I stop before cumming, unless I've decided beforehand that this will be a rare chance to ejaculate. I shoot for enough pumps to get a nice, firm hard-on, but not enough to get blue balls. If my libido has been particularly absent, I keep pumping until I start to feel throbbing or contractions, but no more. It helps to stroke only one direction, to reduce the risk of unintended ejaculation. Thus, I enjoy have at least one full erection every day, whether it's naturally occurring or I have to make it happen manually.

Hey TooFull, glad that you actuall share the same sentiments as me.
Well, I tend to do that because that after a few weeks of no action, there will be this tendency to feel if there is anything wrong with your little brother.

I'm now on day 49, 7 weeks, my longest ever achieved. I did some pumps on my dick yesterday night, edged again as mentioned 2 days before, for 10 minutes. This time round, I went abit further, the strong sense of orgasm was there, lucky i managed to stop in time. I pulled my balls all the way down, gritted my teeth, hoping that it will just not spurt out anything. And what I saw was a penis that was there throbbing for almost 30 minutes. After everything, a small drop of sticky stuff, which i presumed was semen, came out. It was just a drop, and I think it was actually part of the main bulk that is going to come out shoud I have been not be able to hold it that long.

I guess I'm going to follow what you say. We have complete control of our ejaculation. And I'm glad that I did not ejaculate after that edging yesterday night. I'm just going to give my penis that few little pumps to make it erect, and THAT'T IT!!

Thanks for your advice.

scorkin21

[Scott]

20 Days w/o MB

Absolutely exquisite t-buzz all day long today. It's no exaggeration to say: Feels simply fantastic. 20 days w/o MB must be the sweet spot of perfect arousal--not unreasonably horny, yet not too blah. Wish there was some way to stay right at the 20-day mark.

Yesterday, on day 19, I did a 5-mile run in commando! At first it was nice and stimulating having my junk rubbing against the soft cloth of an oversized pair of shorts. I am not planning nor scheduled to ejaculate any time soon, but for a moment there yesterday I thought I might be. No worries, though: Before the first mile was up, though, my body was somehow totally used to the new stimulation. My penis continued to bounce around, touching the loose cloth of the shorts, but the erection went down for the remaining 4 miles! It's seems so unlikely that would be the outcome, yet it was. I don't understand this, but am, as always, extremely thankful I did not ejaculate.

[Scott]

Hey TooFull, glad that you actuall share the same sentiments as me.
Well, I tend to do that because that after a few weeks of no action, there will be this tendency to feel if there is anything wrong with your little brother.

I'm now on day 49, 7 weeks, my longest ever achieved. I did some pumps on my dick yesterday night, edged again as mentioned 2 days before, for 10 minutes. This time round, I went abit further, the strong sense of orgasm was there, lucky i managed to stop in time. I pulled my balls all the way down, gritted my teeth, hoping that it will just not spurt out anything. And what I saw was a penis that was there throbbing for almost 30 minutes. After everything, a small drop of sticky stuff, which i presumed was semen, came out. It was just a drop, and I think it was actually part of the main bulk that is going to come out shoud I have been not be able to hold it that long.

I guess I'm going to follow what you say. We have complete control of our ejaculation. And I'm glad that I did not ejaculate after that edging yesterday night. I'm just going to give my penis that few little pumps to make it erect, and THAT'T IT!!

Thanks for your advice.

scorkin21

Hello Scorkin,

Thank you for the update. Glad you're hanging in there. Remember no so you don't ruin your plan for getting wet dreams. Yes, I've been known to do a little massaging at times just to make sure nothing has "died" down there! Usually I'm careful to limit that touching to only a few quick pumps. Just enough to get hard, so I know that my penis still is capable of erections. (Not that I should have any doubt, but still it's nice to reassure that it remains potentially functional, and a few quick pumps tells me it's "ready to go" if/when I need it to be. I usually only do that if I haven't felt any arousal in days or longer.) Whenever I get a lot closer to the situation you described as "This time round, I went abit further, the strong sense of orgasm was there, lucky i managed to stop in time. I pulled my balls all the way down, gritted my teeth, hoping that it will just not spurt out anything. And what I saw was a penis that was there throbbing for almost 30 minutes" I pretty much have to totally back off for a few days, at least. If I get "close" like this two days in a row, it's too tempting to waste it all for that 8 seconds of bliss immediately followed by blah.

[CHIP]

20 days w/o MB must be the sweet spot of perfect arousal--not unreasonably horny, yet not too blah. Wish there was some way to stay right at the 20-day mark.

I agree...

You & Me buddy.. Were still both on the same day, no wd for me as of yet... You wanna race? First one to tossoff looses.. hehe

p/s Be careful with the running… lol

[Scott]

20 days w/o MB must be the sweet spot of perfect arousal--not unreasonably horny, yet not too blah. Wish there was some way to stay right at the 20-day mark.

I agree...

You & Me buddy.. Were still both on the same day, no wd for me as of yet... You wanna race? First one to tossoff looses.. hehe

p/s Be careful with the running… lol

Yeah Chip, one of those periodic temporary horny waves was coursing through my veins on Sunday evening when I went running commando. I don't think I've done that in years, certainly not 5 miles. T-buzz gives you courage, in a more positive way than beer. So it's easy to think "Let's do this, and if I ejaculate, even better." Yet, I've never been able to ejac. from going commando, whether walking, running, or anything. Thank God I didn't ejaculate, or I would have totally missed out on an awesome t-buzz day all day yesterday! (Anyone notice how often we're grateful we didn't ejaculate? It seems no one ever reports he's glad he couldn't control his body enough not to cum.) The experiment Sunday did nicely rev up my arousal engine, possibly contributing to a spectacular, stronger t-buzz day yesterday. Of your days 1-21 thus far, which have been peak arousal days/moments/activities for you--in terms of having to make extra effort to successfully resist MB and/or ejaculation?

[CHIP]

Hey man.. What’s up..?

So, its mutually agreed were in this together.. Hehe
I kinda like not being allowed to cum.

Honestly, you’re right, I haven’t been struggling much with the temptation to jackoff. The hardest for me was the first week or so. Since then, I have been trying to keep my mind off my dick and preoccupied with other stuff. (I’ve been spending a lot of time in the gym) I also really enjoy the Tbuzz I’m getting from not tossing off, and I think I’ve been able to refocus that back into my workouts as well. One of the few ways I think I have been able to not be as tempted is, that I haven’t been looking at porn very often, and I haven’t edged at all. (okay, okay…almost once…but I stopped after a few strokes) hehe Keeping a hands-off policy has really helped me out.

Peak arousal days/moments/activities for you--in terms of having to make extra effort to successfully resist MB and/or ejaculation, have been for me… while running if not wearing a jock or sport briefs… Shower time (so I shower quick now) riding my bike over long distances… can't help this one because the seat is in my crotch….and once eating mayo… Cant explain this one (odd, I know)… but stay away from the mayonnaise/miracle whip while abstaining... But overall…my advice is…keep your hands off your dick…no edging, and no porn. I want my body to realize that it no longer has the option to get off during the day manually by masturbation, and realize that in order to release a WD/SE has to be the only option.

Good lucky buddy…keep me updated…and keep your hands off your cock. hehe

[Roderick]

Keep your hands off. I'm trying also and I have the same situation as you. I get very horny. But we got to keep strong. I'm on day 37 and also starting to go commando, which I feel it's great, especially for running a bike. Congrats, wish you luck, and you wish me luck too!!!

[Scott]

Day 22

An unusually powerful spike of sexually frustrated arousal swept over me last evening. Almost subconsciously found my hand giving it a few "power strokes" to the point of achieving full, rock hard erection, and before long a throb or two. Immediately I completely stopped cold. Not a single drop of anything came out, though! No precum, no semen, nothing. A guy really should never edge. But if you do find yourself edging, be sure to make it a "dry edging." That is, only edge a little bit. Stop edging way before you start seeing any precum. It's a lot easier to stop then. Once you start seeing precum, it's just to dangerous to risk the consequences of continuing any additional touching--ejaculation. The only time I continue edging myself to the point of dripping precum is when I'm already scheduled--and planning--to cum. Only then I bring myself to the absolute edge of orgasm and stop, over and over again, until I absolutely can't stand it any more. No ejaculation is currently scheduled for me, however.

I needed some sort of release last night, though, so ran 5 miles. Going exercising with a 21-day load of cum is actually really wonderful. By the time I got home I did feel as though I had relieved sexual frustration. Maybe exercise is just as good as cumming? Maybe ever better than cumming. Hard to believe there's a feeling in this world truly better than the exquisite bliss of a full load of spurting ejaculation. It seems like going running actually is. Maybe it's the powerful combination of extreme horniness of 21 days without an ejaculation combined with the endorphins generated by the exercise? At any rate, running is tons more fun with fully loaded testicles. Or course, everything is a LOT more fun when ejaculation is no longer an option...

[Scott]

Still On Day 22 - Spontaneous Emission

It's true the body knows when it's truly "too full" and will take care of that dilemma for you! There's no need to ever actually touch your penis for relief.

I don't mind extreme horniness. Heck, I welcome the ALIVE feeling that 22 spectacular days of sexual frustration is currently giving me! It's the testicular tension/aching/fullness/pain that more likely gets to me, tempting me to waste and ruin it all by ejaculating. Today I was feeling blue balls and all these things, thinking a slow, delicate massage, BJ, handjob, ANYTHING to release the pent-up seminal fluid. Then 5 minutes ago, bingo, problem solved! I hadn't had a bm today, so it seemed like it was time for one. But that did not happen. Instead, before I could get to a bathroom or even remove my briefs, I began seeing a rapidly expanding wet spot inside them, which had already soaked thru to my slacks! After removing the pants and briefs, I saw tons of rather thick, slightly yellowish semen flowing out of my penis!. It didn't spurt; instead there were about 7 separate discharges of semen, each roughly equivalent to a normal spurt of cum. I did not touch my penis at all; this release was all automatic. There was no orgasm at all, and I still feel plenty horny. My balls don't ache as much now, though. So it seems my body did give me some welcome relief! If this delays my wet dream, however, I'd have just as soon forfeited today's release. But I guess there's no way I could have kept that semen from escaping.

I wouldn't say it was 22 days' worth of semen, but certainly it looked like 5 days' worth. It was definitely not precum. I'm not at home to get fresh briefs or pants, so I had to scoop out the semen as best possible and put these back on. Still, it'd be nice to have dry pants and briefs. What do other guys do about the mess that such a large SE leaves behind? Maybe I should just go commando the rest of the day, since my slacks are not as soaked as my briefs.

[CHIP]

Hey man, congrats on your SE/Release today…I bet your balls feel a lot better. What a load off. Hehe Very Cool….

Now, I hope it’s my turn, soon.... Im still hoping for some sort of release. (either by a WD or SE, I don’t care which at this point….) The testicular tension/aching/fullness/pain is still very intense here. Did you end up going commando? Maybe you should start bringing an extra pair of briefs with you.. hehe

[Roderick]

Day 22

An unusually powerful spike of sexually frustrated arousal swept over me last evening. Almost subconsciously found my hand giving it a few "power strokes" to the point of achieving full, rock hard erection, and before long a throb or two. Immediately I completely stopped cold. Not a single drop of anything came out, though! No precum, no semen, nothing. A guy really should never edge. But if you do find yourself edging, be sure to make it a "dry edging." That is, only edge a little bit. Stop edging way before you start seeing any precum. It's a lot easier to stop then. Once you start seeing precum, it's just to dangerous to risk the consequences of continuing any additional touching--ejaculation. The only time I continue edging myself to the point of dripping precum is when I'm already scheduled--and planning--to cum. Only then I bring myself to the absolute edge of orgasm and stop, over and over again, until I absolutely can't stand it any more. No ejaculation is currently scheduled for me, however.

I needed some sort of release last night, though, so ran 5 miles. Going exercising with a 21-day load of cum is actually really wonderful. By the time I got home I did feel as though I had relieved sexual frustration. Maybe exercise is just as good as cumming? Maybe ever better than cumming. Hard to believe there's a feeling in this world truly better than the exquisite bliss of a full load of spurting ejaculation. It seems like going running actually is. Maybe it's the powerful combination of extreme horniness of 21 days without an ejaculation combined with the endorphins generated by the exercise? At any rate, running is tons more fun with fully loaded testicles. Or course, everything is a LOT more fun when ejaculation is no longer an option...

So true!!!! exercising relieves horniness and also it feels great after days of abstinence and greater if you do it commando with your schlong bouncing around. I believe exercise is better than edging or watching porn because it doesn't drive to Mb. And also Congrats for your SE. I'm hoping to have one someday. I'm now on day 39 and my balls start to ache, it's like sperm wants to go out.

[Scott]

Day 23

Rest assured that testicular tension/aching/fullness/pain does go away sooner or later, even without a spontaneous emission. Every time I'm tempted thinking ejaculation is the only answer for scrotal discomfort, I make myself wait at least another couple days. The thinking is "If my balls still hurt this much in x days, maybe I'll consider letting it cum." It's merely a waiting game. Like most other discomforts, such as muscle sprains, time heals all wounds. That includes tension in the testicles as well. Don't ever fall into the trap of thinking ejaculation is the only option. You'll feel awful the next day, realizing you've likely lost your wet dream for this week/month.

The SE yesterday did sap my sexual energy more than I would have liked. Now I'm really missing that enjoyable super horny feeling. In a way it's good, though, not being such a slave to one's sex drive. It really does get easier to forego MB once you make it past 20 days without an orgasm. I went on a factory tour last evening with lots of pretty young things. It was deliciously arousing getting hot and sweaty walking around with these young things in an un-air conditioned building. When getting home from something like that, typically I'd have to exercise total self-control not to MB. Yet last night the "urge" wasn't as overwhelming, and I actually missed that. I haven't MB since June 30. I haven't had any orgasm since June 30. I'm surprised that yesterday's spontaneous emission could ruin that horny feeling so much. It was a LOT of cum, though. Maybe I need to build up more sexual frustration so I have plenty to spare in case of another SE. Maybe once I get to impressive numbers like Scorkin, like 70+ days without ejaculating, that will occur. I'm sure my body would be better off in wet dream mode, without ever ejaculating any other way. From what I read, guys in regular wet dream mode don't suffer the debilitating loss of energy that a spontaneous ejaculation or jacking off causes.

[Roderick]

I've heard also that SE does not ruin the WD day count. I don't know but keep waiting don't fall into Mb, for me it's better like this, MB turned into something supergood into something automatic and rutinary, I felt a slave to MB. Let's all not be slaves of MB, let's keep waiting for a WD!!!!

[CHIP]

Hey man, it looks like our bodies are on the same schedule somehow… lol odd

Interesting Day for me …. This morning I skipped my normal workout and did some crunches, then I had the urge to take a leak… So, I went to the bathroom and I notice that my piss is kinda sticky and clear like precum, and then all the sudden my limp dick throbbed a couple times and I had shot a thick load of white cum. I had a spontaneous ejaculation too….I cant believe it. My balls instantly felt a release of pressure and the head of my dick became overly sensitive. But... Oddly enough I immediately became super horney afterwards and I almost had to toss of right after that. Somehow I managed to hold on & refrain from jacking off. I felt like I was close to cumming again / having another SE the rest of the day, even though some of the pressure was released. I’m glad I was able to have the SE today, and I fell a lot better.. But, its too bad it didn’t happen in a WD. At least I know I’m running on full. Hehe

[Texanguy]

The SE yesterday did sap my sexual energy more than I would have liked. Now I'm really missing that enjoyable super horny feeling.

I think the super horny feelings will be back soon, much sooner than after MB. Hopefully your brain/bdoy will start having 'SE's' only when asleep at night, accompanied by great dreams.

Going exercising with a 21-day load of cum is actually really wonderful. By the time I got home I did feel as though I had relieved sexual frustration. ... Or course, everything is a LOT more fun when ejaculation is no longer an option...

It's true the body knows when it's truly "too full" and will take care of that dilemma for you! There's no need to ever actually touch your penis for relief.

I don't mind extreme horniness. Heck, I welcome the ALIVE feeling that 22 spectacular days of sexual frustration is currently giving me!

I'm sure my body would be better off in wet dream mode, without ever ejaculating any other way.

You are obviously a guy who enjoys the t-buzz and other effects of abstaining from MB a great deal. Could you ever enjoy going back to frequent MB?

Good luck in reaching full WD mode soon!

[Scott]

Day 24

Thanks Texanguy. You're right: the super horny feelings are back soon after a SE. Today they're back in full force, as is the sensitive feeling of fullness and minor discomfort in the scrotum. But I'm loving it, full testicles, overfilled prostate, and all! Last night I came dangerously close to losing it all by nearly cumming in public during my exercise routine!! This honestly happened verbatim exactly as I'm relating. I'm almost wish it was an exaggeration, because if I'm ever going to have a chance to cum again, I do not want it to be in public!

I went on the nearby exercise trail as usual, wearing Puma athletic shorts that have a built-in brief. I intentionally bought snug ones and wore those. After 24 days without masturbating to ejaculation, I didn't want to risk the friction of my genitals bobbing around. Plus, I'm already plenty horny most days, so usually do not want nor need additional stimulation. I've posted before that I've NEVER been able to cum while exercising, including walking, running, swimming. So I'd taken the proper precautions, and thus expected not to get even remotely close to ejaculating.

I started getting aroused about 10 minutes into the brisk walk. Nothing unusal, mild to moderate arousal sometimes occurs. But...for the first time EVER the arousal kept getting stronger and stronger. I was honestly feeling the sensations noticeable right before ejaculating! Yet I wasn't even fully erectJust them some cute gals were coming the other direction on the trail. Of course!! I gritted my teeth and fought to hold back the ejaculation, because 1) I've saved up 24 days thus far for a wet dream; and 2) I was afraid that likely mind-blowing orgasm would hit me right the moment I was meeting these women on the trail. I was afraid if they saw me convulsing in ejaculation, what would they think? That I'm having a heart attack, seizure, or something? Would they call an ambulance for me? How embarrassing to admit, "Never mind; I was just having an involuntary orgasm inside my shorts."

After passing the gals, once again I felt that familiar surge building steadily ever closer to orgasm. Just when I was overcome with sexual frustration enough to rationalize "Oh well, if it's going to spurt, just let it spurt" I met more people on the trail and once again squeezed hard to stop the pending ejaculation. I'm sure I was at 99% of ejaculation. This scenario happened 3 times in all. After meeting the 3rd group of people, I was finally alone on the trail. I was sooooo horny by this point I figured I've GOT to let it CUM now. You know the amazing part? Once I was finally alone on the trail, my penis settled down! I even walked an extra mile, 6 miles total, hoping it might get aroused again enough to cum. But nothing. So I figured I'm going to have to cum when I get home or else. Yet after 6 miles, I got home tired and went to sleep without ejaculating. They don't know it, but those 3 groups of people I met on the trail saved me from a terrible BLAH morning today, since they helped prevent me from losing any precious semen.

I'm very grateful I didn't let any semen escape. But the trail incident raises questions:

1. After 24 days, am I so full of cum that a mere brisk walk might put me at risk of ejaculating?
2. Since I clearly felt the semen rising toward my urethra, why did my body let me get so overstimulated, then not let me cum? Is it because I successfully fought back the ejaculation 3 times on the trail--then when I finally had the trail to myself in order the cum, the ejaculation had been thwarted by the 3 times I fought it while meeting people on the trail?

[Roderick]

WOW great thing that happened to you, I've never had an SE but if their pleasurable I will likely have them. Also look on my journal my last post with a tip for the summer that I discovered today while swimming in the pool.

[Texanguy]

1. After 24 days, am I so full of cum that a mere brisk walk might put me at risk of ejaculating?
2. Since I clearly felt the semen rising toward my urethra, why did my body let me get so overstimulated, then not let me cum? Is it because I successfully fought back the ejaculation 3 times on the trail--then when I finally had the trail to myself in order the cum, the ejaculation had been thwarted by the 3 times I fought it while meeting people on the trail?

I think your situation is more psychological and hormonal, rather than just having 24 days worth of semen. After all, you had just had a large SE two days before. I think your body 'not letting you cum' later is natural, and perhaps a good thing. Isn't that what WD's are for?

Not everyone gets SE's like you have been getting when they abstain, but that does not mean that you won't get a WD soon. Some people can get WD's on successive nights and even twice in the same night, so you don't have to be excessively 'full' to have a WD.

It seems like you've been enjoying abstaining so much that it's only a small step to conclude that you simply can't enjoy MB any more. I think a lot of full time WDers don't have an interest in MB. If MB is no longer very exciting, and it is impossible for MB to give a guy what he wants, resisting MB can change into no longer wanting to MB, and even finding MB a complete turn off.

Some guys enjoy the effects of not MBing more than others, but it seems to be a built in brain/body function to like the feelings of going without MB, and therefore quite natural to do so. Perhaps that means that it's natural to 'mature' past MB as an outlet, embrace and enjoy the enhanced sexuality that comes with not MBing, and have WD's as an exclusive outlet.

Good luck in continuing the journey!

[Scott]

Day 26 since I last masturbated to ejaculation

Scorkin, I gave your commando strategy a real test Friday! After my super "verge-of-ejaculating" blue balls arousal while exercising Thursday evening, by Friday morning unexpectedly the intense horniness had miraculously dissipated, and I felt really good! Minor t-buzz, slightly horny (perfect, really), balls no longer aching. (It's true that blue balls does go away on its on. Just leave them alone!) One would think I was tempting fate by going commando all day Fri., doing lots of errands, shopping etc. Amazingly, commando didn't bother me one bit! No arousal, minimal erection, not even a remote chance of a SE or other ejaculation. Saturday was also great, not overly horny. Sat. nite a sudden wave of significant horniness (could also call it t-buzz, I guess?) did return, so I again tempted fate by exercising in those same Puma athletic shorts with the built-brief. Now I'm thinking it's not so much that the shorts alone are arousing. Rather, my penis and scrotum is extra sensitive and thus more easily stimulated from 26 days since I last masturbated. Like happened during Thursday evening's workout, I got nicely--but this time not unreasonably--aroused on the trail. This time I simply didn't worry about whether I'd lose everything with an involuntary ejaculation. I didn't fight it. What happened is I got enough wonderful, extra energy that I ran/walked 10 miles, instead of just 5. There was a delicious, arousing t-buzz that periodically felt like "the cum is rising," but evidently the body is not designed to cum while vigorously walking/running. There never seemed to be any real risk of getting extremely close to cumming. Rather, I had a gloriously invigorating workout. And, just like the Thursday workout, when I got home--the horniness had again almost magically disappeared. Of course, after 10 miles, I was almost too tired to even be able to MB, even if I wanted to. Now the morning of Day 26, a delicious t-buzz is going, with mild to moderate horniness. More importantly, the blue balls have totally gone away! So all is pretty prefect!

[augustflame1]

I'm glad for everyone who has lasted this long and too full keep it up

[Scott]

29 Days since I last MB to ejac
Got LAID yesterday, but only one ejac. So still plenty horny today. Hands off!!

Avoiding things that are stimulating has helped keep the arousal pleasantly manageable. Went to a party Mon. nite where the importance of blowjobs was discussed at length. There was no sex at this party, just lots of talk about sex. That night I did have a vivid dream about being in a hot tub with some females, who kept reaching into my shorts. In the dream I kept telling them to stop every time I got too close to cumming. Maybe I was stupid, being overly cautious, or maybe I just didn't want the hot tub encounter to ever end. We were in hot tub for hours, it seemed. Too bad I didn't cum in the dream, and unfortunately my briefs were dry when I awoke. All this stimulation did make me extra horny, though. So my resistance was low when I was offered a chance to get laid last night, for the 1st time since June. I'm in control of my body enough, and still had enough willpower, that I even asked her, "Are you sure?" I was amazingly willing to forego sex, 'cause I'm so focused on getting wet dream. However, once she touched me, all hell broke loose. After a half hour of very slow, teasing, delicate foreplay, we began, and I managed to last maybe 10 minutes tops before having an intensely powerful ejaculation. Probably one of the best orgasms I've ever had. It was almost too powerful, if that's even possible! She offered to go again, but for the sake of my wet dream quest I figured I'd better limit it to only one ejaculation. Plus, that way the unbearably horny feeling I miss should come back much sooner. I've read that after a long period of abstaining you might be OK with only one ejaculation. It's that 2nd cum that really kills your energy and t-buzz. I think avoiding ejaculation entirely is best. But if you're going to cum, do it only very rarely, and only once.

[CHIP]

Hey man...congrats.. hehe

[Roderick]

Blue balls do go on the own, but I think you maybe have something different or something, man, I'm 45 days now and I haven't ever had an SE. Feel lucky.

[Texanguy]

It's interesting that with all the horniness, SE's, and lack of orgasms that you still could last, and even kept the pleasures of abstaining in mind. I think that contrary to abstaining making a guy more promiscuous, it can make a guy more choosey because he has more to lose.

Maybe this experience can help bring on WD's by helping you to stay completely away from edging. Go forward, not back. Good luck!

[Scott]

31 Days since I last MB to ejac
Got LAID July 28, but only ejaculated ONCE. So still plenty horny today.

Thank you to those who've offered guidance and insight, including Texanguy, Chip, Scorkin, and Roderick. I haven't MB myself to ejac for over a month! That's a record!! I've been trying to eliminate ALL edging, too, as advised by Texanguy. Lately I'd been missing my t-buzz, amazingly dead/gone since getting laid only one time on July 28. So yesterday I edged myself to within 1 second of ejaculating 5 separate times, hoping that possibly this will bring my t-buzz back faster. Will it? Don't worry, I never did actually cum at all. I always stopped cold in plenty of time to prevent any ejaculation. I think I overdid it, though, 'cause that racheted up the horniness meter more than I expected ever since last evening. Usually blue balls goes completely away overnight. And they did, but I awoke today still hornier than I would prefer, and this arousal coursing through my veins has continued all day today despite no touching whatsoever. It feels like I could explode in ejaculation with about 3 strokes. But I know that's precisely the type of sexual energy we forum members are working so hard to redirect, into wet dream and other higher pursuits. Am wondering if/when this self-induced arousal will die down on its own? Or if now I have no choice but to waste it in an unplanned ejaculation?

Am also wondering if I would have been better off cumming twice July 28, when I had the chance, during intercourse, after having gone 28 days without any ejaculation at that point? I thought I could get by with only one ejaculation, to "keep the tanks as full as possible." Now that the persistent, nagging horny feeling has hit, it's begging for sexual release. Tempting, tempting. But I know I always seem to regret MB, especially when it's within a few days of my last ejaculation. But, I only came once July 28, after going 28 days without ejaculating...

[Texanguy]

Lately I'd been missing my t-buzz, amazingly dead/gone since getting laid only one time on July 28. So yesterday I edged myself to within 1 second of ejaculating 5 separate times, hoping that possibly this will bring my t-buzz back faster....

I think I overdid it, though, 'cause that racheted up the horniness meter more than I expected ever since last evening....

Tempting, tempting. But I know I always seem to regret MB, especially when it's within a few days of my last ejaculation. But, I only came once July 28, after going 28 days without ejaculating...

I think that you would have been better off waiting for the t-buzz and horniness to come back on their own. The idea is to separatethe t-buzz and horniness from MB, not reinforce their connection by edging. During your 31 days, did you ever feel the t-buzz and not feel like MBing? Wasn't that better than having to resist the temptation to MB?

It's hard to prove a negative, but if you read posts by non-MBers who have and enjoy frequent WD's, they simply never mention edging.

And yes, if you MB you'll regret it.