Wet Dream Or Bust

[Scott]

I may be better off skipping sexual encounters entirely. The one I experienced yesterday seemed to increase, not decrease, my arousal. (And the sex & orgasm were mediocre at best.) After two entire days of this usually high, incessant horniness, my body said "enough" and persuaded me to MB once this evening, 17 days after my last MB on 12/31/2010. For what it's worth, it was my first major (i.e. explosive) orgasm since Nov. 2010. If going without MB cold turkey isn't effective, maybe I'll opt to try dwindling ejaculatory experiences spaced further and further apart until I'm no longer MB at all. Maybe initially the 1st and 15th of the month, the drop down to once per month, etc. For what it's worth, the 17 days without MB have STILL left my body fully aroused. And, I've only MB ONCE in 2011! So my body may still be shifting into WD mode. It would be so nice to be totally in wet dream mode, not having to even waste any time lamenting how long it's been since my last MB.

[Scott]

OK, so really, really aroused today, ironically, despite yesterday and Sunday. But enough is enough. Yesterday's activity will just have to suffice. Perhaps I am better off cold turkey with no MB whatsoever. Maybe it's akin to "breaking the seal" when you're at a concert or on a road trip. (You know, when you've been drinking beer or soda at a crowded venue where a bathroom is not readily available. The saying is that you can last a very long time without having to take a piss UNTIL: Once you go urinate the first time at the event, you've "broken the seal" and will then have to then piss again fairly soon.) It's happened to me once several beers finally work their way to my bladder, then the rest of the whatever I've been drinking soon also wants to be let out.

[Scott]

My body's already exhibiting persistent horniness. Hard to believe I'd be so horned up so soon. It's the "annoying" type of arousal that makes it hard to concentrate on other things. The body keeps saying "Let's just take care of this..." But that's not what my mind wants.

[Sovr'gnChancellor£]

How is it going mate?

Hang in there!

[Scott]

How is it going mate?

Hang in there!

Thank you for checking in, Sovr'gn. I've just made it a full week without MB, so feeling a tad "full" but not overwhelming. I don't foresee giving in any time soon. I'd love to make it at least 61 days like you did!

How has your quest been going?

[Sovr'gnChancellor£]

Hey TooFull! I am back in the game after many painful falls!!

I am trying to restore my status as an AB King! Currently on day 5 and going strong!

What about you? Keep it going!

[Scott]

Thanks all. I haven't MB since mid-February!!! Been redirecting my sexual energy to other more worthwhile pursuits. HOWEVER, ever since last evening, all I can think about is how BADLY I want (need?) to EJACULATE. I've been doing so well, and now it's hard to think about anything else. Extremely tempted last night, but got to sleep without ejac. Usually, I'm fine the next morning after a close call like that. In this case, today the desire has not gone down at all...

[Scott]

I've avoided all masturbation since April. So now I'm getting to the difficult days where it's getting very hard to resist the temptation.

[Scott]

Day 7

Just made it a FULL week without MB! Very proud of this, though can already tell today's going to be difficult, filled with temptation. I just need to resist the desire.

[xanthier]

Hang in there, if you can at least go a little longer each time than the last. You'll be making progress soon.

[InterestedGirl]

Wahoo! I haven't masturbated-nor cum--since June 18. For me, incredible.

Horny, horny, horny when I work up today. I found myself actually humping the kitchen cabinets. Soon my penis poked himself out the waistband of my shorts as if to say "Here I am! Touch me! Stoke me, and don't you dare stop stroking until I spurt." This is beyond pathetic, I thought. It's only been TWO lousy days since I've last cum. And I got to cum TWICE two days ago. So no way should there be any semen built up yet. I had to give my penis a slap, kinda like swatting a fly. Not hard enough to hurt it, but hard enough to make the erection die down. I don't usually hump cabinets, nor slap my cock. Is this what only two days of not cumming is doing to me???

I really, really want June 18 to be the last time I masturbated until I get a wet dream, at least. So I hurried out the door to the mall. Been walking around here for quite a while. Stopped at an Internet terminal to write this update. My take on racing to the mall before I could masturbate:

Cons: Lots of hot, hot cuties here to increase my sexual frustration.

Pros: Going here kept me from jacking off! No way to masturbate here, thank God. I guess there's the bathroom stall--but there's tons of security, so no way would I even try to jack off. Does this mean I have to pretty much stay away from home in order not to masturbate?

LOL the humping thing, I've been known to do that when trying to abstain as well. If you think it makes YOU feel stupid, imagine how I feel about doing it, being as I'm a girl and really have no physical need to cum, ever (at least I keep telling myself that. It sure doesn't feel like it though).

[Scott]

Day 8

This is harder than I thought it would be, this time around, considering I've abstained longer than 8 days quite a few times.

Thanks Xanthier, InterestedGirl and all for your encouragement!

[Scott]

Day 15

This is turning out to be a particularly challenging day and evening... I must resist!

[Scott]

Day 19

Awoke to strong arousal and to find a few drops of precum atop the glans, but quite rare: no morning wood, for a change. Desire remains fervently strong, but am not constantly having boners so far today, unlike the past few days. Maybe I'm "over the hump" of temptation.

[Zach]

Hang in there! Dont give up

[Scott]

Day 20!

Thanks Zach and others for the encouragement! I'll have to be careful of temptation to ejac today, since it is a holiday here. Yesterday was unusual. Did NOT wake up with a boner, for once! Just a drop or two of precum at the very tip of the glans. Felt very atypical "tingly" sensation for most of last evening, including continuing dribble of precum. In the past when I've felt that, it's very rare, it's only for a few minutes, and usually precedes a huge blast of spontaneous ejaculation totally out of my control. That did not happen last evening, just the seemingly endless small trickle of precum. So that's the recap of day 19. Now it's day 20 for me. Usual morning wood has returned, but no precum so far today.

[Scott]

Day 21 THREE WEEKS

I feel pretty good! It IS getting easier! I know it's been discussed on this forum, but there really does seem to be a correlation between abstaining and feeling happy/enervated/energized/content. I know I rarely feel this happy whenever I've masturbated recently or regularly! Certainly, there's a periodic (though not constant) desire and temptation for "just one" ejac. (It seems like I could handily waste my hard work of abstaining in 5 seconds if I was not fully in control of my body's carnal desires.) But if my choice is between being happy albeit horny vs. "satisfied" and depressed/lethargic, it's clear that retaining and redirecting sexual energy is FAR preferable to squandering it in 5 seconds. There really is a HUGE cost to those few seconds of pleasure, if they even occur: Back when I was caught in the trap of MB, my body would usually ejaculate, sure. But it would NOT always orgasm. Yet, the same feeling of "blah" would occur, orgasm or not. And I'd STILL feel horny afterward, regardless, like trying to eat just one piece of candy. My analogy now is I've put away the candy dish. Maybe I'll save it for next Halloween. Anyway, hopefully my logic makes sense and is possibly helpful to my fellow abstainers.

[Zach]

Day 21 THREE WEEKS

I feel pretty good! It IS getting easier! I know it's been discussed on this forum, but there really does seem to be a correlation between abstaining and feeling happy/enervated/energized/content. I know I rarely feel this happy whenever I've masturbated recently or regularly! Certainly, there's a periodic (though not constant) desire and temptation for "just one" ejac. (It seems like I could handily waste my hard work of abstaining in 5 seconds if I was not fully in control of my body's carnal desires.) But if my choice is between being happy albeit horny vs. "satisfied" and depressed/lethargic, it's clear that retaining and redirecting sexual energy is FAR preferable to squandering it in 5 seconds. There really is a HUGE cost to those few seconds of pleasure, if they even occur: Back when I was caught in the trap of MB, my body would usually ejaculate, sure. But it would NOT always orgasm. Yet, the same feeling of "blah" would occur, orgasm or not. And I'd STILL feel horny afterward, regardless, like trying to eat just one piece of candy. My analogy now is I've put away the candy dish. Maybe I'll save it for next Halloween. Anyway, hopefully my logic makes sense and is possibly helpful to my fellow abstainers.

hmm... why does every one say it gets easy after 3 weeks and it seems harder than ever for me, just my luck i guess. One other difference is im definately not in a happy mood, Im cranky and irritable 24 hours a day. I mean i have my fun and happy times with my friends but things set me off much quicker these days.

[Scott]

Day 23

This is probably my final post, almost two full years after joining this forum. Thank you to the genuine friends who honestly like me, as well as those who have been helpful and supportive over the past 2 years.

[venomstain]

Why?

Day 23

This is probably my final post, almost two full years after joining this forum. Thank you to the genuine friends who honestly like me, as well as those who have been helpful and supportive over the past 2 years.

[Scott]

Day 29

Whereas day 27 and day 28 were relatively challenging, thus far day 29 (today) has been surprisingly easy.

[xanthier]

TooFull did you have a birthday recently? it looks like your age went up. Glad you're finally having some easier days. If you end up leaving, you can always message me or chat me up for moral support.

You've come a long way, man! Kudos to you

[Scott]

Day 31

Having met my initial 30-day goal, my plan is to continue abs as long as feasible and beneficial. Days 27 and 28 were particularly challenging, but the most recent few days haven't been too difficult, at least thus far. Shortly after awakening today, suddenly I experienced a tingling, followed shortly thereafter by a moderate amount of clear precum. Not sure what, if anything, this might signal, but it seemed to kick the seemingly dormant libido back into making its continual presence known.

I've been a little distracted after hearing the news that a severe wind/hail/tornado storm last night destroyed a couple of the buildings at the property where I grew up. The storm/tornado picked up one building and dropped it in pieces a half mile away. It's quite something to see photos of buildings where I once lived and worked now lying in a pile a rubble.

[Zach]

Day 31

Having met my initial 30-day goal, my plan is to continue abs as long as feasible and beneficial. Days 27 and 28 were particularly challenging, but the most recent few days haven't been too difficult, at least thus far. Shortly after awakening today, suddenly I experienced a tingling, followed shortly thereafter by a moderate amount of clear precum. Not sure what, if anything, this might signal, but it seemed to kick the seemingly dormant libido back into making its continual presence known.

I've been a little distracted after hearing the news that a severe wind/hail/tornado storm last night destroyed a couple of the buildings at the property where I grew up. The storm/tornado picked up one building and dropped it in pieces a half mile away. It's quite something to see photos of buildings where I once lived and worked now lying in a pile a rubble.

CONGRATS TF on 30 DAYS!!!!

[Scott]

Day 35

Not too bad (thus far) today. A friend last night, struggling a lot at that moment, said he wished it was "detachable." I asked if he knew there was actually a song titled "Detachable P*nis" and he thought I was joking. Today something made me reach into a forgetten stack of BASF cassettes I recorded off the radio about 10 years ago, and play the first tape found. What are the odds that the 2nd song on that tape is this very song!! Anyway, here's bit more info about that song: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Detachable_Penis

The song even has a video! Here's the video of "Detachable P*nis" that aired on MTV:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byDiILrNbM4

[Scott]

Day 38

Experiencing a "deep seated" desire for release of some sort, at the moment, but not quite a "JO emergency." It's more of a full-body craving, rather then centered in one organ. I'd hope this might mean the body is prepping itself for a natural WD release, provided I hold off on any self-directed release.

[zippidyzad]

38 days wow...How many wd's'/spontaneous ejacs have you had in that time?

[Scott]

The dreams thus far have been wonderful, enjoyable, and frequent albeit dry--with me waking up just shy of the wet part However, the daytime spontaneous discharges happen maybe once every 7 to 14 days. There is a somewhat of a warning, a tingly sensation, followed by a very minimal pleasurable sensation. I'd hesitate to call it an orgasm. A large discharge accompanies it, usually just precum, but sometimes the real thing. It doesn't seem to really reduce the level of horniness for very long, though. Maybe for an hour or two, then it's back to the usual high level of arousal. So for me the SE provide brief and minimal relief, but better than nothing.

[Scott]

Day 40

OK, I went to sleep last night with a raging boner, and it hasn't relented so far today. I feel like saying "Down boy!" but I guess that training would be more appropriate for a dog than an erection. Super horny, to say the least. Wonderful sexy dreams last night, but everything was dry (and hard) when I awoke. So I checked out the news to distract myself, and was surprised to learn there's actually a comic titled "Foreskin Man" which is factoring into a current proposal to ban circumcision:

http://www.foreskinman.com/

http://www.kansascity.com/2011/06/19/29 ... ffort.html

Battle grows heated over effort to ban circumcision
By JENNIFER GARZA
McClatchy Newspapers
A San Francisco ballot measure to ban circumcision is spurring charges of anti-Semitism while galvanizing faith leaders and politicians who believe the initiative threatens religious freedom.

"It's almost unbelievable that this made the ballot," said Rabbi Reuven Taff of Mosaic Law Congregation in Sacramento. "It's discriminatory. Not only against Jewish families but also against Muslims and anybody else who has a strong tradition of circumcising their male children."

The initiative, which qualified for the San Francisco ballot in May, has drawn national attention. The measure would make circumcision illegal for boys under 18. Violators could face a year in jail or a fine of $1,000, or both.

If approved, it would become the first of its kind in the country.

Circumcision, removing the male foreskin, has biblical roots, and many believe it is commanded by God explicitly in a covenant with Abraham.

Supporters of the bill call circumcision "male genital mutilation" and say the argument that it is traditional does not mean circumcision is right.

The initiative allows for a medical exclusion, but not a religious exception.

"What it boils down to is this: People are removing healthy body parts from an unconsenting child," said Lloyd Schofield, the main proponent of the measure called the "San Francisco MGM Bill."

Read more: http://www.kansascity.com/2011/06/19/29 ... z1PviNKJSV

[Zach]

Wow congrats on 40 Days. Hang in there TF!!