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Squeeze man if you abstain from MB you will find it easier to quit watching porn and vice-versa,good luck!

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So, I made it the ten days and had my scheduled MB that night in the shower, as planned. I was looking forward to it, but was also concerned abt not lusting so I prayed abt that. I figured some music would help and also muffle any additional sounds I might make in the shower in case my roomie was nearby, ha. I played a Josh Turner song I really like abt a guy who can't wait to get home to his wife and make some sweet love to her, ha. I kind of imagined I was in the same boat and that was my mental fuel, ha. But when the song ended I still wasn't done MB and my iTunes played some old, really slow depressing country song and well, that kind of killed my sexy mojo, ha.

Plus, for whatever reason I still wasn't that horny and so my MB still didn't feel that great, but then all of a sudden I felt like my eqpt was priming to go and I decided to just relax and not extend it out, and to my suprise, I came really quickly. But even that wasn't anything special. So, too bad I didn't enjoy it more since I won't be able to do it again for ten more days, but it was probably good that it was all very lackustre bec then it's less tempting to repeat it when I'm not supposed to, ha. Plus I feel like I stayed away from inappropriate thoughts.

So now it's been two days since then and man, I am super horny today!! Like that deep within you kind of horniness. Didn't help that I was catting with a friend for a while on IM earlier and we were talking abt a lot of sexual stuff, ha. But I'm still glad I had that convo with him bec he gave me some helpful info.

I think I'll be ok but I'm gonna have to be careful. My accountability partner already has me on a don't look or touch as much as possible, so that def helps. Plus, self control isn't something that's given to you, it is earned, it is fought for. Keeping God at my center and keeping friends at my side and keeping my goal before me, I CAN do this!

And so can you, my brothers!

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

You can do it, Squeeze, you can keep that fire at bay!

Doing an awesome job!

Keep trying, Squeeze. You can do it and it is great having an accountability partner for AB. I made my younger brother my own accountability pal...for porn. It is great to have a good friend or family member you can count on.

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JOINED WD FORUM - July 6, 2011
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT SINCE JOINING - 43 days
DAYS SINCE LAST MASTURBATING - 1 days

Current Challenge - no MB Challenge for December

Hey, all -- Gonna do NoFap starting tomorrow, May 1st.

Initial goal is 30 days, the whole month. No PMO.

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

I'm back in the saddle! Day 6 !!

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

GREAT! Welcome back!

GREAT! Welcome back!

We can do it!
I am on 12 day !
Regards
Seba

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My English is poor, please be understanding....

Day 7 here! So far, so good. My initial goal here is 20 days of no PMO.

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

DRY DREAM

Early this morning (Thurs.) I had a dry dream, which I haven't had in AGES, at least not any that I've remembered. I'm not sure the exact date when I last MB'd, but I want to say it was around last Friday, Dec. 20th, or so. It is unusual for me to have a sexual dream unless I've been abstaining for a while, like for a few weeks, so this is really quick for me.

What I remember from the dream is I had to pee really bad and was maybe looking for a place to pee, which isn't uncommon for me to dream about if I have to pee in real life (which I realized I did once I woke up). I *think* I was able to pee in my dream (thankfully didn't pee in real life, i.e., in my bed, haha), but after I peed in my dream, I still felt like I had to go. I remember I had to push really hard to try to pee more, and to my surprise, instead of pee, semen started to come out! I wasn't ejaculating in a normal way, it was like I would work hard to kind of push to pee out and a stream of cum would come out instead, then I'd do it again, and another would come out. I did this probably 4 or 5 times. I remember that I like dragged it out in a line, like imagine you had a squeeze bottle of ketchup, and you would push it out along the length of a hotdog or something. I was doing that with my penis and pushing the semen out in rows on some flat gray surface, ha. Unfortunately, I didn't feel any orgasmic feelings, though. Just the sensation of my kind of squeezing it out. What stuck out to me is how hard I had to work to force the cum out, like if you're trying to pee, but can't for some reason. And of course I was surprised in my dream that semen came out instead of pee the second time! It was definitely a weird dream.

I woke up shortly after that and I did have to pee real bad, but there wasn't any semen or anything like that on me, so it was only in my dream. But I wonder if a *real* wet dream is on its way? It has only been about a week of abstaining, which would be a VERY quick timeframe for me to get a wet dream in, but in the past, I would usually get a couple of "dry" sexual dreams before a "wet" one, usually within a week or so, so we'll see! I would LOVE to get a WD bec I haven't had one in years! Definitely encourages me to keep abstaining to see if I can get one soon.

Wish me luck!

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

OK--clarification--I did have it written down! I last fapped on Sat., Dec. 20th, so it's only been 5 days since. So a dry dream on the morning of Day 5 of abstaining? AWESOME

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

Congrats on the dry dream Squeeze! Sounds like it's a bit step in the right direction!

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JOINED THE WD FORUM: Dec 2013
LONGEST AB ATTEMPT: 31 days
DATE OF LAST EJACULATION: 3 February 2014
Current challenge: 30 days

Thanks, sleepydreamer!

DRY DREAM #2

Well, I remember having another dry dream last night! This ine happened more in the middle of the night. I don't remember what preceeded this in my dream, but I remember being able to give myself a BJ down there basically, haha. I do remember it felt good when I did that, and it felt (I think; I've mever actually done that) pretty real, but I also remember feeling a bit disappointed in my dream that it didn't feel better than it did. I do remember being able to suck some cum out of it, lol. Like I would get some when I sucked harder, ha. But not like a regular ejaculation.

This morning, I checked amd there was definitely no release of semen in real life. I slept in black fleece pants w/out underwear, so if I leaked anything, it would definitely be visible dried up on the inside of it. So, it was definitely only in my mind, but it was a fun dream, I did feel some pleasure, and it's the second sexual dream in two days!! And that after a loooong dry spell. So I really hope my mind is gearing up for the real deal soon! I need to stay as hands off as possible, without thinking abt it too much. That always seems to encourage a WD.

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

Sounds like you are getting close for sure. Keep strong with the AB!

Keep being strong, a wet dream is close!!!

Day 17 of no MO. 19 of no PMO.

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

How is life in general without fapping?

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If everybody does it, something`s wrong with it

Life is good, man. Super busy with school! But good. Not fapping as much and keeping away from the porn is good. More energy, focus, and less guilt to deal with! Sometimes my various insecurities and such come up, but that is ok bec normally I just suppress them through escaping with porn and MB. So, time to deal with them and work on myself more. In a good way.

Day 5 today of no MB. Am a bit horny, and my fella downstairs is very sensitive to the touch, which is cool, but I have to be careful not to give him too much attention! Can't give in to the spoiled brat every time he starts to whine, haha. Initial short term goal here is 10 days.

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)

Well, I gave in and MB'd once late last night, which would have been 10 days of abstaining this morning. So, not too bad, but comsidering I had gone 20 days prior to a two time slip up before this 10 day run, I could've done better. I wasn't crazy horny or anything, but I wanted to relax a bit and got too friendly with my bits and ended up MBing. I def feel less virile, upbeat, and driven this morning. Not from guilt, but just not as energetic, compared to how I've felt the last few days. It's crazy how even one MB can do that to you, even after ten days. I wasn't as horny as I was around the one week mark, so maybe that is part of it. In general, it has been easy to resist MB these past few days. I even feel like my penis in its soft state has shrunk some, ha. But I'm actually OK with that bec I tend to be a show-er, and it's nice having it out of the way more, haha. But it's still the same size erect! So no worries when it counts, haha.

But the good news is that it's been around 30 days since I've watched a porn clip! Tbh, I've seen a few naked pics once or twice during that time, but no pics of sex acts, and I didn't O to any of them. I do feel the need now to step up my game in my "thought life." I'm getting better with that in general, catching myself more when I start to think inappropriate thoughts about people I see, etc. but last night when I mB'd there was a lot of fantasy involved, which wasn't right. So, definitely a work in progress, but that's to be expected, and progress is being made!

Just need to stay on my guard with the temptation to relapse here in the next few days, when the physical urge to MB again will be sure to rear its head. Mentally, I don't feel super upset abt my slip up, so at least I don't have the "screw it, I already blew it, so who cares if I MB again" attitude. No, I went ten days, which is great, and I'm continuing on with my streak--not "starting over"!!

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Current Day of Abstaining:3? (Upd8 3/29/2014)