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 Post subject: What to say?
PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 8:06 pm 
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Been through all MBing phase and giving it up. I've two cousins both age 15 almost 16, and I know they MB each other, don't think there's anything much wrong with that because they'll get over it after a while. I can talk to one of them about this kind of stuff no problem. I want to make sure the two of them arent like tempted to do anything more with each other. I never did. How can I tell him about that without mebbe putting the idea into his head? :?: Sure this is way off topic but mebbe someone can help me to say the right thing, I don't feel happy just doing nothing. :(


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 Post subject: Re: What to say?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 2:47 pm 
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Like you said I think it's something they'll grow past sooner or later. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Most people don't go much further anyway. They're growing up, experimenting is important to figure out who you are, it's different for everyone and it can't really be controlled, If they both want to try it they will.

That said, and maybe this is what you're worried about, maybe not. Psychologically speaking, there is actually a universal trait, it is present in almost all human populations, that we avoid incest. Even though science has shown you can marry your first cousin and be fine, we naturally avoid it because idk, it's odd? Can't give much of a reason on this one but that's what it seems to be, so I wouldn't worry too much about that.


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 Post subject: Re: What to say?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 3:32 pm 
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I don't mean to sound twisted, but what would be wrong if they did more? As long as it is consenting, what harm would be done? I think we try and step in to be moral guardians a little too much at times. I think this problem will take care of itself by virtue of the fact that they won't do anything that doesn't feel right... And if they do it once, they won't do it again. You never know. There might be an unspoken rule between them not to go further anyway.

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 Post subject: Re: What to say?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 02, 2013 4:16 am 
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Well, thanks Alaric & LuvsCurvy, hear what you say and maybe I was worrying too much about nothing. It wasn't the incest thing btw, they are cousins, not brothers, and anyway don't think that stuff applies to two lads 'experimenting' which is all it is. Anyway, the two of them are never away from each other so they are good friends never mind anything else. Unless the subject comes up when I'm chatting to the one I know best, I won't say anything.


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 Post subject: Re: What to say?
PostPosted: Thu May 23, 2013 5:54 pm 
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Just be honest about things.


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 Post subject: Re: What to say?
PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2013 4:40 pm 
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This is my take on this issue:

First, maybe you are bothered that your two male cousins are mutually masturbating each other because you think it might develop to homosexuality, which you definitely wouldn't want to happen. Perhaps, you think that it is not normal for two male guys to experiment which each other's body, more so to touch and sexually stimulate one another. You are afraid that maybe sooner or later the enjoyment they derive from masturbating one another would not be enough that they will resort to doing much more explicit sexual acts. I might be totally wrong but this is the impression I sense upon reading your post. Perhaps most of the people here will not like the next things I will be saying, but this is what I believe in:

1. If ever your cousins will turn out to be gay, I find nothing wrong with whatever sexual orientation one prefers.
2. Since your cousins are minors, I think that you have to give them appropriate information and perspective. That's the best thing that you can do. Eventually, they will still have to decide for themselves.
3. Always tell them to protect themselves, because health is truly our wealth.

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