Wet Dream Forum

Hey everyone, millerlite's idea of sharing his everyday struggles is great; I decided to do the same thing. I haven't been active in this forum for a while now due to the frustration of constant failure in abstaining from mb. Millerlite's tactic has been working so far for him (keep up the good work millerlite!); hope it works for me to. Any support would be greatly appreciated; I've never had a wd before T-T

DAY 1

Today was a pretty tough. I asininely tempted myself to mb by playing this video game that has pictures of, um...girls. This resulted in a little stroking session, BUT things were brought under control before any ejaculation took place. It's never smart to play with fire, but this video game is so addicting. I've gotta remind myself that abstinence is a treasure for life, while this game will be crap in a year or two.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 2

Thanks for the support millerlite (congratulations on your 20 day mark!). It's so true that the early stages of abstinence are one of the toughest. I could really feel my horniness skyrocket; many things that, previously, weren't so sexually appealing has become errantly desirable. Back in the days when I used to masturbate daily (which isn't so long ago), I practiced a "stop-and-go" technique. While masturbating, I would stop right before the point of ejaculation, wait until my penis cools down, then repeat the process again. The more you repeat the process the more pleasurable your final orgasm would be. Now that I'm trying to abstain from mastubation, it's funny that this very technique has been saving my butt for the last couple of days. Everytime I got out of control and began to jack-off, I would stop right before ejaculating just out of sheer habit. This is the time when my conscience kicks in and I grab a hold of myself. Today this happened a couple of times. I was especially tempted to mb after my mother irritated me (gotta releave the stress, man!), but managed to forget all about it by singing Nat King Cole's "Pretend" in the bathroom. Tomorrow I'm going to give the "hands off" approach a shot; after all, better safe than sorry.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Bonbon -you can do it - with everyones support it can be done - Millerlite is doing fantastic - if we can keep going we will be on target like Millerlite - just take it easy! Chil and enjoy.

DAY 3

Everybody, I'm seriously thinking about quitting this abstinence business. I've never been this horny and out of control before in my life! Today, while watching a movie all I did was lust like an animal at the actresses. I've been doing stupid and crazy things; I don't even believe myself. I'm sorry millerlite, but it's not ok for me to lust and be horny. You see, I've found meaning and purpose in my life through Christianity, and the Bible detests lustfulness. Let me just tell everyone in this forum that , they too, could find meaning in their lives if they believe what Christianity has to offer. The basic message is this: "You're no longer condemned for all the wrong things that you did because someone has taken the punishment for you. His name is Jesus." If you believe this you have been made right in the sight of God. Anyhow, it's funny that I started this whole abstaining oddessey in the name of God and now I'm considering pulling back in God's name. You know what, I'm just confused and frustrated. Perhaps all this turmoil is occuring just because I'm 17. Do you guys think I should stop now and give it a go later when I'm older? Tell me, do your sexual urges decline as you age? Actually, you know what....that 17 thing is just a lousy excuse. AAAAAAAHHH.........ADVICE?! HELP!!!!

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Don't give up! And don't u touch!

Yes, please keep abstaining! It seems to me that being religious gives all the more reason to do it, not less. You can always pray for help, if you want to. So keep up the good work!

Day 4 (or Day 0 )

Sorry everbody....I failed. In some ways, it was very relieving but, in other ways, very disappointing. Do you know how, right after you mb, you suddenly realize something stupid that you've just commited and it's like, "What was I thinking?!" It's almost as if two people live inside of you: 1) the horny, uncontrollable animal, and 2) the composed, cool, and logical self. It feels relieving to "morph" back into the latter personality. And, dang...that was probably one of the biggest orgasms in my life. But, since that felt so good, I can't help thinking how much better it would've been if I'd waited for a wd. That's the disappointing piece of the cake. There's only one thing to do: to pick myself up and give it another go. By the end of tommorow, my posts will restart to Day 1. Thanks for all the support and encouragement everyone.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Bonbon, sorry to hear about your slip up. About your previous post, lots of people do succeed in quitting MB for religious as well as other reasons. You can look at MB as an addiction, and the extreme horniness as 'withdrawal symptoms' from that addiction. Think of someone trying to quit smoking or drugs. People who quit for long enough don't have that strong desire to MB, although anyone can slip up. Another thought that might help is that some people never started to MB, so they don't miss it. Quit long enough, and you can be like them. They can feel horny at times, but it's not expessed as an irresistable urge to masturbate.

Another thought that might help is that people who don't MB and enjoy their WD's (although some don't enjoy them) often have very little desire to MB. They can have an intense WD and look forward to the next one without the idea of MB entering their thoughts, and don't really want to MB even if it does.

Many people say that there is nothing wrong with MB, yet even among those who see nothing wrong with it, some prefer WD's to MB. I think most people at this site are in that category. But if you have religious, philosophical, or other reasons not to MB, it gives you yet another reason and more motivation to quit MB.

As I've pointed out before, if you look at cultures and religions around the world, being 'anti-MB' is not really that unusual. The other side of being religiously or culturally 'anti-MB' is to see WD's as natural, nomal, and expected.

With your beliefs, you can try to see it as the 'norm' not to MB, and join the large number of people around the world who don't MB and have WD's as their natural outlet. One view you might try to adopt is seeing that a negative side effect of MB is to inhibit the natural, normal, and proper outlet of WD's. Add all of this to your religious beliefs opposing MB, and it can hopefully help get you where you want to be.

Good luck!

08/27/06

Drats....I failed again (didn't keep my guard up). Starting tommorow, it's time to go HARDCORE!! Thank you Texanguy for the advice: catagorize the extreme horniness as withdrawal symptoms that will eventually fade.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 1

First day of college! Man, studying so much after a whole summer of mental idleness has wiped me out. I've gotta hit the bed, so I'll make this concise. The good news is, of course, that all the school work made today a very easy day in terms of abstaining. Thanks for the advice millerlite, sharing with me about how the intense cravings subside in about a week or so. Isn't this great? Now I have a reason to be happy when my teachers dump piles of assignments on me!

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 2

Pretty much the same as day 1. School is really bogging me down; I made a fatal mistake of underestimating me homework today, which resulted in me slaving myself by the end of the day (it won't happen again). But, just like in day1, I am writing this entry with a glint of joy. Back during the holidays, it was a miracle just to get past day 2; I mean, I failed at day 4 for goodness sake. Now, abstaining feels so effortless; I'm just breezing through the days. I guess one of the best ways to abstain is just to get busy with other matters. Millerlite, I'm really looking forward (and striving) to get past that 1 week mark. Based on what you said, it seems like the first week is the steepest part of the hill.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Day 3

Hahahahahaa........pretty much the same as day 1 and 2. I had classes all the way until 9 pm; all wiped out now. Already day 3? Wow....this is going by pretty quickly. BUT tommorow will be a problem as I don't have any classes. BUT, then again, I have piles of homework to complete!!!! (PLUS I haven't practived guitar for 3 days, PLUS I haven't practived piano, PLUS I haven't exercised in 3 days, etc.) So..................if i play my cards right............I should be able to keep my self busy!!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAA

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Well I worked out at the gym last night, then had another wet dream this morning! So if you exercise, it might help you to get a wet dream, as well as keep you busy. So I hope you can keep busy today, and you can get a wet dream soon. Good luck!

Day 4 (or Day 0....again)

Yes today was very busy as I had expected. The big problem was....I wasn't in a classroom. And since nobody was watching me, I regretably did a lot of half-masturbation. I did so much of it that my groin area began severly aching. Wanting to get rid of the pain, I finally decided to do a full masturbation. The bad news is, masturbating didn't cure it; in fact, it got worse! Well, that's a trick I won't fall for again (at least, in the near future).

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Very well said - I know EXACTLY how you feel when abstaining. It's amazing how abstaining wreaks havoc on my hormones, and how my hormones can influence by brain and thoughts so much. Sometimes I feel like a drug addict when abstaining - it's crazy! :crazy: :saywhat:

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Day 1

You said it, focus. We're all a bunch of drug addicts, wd addicts. Today I'm picking myself up again in this battle. This time drewharvey and I are starting on the same day, so that should give us some motivation to work harder. For a first day I had it pretty easy. My mom woke me up early for school, went to school, got back exhausted, fell asleep, my mom woke me up again, went to a birthday party, and now it's 1:30 am, which means that I'll probably drop dead once I hit the bed. The challange is tommorow (or I should say, today): it's a Saturday and I'll be home all day. The fight is on!

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Well....I pathetically failed again. I'm going to take some time of this forum for a couple of days...just to re-assess my strategies, plans, and life. It'll be hard without you folks, but I think a little quiet time would help in the long run. Hoping to be back with "Day 2" as a heading! :thumbs:

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 2

I'm back!! I've done enough thinking and assessing to have the strenght and momentum to continue. Today (and yesterday) were made pretty easy with the aid of school. Tommorow I have no classes. In my last two attemps, classless days were what tripped me, so tommorow will be the real test of this newfound thrust. Pray for me~

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Day 3

Wow, thanks millerlite for the support. Drewharvey and I always look up to you as a source of inspiration in this struggle. I hope you get your wetdream soon. Today, as I predicted, was pretty tough. I half-masturbated quite intensely, but my mom called me to eat dinner so I had to get up out of the bed. I really could've been more productive with my time, but...hey...at least I made it through without cumming. Tommorow should be somehwat easier as I have two classes and guitar ensemble has begun.

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Hey everybody,

sorry for my long absence from the forum. I've lost the passion lately and have been mb-ing daily. Today, regrettably, I mb-ed 3 times Anyways, I've decided to stick my foot in the mud and try again. Tommorow the sun will rise once more and day #1 will begin. Wish me luck~

bonbon

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

I'm back everyone! (If anyone still remembers me)

Well, school's been pretty crazy lately, with finals coming up and stuff. I haven't been too successful at abstaining. I would mb daily, then once in a while I would go on a 3 to 4 day abstain and then fail. I've been doing accountability with my cousin but that hasn't worked out too well. The most recent tactic we did was to pay each other $1 everytime we slipped. Like all the rest, it worked for about 3 days, and today I failed...2 times. In my misery I remembered this site and decided to give it a glance. Looking at all your posts and struggles have inspired me to persevere in this battle. I hope that, by the end of tommorow, I'll be able to post DAY 1.

"For any happiness, even in this world, quite a lot of restraint is going to be necessary..." -C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Good deal, bonbon! Much success to you. B)

Thanks guys for the support! I wish you all the best of luck in achieving wet dreams too~

I'm writing it a bit late, but I was so busy yesterday. Anyways, here's...

DAY 1

As I said, DAY 1 was pretty busy. I had a guitar ensemble recital, so I had to practice in the morning with my fellow guitarists. Then I took my grandma to the market. Afterwards I helped my grandpa with a few household chores. Then I had about an hour to study chemistry (big test on monday!). Afterwards was the actual guitar recital. After all that it was already dinner time. After dinner time, I tried studying again, but I was so tired I fell asleep in my chair. So I decided to end the day and fell asleep (I even forgot to brush my teeth!).

So, in a way, yesterday was an easy day in terms of resisting. Even so, there were still a few chances for me to mb. But thank God I made it. Today is going to be a little but tougher because I have more "alone time." It could turn out two ways: either I get a lot of studying done and get a good grade on the test, or I could waste my time mb-ing. I try my best to shoot for the former!

By the end of today, I hope to have DAY 2 posted.

You're right Millerlite, I just have to get a week under my belt!!! We can do it!!
:grouphug:

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 0

That's right, I blew it. I was half-mb-ing, thinking that I could get away with it. But, sure enough, the white stuff flew out unexpectedly. Bummed out, I continued to do it all the way. Then....even more bummed out that I did it all the way, I did it all the way again. Starting tommorow, hands off!

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

It "flew out unexpectedly"? Hmmmm.....

DAY 1 !!!!!

As usual, day 1 is one of the tougher days to overcome. And as usual, the busy-ness of the day helped out a lot.

Do you guys know, I've been mb-ing since I was in third grade. I've been doing it pretty much every day until now. Everytime I'm able to abstain, I could really feel the vitalizing effects. I'm a lot happier and cheerful; it's almost as if I'm regaining the life that was stolen from me from those 10 years of continuous masturbation. But, of course, the fact that I've been mb-ing so long also means that it's very difficult to break free from it. Just a thought.

I'm excited for tommorow. I think all the problems in my life stem out from my long-nurtured, hidden life of masturbation. It's almost like my penis is the "last stronghold" of the devil. Must fight till the end!! Fight for Camelot!!! (I just recently saw Richard Geere's "First Knight")

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Good luck. I too am back on day 1 today. Let's do it together.

DAY 2!!!!!

I'm writing day 2 late, but that's because my internet broke down yesterday. Still, I think my internet's obsoleteness was a great aid to my abstain.

So day 2 is the day when my body starts "missing" mb. But I kept reminding myself of how important it is to break free from this destructive addiction. Some of the stuff that RdGann and Texanguy has been saying really helped me. Before, when seeing a drug addict, my reaction would be something like "what idiots! why can't they just stop?!" But now I realize that mb-ing is not much different. This correlation helps me to symphatize with drug addicts but also gives me new reason and strength to break free from mb.

Just like day 1, though, my schedule for day 2 was rather hectic (plus my internet broke down). The real temptation comes in those days where you're all alone and don't have a lot of things to do.

Let's do it gameshowfan. I'm 18 years old; we're both at the pinnacle of our horniness. If we could do this now, we'll be unstoppable wd-ers!

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

DAY 3!!!!!!

Wow, I've made it to day three! Day 4 is where the fire starts to BURN!!!!! I always get a major temptation on day 4, which I often crumble to. We'll see, we'll see. Today was pretty depressing. It turns out that I bombed my last chemistry test. Now, even though I get 100% on the finals, I won't be able to get an A. Sunk in the depression, I began half mb-ing, but my mom came in the room! I almost jumped out of my chair. Quickly, I turned on the pc, and here I am typing today's entry, reminding myself of the cause! Alright folks, I'll be hitting the bed now. Good luck everyone on your abstain.

bon

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis

Hah, I was looking at my old posts. I've never written DAY 5!!!! This week, it HAS TO CHANGE!!! TIME TO BREAK THE RECORD WHOOOWHOWHWOHOWHOHWOHWO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :santa:

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"The only fatal thing is to sit down content with anything less than perfection." -C.S. Lewis